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  1. The Caveman Sex Trinity: https://mindpersuasion.com/the-caveman-sex-trinity/ https://mindpersuasion.com/3x3/
  2. You Don't Need Permission: https://mindpersuasion.com/you-dont-need-permission/ https://mindpersuasion.com/3x3/
  3. https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/Feb11_Post.mp4 The halo effect is a very real thing. Or as it is commonly called, "beauty privilege." Of course this is one of those "truths" we very much don't like to accept. If you ARE a pretty person, you very much want to believe your success is due to something in your control. Not your lucky genetics. Similarly, for us non-beauties, we don't like to believe looks matter so much. Because if they REALLY do matter as much as we think they do, that means us non-beautiful types are screwed. But here's the thing. The halo effect is real. Academically tested and verified. But there are few other things besides super-gorgeousness that have a similar effect. Just to be clear, let's understand exactly what we mean. A gorgeous person says something. Maybe up on a stage, maybe on YouTube. And we look at her (usually her) and we think: Wow, that is so profound! Of course that "profound" message is coming through a VERY instinctively pleasing filter. And because we aren't Vulcans or Robots, that instinctively pleasing feeling is subconscious attached TO the message. So if a smelly homeless guy walks up to us on the street and says the EXACT same thing, we won't think it's profound. We'll think it's the dumb ramblings of a drunk smelly dude. Lucky for us non-gorgeous types, physical beauty is only ONE thing that can augment the words or ideas coming out of our mouths. Just for example's sake, take a look at some ugly ass dudes with some very INSANE messages. Who also had tons of people who thought, sometimes LITERALLY, that those weird sayings coming from ugly ass dudes were directly from GOD. Of course, I'm talking about cult leaders. These dudes are NOT the type you see on magazine covers. (Unless the magazine is nutjob weekly...) The question for us is HOW can we cultivate some of those non-beauty traits? Another thing we've got on our side is us non-Vulcan monkey-people communicate A LOT through subconscious channels. Facial expressions, eye movements, speaking speed and tonality. All can DEMONSTRATE a non-beauty type halo effect. But it's pretty hard to FAKE this kind of stuff. The first step is to build it in mind, by carefully looking back through your past history. To find examples of this non-beauty halo effect. Next is to speak with a certain type of "covert hypnosis" that implies, subconsciously, that you have this type of non-beauty halo effect. The next is kind of spooky, but kind of cool. Kind of a "hive mind recognition." When everybody knows, and everybody knows that everybody knows. And this is all spread subconsciously throughout the crowd. And when this happens, you will have generated cult-like-levels of this instinctively pleasing, and socially powerful "halo effect." What is this thing? Marketing types refer to it as "social proof." When everybody notices there's something about you. And everybody is noticing that everybody is noticing there is something about you. Which will make everybody WANT you. No gorgeousness or six packs required. Learn How: https://mindpersuasion.com/social-proof/
  4. https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/Dec06Post.mp4 Way back when I was in high school, a bunch of my buddies and I, and a couple of parents, drove down to Mexico. We were going down to watch some long motorcycle race. We had about about six cars in total. Right before we crossed the border, we all pulled into a parking lot. One of the parents came over to my window (I was driving) and asked me if I'd ever driven in Mexico. I shook my head. He said: "The rules are simple. Don't hit anybody, and don't let anybody hit you." Once I was shopping for a crock pot cookbook. I LOVED the idea of a crock pot, or slow cooker. Dump a bunch of stuff in the morning, flip it on, and Bob's your uncle. Come home after work, and not only does your place smell FANTASTIC, but dinner will be ready. However, many crock pot recipes are not simple. It requires you do a bunch of stuff BEFORE you put everything in the crock pot. Whenever I see these recipes, I think: "Dude, if I was willing to do all that other stuff, I wouldn't be using a crock pot!" Our brains are capable of complex thinking. Otherwise we never would have invented all the stuff we have. But at the same time, we PREFER simple strategies. Unless you really like the COOKING part, (and not the eating part like me) going through a TON of steps only increases the chances of error. I don't remember how many times I've watched a YouTube recipe, thinking I'd remember it, only to mess it up later. Forgetting a simple step that changes EVERYTHING. Talking to humans is a very, very complex process. One of those things you NEVER really feel you've got handled. For example, back when I sold cars, they had a pretty good