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A while ago I took an improv class.

I thought it was going to be about how to tell jokes.

But it was about something much deeper.

See, when actors are up on stage (or in front of the camera), they've got to do two things which seem to be opposite.

On the one hand, they have to repeat lines written by professional writers.

But at the same time, they have to seem VERY "in the moment."

This is not as easy as it seems.

Just watch some of the bottom-of-the-barrel movies on any streaming service to see what I mean.

When somebody can deliver the right lines but WITHOUT any emotional congruence, it's correctly labeled, "wooden."

What did we learn in the improv class?

How to interact with each other non-verbally.

Words are really only about 5-10% of our communication.

The rest is non-verbal.

And two actors who have TONS of congruent energy between them are going to be much more believable that two actors just spitting out lines.

This is true EVERYWHERE.

Knowing what to say is just the tip of the ice berg.

Not even the most important part.

Much more important is the ENERGY beneath the words.

The sum total of all of your unconscious behavior, which is an OUTER representation of your INNER state.

And your INNER state is comprised of your beliefs, understandings, and how you see yourself compared to the rest of the world.

Most importantly, whether you see yourself as a CAUSE or an EFFECT.

Whether you radiate LEADER energy, or FOLLOWER energy.

Because this energy that you are ALWAYS projecting is MUCH more important than your words.

If you are walking across a room to start a conversation with somebody, they've ALREADY read your energy.

When you first enter the room for a job interview, they've ALREADY read your energy.

Most people don't notice this other than getting either a "positive" feeling about you or a "negative" feeling.

When you radiate the energy that creates those positive feelings in others, what you say is a LOT LESS important.

What IS that energy?

Continue it on a spectrum.

On one side is TOTAL LEADERSHIP.

People LOVE this kind of energy.

On the other side is TOTAL DEPENDENCE. 

Most people very much dislike this energy. (Unless it's coming from a very young biological child).

The more LEADERSHIP energy you can project, the more people will naturally gravitate toward you, and want to be around you.

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