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  1. https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/May30Post.mp4 There's an idea in psychology that us humans come with a "blank slate." That our minds are perfectly void of anything. This is a fantastic idea if you want to be a brainwashing politician. Those dudes LOVE the idea of implanting beliefs in people's brains to build a better society. That way, no matter how miserably any society fails, the political goofs in charge can say to themselves: "Hmm, maybe we need a better set of ideas. Once we put THOSE ideas in everybody's brain, they'll all BEHAVE like they SHOULD!" Luckily, this is far from the truth. Imagine taking somebody who is naturally gifted in music or art and trying to make them a programmer. Or imagine taking somebody who loves building things, or taking things apart and putting them back together, and forcing them to become a piano player. But even deeper, we all have SOME basic circuitry in our brains. They do these goofy experiments with little kids. Six month old babies. And we have some basic wiring, even then. Many of it based on cause-effect type thinking. They'll show them a banana and a knife. Then they'll put the banana and the knife behind a screen, and out pops a knife and two banana halves. The babies facial expression says, "Cool. No problem." But then they put an orange the screen, and on the other side out pops two banana halves. The babies facial expression says, "Dude, WTF?!" They can even show how babies can count before they can tell the difference between people and wooden blocks. This is pretty cool, from a Mother Nature standpoint. It gives us humans a head start, AND a pretty big brain once we grow up. A brain capable of MASSIVE stuff. Just think of the stuff we'll invent in the next couple hundred years. Of course, not everything is all peaches and cream in the brain-land. That cause-effect thing in our brain is ALWAYS on. This is why it's so easy for silly reporters to link a couple of goofy ideas. Eating Peanut Butter Linked To Premature Ejaculation! But it's also the source of ALL social anxiety. See, when you were a kid, you were pretty cute. At first. But then when you screamed your brains out every few minutes, and were running having fun exploring your world, the adults were driven insane. So they had to keep you under control. Did they have time to lovingly explain why it's not such a good idea to run around screaming your brains out, and tipping over everything in sight, in the SUPERMARKET? No, they did not. They just screamed right back at you. Unfortunately, this created a very UNHELPFUL cause-effect link. "Self expression = DANGER" The good news is once you UNHOOK that false belief, you can run around and play again. With attractive and sexy adults. And make THEM scream with pleasure. Learn How: https://mindpersuasion.com/social-charisma/
  2. https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/May17Post.mp4 Mother Nature is a genius. The way she calibrated our instincts to survive back in the day was fantastic. Particularly when you consider our brains, our main feature. Brains are extremely expensive. Thinking about difficult subjects is literally hard work. Our brains burn more calories per gram than any other body part. So sitting and studying algebra literally is hard work. And way back in the day, when our brains were tripling in size over a couple million years, a decision had to be made. Our brains weren't even close to being finished. But there was a very physical limit. The width of female hips. If the hips kept growing bigger, as our brains kept growing bigger (over the thousands of generations) we would have lost the ability to walk. Turns out walking, or being "bi-pedal" is a close second to our big brains. We need both. This presented a problem. This meant that as our brains kept growing bigger and bigger, we were born less and less finished. Which meant it would take longer and longer for us to "grow up." We spend AT LEAST 4 years being utterly helpless. And potentially dangerous once get up and run around. And back then, no one person could afford to stick around unless somebody else would get TWICE as much food. Half for them, and half for mom and the kid. This is where Mother Nature's utter genius kicks in. From a purely tribal standpoint, this is sheer brilliance. Men compete with one another to get food. Whoever is the most productive, meaning whoever consistently kills the biggest animals, gets the most social status and recognition. This social status and recognition sparks the most desire in all the females. So the better a hunter any one dude is, the more CHOICE he's got with the young cave girls. But this is only the beginning. See, Mother Nature KNEW if that any of these dudes had a "hit it and quit it" instinct, the tribe would fall apart. So she created a much more POWERFUL instinct. Much more powerful than sex. The one that GLUED two people together long enough to give the baby a fighting chance. This is where we get this instinct. We see a pretty lady. We want to accomplish something MAGNIFICENT to hopefully get her attention. And once we are with her, this is when LOVE, the best instinct, kicks in. At least, this is how it used to work in the old days. Today our society is essentially a train wreck. A train that crashed because it was driven by drunken clowns. But these deep instincts are still there. In everybody. In you. And when you learn HOW to manage them, you CAN feel that true feeling of love. Just the way nature intended. Learn How: https://mindpersuasion.com/love-magnet/
  3. Hot Dog Empire: https://mindpersuasion.com/hot-dog-empire/ https://soundcloud.com/mindpersuasion/hot-dog-empire https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/May03Loop.mp4
  4. https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/HS_Sales.mp4 https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/HS_Subs.mp4 https://mindpersuasion.teachable.com/p/hypnotic-seduction/
