Escape The Deadly Catch-22

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A common idea in sales is whoever wants the deal LESS has the most power.

If you're shopping for a car, for example, and you aren't in any rush to buy one, you won't feel much pressure.

This will give you a lot of confidence in negotiations.

On the other hand, if you DESPERATELY need a car, your old one just exploded, you won't have nearly as much negotiating power.

For the same reason, when you are IN a relationship, especially a happy one, it's MUCH EASIER to flirt.

Since when you're flirting under those circumstances, it is MUCH EASIER, almost automatic, to be outcome independent.

Since you really don't care what happens, you can relax and be yourself.

On the other hand, if you haven't been on a date in a while, flirting can be incredibly nerve wracking.

Since a good outcome will be FANTASTIC.

But a bad outcome will be HORRIBLE.

This is why there are goofy statements like, "Nothing succeeds like success."

Meaning the more successful you ARE, the more successful you'll be.

The flip side is the common catch-22 of trying to get a job WITHOUT any experience.

Nobody will hire you without any experience.

So you need to get a job to get experience so you can get a job.

But nobody will give you job since you don't have any experience.

This kind of thing happens EVERYWHERE.

But most importantly is when it happens in the subconscious energy that you give off.

Turns out that the subconscious energy you are giving off is MUCH MORE important than the "state" that creates that subconscious energy.

If you're flirting with somebody, for example, your relationship partner doesn't have to be right there.

That confidence and detached-outcome will RESONATE through your subconscious energy.

Luckily, this is one of those things you can build WITHOUT being in a relationship.

You can build that powerful, detached-outcome WITHOUT having the normally required relationship that builds it.

Because that "state" is dependent on your attitude.

And you can practice that attitude in plenty of different areas.

Mostly on your own, in your own head.

And when you re-calibrate your inner state, you'll naturally radiate "success energy."

Even if you aren't technically successful.

This will allow you to forever escape from that catch-22.

You'll radiate the subconscious energy of a VERY SUCCESSFUL person, which will make everybody you interact with WANT to be part of your frame.

Learn How:

http://mindpersuasion.com/walk-away/