admin Posted October 2, 2017 Report Share Posted October 2, 2017 In fiction, they have a saying that helps people write better. "Show, don't tell." Meaning if you want to get across the point that a character is angry, you don't say something like, "he was angry." You describe him acting the way angry people act. As a reader, it's much more interesting to come to your own conclusions about the characters, rather than be told they are angry or happy or whatever. The same strategy is pretty good when dealing with women. Meaning you "show" instead of "tell." Unfortunately, many guys mess this up. In many different ways. Like when it comes time to kiss her, they think she's going to say, "OK, you can kiss me now!" Sure, that happens in sappy romances, but not in real life. In real life, girls LOVE being kissed by confident men. Men that don't need to be told what to do. This is kind of a risky thing to say, but most women have a fantasy of being "taken" by a very confident man that she is INTO. Understand this doesn't mean she'll automatically respond if you go kino all of a sudden without verifying that she's into you. If you cross a line, she might and should call the cops. Which means you'll need to be able to read her body language, and know WITHOUT ASKING whether or not she's good to go. Because once a woman feels she needs to tell a guy what to do, she's already gone down the slippery slope of killing her own attraction for him. Girls are NOT unconsciously attracted to guys they need to "manage." They are unconsciously attracted to men they try IN VAIN to "tame." Confident men who know where they are going. And paradoxically enough, she (or her unconscious) prefers to feel a bit of uncertainty. Meaning if you are into her, and she knows you're into her, but you're also following YOUR LIFE more so than chasing her, she won't be able to get enough of you. Click Here To Learn How Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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