The Deep Connection Technique

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There are a lot of common themes in movies.

One very common idea in movies with a romantic theme is the odd character that finally finds somebody who "gets them."

Everybody has a huge collection of ideas in our brains.

But we all equally suck pretty hard at describing those ideas.

The other night I was watching a documentary.

And I noticed how articulately all those "common people" in the doc were explaining the situation.

If you think about it, most people in documentaries, who are allegedly normal people describing un-normal things, are much more articulate that regular folks.

But that's the whole point of documentaries.

To give us a window into an event.

But they are also commercial products.

Documentaries are made by people hoping to earn a profit.

For the documentary makers, it's their job.

And just regular movie makers, they want to make the BEST product possible.

So when they interview those "normal" people, they want to make it INTERESTING.

So even though they are giving the average person's viewpoint, it is VERY practiced.

They've likely been given the questions ahead of time, and have had plenty of time practicing.

Many "takes" even.

So they sound more articulate than most "normal" people.

If you were to walk up to a random person on the street and ask them what they thought about any current event, they wouldn't be NEARLY as articulate as anybody on TV.

What does this mean?

That we are ALL walking around with very COMPLICATED ideas in our brains.

And most of us SUCK at describing those ideas with very much detail.

So how the heck are we supposed to CONNECT with other people if WE can't express ourselves very well, and THEY can't express themselves very well?

The answer is actually pretty simple.

The trick is to NOT worry about expressing yourself.

Nor is it to put THEM on the spot and expect THEM to do all the work.

The trick is to use a simple question process that helps them EXPAND what's in their mind.

By asking very EASY to answer questions.

That help them get MORE and MORE expressive and detailed.

This also allows you to find all the SIMILAR ideas inside your brain.

This makes it easy on them.

This makes it easy on you.

And this creates a LOT of deep connections.

Deep connections that will be memorable and profound.

Ones they won't find anywhere else.

Learn How:

http://mindpersuasion.com/deep-mind-persuasion/