system set up. A continuous learning program. You'd talk to the customer until they bailed. Then you'd remember the HARDEST objection. Then every morning, we'd all get together and go over all those previous objections. So long as you were willing to put in the time, and get REJECTED enough by customers, you could (eventually) start earning some money. Same goes with social conversations. So long as you stay in the game, EVENTUALLY you'll get some natural game going. The problems is this takes TIME. This takes a lot of exposure. A lot of uncomfortable exposure. This is HARD for most normal people. But there is a kind of "shortcut." The ONE THING you can build that doesn't require a ton of rejection. Everybody has a "measurement" of this one personality trait. Below a certain point, you'll always be chasing things. Above a certain point, things will be chasing you. What things? The good things. Money, romance, sex, love, friendship, you name it. Learn More: https://mindpersuasion.com/social-dominance/
  5. https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/Deco5Post.mp4 Life can be very, very confusing. At least from a mathematical standpoint. If you are a fan of mathematics, even passively, then you've heard of Chaos theory. On one hand, everything allegedly follows the laws of physics. Except down on the quantum level, where things are driven by probability. But even atoms and molecules follow laws. They don't behave randomly. Everything follows laws. Otherwise recipes wouldn't work. Your GPS wouldn't work. Planes wouldn't fly and the sun rise in different places every day. But complex systems don't SEEM to do this. A flock of birds is a beautiful example. Each bird has a certain set of "rules." Stay a certain distance from each bird around it. That's it. But put a couple thousand of these up in the sky, and you get these very cool looking, but completely random, chaotic patterns. Each bird has a biological body. Each bird needs to stay within certain temperatures and conditions. Each bird has to follow the laws of aerodynamics when it flies. It's heard and lungs and circulatory system are similarly bound by EXTREMELY complex laws of organic chemistry and microbiology. Yet stick all these individual, law abiding organisms together and it's MAGIC. Now, try and imagine how complex we HUMANS are. Particularly in a social setting. Birds are simple. Stay two feet away from everybody around you, (up, down, right, left, front back,) and Bob's your uncle. But humans? We also have the SAME basic rules. Feel good, don't feel bad. The same basic strategy to DO that. Hang out with people who like us. Avoid people who want to kill us. Try and have sex. But one brief glance of eye contact, and you get that chaos in your brain. Like birds swirling around in beautiful patterns, we get chaotic patterns swirling around in our brains. Did she look? Did she think I was somebody else? Should I walk over? What if I'm making a mistake? What if she really wants me and I chicken out? There is ONE variable that can CLEAR all this junk out. There's a similar video like the birds, only it was of fish. Fish have the same basic strategy. Stay a certain distance from all the other dudes around you. They create the same chaos patterns as birds. Except the video had a shark in there. Trying to eat the fish. But the poor shark kept striking out. Once the shark was in the picture, the fish had a slightly ALTERED strategy. Stay a certain distance from all the other fish (front, back, left, right, above, below) AND stay away from the shark. This poor shark saw a HUGE buffet, and figured he was going to chow down. But dude couldn't get ANY fish. He kept swimming around that school of fish and all he could get his teeth on was open water. This is the secret of social power. Instead of being a shark, which is a predator, develop the ONE skill that will have the opposite effect. And be a magnet. Instead of staying away from you, people be attracted to you. Learn How: http://mindpersuasion.com/social-dominance/
  6. https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/Dec04Post.mp4 It's common to complain about "what women want." Ask a bunch of women what they want, and they'll give you a bunch of different answers. Ask a bunch of men what women want, and they'll give a bunch of different answers. But this is does not mean, as many claim, that women are mysterious creatures that nobody, not even women, can understand. This is actually a function of human nature. It's got NOTHING to do with women, or any metaphorical ideas about femininity. And it IS somewhat related to the idea of the feminine being associated with "chaos" within many, many ancient and modern mythologies. First, we need to understand how humans were calibrated. We've been humans for 200,000 years. Same brains, same bodies, same desires, same fantasies. We've been living in large societies for only about 10,000 years. Electricity and communication for a couple hundred. Internet and social media for about 20. So, first we need to understand what women wanted back in our natural