How To Be One In A Billion

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A very popular and useful book is "Psycho Cybernetics."

It's one of those old school type books.

Based not on metaphysical theories, but real data.

It was written by a doctor.

A plastic surgeon.

Not the kind that builds fake boobs or younger faces.

But the kind that fixes people's appearance after accidents.

And he found something very interesting.

He found ZERO correlation between somebody's appearance and their self image.

Some people had HUGE self confidence, self image, etc., while having not so stellar looks.

On the other hand, people who had FANTASTIC looks sometimes had the worst image of themselves.

Of course, sometimes it was the opposite.

This is what they mean when they say ZERO correlation.

Just by looking at how gorgeous (or not gorgeous) somebody is, you have ZERO idea how they feel about themselves.

And since Maltz (the author) was a trained medical doctor and not a metaphysician, he decided to figure out the reason.

And the result was his book, Psycho Cybernetics.

One of the things he found about people who have HIGH self image was that they NEVER compared themselves to others.

On the other hand, people with self image troubles were ALWAYS comparing themselves to others.

The only people we SHOULD compare ourselves to is how we USED to be.

Because no matter HOW awesome we are, there will ALWAYS be somebody better.

So comparing yourself to others will RARELY end well.

Unfortunately, this is the EXACT same strategy most people use when trying to make a positive impression on others.

They talk ABOUT themselves.

They talk ABOUT their opinions (which they think are very clever).

They talk ABOUT their dreams and accomplishments, which they believe to be better.

The problem is that as soon as you operate from this mindset, you are making it very EASY for the other person to REJECT you.

Because all they need to do is think of somebody who is BETTER.

Of course, this strategy MAY have worked twenty or thirty years ago.

Because the only people they could have compared you to were the people they actually met.

But if you tried this SAME strategy on somebody with a healthy social media following?

Forget it!

Our modern Frankenstein social media environment makes it easy for ANYBODY to pretend they are famous.

Which means trying to IMPRESS them is very, very difficult.

Luckily, there is a much better way.

A much easier way.

One that REQUIRES face to face conversation.

So no matter HOW many billions of followers they have, nobody can touch you.

Learn How:

http://mindpersuasion.com/deep-mind-persuasion/