Myth of Assertiveness

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Being assertive is difficult.

Very few people are naturally assertive.

Even people who are considered assertive are really aggressive.

To be truly assertive means to speak your truth without any emotional energy.

The idea is you say what's on your mind, and accept ANY response from the other person.

To be assertive means that you CANNOT change the thinking or behaviors or ideas of the other person.

Theoretically, this is the BEST way to communicate.

To effectively speak your truth.

Clearly state your boundaries, your intentions and desires.

Accept the people that respect you.

Disqualify the people that don't.

However, there is a HUGE difference between theory and reality.

In THEORY we only need to eat 2200 calories a day.

In THEORY we should be getting 8 hours of sleep a night.

Theories don't help much.

Because WE live in reality.

And the reality about asking for what you want is it's HARD.

Most people suck at it.

Most people are timid when asking for more water at a restaurant.

Walk up to an attractive person and "state our truth?"

Please!

"Hi, I just wanted to tell you that I think you're very attractive and I would very much enjoy having sex with you."

In THEORY, that's all you need.

But in reality? 

You'd get punched in the FACE!

Clearly, we need another plan.

A better plan.

An easier plan.

Sure, you COULD approach ten people a day, until you build up some confidence.

But what if you get punched ten times a day, in the FACE?!

You could find a therapist that would help you get to your deeper issues.

Heal your inner child.

Connect with your higher power.

Ain't nobody got time that!

We want results, we want them quick.

AND we are lazy, and impatient.

Luckily, there is a solution.

A set of simple questions you can ask.

Questions that are easy to answer.

Questions that don't make it seem like you are trying to GET something.

Questions that are all about THEM.

NEVER about you.

Questions that will build up their desire.

So strongly, they'll start to see YOU through that desire.

Which means everything will be THEIR idea.

And since you NEVER need ANY kind of close, or speak any kind of "truth," you'll never feel even a HINT of anxiety.

Nor will there ever be any rejection.

This does require you DO a couple of things.

But they are NOT things that create any anxiety or invite any rejection.

Learn How:

http://mindpersuasion.com/get-anybody/