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  13. End All Social Pain: https://mindpersuasion.com/end-all-social-pain/ https://mindpersuasion.com/3x3/
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  17. https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/Feb17_Post.mp4 One of the key "problems" of game theory is your opponents intentions. If you misunderstand their intention, not much will work. Business, chess players, even athletes understand this intuitively. Purposely projecting a "false" intention on your enemy is a deeply instinctive trait. The other day I saw a video of a gazelle faking the crap out of an attacking lion. The gazelle was drinking at a stream. And at the last minute saw a lion that had been stalking it. The gazelle faked one way, got the lion to commit and then went the other way. Even before the Normandy invasion the allies tried to fake out the Nazis. They got a real dead guy, put him where the Nazi's would find him, and put some info on him to hopefully trick the Nazi's. People tend to scoff at conspiracy theories, but conspiring to fake out your enemy is way older than human brains. The reason zebras have stripes is so when they hang out in groups, they look like on humongous animal. Venus fly traps have been "conspiring" against poor flies since long before humans showed up. They say that all's fair in love and war. Which isn't really a law, more of a recommendation. The war part is easy to understand. Lions vs. Zebras, Nazis vs. Allies. Do whatever you can do win. But what about love? Does this mean using trickery to win somebody's affection? Or does it mean two guys trying to win the heart of one lady at war with each other? Sure, when creating love in somebody, there are certain strategies that work better than others. Like if you sort of like somebody, you don't gush with pure truth. That would scare them away. On the other hand, it can help to play a little hard to get. But you go too far, you'll lose them. Devoid of any "war" strategies, consciously creating love in somebody is much more of a delicate balance. To let it flourish slowly like a flower. Just the right amount of water and attention. After all, flowers have been blooming since the dawn of time. They don't do so well when being smothered. But one thing WILL kill any love from flourishing. And that is MISTAKENLY using war tactics. Misdirection tactics. Most people have a false belief of being at least a little "broken" on the inside. So we respond to attempts of others to get close AS IF we were under attack. We act like the gazelle thinking it's about to get eaten. In this case, playing hard to get IS a defensive strategy. We WANT to keep them at arms length. It's better than the alternative. At least the one we imagine. And that is they'll find out who we REALLY are, and run away. So we keep them at arms length to keep that from happening. Even worse is we PRETEND we are using some ninja-love-strategy. But if you get rid of all this nonsense, false beliefs, false fears, you, and they, will see who you REALLY are. Learn How: https://mindpersuasion.com/inner-frame/
  18. https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/Jan24_Post.mp4 One of the biggest changes in human history has to do with how we perceive time. Way, way back in the day, if you were hungry, you had to do SOMETHING to satisfy that hunger. And this usually meant turning another animal INTO food. But then the agricultural revolution happened. Humans were hunter gatherer nomads for a couple hundred thousand years. But then within just a few thousand years, we transformed from hunters to farmers. This FORCED us to change how we perceived time. Instead of doing something TODAY to benefit TODAY, we had to think about the future. Farmers do things TODAY so they'll benefit in a few months. And if they keep this going long enough, the stuff they benefit from TODAY is stuff that they did a few months ago. Through the long transition between hunters and farmers, we were FORCED by our environment to DELAY GRATIFICATION. This is, perhaps, one of our most powerful traits. If you can delay gratification, you can gain a HUGE advantage over most other humans. Once you delay gratification, you stop using your brain to think about acting today to benefit today. You start to naturally think about acting today to benefit tomorrow, or next week, next month or even next year. The BETTER you can do this, the stronger your LONG GAME thinking skills will be. And if you look at all the dudes now and historically who have built HUGE EMPIRES, either for good or for evil, one thing they all had in common was an appreciation of the LONG GAME. This contrast, long game vs. short game finds its way into many metaphors. Politician X is playing checkers (short game) while politician Y is playing