An interesting dilemma

[jerrymp]

Okay, so I have been studying hypnosis, seduction, and Kundalini for quite some time now, 

but at times, I wonder if I am doing things correctly because a kundalini lifestyle somewhat contradicts a lot of normal human conduct.

Personally, it seems to go all the way with the kundalini dropping all social interaction would be the easiest thing to do.

However, socializing is a part of the process as well and that's where it gets somewhat confusing for me.

 

From my understanding people of the Kundalini, goal must be to evolve one for themselves and for humanity.

This makes interacting people with people somewhat confusing because of what I like to call 'sin control.' 

The easiest way to avoid sin is, in fact, a profound simplicity way of living.

But, we must also FACE our DEMONS moving upwards up the ladder. 

 

So the whole thing is essentially a confusing mess, especially because it does vary from person to.

We are going through the same structure, but 'God' has a clear purpose for each one of us.

 

Thoughts or feedback would be appreciated!

[Light]

I wouldn't worry about God much. If God's planned something for you, it'll be thrown at you on your journey. That's just faith, because that's how God works. 

 

Kundalini I abandoned after about 2 months of experimenting. It was too intense for someone leading a mainstream lifestyle. 

 

However, I didn't drop Spirit all together. I do still meditate, do my research, etc. Spirit is important for personal development and Kundalini is one (but too intense) of a way of taking care of it. You'll have to look into something else that can work out for you. 

 

Seduction gets better with daily practice, essentially. You keep at it daily, you'll develop your own method without ever feeling like a dick, sinful, etc. It's like the Magic Johnson way that Hutton talks about. You can be a good guy and still have pleasure. 

 

TL;DR Take up some practice of meditation daily, practice seduction daily, God will take you places and perfect you if that's the plan. 

[admin]

Think of this metaphor:

 

The different "levels" can be thought of as ones you naturally enter, not forcefully enter. (e.g. force yourself like quitting smoking by will power).

 

You ONLY leave behind certain aspects of life when you truly no longer need them. That can take time.

 

One might even conclude that our entire "life's purpose" is to experience enough "experiences" so we can finally achieve that which we truly are. 

[jerrymp]

Thanks for the tips, I've had some take to sit on this for a bit.

[Athena]

Hmm, let me throw a thought or two in there.

 

(And by the way I can SORT of relate in the sense that I took time out to work on me and NOT date, kiss, have sex etc. and at that point I felt I needed to do that and then later on I felt like, OK now I want to get back out there, and learn the lessons I can learn through being with others.  So, I understand taking time out to work on oneself WITHOUT the "distraction" of others.  And also deciding that you DO want social time etc.)

 

But, a thought has popped in there, would it be possible, Jerry, for you to have socializing times and times of that simplicity.  Whether it's a week on a week off of the socializing or whatever, like perhaps even longer periods of time on and off?  It's just a thought and I don't know if it's helpful but maybe it doesn't have to be all or nothing.  Anyway, just something to consider.  Or not.  It's what I thought of when I read your post here and the discussion. 

[jerrymp]

Hmm, let me throw a thought or two in there.

 

(And by the way I can SORT of relate in the sense that I took time out to work on me and NOT date, kiss, have sex etc. and at that point I felt I needed to do that and then later on I felt like, OK now I want to get back out there, and learn the lessons I can learn through being with others.  So, I understand taking time out to work on oneself WITHOUT the "distraction" of others.  And also deciding that you DO want social time etc.)

 

But, a thought has popped in there, would it be possible, Jerry, for you to have socializing times and times of that simplicity.  Whether it's a week on a week off of the socializing or whatever, like perhaps even longer periods of time on and off?  It's just a thought and I don't know if it's helpful but maybe it doesn't have to be all or nothing.  Anyway, just something to consider.  Or not.  It's what I thought of when I read your post here and the discussion. 

Thanks, this is a good idea  

Maybe I can sort of splash it here and there...

I just don't want to get too distracted with that sort of thing, because it becomes a deadly trap when you focus on the social life without fixing everything else first.

However,  having a social life is a great pleasure as well.

It's just I am very focused on the Kundalini and I'm very protective of 'her/he.'