PT Barnum Lover Pattern

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All humans are hard wired for efficiency.

To to BE efficient, but to always SEEK better efficiency.

For example, if a monkey is hungry, he'll look around.

And he'll only get the banana that seems the easiest.

Meaning he'll naturally put in the LEAST amount of effort to get the most return.

When we humans think like this, it comes across in many ways.

One way is when we are haggling for the cheapest price.

Whenever we buy something, we would want the same thing for less cost.

And whoever is selling something would want more money for the same thing.

Some people LOVE to haggle, some people don't.

They say that if something is too good to be true, then it usually is.

PT Barnum famously said there was a sucker born every minute.

What came next isn't normally included in that famous quote.

But it's JUST as important, if not more.

And that is those "suckers" that are born every minute, are suckers BECAUSE they are willing to BELEIVE something that is too good to be true.

Most things worth getting are going to take effort.

While we would all LOVE to believe in a "lose weight while you sleep" diet, all you need to do is look around and see that there's no such thing.

If there WERE, everybody would be skinny.

One of the MOST IMPORTANT things to have is a healthy relationship.

This is just as true now as it was thousands or even hundreds of thousands of years ago.

It's tough to it alone.

But to have somebody to confide in, to have your back, to share sexual and emotional intimacy makes EVERTYTHING easier.

Goals are easier to achieve, pain is easier to bear.

The problem is that FEW people have such a relationship.

But the truth is that most people don't put a lot of effort in.

At least the RIGHT effort.

Getting INTO relationships is easy.

Anybody can do it.

Maintaining them is the hard part.

But maintaining a relationship with somebody you aren't compatible with is not only difficult, but it's pointless.

But since most people are desperate when they are single, they'll get into a relationship with nearly anybody.

So long as they are physically attractive enough.

But as soon as the physical thrill is gone, that's when it gets tough.

A much better way is to choose non-physical criteria BEFORE you get into a relationship.

Most people don't have those.

And they DO take time to create.

But once you do, it's a lot easier.

Working on relationships with somebody you are deeply compatible with is much less difficult.

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