chess (long game.). Country X has a five year plan, but country Z has a 100 year plan. The people to MAKE THINGS HAPPEN have very, very long game plans. The people who watch things happen have medium game plans. The people always wandering around confused, asking "what happened?" rarely have ANY plans. Binge watching, thoughtless eating, wishing for easy and magical answers to complex questions. It's no secret that the long game thinkers, the dudes in charge, wish EVERYBODY was stuck in the "what just happened?" section of society. And if all you do is show up, and do what you're told, that's where you'll be. On the other hand, if you can slowly ease yourself into longer and longer game thinking, and stronger and stronger skills of delayed gratification, you'll no longer be a victim. You'll be an operator. Creating whatever you want. Mind follows body, and body follows mind. Get Started: https://mindpersuasion.com/ideal-health/
  19. https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/Jan22_Post.mp4 Why do most goals fail? If we are honest, most goals aren't really goals. They are wishes. And if you combine a wish with some half hearted, or not so well thought action, it HAS to fail. Why? A wish is just that. A vague idea for the future that is better than now. Don't get me wrong. Wishes are fantastic. Wishing for better things IS the seed of greatness. It's only when we misunderstand our wishes do we get into trouble. Ideally, it might work like this. You have a WISH for a better life. Let's say it's about money. So you lay awake at night imagining how that might be. Maybe wishing or dreaming of hitting upon a new invention or business idea. Or perhaps being a world famous novelist, whose works are turned into movies, and you're constantly being interviewed and asked where you get all your ideas from. So long as you understand these are WISHES, you're in good shape. But if you actually start to interpret these wishes as goals or plans, that's when we get into trouble. Ask any successful person who is in their mid to late life if they had ANY idea HOW they'd become successful, and if they're honest, they'll say that didn't have a clue. But if you kept digging deeper, you'd find they did have a META plan. And idea that they'd be successful in a field. Like sports, or business, or entertainment, or science. And within that field, they simply kept moving forward. Nobody can predict the future. So it's mathematically impossible to have a WISH that exists a year or two out and have that WISH come out to be true. But this DOES NOT MEAN that wishes and daydreams and fantasies are not critical. They are VERY critical. But they aren't plans. Plans are what happens as you slowly move forward. Toward your wishes. And have some success along the way. And equally important, some failures. Successes tell you WHAT to do. Failures tell you what NOT to do. The more you can look back into your past, and see both failures and success TOWARD your wish, the more accurately you can PLAN. This is why weight loss and health goals end in disaster. We a have a vague WISH of a better body. We have a vague PLAN we think will get us there. But after about week, what ACTUALLY happens, costs and benefits, is far different than we imagined. The answer? Don't blast off into the future. Go slow. Carefully and deliberately create that necessary PAST experience that you can use to create and much more accurately predict the future. The slower you do this, the easier it will be. Learn More: https://mindpersuasion.com/ideal-health/
  20. https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/Nov13Post.mp4 One of the unknown drivers of the Industrial Revolution was land ownership. There are tons of variables about why, specifically, the Industrial Revolution happened where it did and when it did. Why England and not Japan, for example? Dr. Gregory Clark, an economist wrote a book looking all the details. (Farewell To Alms if you're interested). One critical driving force was the POTENTIAL for land ownership. If you're a fan of any middle ages based books, movies or TV shows, you know that only those of noble blood can own land. This was essentially feudalism. Nobles owned the land. The serfs worked on the land that the Nobles owned. That paid taxes to their noble Lords. The noble lords had to pay taxes to the king. Maybe not the fairest system, but it was stable. But unless you were born into a noble family, you were a serf. This was life for 90% of people in all societies BEFORE the Industrial Revolution. But for some reason, around the 1300's England decided to let ANYBODY buy land. So long as the buyer and seller agreed on price, the purchase would be made. This was perhaps the predecessor of the "American Dream." That if you worked hard enough, you could "be somebody." If