habitat. Women wanted a man, and a baby. We are humans, not angels, not Vulcans, not aliens. We've been split from chimps for 6 million years. Humans for 0.2 million out of those 6.0 million. All animals, including humans, want food and sex more than ANYTHING. The problem with us humans is we take a LONG TIME to become self sufficient. So women, or rather her instincts, can't just pick any random guy who spits some decent game. Not back when it really mattered. When sleeping with the wrong dude meant certain death. Under those situations, what women wanted was very, very simple. The dude with the MOST social status possible. The guy with the most social status got that through consistently providing TONS of calories. You kill a big animal, you HAVE to share most of it. And the REWARDS for that are social status and sexual attraction. Women wanted the HIGHEST status male they could get. Men wanted the HOTTEST lady they could get. Easy peasy. Men competed by LEADERSHIP. Since killing a large animal took a well organized team of killers. Women competed by beauty. So here we are in modern life. Women STILL want the same thing. Men STILL want the same thing. For men, it's easy, but frustrating. For guys, there is NO QUESTION who is hot and who isn't. But for women, they must choose between a TON of dudes, all with more or less FAKE status. Even worse is a marketing idea. That we silly monkey people have MORE than 5 choices, we CAN'T decide. Even pasta sauce companies know this. The sweet spot of choices is between 3 and 5. This is when they get the MOST sales. Too few choices, and they'll choose another brand. Too many choices and they'll choose another brand. So, what's the answer? Continue to bemoan the mysterious modern woman who doesn't know what she wants? Or demonstrate some REAL status and BE what she wants? Learn How: https://mindpersuasion.com/social-dominance/
  7. https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/Dec01Post.mp4 One word that we humans LOVE to use is "should." The solution to pretty much any problem, large or small, is the word "should." Fast on the heels of that common "solution" word is the word "we." For example, suppose you're walking down the street with your buddy. And there is litter everywhere. And you use a common structure to "solve" this litter problem. "Wow, we need to do a better job of putting trash in the trash cans." People like the word "we" because it sounds like "we" are all in this together. But unless the person using the word "we" is a proud member of the littering people, that's not what they REALLY mean. What they really mean is "they" need to do a better job putting trash in the trash can instead of on the street. This brings up the comfortable word "should." As in "they" should stop doing whatever they're doing. If you listen carefully to any intellectual coming up intellectual ideas about how to "fix" society, you'll see this structure. "We" "should" do things differently. It's merely a polite way of saying "they" should do things differently. But here's the thing. Nobody wakes up and thinks: "Hmm, I wonder what those other people think I should do today?" Nobody plans their activities and behaviors based on what other people think they SHOULD do. Here's a mental experiment to help understand. Pick one thing you think people "should" do or "shouldn't" do. And imagine looking at a group of people. And imagine telling them directly: "Hey, you guys shouldn't do that." And imagine them saying: "Why not?" Or: "Yeah, what if we want to?" Long time ago, I used to sell cars. I'd talk to people for HOURS. Literally. I'd find out all about their financial situation, relationships, etc. And from my perspective, buying a new car made PERFECT sense. I knew they'd like it. I knew they could afford it. But when I looked them in the eye and said: "You should buy this car!" They said: "Yeah, I dunno...." It turns out the word "should" isn't the magic we all pretend it is. Why do we like it so much? We love to PRETEND we have power. We love to PRETEND that the genius of our ideas is ENOUGH. That if we only explain ourselves, people will take our super genius ideas and suddenly realize they've been doing it wrong. Why do we like to pretend we have this kind of magical powers of others? Because this is the prime directive of humans. To get as much hierarchical dominance as possible. The higher up you get, the better EVERYTHING is. Unfortunately, this instinct is being fed by pretend, fake ideas. But if you can figure out how to get REAL hierarchical dominance? That is REAL power. Not PRETEND power. Learn How: https://mindpersuasion.com/social-dominance/
