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When people vibe together, it is a fantastic feeling.

The famous, "instant connection" pattern intends to do this.

But it kind of misses the mark.

It violates the basic rule of fiction, which is show, don't tell.

That is, if you assume it was intended to actually be used.

It also violates Dale Carnegie's basic rule of persuasion.

That you can get anybody to do anything, so long as they believe it was their idea.

If you're talking about an instant connection, it's not their idea.

In case you aren't familiar, the "instant connection" pattern is when a guy approaches a girl.

A girl he's never met before.

They start talking, and then he drops in the famous "pattern."

The pattern talks ABOUT an instant connection.

It goes something like this:

"Have you ever met somebody, and there is something about this person. 

Something that makes you feel totally comfortable with this person. 

Where you just, click, with this person?"

Now, if you are a super shy guy in a seminar, and you'd NEVER have the courage to say that to an attractive lady you don't know, it's very much like fiction.

You'll only imagine saying that, and that will give you a good emotional feeling.

Kind of like READING fiction.

Only in real fiction, the characters are BLATANTLY fictional.

But in a seduction seminar, the fictional character is the FUTURE YOU who is bold enough to walk up and say such a goofy thing.

But back to the pattern.

In order for this pattern to actually work, you have to have a LOT of rapport.

And since this pattern is intended to be used on somebody you've just met, this essentially is that "click."

Understand what this means.

To get the "instant connection" pattern to work, you must first CREATE a deep connection BEFORE you use the "instant connection" pattern.

If you DON'T have any rapport, the girl will hold her drink in front of her chest, look at you sideways and answer in the negative.

You'll get done with the instant connection pattern, and wait for her to beg for sex.

But she'll just look at you and say:

"Yeah, uh, no. I've never felt that way. I'm, uh, going to go back to my friends."

Which means the instant connection pattern, on it's own, doesn't do squat.

The instant connection pattern DOES NOT WORK unless you FIRST have an instant connection.

And guess what, if you DO have an instant connection, you don't NEED patterns.

Kind of like in the Back To The Future Movies.

"Where we're going, we don't NEED roads!"

When you can CREATE an instant connection, the words you say ON TOP of that instant connection DO NOT MATTER.

Instead, why not focus on building instant connections.

With ANYBODY you want.

Learn How:


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