you owned enough land, you could grow enough food to feed yourself and essentially give the world the finger. The modern version of this is "f-you money." Enough money to pay the bills, keep enough food coming in, and you can smoke endless blunts and watch endless TV or play endless video games. This is perhaps the ESSENTIAL drive of all human creativity. Of doing something well enough, long enough to get a big payoff. For ancient peasants it was very simple. Work very, very hard for ten years or so, save as much money as you could, and NEVER need to work for another boss again. Same as "f-you money." Today that is JUST as possible. To work hard long enough, successfully enough, and give the world the finger. Unfortunately, lately we've been a bit brainwashed. Through political promises and law of attraction mumbo jumbo. Most people today feel they are ENTITLED to "f-you money." Or at least it should be easy and automatic to get it. As if it really were possible to show up, be told what to do, and after ten or twenty be able to coast into the sunset. This is perhaps one of the HARDEST things to do. Leave the safety comfort of the pack. But UNLESS you are willing to do that, that "f-you money" will always be out of reach. But if you ARE willing to leave the lazy, copy-and-paste-brained-people behind, you WILL create your dream. But it needs to be built. By YOU. Get Started: https://mindpersuasion.com/ambition-generator/
  21. https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/Nov11Post.mp4 It's commonly hoped that changing your thinking can change your outcome. This is possible, but only in certain situations. One is when you get a new idea in your brain, and that new idea is connected to existing skills. For example, if you are a skilled piano player, and you get a new piece of music, you could play it pretty easily. The new music is the new idea. The skills are your piano playing skills. But if you don't have a lot of practice playing the piano, that new idea won't do much. Even if somebody tells you the necessary information. How the notes on the paper match to the keys on the piano. This is something you could pretty easily learn from an academic standpoint. To quickly map each note on the paper to a key on the piano. But added in to this is the beats and rhythm. Even then you might be able to hum the right notes and tap out the right rhythm. All without going anywhere near a piano. It's fairly straightforward to match the notes on the page with the specific sound they are supposed to make. But connecting all three together takes a lot of practice. Consider that most everything we want in life requires a lot of skills. Learning things is boring. Or it usually is boring. Think about this metaphor. If you worked for $10 an hour, and if you got fired you'd become homeless, that would suck. Especially if what you did was hard, brainless, manual labor. Picking up bricks from one pile and putting them in another. You would HATE that job. But now consider the SAME physical behaviors, of lifting up bricks and putting them somewhere else. But these bricks are made of GOLD. And you putting them in the back of your truck. You've got eight hours to do it, just like regular job. But in the gold job, you get to KEEP everything. Same exact movements, but a much BETTER payoff. This is the ONE thing that will make ALL practice enjoyable. Of having a tangible and positive outcome on the other side. What's the BEST tangible outcome? The one that's been the driving force of human behavior since the dawn of time. Fame, money and plenty of sex. This is why practicing algebra SUCKS. But practicing something like the guitar, that could LEGITIMATELY get you more money, fame and sex, is easier. This does take time, but without this BELIEF that there is a pot of gold, and fame, and sex, at the end of the road, it's hard to get there. With this drive, everything is much, much easier. Without this drive, you'll end up like everybody else. Sitting around WAITING for something to "happen." But build this drive strong enough, and you will MAKE things happen. Whatever things you want. Learn How: https://mindpersuasion.com/ambition-generator/
