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Gerardo's Godlike Attraction Journal

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Hi, I will use this space for collections of feedback and trial errors that I pick up on my own feedback loop. This will help you maximize your potential in the art of charm and seduction as well as my own. The goal is to read,learn,practice and more importantly, go out in the world and take action. We will incorporate all that we learn onto ourselves the real juice of life.

 

Lesson #1 : Say 'hi' to everyone

A) Discipline yourself to initiate eye contact and say 'hi' with a smile on your face. If within 3 seconds - 5 seconds no response look away and continue.

B )Look at them test their reaction. If they respond in a way that is profitable(green light) then go in and approach, else look away and continue until you find someone who will reciprocate.

 

Reasoning:

This will instill a natural confidence in yourself and it will make approaching seem easy and effortless because it is something you do at all times. So, if there is someone that you secretly like. This will give you the momentum to boost up your confidence.

 

Lesson #2: Shower like a King and Smell like one

  • Take a cold shower or start hot then drop it to cold. If this is too hard for you, keep the warm shower and before you finish, put the cold water on for 30 seconds to 1 minute pouring all over your head and neck and get out. You want to leave with the water being as cold as possible!
  • Use the best soap you can get, or anyone that is best for you and/or for your surrounding. I recommend nubarian soap
  • Use Body wash like this one (during the shower and rinse off)
  • Immediately after taking a shower put on on your favorite cologne.
  • Put on chapstick this will give your mouth and kisses a nice soft and subtle moisturize feel. 

 

Why?

You will feel refresh and all your stress from yesterday will be eliminated. It will give you a new day feel like yesterday never existed and you can start from where you are at right now.

 

Lesson #3: Lock-Eye with strong intention

This will highly increase your chances of opening the door to sex or the very least a conversation.

They may say something awkward or out of place, but that's okay our job is to lead it to the point of intent.

Go in or go out.

 

Lesson #4: Social Proof

People like people who are pre-approved by others.

If people like you it makes easier for other people to like you as well.

When you think of Social Proof think of any big celebrity names such Robert De Nero(Famous Actor), Stephen Curry(Famous Basketball player), and Rock N Roll rockstars they all trigger social proof. This is why celebrities can just go down the street and generate massive attraction/interest because they are already massively famous for the public. On top of this, their talents are already shown case by all to see.

 

Social Proof 2

Also, social proof can be simply you asking your friend for advice and you accepting it.

Making our own decisions can be hard, which is why when people validates/ gives us an idea it becomes must easier to do.

Now here's a trick. Knowing this you can directly ask people question to purposely trigger social proof on yourself. 

You make them apply it for you.

I realized a lot of time when a friend confirmed something I wanted to do became easier to take action. I suppose a padded up confidence.

 

 

Why is this important? 
It's important to know this because it can help you generate celebrity like attraction if you know how to apply it. Now, granted you don't have to be famous to use social proof. Social Proof will work among your social circle, club, community, organization, etc.

 

Lesson #5: New Friend

This one is super important and I want to write it down here before I forget.

 

Every time you meet someone new, it is their very first time meeting you. 

So, it makes sense to speak to them like you've just a met a new friend for the first time.

Notice the phrase 'new friend.'

We want to make them feel like we have known them for a very long time while making conversations in a rational chronological order.

 

Hell, even being awkward in the first meetup make sense because it's the first meetup. So you can even act awkward if you wanted to lol.

Most people like other people when they first meet.

This is a good because you can almost assume they would be glad to talk to you, not always, but most of the time.

They don't know your past, history, nothing at all about you. 

Go in there expecting to make a new friend, but not too fast-forward.

 

The beginning it's actually better to be slow.

What's your favorite color, comment on the surroundings, what's your favorite food, what do you love to do, that sort of thing.

A simple hi, or a convo that leads to the phone number, or handing your business card after convo, etc.

 

Concise - Talk to them as if you just met a new friend.

 

Lesson #6 : Ask Them For Their Favorite Food

When eating out to a new location and you have no idea what to get.

Feel free to ask the hostess/waiter or whomever for their favorite dish in the location.

This will save you a lot of energy,time,and possibly disappointments.

Now this isn't particularly seductive but is a good general tip to help you get by in those situations.

Let them give you clues on what the best things are. You will also get a conversation(big or small) which is always a plus. 

Funny, now that I think of it this can also be applied to the person you are dating! 

Just in a slightly different way.

 

 

Do note this will be me constantly experimenting all of these things so everything is subject to change.

Having that said, you are encouraged to try these as well, so you get the same benefits!

Feel free to make suggestions along the way.

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Lesson #4Social Proof

People like people who are pre-approved by others.

If people like you it makes easier for other people to like you as well.

When you think of Social Proof think of any big celebrity names such Robert De Nero(Famous Actor), Stephen Curry(Famous Basketball player), and Rock N Roll rockstars they all trigger social proof. This is why celebrities can just go down the street and generate massive attraction/interest because they are already massively famous to the public. On top of this, their 'gifts' are already shown case by all to see.

 

Why is this important? 
It's important to know this because it can help you generate celebrity like attraction if you know how to apply it. Now, granted you don't have to be famous to use social proof. Social Proof will work among your social circle, club, community, organization, etc.

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Lesson #5: New Friend

This one is super important and I want to write it down here before I forget.

 

Every time you meet someone new, it is their very first time meeting you. 

So, it makes to speak to them like you've just a met a new friend for the first time.

Notice the phrase 'new friend.'

 

We want to make them feel like we have known them for a very time while making conversations in a rational chronological order.

 

Hell, even being awkward in the first meetup make sense because it's the first meetup. So you can even act awkward if you wanted to lol.

Most people like other people when they first meet.

This is a good you can almost assume they would be glad to talk to you, not always but most of the time.

 

They don't know your past, history, nothing at all about you. 

Go in there expecting to make a new friend, but not too fast-forward.

 

The beginning it's actually better to be slow.

What's your favorite color, comment on the surroundings, what's your favorite food, what do you love to do, that sort of thing.

A simple hi, or a convo that leads to the phone number, or handing your business card after convo, etc.

 

 

Concise - Talk to them as if you just met a new friend.

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