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  1. Embrace Your Sex Drive: https://mindpersuasion.com/embrace-your-sex-drive/ https://mindpersuasion.com/3x3/
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  9. https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/Jan16_Post.mp4 Stage hypnosis is pretty cool. Both to watch and to participate. Once I spoke like a Martian. My job, as a Martian emissary to Earth, was to tell the Earthlings that you'd better obey your Martian overlords. I don't remember much, but when I stood up and lectured the audience in Martian, my friend told me I looked like a professional speaker. When it was my friend's turn, he counted to ten, but somehow forgot the number 3. Stage hypnosis is much different than other hypnosis. Stage hypnosis is a combination of external triggers. Compared to highway hypnosis, or movie hypnosis, or conversational hypnosis. For stage hypnosis, there is a lot of external pressure. The crowd, the fact that you volunteered, and some guy who has some kind of authority. Highway hypnosis is actually a function of evolution. We store location information in a different section of our brain. Since we used to be nomads, this was very important back in the day. Movie hypnosis is very powerful self hypnosis. Covert hypnosis is a purposely vague kind of communication, that leverages the ideas that already exist in their mind. Most of our biases are very similar to stage hypnosis. Driven by things outside of ourselves, not really our own choice. Simply by understanding how hypnosis works can give you a huge advantage. Being able to de-hypnotize yourself from ideas that aren't helpful. But self hypnosis can be used to create "links" between things in the world, and how we respond. Most of these links happen naturally. You're sitting there at work, not thinking of food, but then you look at the clock and it's noon. Suddenly your hungry. Any time you practice anything, you are essentially "training" yourself. Connecting good feelings to "correct" behavior, and bad feelings to "incorrect" behavior. "Correct" behavior being simple things like making free throws or playing the right keys on the piano in the right sequence and tempo. Or sticking to your diet to see the payoff when you look at yourself in the mirror. Or suffering through some painful morning exercises until you can touch your toes without pain. Most people shuffle through life never realizing how much power they have in their brains. To pretty connect ANY feeling to ANY other feeling. This takes time, as all practice does, but it can be very, very powerful. Like connecting feelings of massive confidence to standing up in front of a crowd. Or feeling a natural sexual urge, and instead of being embarrassed and feeling anxious, you feel something else. What something else? An incredible sense of peace and appreciation for the seemingly magical energy of life flowing through everything. This will shift your outer personality from being nervous, shy, having social anxiety to being irresistibly sexually attractive. Learn to manage THIS energy and watch the magic happen. Learn How: https://mindpersuasion.com/sexual-charisma/
  10. https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/Jan14_Post.mp4 The biggest cause of pain in modern life is instinct mis-match. But it's also the source of some fantastic hacks. Food is the easiest to understand. Back in the day, it was hard and dangerous to get food. So, between the feeling of hunger, and the satisfying of hunger was a HUGE and dangerous task. Work, risk, hard effort. Today, there is NOTHING between hunger and the satisfaction of hunger. Which is why there is a very tight correlation between GDP per capita and obesity per capita. Another instinct that was FANTASTIC back in the day but TERRIBLE today is our "externalizing" instinct. Externalizing or projecting our problems on others is common. So common we don't even know we are doing it. It's like all our other biases. Easy to spot in others, hard to spot in our selves. Even harder is to see this as a necessary survival instinct. Just like hunger. Imagine your a caveman back in the day. You're out hunting, see a deer, and throw your spear. And you miss. WITHOUT the externalizing instinct, you shrug your shoulders and try again. But with the externalizing instinct? You get ANGRY that the deer. And this makes you MORE motivated to kill that mother-effer. The externalizing instinct HELPED us back then. It HURTS us today. Because nearly EVERYTHING we want comes from other people. So when we don't get it, we blame THEM. In fact, this has been the "con" of politicians since the dawn of time. Their messages LEVERAGES this UNHELPFUL externalizing instinct. "You're problems aren't your fault. They are somebody else's fault. Put me in charge and I'll fix them." Of course, since that's just a LIE to get more power, those dudes never fix squat. But this isn't to go off on a political tirade. We want to UNDERSTAND our instincts. So we can manage them. Central to this is our self awareness. A uniquely human instinct. Instincts work the SAME WAY in all animals. With or without self awareness. Self awareness, language, and memory are only a couple hundred thousand years old. But we've been primates, split from chimps for AT LEAST 8,000,000 years. This gives us a very unique opportunity. To combine an understanding of our instincts, with our self awareness. There already are plenty of examples of how to do this with FOOD. How to combine self awareness with a knowledge of how much food we NEED and maximizing our pleasure. In a different way, we can combine our self awareness with a much deeper, much more profound instinct. Our sexual instinct. This is much subtler than making some sugar free cookies. And much, much more powerful. Use your self awareness to unlock the energy that DRIVES your sex energy and find MAGIC. Learn How: https://mindpersuasion.com/sexual-charisma/