  8. https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/Aug21Post.mp4 A common "truism" in dating and seduction communities is to not listen to what "she" says, but to watch what "she" does. The idea is that women will say one thing, but do another. This is true, but it's true like confirmation bias is true. This type of behavior is very easy to see in others. Very hard to see in ourselves. So, what does the previous "truism" mean, particularly about human behavior? That what we say and what we do seem to always be different things? One way this comes out is in marketing studies. If you asks somebody if they like brand X, they'll usually tell you they do. But if you WATCH people, their behaviors will tell a different story. A much more accurate story. One long term study was done on weight loss. They first did a study on various diets, etc. But the results didn't make much sense. Until they realized they were making a cardinal marketing study error. The data that didn't make any sense was based on "self reported" data. So they decided to follow people around. And it turned out that most people reported eating less than they really ate. Nobody suspected these people were blatantly lying. But when humans say things, we tend to "alter" what we are talking about to make ourselves look better. This is why the truism if not listening to what "she" says, and instead watching what "she" does is good advice. But not just for women you are trying to date, but for EVERYBODY. If you've ever given job interviews to people, they will say ANYTHING to get the job. So if you ask questions and take their answers at face value, you might end up hiring somebody who has NO IDEA how to do what they say they can do. This is a part of human nature. This comes out in many, many ways. For example, most people will hold that money, or at least the love of money, is "evil." That rich people are only rich because they are "evil." Now, is this an absolute truth, or this a handy self deception so you don't feel so bad about not being rich? What would happen if you found a sack of money? A lot of money? Turn it into cops, since money is evil? Or keep it? These are tough questions. Another way to see the difference between what people say and what people do, is how they handle "leadership." The things people say what they want in a leader is much, much different than the people they'll actually follow. Just like the things people say they what they want in a partner is different from the people they actually chase. But when a REAL leader shows up, people WILL follow them. Even if they don't want to. How can you BE that leader that people will follow, even if they pretend they don't want to? Learn How: https://mindpersuasion.com/stage-wizard/
  9. https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/Aug16APost.mp4 Goal setting is a common idea. And the strategies range from completely unconscious and automatic, to pure metaphysical nonsense. On the metaphysical side are things like vision boards. You take some time putting up a bunch of pictures of things you want. Then wait around for the magic wish fairy to show up at your house. On the unconscious automatic side is waking up in the middle of the night to use the toilet. Both have the same structure. You have something in mind you want. You send that "outcome" to your mind-body system. To the extent you've got some skills programmed in, you can get it quickly and unconsciously. But if you have no idea how to get that, you'll be stuck in metaphysical vision board land. Most of the stuff that can end up in the metaphysical land of mumbo jumbo revolves around social skills. Something involving talking to strangers. For money, love, sex, or increased social status. That's why we are suckers for gurus and secret techniques to avoid doing the necessary work. Most of us are so terrified of simply practicing, that we actually believe in some of the metaphysical hooey. But that is kind of missing the point. To get anything that involves social skills, you need to have a certain "frame." Everything you'll learn any guru seminar only works if it's ON TOP of a pre-existing frame. The great paradox of guru type learning is that if you HAD the right frame, you wouldn't need the gurus. The words up on top don't matter nearly as much as we think. The frame is the most important part. The self confidence, and positive expectation, and subtle emotional energy. All projected and picked up on subconsciously. We LEAD with our frame, and then the words come. If you ONLY focus on the words, it's already too late. So, how can you build your frame? By focusing on some NON-VERBAL aspects of communication. Simple things like where to put your pauses in the middle of a sentence. If you don't know the words AND you don't have the frame, you're actually trying to practice two things at once. This is like learning to juggle AND learning to ride a unicycle at the same time. But even better, is when you practice FRAME techniques, the words will NEVER matter. So it will be much, much easier on your brain. The best part is when you do practice these things, nobody will know but you. Learn How: https://mindpersuasion.com/stage-wizard/