  5. https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/Apr06Post.mp4 Humans love to dream. Everything that exists today was once an imagination in somebody's head. Napoleon Hill talked about turning "thoughts into things." This idea is absolutely true, but unfortunately a little bit misunderstood. Yes, every single thing was once an imagination before it was real thing. Tables, chairs, basketballs, planes, telephones, racquetball courts, etc. Bees, ants, beavers keep building the same thing over and over. Humans are similarly programmed. Only we don't build the same things over and over. We slowly and continuously IMPROVE what's all around us. Here's where it gets a bit complex. Yes, "we" turn thoughts into things. Yes, everything was once a thought in "somebody's head. But this has always been a competition. EVERYBODY can dream about stuff that doesn't yet exist. But very few people can actually TURN those dreams into reality. This is basic economics. Everybody has a plan for a building downtown. They all pitch their idea to the city developers. Only ONE idea will be chosen. Since the DAWN OF TIME, every dude laid awake at night dreaming about how to BETTER acquire needed resources. The winner of the daily productivity contest got the most social validation, and the most sex. This is STILL true today. Musicians, artists, business people all DREAM of how to become the BEST at what they do. The rewards are still the same. More social validation, more money and of course, more SEX. This is the deep DREAM of every breathing human. If you can create something MAGNIFICENT, you will become famous. You will get paid. You will GET LAID. However, this is a crowded market place. There are the very few people who are actually on the front lines of creation. For example, for every A+ list actor, there are THOUSANDS willing to do ANYTHING just to get a few seconds on screen. People are SO desperate for Hollywood fame, they'd rather be in PORNO's than go home a failure. Here's a seemingly unrelated tidbit. During the gold rush, (1849) the people that got the RICHEST were not the diggers of gold. They were the sellers of gold digging equipment. Shovels, pickaxes, etc. Even Levi-Straus, the famous blue jean company, got their start selling special gold digging denim. What's this got to do with anything? Step one is to realize that EVERYBODY has a deep and relentless dreaming brain. Everybody has the never ending fantasy of doing SOMETHING, and then becoming rich and famous. You can COMPETE with them. Or you can leverage this information to CAPTURE their imaginations. To capture and lead their emotions. How? Tell them simple stories that RESONATE with the never ending human dreaming mind. Do this, and they'll associate their DEEP DREAMS with YOU. Learn How: https://mindpersuasion.com/storytelling-magic/
  6. Negative Junk Response: https://mindpersuasion.com/negative-junk-response/ https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/Apr06Loop.mp4
  7. Unintended Mind Control: https://mindpersuasion.com/unintended-mind-control/ https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/Feb09Loop.mp4
  8. https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/Dec27Post.mp4 A very common "truism" is that lying is wrong, but not for the reasons people assume. It's "wrong" because the more you lie, the more stuff you've got to remember. Lying is bad, from a purely strategic standpoint. This is why if you think somebody is lying to you, ask them to first tell you their story. Then ask them to tell it to you backwards. If they are telling the truth, then describing the events in reverse will be just as easy as forward. This is precisely what people mean when they say the know something forward and backward. Another lie detector test is to remember all the details, and then a couple of days later, bring up the topic again. But purposely get one of the details wrong. If they go along with your incorrect detail, you know they are lying. If they correct you, chances are they are telling the truth. Another way to detect lies is to first calibrate lies and truths. This is hard to do without the other person knowing. It's usually used as an exercise in body language and facial expression reading. You get them to tell you three things both of you know are lies. Then you get them to tell you three things both of you know are true. This will let you calibrate their "truth telling energy," and their "lying energy." Then they tell you something, and only they know if it's true or not. This is spooky accurate. But many people lie without really knowing they are lying. Which means they'll eventually "get caught." When that happens, the jig, as they say, is up. How does this happen? Whenever a guy starts talking to a cute girl. He's acting on his best behavior. He's using all kinds of CONSCIOUS techniques. Practiced techniques. He's essentially presenting a FALSE version of himself. If the girl likes him, she's really liking a best-case scenario of who is he is. Eventually, the REAL HIM will come out. Sometimes this takes a while. Sometimes it happens soon after they have sex. Why sex? When a guy has sex with a girl, so long as he's not a sociopath, it changes how he feels about her on an emotional level. He values her MUCH MORE. His ancient caveman instincts truly believes SHE is his best chance for replication. He doesn't think this consciously, but it's like a switch goes off in his ancient brain. He behaves much differently around her. Much more needy, much less "attractive." This is why this is such a common scenario. Guy meets girl. Guy sleeps with girl. Guy's behavior changes abruptly. Guy is no longer attractive to girl. Girl ghosts guy. Guy wonders why, and assumes all women are evil, or manipulative, etc. If you behave NORMALLY all the time, this won't happen. If you are operating from a TRUE abundance mindset, this won't happen. How, exactly, do you that? This will show you: https://mindpersuasion.com/get-girls/
