jerrymp Posted May 6, 2019 Report Share Posted May 6, 2019 Alright, how do I start this... As someone who can predict all these different types of patterns during these various forms of human relationships. There is a particularly pattern, I do not enjoy one bit. And that is the shame-embarrassment pattern. Particularly, it's when the girl is shaming you or embarrassing you during the attraction. She is creating a pattern of trying to make you feel weaker and make you less powerful or whatever. There are not many types of winning solutions in this pattern. 1) You think of it as a childish game and out maneuver it 2)You let her poke fun at you and accept the lose 3) You think of it as fun (which still is not really fun) This pattern comes up when talking to a girl, and she is doing a lot of 'weird' stuff to gauge you or assess you. Which I don't particularly respect whatsoever, but, you're so play a long otherwise there is no game... What do you do in this case? Do you have fun despite the shame effect? Do you just win the challenge this way it increases the attraction? At this point of the "seduction" or "mating" process the game is pretty much over. Usually what happens is I do a multiple of things correctly, then she finds one tiny flaw, and it's pretty much game over. Because she discovers I am not good under this pretense. In attraction, doing the right answers increases attraction. So what do I do? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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