  10. https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/Feb22Post.mp4 There's an economist named Basiat, who is known pretty well in certain economic circles. One is most famous sayings is, "It's not what you see, it's what you don't see." This describes how "reality" really works. Our monkey brains evolved in a very different environment than the one we live in. We could get by, back then, but thinking in very simple, very linear terms. Do X, and you'll get Y. If you get Y, you'll get Z. For most dudes for most of history, there were only three things to think about. Three things that drove ALL our behaviors. Food, sex, and status. And they were all tightly linked together. If you were the best hunter, you got the biggest kill. This provided the most food for everybody. So when you and your team dragged this big kill back to camp, all the people looked at you with admiration and respect. Not because you had on some cool bling, or you had the newest Nikes. Because of what you DID. More specifically, you DID something that would help others. Not entertain them, or make them feel good about themselves. Something tangible that would help them NOT DIE. Whoever killed the biggest animals got the most respect from the tribe. All the cute cave girls were wired to feel AUTOMATIC attraction to the guys getting the most respect. This is a very GENIUS system. A very POWERFUL system. The best hunters got the most status. They got that status because of what they provided TO others. That status created the most attraction in the ladies. So the BEST HUNTERS had the most sex with the hottest ladies. The ladies COMPETED with each other for the top tier men. Remember, these top tier men were top tier because of what they PROVIDED for the tribe. The next generation was produced by the hottest girls, and the best hunters. A PERFECT system. Nobody had to think about ANYTHING. Men simply were DRIVEN to kill the biggest animal they could. Women were DRIVEN to be attracted to the highest status men. This meant everybody got fed, the best dudes and the hottest girls got down with one another and made the best kids. This same DRIVE exists in ALL MEN today. In YOU today. To KILL something (figuratively) FANTASTIC. To get MAD RESPECT because of your actions. Girls DREAM of a hero like this. Guys DREAM of being this hero. Most guys today have it BACKWARDS. They are chasing WOMEN. Or even worse, MONEY. That, Dear Reader, is a BAD IDEA. Instead, chasing the things in life you WANT TO KILL. Things that will make YOU a hero. Seek successes that will make the ladies COMPETE for you. Get Started: https://mindpersuasion.com/get-girls/
  11. https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/Oct03Post.mp4 A deep desire for most people is to get more social status. This is based on a very ancient instinct. It works very much like food and sex. For example, you could be walking down the street, minding your own business. You might not think you're hungry. Until you pass a bakery. Or an IN-N-Out. Or perhaps you meet some friends for drinks. You don't feel hungry. Until your friends order some appetizers. Take one bite and it's all over. We even say things like, "Wow, I didn't know how hungry I was!" Sex is the same. Suppose your walking down another street, minding your own business. You see an attractive person, and smile at them. Suppose they smile back. REALLY smile back. Even look you up and down, letting their eyes feast on you. But they keep walking. Whatever you WERE thinking about is long gone. Now that person is all you'll be able to think about. For a few days. Social status is very much like that. We don't think we WANT any until we GET some. And then it's ALL we can think of. But because suddenly being blindsided by food and sex ideas and images is common, but REAL social status is not, most won't ever experience this. This is a common "drug" like feeling in those who fear public speaking, but get over it. At least enough to get up a few times and give a speech. Standing up in front of people feels VERY MUCH like having real social status. Even if it's a bunch of goofs like us just there to practice giving speeches. It's not uncommon for people who are initially terrified of public speaking lose time. They stand up, and once the fear wanes and the positive feelings kick in, then it's like hunger. Where you can't ever eat one chip. They love the feeling so much they talk and talk and talk. But REAL social status is EXTREMELY powerful. Because from a purely instinctive standpoint, after a certain point, money and sex are natural results. Below a certain level money and sex MUST be chased separately. And once you get above a certain level of social status, the name of the game is twofold. One, to KEEP IT at all costs. Two, get MORE of it at all costs. And one very powerful way that pretty much EVERYBODY has used to keep their status and power is LIE about how to get it. Nobody wants competition. So those at the top are very skilled in feeding those below them a bunch of crap. So those below them will STAY below them. Screw that! Understand the rules, and get whatever you want. Learn How: http://mindpersuasion.com/seven-rules/
  12. Leverage Your Hallucination Instinct: https://mindpersuasion.com/hallucination-instinct/ https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/Sept28Loop.mp4