  11. https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/Nov26Post.mp4 We silly humans have a hard time with cause and effect. Particularly when things are linked. But plenty of things can be mathematically linked, but have zero causality. A famous example is ice cream and sharks. During the summer, people eat more ice cream. During the summer, there are more shark attacks. So, you could create a positive correlation between the two. But, it would be silly that eating ice cream causes shark attacks. Like every time you bite into any kind of ice cream, some poor dude is getting bit into by a shark. Or if you're out swimming, and a shark bites off your leg, you'll respond with a telepathically sent impulse to get people to eat ice cream. But other things aren't so obvious. In the previous example, it's easy to see the common thing. The same thing, the heat of the summer, causing both things. But often this third element is hidden. Or even more complicated, there are WAY more elements. Consider the common advice of "being yourself." We are "ourselves" with close friends. With new people, most people take a while to "be themselves." Both nice guys, and guys who study and practice "game" are PURPOSELY not being themselves. Nice guys assume that if they be "nice," they'll be "entitled" to some kind of reward. This is kind of subconscious, as they really BELIEVE that is their natural behavior. Guys who practice game are purposely and deliberately not being themselves. But what about naturals? Consider that naturals ARE naturals because they feel confident being themselves around EVERYBODY. They stroll up to pretty ladies and ARE their true selves right off the bat. But if you only see the surface, you'll create "game" based on their behaviors and communication. That is missing the point. Kind of like thinking that ice cream sales drive shark attacks. For naturals, it's not their actual actions, it's their CONGRUENCE that is so attractive. Juts like little kids. Everybody likes little kids because they aren't being "fake" nice or running some kind of game. When they are happy they let everybody know they are happy. Consider this cause-effect paradox. The ultimate goal for any guy or gal looking for action is to get the point where you can express your real self. They can express their real self. And you both like each other's real self. THEN you have sex. And AFTER sex, you both experience that post orgasmic "after glow." But what if you could create that "after glow" but BEFORE you even speak to them. How could this be possible? Consider that finding somebody who gets and appreciates us, AND wants to have sex with us creates some very POWERFUL emotions. And those emotions drive that mutual gaze of love. But what if you could CREATE those emotions ON YOUR OWN? And share them with ANYBODY you wanted? How would THAT affect your social life? Learn How: https://mindperusasion.com/seductive-eye-contact/
  12. https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/Nov12Post.mp4 Once upon a time there was an animal called the "short faced bear." It lived from a couple million years ago to about 10,000 years ago. Why did it suddenly vanish? These bears, when standing on their hind legs, were about three times as tall as a human. These tiny little talking moneys without claws or sharp teeth. These tiny little talking moneys ate all these large and ferocious bears. Who had lived for 2 MILLION YEARS. Then we showed up. And ATE them. They've studied these modern humans who live the hunter gatherer lifestyle. They watched them hunt. At first, they were a bit confused. Perplexed. These modern hunter-gatherers had two choices. Go after tiny animals. Go after big animals. Logic says the tiny animals were a no-brainer. More kilograms of meat per day. Much, much safer, tiny risk per kilogram. But they RARELY went after these easy-to-kill walking BBQ dinners. Why? Nobody knew. Until they saw them kill a large animal. The dude who slay the beast was treated like a ROCK STAR. Mad respect and sex. Even secret sex on the side. This makes sense, when you think about it. You kill a huge animal, there's no way you can eat all of it. So you HAVE to share. But because going after those big creatures is dangerous, they only do so if they know they are going to get something IN EXCHANGE for what they share. The rock start treatment. And all the ladies looking at the killer. With eyes that say: "May I please have sex with you?" This is what DROVE all the big animals to EXTINCTION. Dudes who wanted to be rock stars. Dudes who wanted to get LAID with his CHOICE of women. This is EXACTLY what General Napoleon meant when he said: "Men will die for ribbons." Men who KNOW they will get treated like a hero (mad social validation and sex potential) they will RISK DEATH on the