The Opposite Seduction Strategy

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When people go on first dates, they hope to "click."

If you've experienced this, it's pretty cool.

Most of the time, though, it's like slowly peeling back the layers.

Getting to know somebody over a long period of time.

If you ask any female about a guy she's been dating for less than a month, unless there have been fireworks, she'll still be in the "deciding stage."

Most of the time, under normal circumstances, it can take a while to feel comfortable enough to "open up" to somebody.

So when you DO meet somebody that you automatically "click" with, it's pretty cool.

What's happening during those rare events?

On the one hand, you feel totally comfortable with one another. When two humans communicate, there are hundreds of variables, mostly unconscious.

Some mesh well, some don't. This is normal.

But when MOST of them mesh well, you get that instant feeling of deep connection.

(Pro Tip: TALKING about an "instant connection" won't do squat!)

Further, you each behave in a way that NATURALLY pushes each other's buttons, further intensifying the effect.

This is what most ladies refer to as "love at first sight," when everything is happening like magic.

But you CAN significantly increase the odds of this happening.

And contrary to what most people think, it's NOT about saying or doing the RIGHT things.

It's about NOT doing and NOT saying the WRONG things.

Most people are pretty timid at first when it comes to sharing deep things about themselves.

So that "click" feeling happens when both people feel the SAME about those deep things.

But there is another way than hoping for random chance.

It involves turning OFF your internal "judge."

It involves REFRAINING from taking an "authoritative position."

Most sales and persuasion techniques teach the opposite.

They say you HAVE TO first get rapport, THEN you have to LEAD the other person.

This DEFINES taking an authoritative position.

Which means unless you have MASSIVE charisma, or they are REALLY submissive, trying to lead won't work.

Which is why the opposite works so well.

Shut off all inner judgment. Turn off that part of you that wants to shout out "ME TOO!" every time they talk about something interesting.

You just sit back, be as neutral as possible, and keep asking them questions.

And watch THEM light up like crazy.

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