  13. https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/July20Post.mp4 One of the biggest problems in modern society is social approval. In ancient human societies, social approval was essentially the currency. Today, the currency is money. Duh. You work, applying your unique set of skills. They pay you money, and you take that money and buy whatever you want. But in ancient times, BEFORE money was invented, the "currency" was social status. This allowed ancient societies to THRIVE based on selfish behaviors. Any society that DEPENDENDED on non-selfish behavior wouldn't have lasted long. How was did selfish behavior work? Every day, dudes went out hunting. They wanted to get the BIGGEST kill possible. Not because it was the right thing to do. Not because it was what other people THOUGHT they should do. Not because they were worried about being a positive role model. Because whoever came back with the BIGGEST kill got treated like a ROCK STAR. Including a ton of sex. This INSTINCT made EVERYBODY want to kill the biggest animal possible. Tribes filled with these types of people, with that type of instinct, ALWAYS had enough to eat. The more any ancient hunter CONSISTENLY brought back big kills, the more social status he had. The more social status he had, the better life he had. But his social status, his ROCK STAR status, was directly connected to his productivity. How many calories he acquired. This was a perfectly calibrated system. Today, it's pretty messed up. We WANT social status, and we very much like the IDEA of getting social status, but it can easily BACKFIRE. Because nearly all socials status today is NOT connected to real productivity. You can buy a bunch of bling on your credit card, go way into debt and still kind FAKE IT. This is the whole idea of "keeping up with the Jones'." The underlying concept beneath the famous saying: "We buy things we can't afford to impress people we don't like." Because EVERYBODY is competing with each other to get FAKE social status. But guess what? That ancient instinct still lives inside everybody. That's why we LOVE hero's journey movies. Where hero's go out, kill the bad guy, and get ROCK STAR treatment. This is EXACTLY what our instincts CRAVE. Which means this is a very useful instinct to leverage. Take any idea, and wrap it around this ancient instinct, and people will be BEGGING to do what you want. All without knowing what's going on. This can make you more persuasive then ever. Learn How: http://mindpersuasion.com/instinct-persuasion/
  14. https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/Jun24Post.mp4 Human hierarchies are everywhere. But they are mostly subconscious. The thing about humans is that we are driven by deep instincts. But we are capable of being driven by external triggers that indicate those deeper instincts. For example, by sheer mathematics, men have evolved a natural attraction to women who are, all else equal, younger rather than older. This is simply because the guys of the past who were RANDOMLY programmed to be attracted to younger women had MORE babies. Because a women who starts having babies younger rather than older will have more babies, since she's got more baby years ahead of her. So more kids will be born that have the gene to make the dudes naturally attracted to younger women. Similarly, all else equal, women are genetically programmed to be naturally attracted to older, more powerful men. For the same reasons. Ancient women that had the RANDOMLY programmed genes to be attracted to older, more powerful men had more kids. Since that older, more powerful man could support more kids than a young guy. So over time, more kids were made with the genes that made women naturally attracted to older, more powerful men. All this happened WAY before organized society. Long before money was invented. There are other instincts that can override these deeper, and basic instincts. One of those is social proof. If the entire tribe believes something, that will tend to OVERRIDE the deeper, more ancient instincts. In modern societies, we have all kinds of instincts fighting for our attention. For example, let's say you've got a big reunion coming up. The part of you that wants positive social proof, a very strong instinct, will WANT you to lose weight. But the part of you that wants to eat, ANOTHER very strong instinct, will compete with that. This is really the ONLY WAY to shut down the instincts we don't like. By pitting them against other instincts. Either for real, or by building up powerful emotional images. As mentioned above, we are still very influenced by social hierarchies. Where we are in the hierarchy. Men AND women. Modern experiments show this over and over. Stick ten people in a room, give them a task, and they will QUICKLY and subconsciously self organize into a hierarchy. How do they do this? We can imagine we all are giving off, and reading, some collection of subconscious, non verbal behavior that indicated where WE are on the social hierarchy. So much that every time they do this experiment, the same thing happens. Everybody looks around, reads this energy and AUTOMATICALLY takes their place. The take way is that the MORE of this subconscious, social hierarchy energy you are RADIATING, the higher up the food chain you'll be. Learn How: http://mindpersuasion.com/public-speaking-confidence/