battlefield. This is ALL PEOPLE. Men, women, young, old. We have a deep, deep instinct that says: Do great things ---> Get great rewards. Rewards, of course, being MASSIVE fame, fortune and sex. However, there is a very important missing ingredient today. Nearly all human motivation and inspiration, in it's natural state, is TWO SIDED. Thing of the ancient caveman. Big kills = Big rewards. Small kills = NO SEX. Small kills = NO SOCIAL VALIDATION Small kills = NO OFFSPRING Our natural habitat, where we evolved as hunter-gatherers, provided EVERYTHING. The negative consequences of failure. The positive consequences of success. Today, the negative consequences of failure have all been removed. Today the food, sex, and fame (via social media) is within reach for most people. But it doesn't require ANY of the heroic action that it did in the past. Only a little bit of luck and a pretty face. But that INSTINCT still lives inside you. And if you wake it up, you'll GET the great things. Massive fame. Massive wealth. Massive social validation and massive choice of sex. Dudes just like you made the short face bear go EXTINCT. With rocks, sharp sticks, and fire. What will YOU do? Learn More: https://mindpersuasion.com/ambition-generator/
  13. https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/Nov11Post.mp4 It's commonly hoped that changing your thinking can change your outcome. This is possible, but only in certain situations. One is when you get a new idea in your brain, and that new idea is connected to existing skills. For example, if you are a skilled piano player, and you get a new piece of music, you could play it pretty easily. The new music is the new idea. The skills are your piano playing skills. But if you don't have a lot of practice playing the piano, that new idea won't do much. Even if somebody tells you the necessary information. How the notes on the paper match to the keys on the piano. This is something you could pretty easily learn from an academic standpoint. To quickly map each note on the paper to a key on the piano. But added in to this is the beats and rhythm. Even then you might be able to hum the right notes and tap out the right rhythm. All without going anywhere near a piano. It's fairly straightforward to match the notes on the page with the specific sound they are supposed to make. But connecting all three together takes a lot of practice. Consider that most everything we want in life requires a lot of skills. Learning things is boring. Or it usually is boring. Think about this metaphor. If you worked for $10 an hour, and if you got fired you'd become homeless, that would suck. Especially if what you did was hard, brainless, manual labor. Picking up bricks from one pile and putting them in another. You would HATE that job. But now consider the SAME physical behaviors, of lifting up bricks and putting them somewhere else. But these bricks are made of GOLD. And you putting them in the back of your truck. You've got eight hours to do it, just like regular job. But in the gold job, you get to KEEP everything. Same exact movements, but a much BETTER payoff. This is the ONE thing that will make ALL practice enjoyable. Of having a tangible and positive outcome on the other side. What's the BEST tangible outcome? The one that's been the driving force of human behavior since the dawn of time. Fame, money and plenty of sex. This is why practicing algebra SUCKS. But practicing something like the guitar, that could LEGITIMATELY get you more money, fame and sex, is easier. This does take time, but without this BELIEF that there is a pot of gold, and fame, and sex, at the end of the road, it's hard to get there. With this drive, everything is much, much easier. Without this drive, you'll end up like everybody else. Sitting around WAITING for something to "happen." But build this drive strong enough, and you will MAKE things happen. Whatever things you want. Learn How: https://mindpersuasion.com/ambition-generator/
  14. https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/Nov10Post.mp4 I remember a long, long time ago, when my high school buddy and I were shifting from high school kids to college kids. I'd sent in my application early and had gotten accepted. It wasn't a big deal, since I went to one of those schools that accepts anybody with a pulse. The only benefit to sending in all the apps ahead of time was so you didn't have to worry about signing up for classes at the beginning of the semester. Kind of like having a reservation instead of showing up and having to wait. Anyhow, my buddy had the "show up and wait" strategy. I remember I was hanging out a his place after one failed attempt to drive down (about two hours) and wait in all the lines and fill out all the forms. He bailed about halfway through the line waiting. And I got to witness the conversation between him and his dad. About his failed attempt. I don't remember exactly was said, or even how it was said, but I do remember the vague metaphor his dad used. That if he was driving down their for a sure thing (sex) he wouldn't have bailed. And although he was a close friend, I couldn't help but agree with his dad. If a dude is going to get a lady and he's sure the lady is going to give it up, he'll do ANYTHING to get there. Waiting in line to sign up for remedial algebra, not so much. Humans rarely do things because we are supposed