  22. https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/Sept30Post.mp4 The idea of the Pareto Distribution, or sometimes known as the 80-20 rule is a pretty interesting concept. And one you can find everywhere, if you look. Basically, it says that 20% of any system will be responsible for 80% of the output of that system. That doesn't make a lot of sense, so let's consider some examples. If you have 50 sales people for a large company, then 20% of the sales people will make 80% of the sales. Or, if you've got a closet full of shirts, you'll wear 20% of them 80% of the time. But this doesn't just stop at 80 and 20. Within the top twenty, there is another 80-20. For example, if you look at a large book publishing company. 20% of the books will make 80% of the profits. But the top 20% of the top 20% (4%) will make 80% of the 80%, or 64%. This means 4% of those books will be making 64% of the profits. Of course, this goes even further. Twenty percent of that top 4% (.8%) will make 80% of that 64% (51%). This is true for most distributions. Intuitively, this makes sense. You think of all the thousands of books at any given publisher. But the top 2-3 authors, the Stephen King's and the John Grisham's, they make MOST of the profits. Now you COULD look at that stat, the 1% is making more than half the money, and claim that it's not fair. But this happens everywhere. There are three or four top athletes that make a TON of money. Compared to all the bench warmers and minor league players, the same distribution pops up. Consider that instead of screaming foul and waiting for SOMEBODY ELSE to "re-distribute" this naturally occurring phenomenon, consider a different approach. Namely, how can YOU get up into that top 20%? Plenty of studies show that we humans are self organizing. When they give a group of people any kind of task, the most common response is to look around and be TOLD what to do. Perhaps this is the TRUE meaning of this ever-present Pareto distribution. That it's not about the people on top, it's more about the people on the bottom. The folks who except to be spoon fed everything. The folks who expect guaranteed, step by step easy to follow plans. The people too terrified to leave the sidelines and get in the game. What if it's MUCH easier than most people realize to get up to the top? That the ONLY thing you REALLY need to do is stop waiting to be TOLD what to do, and just get in there and play? That all you need to do is CHOOSE to have a strong frame, and everybody will naturally follow? Learn More: https://mindpersuasion.com/mental-strength/
  23. https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/May27Post.mp4 There are two basic ways to look at the world. The way the world is. Or the way we think the world should be. It's very hard to have any kind of conversation without drifting back and forth. It's kind of similar to how newspaper reporter can report "news" that is factual, but also, completely nonsensical. For example, let's say you have a Harvard Professor who has gone off his meds. He believes that invisible aliens are watching us all the time. That he believes that is a fact. So the news reporter, looking for the latest clickbait, interviews Professor Nutjob. The entire article is about the aliens, and why they are here, and what their plans are for us. To make this entire article "true" all they have to do is put ONE LINE in their about how this is a theory of a published Harvard professor. Similarly, imagine two people are talking. One person says, "There is a lot of litter." The person listening looks around, and notices the litter. They agree. So far, this is a factual conversation. Then the first person starts talking about what SHOULD happen. Why people shouldn't litter. Why only "bad people" litter. Mixed in are some "true" if-then statements. If people littered less, the streets would be cleaner. That is a true, perfectly sound, logical statement. We humans do this all the time. Mix logic, opinion, observations about the way the world IS and shared ideas about the way the world SHOULD BE. But, if you confuse the two, you'll run into trouble. If you start to ONLY talk about the way the world SHOULD be, you will start to believe that's the way the world IS. Which means you'll start to not see the worlds as it is, but a broken world. A world that needs fixing. This is VERY compelling. Because if we live in a world that needs "fixing" it's almost always somebody ELSE who is supposed to do the fixing. Sure, we might come up with the IDEA of what needs to be fixed. But it's almost always somebody else's job to do the actual work. This is perfectly normal when just having a regular, "complain about the world" conversation. But when this becomes a STRATEGY, it becomes a problem. Then you find yourself waiting around for SOMEBODY ELSE to fix what YOU think is a problem. This is a very comfortable trap to find yourself in. But it won't help you get laid, or paid. What WILL help you get laid paid and ditch any ideas about the way you think the world SHOULD be. And see the world for the way it really IS. And get in the game, and get some. Learn More: https://mindpersuasion.com/money-magnet/