  15. https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/Jun22Post.mp4 Once upon a time there was a doctor. This doctor lived a couple hundred years or so ago. Back then, one in four women died during childbirth. The main reason was they hadn't yet discovered germs. So it was not uncommon for doctors to be elbows deep in some dead guy, studying his insides, then go directly into a surgery or a delivery. Since he's hands were covered in germs, lots of patients died. Of course, they had yet discovered how dangerous that was. So this doctor thought it might be a good idea for these docs to wash their hands in between procedures. At first they thought he was nuts. What? Invisible things that can kill us? Eventually he persuaded him. And people died less and less because of it. The doctor's name? Dr. Lister. This is why that stuff you're supposed to gargle with is called LISTERINE. Seriously. This is common in science. Something isn't obvious, so we don't notice it or it's effects. But then somebody discovers it, and it makes things a bit clearer. Or safer or easier. Sometimes, though, it is POSSIBLE to know things but we either choose not to, or we just don't think it's possible. After all, there is TON of information. There's no way anybody could know even close to a fraction of a percentage. Sometimes the information is right there in front of us. But we refuse to see it. A lot of people have heard of the idea of social hierarchies, for example. But some refuse to believe it. "Show me proof," they say. As if they expect people to walk around with easy to see proof. But this proof IS easy to see. And easy to measure, once you know. And not just in a metaphorical sense. In a very real, very observable, very behavior sense. You can look over a room and tell EXACTLY who's at the top of any pecking order. And you can measure a few variables from yourself, and know exactly where you stand. This goes way beyond feeling and guessing. If you wanted to, you could actually take measurements. You'd look kind of goofy though. But with practice, it's pretty easy. Not only to measure, but to know EXACTLY what you need to do to increase your socials status. The kind that EVERYBODY is projecting. And EVERYBODY is reading. Learn How: http://mindpersuasion.com/public-speaking-confidence/
  16. Secrets Of Hidden Treasure: https://mindpersuasion.com/infinite-nests-of-treasure/ https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/Jun21Loop.mp4
  17. One question that is tough to answer is what you do for a living. You could be in the middle of a conversation with a cutie and everything could be going smoothly. But then the "what do you do?" questions pops up. There are a couple of things to understand about this. One is there are always two layers of communication. Conscious and subconscious. If the conscious layer sounds good, but the subconscious doesn't, it will come across as incongruent. This is why movie acting isn't as easy as it appears. On the surface it seems pretty easy. Just remember your lines, right? But if you've ever seen a crap movie with crap acting, then you know that the lines are only a tiny part. The best actors have the best underlying energy to go along with their lines. So even if you have a decent sounding job, if you deliver your job description with some less than confident energy, it will kill attraction. But the opposite won't work either. If you work at Jack in the Box, and really enjoy your job, that might not be a good answer either. More important than how you make money now is what your plans are for the future. Not your hopes or wishes, but PLANS. If she asks what you do, no matter WHAT your current job is, so long as you deliver a solid PLAN for the future, it will INCREASE attraction. How do you do this? The first step is to actually CREATE a plan. Write it out. Start where you are, and write out your PLANS for the future. The steps you'll need to get there. Keep journaling these steps over and over. Until they are hard wired into your brain. Until it makes you feel ALIVE when you think about it and say it. When you think about your plan for the future, it should seem MUCH more compelling than any ONE girl. This is what creates very deep and irresistible female attraction. Of hearing a guy who doesn't chase girls, but chases his LIFE. But if you ONLY chase your life, girls won't naturally follow. You've got to interact with them. Not to try and seduce them, just to have friendly conversations. Make a habit of this, and pretty soon plenty of girls will be thinking of you. And all you'll have to do is choose the best one. Learn How: http://mindpersuasion.com/girls-like-you/
  18. https://mindpersuasion.com/sex-beliefs-and-social-status/
  19. All secrets revealed... https://mindpersuasion.com/what-is-ego/
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