to. To the extent we do, we only do so to avoid negative consequences. But a much better motivator is to the sure thing strategy. If you KNOW you are going to get something good, either money or sex or fame, humans will move heaven and earth to get there. This is HOW modern civilization was built. Now, everything comes easy. More or less. Sure, the IDEAL doesn't come easy. Fame, fortune, fantastic sex from fantastic people. But enough food, enough money to not be homeless, and even sex (with beer goggles and lowered standards) are not very far out of reach. This KILLS our motivation for better things. But that deep motivation can be cultivated. That never ending ambition that drove our ancestors to cross oceans and destroy evil empires. Kids in high school in the early 40's went to fight Nazis. Not because they wanted to. Because they HAD to. So, how to you create that burning desire when we live in a much "safer" world that only a couple generations ago? How can you build such powerful ambition you are DRIVEN to get the BEST possible stuff, (sex, money, fame) and NOT settle for average? Here's How: https://mindpersuasion.com/ambition-generator/
  15. https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/Nov04Post.mp4 Getting people to like you is pretty easy. At least from a purely structural standpoint. Getting people to like you is kind of like cooking something for somebody they'll like. When we eat "good" stuff, it tastes "good." This sounds like one of those circular arguments. When we eat food we like, it gives us a pleasurable feeling. We all have slightly different tastes. But they break down to the same basic ingredients and flavors. Similarly, we all like the same kind of people, but with slightly different tastes. We all like people who generally have a positive outlook. We like people who share. Share their opinions, share their experiences, share their couch occasionally. We also like people who like us when we share those same things with them. Just like food, we like people who we "feel good" when we are around. Some people try new food, take a bite, chew it and say, "uh, yeah, I'm gonna go get a burrito." Some people we hang out with and we think the same thing. Of course, when we decide we don't like somebody, we are much more polite. There is ONE more key element that MUST be present in people we like, and who like us. That the feeling is mutual. In fact, all else equal, knowing that somebody "likes you" is enough to get you to like them. Just that thought conjures up happy memories from school. ESPECIALLY if this happens slowly. You notice them. They notice you noticing them. So long as there is a very basic mutual POTENTIAL, that mutual like will grow in each others mind. This is when we "notice" something about them we didn't notice before. Consider that this slow, "mutual attraction generation process" is one of the MAIN reasons we have so many biases. Food and Sex are THE two most important things for survival. And since baby humans take a LOT of work, and time, that mutual "glue" has to be VERY STRONG to keep mom and dad together long enough. The slower it happens, the stronger that glue holds. One way to describe this is the "love" is really a form of "self hypnosis." When you start to think about them more and more. When they start to think about you more and more. This HAS to be the strongest feeling there is. Why? Hunger is two sided. The longer you go, the more your survival instincts will kick in. But love, and sex, are ONE sided. It can ONLY pull you from the positive side. So it MUST be the strongest feeling we can ever feel. And just like modern chemistry can "hack" our taste buds, we can also "hack" our self-hypnotic love instinct. For love, for friendship, for romance, for pretty much anything. Learn How: https://mindpersuasion.com/hypnotic-communication/
  16. https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/Sept18Post.mp4 The world is a messed up place. The world has always been a messed up place. The world will always be a messed up place. Everybody has to compete for scarce resources. If you can organize a society with enough forethought and patience, you can make it pretty fair. But even then, people will figure out how to scam the system. Historians and anthropologists recognize this. During the caveman days it was really hard to be a slacker. Everybody knew everybody. And the more you produced, the more love you got. If you were always out killing big animals, you got mad respect and a lot of sexual opportunities. So, technically, you could kind of skate by. You'd get food, but you wouldn't get much social love or sex. But once they invented agriculture, that changed everything. Historians and anthropologists called this the "freeloader problem." And the free loaders weren't like we imagine them today. The guy who says he wants to borrow your couch but never leaves. That's a modern free loader. But ancient freeloaders were more like scam artists. They would figure out ways to get plenty of stuff without really producing anything. And these folks existed in many, many levels. Mostly the political class. If you study the middle ages in detail, you'll find this was a constant battle. Producers vs. the scammers. Makers vs. the takers. Today, it's no different. How you respond to this will make all the difference. It's easy to complain. So easy that