  24. https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/Aug28Post.mp4 A very common idea in self-development is being broken. Of having tried all kinds of ideas and programs, yet you're still stuck. What does, "stuck" mean, exactly? It's a metaphor that approximates a physical situation. Like a car that is stuck in the mud. The engines work, the tires work, but you aren't getting any traction. The work done by the engine is being wasted. No forward movement. Another physical description of being stuck is like when goofy criminals try to sneak in through the chimney. And get stuck. They writhe and grunt and push and wriggle, but they don't move. Another common metaphor is being "broken." Like if your car makes noise, but it doesn't quite turn over. Or your toaster has some kind of defect. This is much more common than people realize. Most people feel stuck and or broken. Quite often. But it's one of those things that we don't tend to talk about. So everybody believes it's only happening to them. Why do we feel like we are stuck or broken? The first part comes from generally success. When anybody is successful, in any area, it's MOSTLY unconscious. People that are naturally outgoing don't really know WHY they are. But our ego needs to feel like we are always in control. So if we ask them why they are so naturally outgoing, they'll feel the need to give us a conscious reason. The problem comes when we BELIEVE that conscious reason. And then WE apply that conscious reason and it DOESN'T work. Since it works for THEM, but not for US, then we must be BROKEN. Or we keep trying it, it doesn't work, and we feel stuck. But that's only because we are trying the WRONG thing. People that do things naturally and easily have NO IDEA why. But it's hard to admit that, as a normal human. Anything that we do well, our ego NEEDS to take credit. The truth is two fold. Everybody needs to DISCOVER their own way of doing things. Trying to copy others will NEVER work. We have no idea what it's like to be them. Their conscious answers don't really help, since that's NEVER the full story. The second half is that the process of discovering how to do things on our own is a LIFELONG PROCESS. This is something we DO NOT LIKE. We very much wish it were quick and easy. Because we are inherently lazy. Which is why we keep trying QUICK and EASY things. And when they don't work, we claim we are STUCK. Or broken. You're not. Take your time, go slow and learn how. Learn How: http://mindpersuasion.com/social-anxiety-killer/
  25. https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/Aug10Post.mp4 I remember a long, long time ago, when I was a kid. It was Christmas and we were opening presents. I bought my grandma something, I'm not sure. She opened it, looked it, smiled and said thanks. Then she asked me what it was. I had no idea, so I shrugged my shoulders. Most people have PC's. And we use them for tons of different reasons. Watching movies, playing video games, chatting and emailing with friends, writing novels, etc. A PC is something that satisfies TONS of different uses. So it would be silly to ask, "What's a PC for?" Or, "What is the purpose of PC?" Even sillier would be asking for the purpose of your toaster. Nobody lies awake at night wondering if they are using their toaster correctly. From a structural perspective, our mind-body system is a tool, just like a PC. Most of us wonder about our "purpose." My grandma asked me what the gift was, since I bought it for her. This would be logical. But we tend to ask the "life purpose" of other people. That would be like a toaster asking another toaster what a toaster is supposed to be doing. One way to figure out our purpose would be to look at all the things we can DO. And figure out how to MAXIMIZE our use. For example, you COULD use your toaster to warm up a frozen pizza. Put the frozen pizza on top, and then hit the toaster button. Kind of silly, but it would sort of work. But it would be significantly UNDER-UTILIZING the toaster's potential. Or maybe you could put the toaster on the floor, under your desk during winter. To keep your feet warm. But you'd have to keep reaching down every couple minutes to push down the toast button. It would work, but it would under-utilize its capacity. Most people use our mind-body system like that. As a passive device. To let others tell us what to do. Especially when it comes to our brains. Our brains are INSANELY powerful. Capable of holding TONS more information that we think. Yet how do most of us use our brains? We OUTSOURCE our thinking whenever we can. Other people. TV, movies, etc. One way we CAN use our brains is as "new instinct generators." To train in new skills to the level of unconscious competence. Sure, this takes time, and it's not fun. But what if you developed money making skills? Or persuasion skills? Or romance creation skills? All to the point of NEW INSTINCTS, so you could do those things naturally, without thinking? Learn How: http://mindpersuasion.com/watcing-mind/
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