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Humans are fantastic at self deception.

We want something, but we are too terrified to try and get it.

So we pretend we don't want it.

Even better, is we do this by taking the reason we don't want it, and use that very same reason to make ourselves feel BETTER than everybody else.

Humans are not only primates, but hierarchical primates.

Self-organizing, hierarchical primates.

But since the primate, self-organizing hierarchy part of us was around LONG before conscious thought, it operates mostly subconsciously.

And part of being a hierarchical primate is ALWAYS needing to come up with a story of WHY we are better than everybody else.

For example, guy sees a cute girl at a bar.

He would LOVE to get down with her.

But he imagines approaching, and getting shot down.

Or worse, he imagines approaching, being successful in the short term, but getting his emotions obliterated in the long term.

This happens in two or three nanoseconds.

What comes next is the ego protection reframe.

He decides to NOT approach.

But he does in a way that makes him feel BETTER for not approaching.

As if he COULD approach if he wanted, but he's choosing not to.


Because SHE is not his type.

She is INFERIOR in some way.

I mean, just look at the way she's dressed!

Of course, this is all a lie.

How do we KNOW it's a lie?

Because if she walked over and seduced him, he would NOT resist.

Not one bit.

If she decided to seduce him, get him to fall in love with her, have a couple of his children, he would not resist.

Life is funny that way.

The way we are SUPPOSED to do things is the HARDEST way.

Men are supposed to approach women.

Men are supposed to get the ball rolling.

But few men do.

This is one of the main reasons why so many women are ANGRY today.

If you're a man, and you want to stand out, you've got to get off the sidelines.

There's no other way.

If you're a woman, it's much, much easier than you realize.

But ONLY if you do the OPPOSITE of what you're supposed to do.

Most ladies believe it's the man's job to approach, and to get the ball rolling.

Sure, that's the common idea.

But that's just a suggestion.

Kind of like a red light in the middle of nowhere.

If you are a lady, and you would like to clean up, there's NEVER been a better time.

Clean up how?

Any way you want.

Learn How:


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