everybody can do it. But what does complaining get you? Miserly does love company. No matter what your complaint about society is, you'll find plenty of folks with the SAME type of complaints. This is very dangerous. You get social proof, authority if the group is big enough, and a very comfortable "us vs. them" feeling. This FEELS very good. To be surrounded by people with the same complaints. But what it WON'T get you is any REAL social love. You won't get any REAL sex. What is REAL sex? The kind of sex where the person having with you wants YOU more than the sex. It's easy to find a warm body that is also looking for another body. This is one reason why relationships are so chaotic today. People have sex FIRST and then get to know each other LATER. This is FUN, but it doesn't do a lot for long term happiness. Instead, consider going old school. Of creating ATTRACTION first. Not just in one or two other folks, but in a LOT. Then take your time getting to know all those people who are attracted to you, and choose the best one. This is much, much easier than most people will ever realize. Because you only need to build one important trait. One that few people have. One that people will be able to SENSE from you before you speak. It's based on how you think of yourself and the world around you. And outcome of some simple meditation-like exercises. And like any other exercise, the more you do the stronger this trait will become. Learn More: https://mindpersuasion.com/attractive-mindset/
  17. https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/July28Post.mp4 What does humor and hypnosis have in common? A very similar linguistic structure. Most people never think much about language. We learn it, we use it and that's that. But studying the structure of language can give you a huge advantage. One, because the structure of language IS the structure of thought. When you speak not only articulately but entertainingly, people will make a LOT of assumptions about you. Most of them subconscious. They'll assume, subconsciously, that your brain is as interesting as your language. And having an interesting brain will open a lot of doors. Doors into other people's minds, their thoughts, their dreams, and their futures. All brains have an attention span. Kind of like Lucy and Ethel while they were working for the chocolate factory. If you have no idea what that means, I Love Lucy was a TV show way back in the fifties. And one of the episodes is one of the BEST episodes of TV History, according to TV guide. Once upon a time there was no streaming movies, no Internet, only TV. And TV Guide was THE authority on all things TV. Anyhow, Lucy and Ethel found themselves working on a chocolate candy production line. The chocolate would go by slowly, and they'd have to take them off, quickly wrap them, and then put them back. If they went unwrapped, they'd both get in big trouble. Of course the chocolates started off slowly. Then it kept getting faster and faster. Pretty soon they were shoving the chocolates in their mouths to keep from getting into trouble. This is like most people's brains. People talk, and we see a kind of stream of ideas flowing by. Most people talk about pretty simple, mostly second hand ideas. So not only are they familiar, but they move by pretty slowly. But when you understand the similar structure between hypnosis and humor, you can have a lot of FUN with people. One trick is ambiguity. This is when one thing, a word or a phrase, can mean two different things. For words, this is the source off all playground riddles. Why did the boy study on the airplane? He was in high school. What starts with "e," ends with "e" but only has one letter? An envelope. What did the beach say when the tide came in? Long time no sea. But you can stretch out other ambiguities when speaking longer stories. Like when you use a bunch of pronouns, and it's not clear who they are referring to. Like the other day, I was in the library talking to the librarian and her cute friend. She was telling her how her sister went to see this psychic who had a lot of sexual energy. She was reading her aura and she said that you have a lot of potential sex in your future, but only if you pay attention to this. Then she looked at me and told me about how she started to find evidence of this kind of sexual energy everywhere. Then they both looked at me and smiled. And asked me if I wanted to know more. Of course I said yes. Learn More: https://mindpersuasion.com/humor-brilliance/
  18. https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/July24Post.mp4 Some the easiest to understand concepts are often the best. Or they CAN be the best, if we look deeper inside them. But since they are so easy, we "think" we've got them figured out. Rapport is a fantastic example. It's easy to understand, and easy to do. So easy we forget. Once we start talking to somebody, it's very easy to "forget" all the technical details. ESPECIALLY if we are flowing and having a good time. This is very much like eating. Another INSTINCTIVE pleasure. We start eating something that tastes good, and our brains turn off. But if you can manage to remember to at least check for rapport, just knowing where you are can help. Another VERY POWERFUL and very underutilized "trick" is the quotes pattern. This, like rapport, is very easy to understand. And because it's very easy to