Fear of Emotional Pain

[Light]

I feel a lot of guys have this, especially because women society defines as being attractive often act like (or are told to act like) b*tches.

 

Generally what happens is when a girl turns you away, guys actually experience emotional pain and suppress it. This turns guys into very heavy manipulators. They will use Psychic Seduction, Manifestation Magic, etc. 

 

However, the truth is there is a very deep and intense fear of being emotionally hurt repeatedly. 

 

Generally guys are told that this means you are not manly enough. However, EVERY guy experiences this. The thing about emotional pain is, it can be in many ways worse than physical pain. It can scar you in ways and impose belief systems that simply isn't true. The worst part is, if repeated enough, it kills your Confidence in that area of your life. 

 

For this reason it's necessary to have some sort of emotional trauma healing system by your side at all times, be it through meditation, NLP, etc. I can't emphasize this enough, because looking back now I feel this has completely changed men in whole for the worst. 

 

The cycle goes something like. 

 

You approach, fail, approach, fail, manipulate, not fail as bad, use various manipulation techniques, get it in, repeat, psychologically figure them out, 

 

and then the worst part is, once you figure it out, you look down upon women as a whole, as retaliation. 

 

They hurt me before, so now why shouldn't I? Who cares? They're all b*tches anyway.

 

This becomes a very common way of thinking, and it's your past emotional pain speaking, not actually you. 

 

So a word of caution and advice to guys that are working on their dating skills - don't let your past emotional pain change who you are as a human being. 

[jerrymp]

I feel a lot of guys have this, especially because women society defines as being attractive often act like (or are told to act like) b*tches.

 

Generally what happens is when a girl turns you away, guys actually experience emotional pain and suppress it. This turns guys into very heavy manipulators. They will use Psychic Seduction, Manifestation Magic, etc. 

 

However, the truth is there is a very deep and intense fear of being emotionally hurt repeatedly. 

 

Generally guys are told that this means you are not manly enough. However, EVERY guy experiences this. The thing about emotional pain is, it can be in many ways worse than physical pain. It can scar you in ways and impose belief systems that simply isn't true. The worst part is, if repeated enough, it kills your Confidence in that area of your life. 

 

For this reason it's necessary to have some sort of emotional trauma healing system by your side at all times, be it through meditation, NLP, etc. I can't emphasize this enough, because looking back now I feel this has completely changed men in whole for the worst. 

 

The cycle goes something like. 

 

You approach, fail, approach, fail, manipulate, not fail as bad, use various manipulation techniques, get it in, repeat, psychologically figure them out, 

 

and then the worst part is, once you figure it out, you look down upon women as a whole, as retaliation. 

 

They hurt me before, so now why shouldn't I? Who cares? They're all b*tches anyway.

 

This becomes a very common way of thinking, and it's your past emotional pain speaking, not actually you. 

 

So a word of caution and advice to guys that are working on their dating skills - don't let your past emotional pain change who you are as a human being. 

I agree where you are coming from, Light.

 

Currently, I am on a similar path as what you have just mentioned.

 

It's a little bullshit. Women in the dating have it a TON easier (in my honest opinion).

 

Their jobs is generally just the passive role and the guy is to assert and elicit qualities that will be attractive.

 

If the man is successful then he is awarded with companionship and sex. 

 

And since it's not the woman's job to  earn the prize nothing is her fault. 

 

She can be a bitch and still get plenty of sex. It's the guys job to bed the women(generally speaking), not the other way around, so all the pressure is all on the man for sex.

 

Women have a ton more options in this regard because the main thing they are selling is sex and beauty. They don't need inner or outer game all they need is a vagina and a pretty face to play the game.

 

Personally, the hard work of learning to bed women is not worth it.

 

However, it's almost an obligated skill to learn for men. 

 

You cannot be a man and not learn some form of seduction be it NLP, hypnosis, psychic seduction, etc.

 

Our quality of life is greatly affected by sex & and money from a rational and factual perspective.

 

It is rather unfortunate to think of it this way at times, but it is what it is.

 

Having said that I don't think women are all bad.

 

I think learning to seduce is far more valuable than the actual prize(women+sex) as it gives you the freedom of choice.

 

This really seems like it's the natural swing of things.

 

Men must learn to get sex through whatever means necessary.

 

It's all part of the "Game."

 

Hell, it's even called the GAME. It's been called the game for a LOOONG time in fact.

 

Because both sides are putting up a show in order to attract, seduce, and have sex.

 

Unfortunately, I am not sure what more to say. Sex is like food we must learn how to hunt for it in one way or the other.

 

So, in the end, we end up paying for something. Money through work. Sex through skills and desirable qualities. 

[Light]

I agree w/most of what you said. 

 

The worst part is women are turning into a commodity because of our system. I increasingly watch Youtube videos where easy clickbait is just having a pretty face by your side.

 

And that woman can be doing nothing. Nothing at all. Like a barbie doll.

 

And even worse is this system creates harems and abundant cheating (for the sake of having the Alpha), which means most men are left masturbating to their computer screens. This is disastrous for America and it doesn't seem to be getting any better. 

[Athena]

Light or George can you please delete my replies cos it won't let me.

Thanks.

[Athena]

Light or George please delete this thanks.

I replied, realised the futility of doing that & it won't let me delete my

replies.

Moving on with my day now. Delete this & the reply before please, thanks.

[Light]

I don't have deleting ability, Lol. 

 

Whatever you were about to say, though, it won't change what a guy has to deal with, at the end of the day. 

 

Someday maybe we should start a dating company. Jerry found Athena's Light, Inc. 

[jerrymp]

I don't have deleting ability, Lol. 

 

Whatever you were about to say, though, it won't change what a guy has to deal with, at the end of the day. 

 

Someday maybe we should start a dating company. Jerry found Athena's Light, Inc. 

Woah I wish I knew what happened! 

[Light]

Now that I think of it, we could attempt this as a side hustle soon enough. Millionaires are said to have multiple sources of income 

 

The best part is we can actually release books to make women beautiful (affirmations, weight training, etc), so it doesn't have to be restricted to just men. It could make for killer sales. 

[richierich]

hey doodes, Manifest Women makes things easier!  but don't get caught up in one single girl...

i think that's the problem, when you are fixated with just one girl...the truth is girls will drop you 

like a hot potato if they feel that she's your only source of happiness. 

I used to do well with girls & had high quality women who treated me like a king.

interesting fact though is all of them were Europeans, one Italian, One German and a very sweet Danish girl

however things changed after having a toxic relationship with this Irish girl and cohabiting with her for almost two years

NOW i learned my lesson to never do that again as i literally lost my chick magnet status right after that..

But i'm improving now slowly with the help of the Manifest Women, girls are checking me out. I've been

picked up by two attractive gyals twice in the last 5months in two different occassions.

HOWEVER, i didn't have game during those times...

I think i was off...but it's getting better. Subliminals do wonders...it's just a matter of practicing i guess

& now i'm hoping to delve into multiple dating so i can have the time of my life...

WOMEN ARE AMAZING...once you get the good ones...nothing beats being treated like a king by

a very beautiful women with a wild outlandish thinking...& sex is just part of the perks.