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It's common to have folks who are successful in one area of life, but suck in others.

A common movie character, and fairly common real life character is the guy who is a smooth-playing, lady-killer.

The guy whose got tons of notches on his bed, but always behind on his rent.

Or the guy who is the killer of the boardroom, master of negotiations, but gets floored and obliterated when his wife says she is leaving him.

This is also true in sports.

Michael Jordan, arguably one of the best basketball players of all time, absolutely sucked at baseball.

He tried and failed miserably.

Many "skills" are like this.

Very narrowly applicable.

Others are much more widely applicable.

Things like general endurance, muscle strength and agility.

The more you have all three of these, the more you'll be better in pretty much any sport.

Mental skills can also be treated the same way.

Take confidence for example.

You might have mad confidence that you can cook the most delicious meal west of the Mississippi.

You might also have mad confidence to play some decent songs on the piano, so long as nobody is watching.

But when there's a party, and somebody mentions that you play, you shrink inside, terrified somebody might ask you to perform.

Most of us are plenty confident doing plenty of things, so long as nobody is watching.

But even the most accomplished actors suffer from stage fright.

Some A-list actors NEVER watch their own movies.

So long as other people are telling them WHAT to say, how to say it, their fine.

But they are TERRIFIED of having to objectively judge themselves.

This is one skill is very rare, but very powerful if you can cultivate it.

The one skill that says:

If I like my performance, that's all that matters.

If I'm satisfied with my accomplishments, that's all that matters.

Most of us try VERY HARD to pretend to believe this, but this is human self deception at its finest.

If we TRULY didn't care what others thought about us, we would feel the SAME doing things in front of others as when doing those same things on our own.

VERY FEW people truly feel this way.

But consider this to be one of the most holy grail ideals of our human existence.

To live as if OUR value of OURSELVES is more important than others' value of us.

It's very EASY to fake this.

To pretend it is real.

But very, very few people live this.

If you can approach this, the benefits are enormous.

If you can slowly improve this, the benefits will continue to grow.

Because the more YOU like and genuinely approve of yourself, so will everybody else.

Most people follow others.

But once you genuinely like and approve of yourself, others will follow you.

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