understand, it's equally easy to discount as a one-trick gimmick. But this simple technique CAN be used with AMAZING success. Because within the quotes pattern, you can deliver almost anything to anybody, and never get into any trouble. It works PARTICULARLY well if the person you quote is any kind of recognized authority. Example: Say you're at a party, and you're in a group with two other guys (assuming you're a guy, switch the genders however appropriate) and three girls. Each of the girls is attractive, but you barely know them. So, one of the guys is talking about hard it is to date for NON Chads. Since you are also a non-Chad, you want to give him the following, common sense advice: That's really a myth. Women care more about personality than looks. But saying this DIRECTLY, might be a bit uncomfortable. Because you're basically telling a group of people, including three cute ladies, what ladies "really" want. This, of course, might backfire. Enter the quotes pattern. Take that same advice, and put it deeply inside a quotes pattern. Deeply? You could say, "My friend said that..." But nobody knows your friend. You want to set it up so it's coming from an AUTHORITY figure. And since you're about to say what "women really want," why not make that authority figure a woman? And since you're going to use the quotes pattern, why not add some humor? And sexual innuendo? And while you say the sex part, you can look DIRECTLY at the three ladies. So, you say something like this: "I don't know. I was at my buddies house and he was watching some talk show. They had on this Harvard Psychologist, wrote a bunch of books. She was saying, that based on her research, that what women REALLY want is a guy who is confident. Not just conversationally, but confident in the sack. Confident in his ability to GIVE WOMEN PLENTY OF ORGASMS. Like OVER AND OVER AND OVER. I don't know, what do you think about this, ladies?" Of course, when you say the part in all caps, look directly at the ladies. This is just ONE way you can use the powerful quotes pattern. Learn More: https://mindpersuasion.com/humor-brilliance/
  19. https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/Jun25Post.mp4 If you've ever made the switch from regular soda to diet soda, it might be a little harsh at first. But it's easy to get used to. And if you drink regular soda by accident, it will taste like pure sugar water. This happens to your taste buds, if you gradually shift to a healthier diet. If you get into the habit of eating healthy, processed food taste really bad. If you re-calibrate your taste buds to the natural sweetness of fruit, eating some ice cream would be too much. If you work out regularly, but can't for some reason, it feels like something's missing. Some negative loops are HARD to escape from. If you start eating processed food, and spend a lot of time being as lazy as possible this is a HARD cycle to escape from. But some loops are so bad, you do anything to escape from them. For example, imagine if all you ate for a few meals in a row was PURE junk food. Like nothing but extra sugar soft drinks and donuts. After a couple of days, your body would be STARVING for something more substantial. If you were really depressed and stayed in bed, eating junk food and watching Netflix, you'd eventually feel COMPELLED to get up and at least stretch. The modern world is messed up in a lot of ways. Every where you look, you can find examples of a "race to the bottom." This, of course, is just a metaphor. Nobody is really trying to get to the "bottom." But companies always try and out do each other. There is always competition. But in most areas now, companies and people are competing for how EASY they can make things. How INSTANT they can make things. Not LITTLE we need to think to consume things. This makes us have shorter and shorter attention spans. Which makes them compete even more for quicker, easier, and lazier thinking based things. But deep inside, we STILL have our ancient instincts. Instincts for food, instincts for real social validation, and instincts for sex. Most relationships today are in the "junk food" category. Fake looks, fake personalities, fake everything. But everybody out there still craves that which fed our ancient instincts for hundreds of thousands of years. When it comes to relationships most people's brains have been destroyed by online dating. We've been trained to decide within LESS than a second wether we want to hook up with somebody. There is NO WAY we would have survived if this was natural. It is not. What is natural? It's the one thing that EVERYBODY is craving. Even if they don't know it. Learn More: https://mindpersuasion.com/seductive-frame/
  20. https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/Jun16Post.mp4 One simple way to understand the idea of "instinct mismatch" is internal vs. external motivating factors. Instinct mismatch is theory from evolutionary psychology that the world we live in today is much different than the one we evolved in. Our instincts don't really know how to handle the modern world. The three biggest instincts, most important for our survival is food, sex, and social signals. Food since we need energy to live. Sex since we need to not go extinct. Social signals because we lived in tight groups, and we had to be very aware of social signals. Misbehaving, or doing things dangerous to the tribe, got us negative signals. These negative signals made us feel bad, so we'd stop doing those things. Doing things that helped the tribe got us positive social signals, which felt good, which compelled us to continue to do those things. All of these were instincts. Instincts make us feel good when we obey them, and bad when we don't. These worked perfectly back in the day when we were constrained by our environment. These constraints came from OUTSIDE of us. We couldn't get fat because food was scarce and hard to get. We could have relationship problems since there weren't a lot of options. The good things and bad things that got us good and bad social signals were very simple, and tied to simple things. Like getting good, attracting dangerous animals, finding good places to camp. So back then, we didn't really need to think. We just did whatever felt good, and our environment, which was very constraining, did all the rest. Today, there are very little constraints to ANY of our instincts. The three main instincts, food, sex, and social validation, can be found everywhere and easily for many people. Which means if live exactly like we were programmed, your life will be a wreck. Eating anything you can, so long as it tastes good, and as much as you can. Having sex with anybody with a pulse. Chasing ANY kind of social validation you can get. These THREE THINGS are the main culprit behind most modern misery. Since the external constraints are gone, what do we do? Give up and live our lives as 300 pound sexual addicts chasing the latest hit from social media? Nope, there is another way. A much more enlightened way. And that is to create MOMENTUM. To slowly, VERY SLOWLY, build healthy habits. Healthy food habits. Healthy sex habits. Healthy validation habits. If you go slow enough, your past, the things you've done every day CAN replace those ancient, external constraints. But the secret is to go as absolutely SLOWLY as you can. Ditch all that motivational nonsense. Go slow, just like that ancient turtle, and WIN. Learn How: https://mindpersuasion.com/willpower/
  21. https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/Jun14Post.mp4 Buddha once said that all pain comes from having wrong assumptions. As soon as you quote somebody like Buddha, people's brains shift into metaphysical, esoteric thinking. As if you are speaking about philosophy that doesn't really apply to regular, day to day live. For example, a common metaphysical saying is, "you can't step in the same river twice." This is true. It sounds cool. You can even stop and think about all the implications. Every time you breathe, you swap out some molecules for other ones. This mean the "you" to inhaled is a different "you" who exhaled? Does this mean the "you" that is your self awareness is a different "you" than your physical body? What does this mean for your soul? These are cool ideas. But if you need some quick cash, or some guy's chasing you to give you a beat down, they don't help. This is why extended discussions about these topics are sometimes referred to as "mental masturbation." Yes, they are cool. Yes, they feel good. But they don't really help solving any real world problems. But that one by the Buddha CAN solve real world problems. Once again, that statement is about all pain coming from a misunderstanding of reality. An example. You have a lady friend, or a guy friend if you're lady. You had a long discussion about some difficult problems. THEY think you are being a good friend. YOU think it's ON! Like Donkey Kong! They give you a thank you hug. You think this is PROOF that it's on. You put your hands down their pants and pull out your junk. They pull back horrified, and punch you in the FACE. They PAIN of getting punched in the face? THAT is the EXACT kind of pain Buddha was talking about. If you make incorrect assumptions about something, that WILL cause real physical or emotional pain. This is a matter of calibration. Of understand YOUR mind. And understanding the mind of others. Most of us humans have been brainwashed. We've been brainwashed and trained that everything should be EASY. That if can imagine it, we can create it! That's a fantastic law of attraction type statement. Even Napoleon Hill wrote that "thoughts are things." This is a profound sounding statement. It's literally true, linguistically true and metaphorically true. Literally and linguistically true because a thought is a NOUN. A noun, of course, is a person, place or THING. But it's also metaphorically true because every thing that exists was once a THOUGHT in somebody's brain. But here's where the brainwashing comes in. We assume that the transition from thought TO thing is quick and easy. As if all you need to do is imagine something hard enough and it will happen. This is nonsense. EVERYTHING takes work. Even making a peanut butter sandwich. If you think things will happen magically, as Buddha warned, you will get smacked in the face. But if you understand the process, and the time required, of turning thoughts into things, you'll start getting some cool things. Get Going: https://mindpersuasion.com/willpower/
  22. https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/May30Post.mp4 There's an idea in psychology that us humans come with a "blank slate." That our minds are perfectly void of anything. This is a fantastic idea if you want to be a brainwashing politician. Those dudes LOVE the idea of implanting beliefs in people's brains to build a better society. That way, no matter how miserably any society fails, the political goofs in charge can say to themselves: "Hmm, maybe we need a better set of ideas. Once we put THOSE ideas in everybody's brain, they'll all BEHAVE like they SHOULD!" Luckily, this is far from the truth. Imagine taking somebody who is naturally gifted in music or art and trying to make them a programmer. Or imagine taking somebody who loves building things, or taking things apart and putting them back together, and forcing them to become a piano player. But even deeper, we all have SOME basic circuitry in our brains. They do these goofy experiments with little kids. Six month old babies. And we have some basic wiring, even then. Many of it based on cause-effect type thinking. They'll show them a banana and a knife. Then they'll put the banana and the knife behind a screen, and out pops a knife and two banana halves. The babies facial expression says, "Cool. No problem." But then they put an orange the screen, and on the other side out pops two banana halves. The babies facial expression says, "Dude, WTF?!" They can even show how babies can count before they can tell the difference between people and wooden blocks. This is pretty cool, from a Mother Nature standpoint. It gives us humans a head start, AND a pretty big brain once we grow up. A brain capable of MASSIVE stuff. Just think of the stuff we'll invent in the next couple hundred years. Of course, not everything is all peaches and cream in the brain-land. That cause-effect thing in our brain is ALWAYS on. This is why it's so easy for silly reporters to link a couple of goofy ideas. Eating Peanut Butter Linked To Premature Ejaculation! But it's also the source of ALL social anxiety. See, when you were a kid, you were pretty cute. At first. But then when you screamed your brains out every few minutes, and were running having fun exploring your world, the adults were driven insane. So they had to keep you under control. Did they have time to lovingly explain why it's not such a good idea to run around screaming your brains out, and tipping over everything in sight, in the SUPERMARKET? No, they did not. They just screamed right back at you. Unfortunately, this created a very UNHELPFUL cause-effect link. "Self expression = DANGER" The good news is once you UNHOOK that false belief, you can run around and play again. With attractive and sexy adults. And make THEM scream with pleasure. Learn How: https://mindpersuasion.com/social-charisma/
  23. https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/May17Post.mp4 Mother Nature is a genius. The way she calibrated our instincts to survive back in the day was fantastic. Particularly when you consider our brains, our main feature. Brains are extremely expensive. Thinking about difficult subjects is literally hard work. Our brains burn more calories per gram than any other body part. So sitting and studying algebra literally is hard work. And way back in the day, when our brains were tripling in size over a couple million years, a decision had to be made. Our brains weren't even close to being finished. But there was a very physical limit. The width of female hips. If the hips kept growing bigger, as our brains kept growing bigger (over the thousands of generations) we would have lost the ability to walk. Turns out walking, or being "bi-pedal" is a close second to our big brains. We need both. This presented a problem. This meant that as our brains kept growing bigger and bigger, we were born less and less finished. Which meant it would take longer and longer for us to "grow up." We spend AT LEAST 4 years being utterly helpless. And potentially dangerous once get up and run around. And back then, no one person could afford to stick around unless somebody else would get TWICE as much food. Half for them, and half for mom and the kid. This is where Mother Nature's utter genius kicks in. From a purely tribal standpoint, this is sheer brilliance. Men compete with one another to get food. Whoever is the most productive, meaning whoever consistently kills the biggest animals, gets the most social status and recognition. This social status and recognition sparks the most desire in all the females. So the better a hunter any one dude is, the more CHOICE he's got with the young cave girls. But this is only the beginning. See, Mother Nature KNEW if that any of these dudes had a "hit it and quit it" instinct, the tribe would fall apart. So she created a much more POWERFUL instinct. Much more powerful than sex. The one that GLUED two people together long enough to give the baby a fighting chance. This is where we get this instinct. We see a pretty lady. We want to accomplish something MAGNIFICENT to hopefully get her attention. And once we are with her, this is when LOVE, the best instinct, kicks in. At least, this is how it used to work in the old days. Today our society is essentially a train wreck. A train that crashed because it was driven by drunken clowns. But these deep instincts are still there. In everybody. In you. And when you learn HOW to manage them, you CAN feel that true feeling of love. Just the way nature intended. Learn How: https://mindpersuasion.com/love-magnet/
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