  9. https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/Oct03Post.mp4 A deep desire for most people is to get more social status. This is based on a very ancient instinct. It works very much like food and sex. For example, you could be walking down the street, minding your own business. You might not think you're hungry. Until you pass a bakery. Or an IN-N-Out. Or perhaps you meet some friends for drinks. You don't feel hungry. Until your friends order some appetizers. Take one bite and it's all over. We even say things like, "Wow, I didn't know how hungry I was!" Sex is the same. Suppose your walking down another street, minding your own business. You see an attractive person, and smile at them. Suppose they smile back. REALLY smile back. Even look you up and down, letting their eyes feast on you. But they keep walking. Whatever you WERE thinking about is long gone. Now that person is all you'll be able to think about. For a few days. Social status is very much like that. We don't think we WANT any until we GET some. And then it's ALL we can think of. But because suddenly being blindsided by food and sex ideas and images is common, but REAL social status is not, most won't ever experience this. This is a common "drug" like feeling in those who fear public speaking, but get over it. At least enough to get up a few times and give a speech. Standing up in front of people feels VERY MUCH like having real social status. Even if it's a bunch of goofs like us just there to practice giving speeches. It's not uncommon for people who are initially terrified of public speaking lose time. They stand up, and once the fear wanes and the positive feelings kick in, then it's like hunger. Where you can't ever eat one chip. They love the feeling so much they talk and talk and talk. But REAL social status is EXTREMELY powerful. Because from a purely instinctive standpoint, after a certain point, money and sex are natural results. Below a certain level money and sex MUST be chased separately. And once you get above a certain level of social status, the name of the game is twofold. One, to KEEP IT at all costs. Two, get MORE of it at all costs. And one very powerful way that pretty much EVERYBODY has used to keep their status and power is LIE about how to get it. Nobody wants competition. So those at the top are very skilled in feeding those below them a bunch of crap. So those below them will STAY below them. Screw that! Understand the rules, and get whatever you want. Learn How: http://mindpersuasion.com/seven-rules/
  10. https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/Sept29Post.mp4 A lot of things we humans do is to avoid facing tough issues. Eating, sex, TV, alcohol, drugs, etc. But unless we face these tough issues, they won't go away. For most of us, these aren't nearly as dramatic as on TV or in the movies. For most of us, these are like Mark Twain fears. Mark Twain famously said that 90% of his fears never happened. But unless you realize this, they will SEEM real. Which is the basis of one of those clever acronyms. F.E.A.R = "false enemies appearing real" The problem is unless you look at them in the eye, and PROVE to yourself they are false, they will act as if they are real. In every hero's journey story is what Joseph Campbell called the "belly of the whale experience." It's when Luke had to go into the cave in "Empire Strikes Back" to face Vader. It's when Gandalf the Gray faced the demon of hell that "shall not pass." And became Gandalf the White. It's when Hercules had to spend time in Hell before becoming a hero. It's also when Jonah was in the belly of a literal whale. And when Jesus was in the tomb for three days. Why are these "belly of the whale" experiences in nearly every hero's journey story? Because unless we face our FALSE FEARS inside, we'll never be able to face our real obstacles in the world. The obstacles in the real world are NEVER as big and scary as we THINK our inner fears and demons are. The ones that come in the middle of the night. Those pesky worries that invade an otherwise good night's sleep. Back in the times of hunters and gatherers, our deepest fears were VERY dangerous. They involved killing a huge animal that didn't want to be killed. For most ancient hunters, unless they literally FACED this fear, they would never get the good stuff in life. The mad social status. The crazy sex. The rock star treatment. All that was on the OTHER SIDE of facing their fears. Literally face to face with a much larger animal that very much DID NOT WANT to be killed. So every story they listened to around the campfire growing up had heroes who faced much bigger monsters. Dragons and demons and witches. If you never face your inner fears, the good things in life will always be out of reach. If you DO face your inner fears, the good things in life will be possible. Not easy, but possible. Mechanical even. Learn How: http://mindpersuasion.com/seven-rules/
  11. Leverage Your Hallucination Instinct: https://mindpersuasion.com/hallucination-instinct/ https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/Sept28Loop.mp4
  12. https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/Sept19Post.mp4 There are two ways to respond to the world. This assumes that every single human will look out into the world and see it as being LESS than ideal. This must be true. Since all humans will always have a collection of unmet needs. Food, water, protection from the elements. Emotional, sexual, relationship needs. All these need to come from our environment. So at any given time, every single one of us looks out into the world. When we do so, we have a collection of things in our mind that we would like FROM the world. Some are conscious and simple. Some are unconscious and utterly complex. Some things can be satisfied quickly and easily. Some may take a lifetime, and we still may fall short. How we RESPOND to this common human experience will define our lives. When we are very young, we are helpless. We absolutely DEPEND on those around us who have much more power than us. Those who have many more resources than us. Up to a certain age, it is absolutely necessary to expect OTHER PEOPLE to satisfy our needs. But beyond a certain age, we need to start getting our own needs in our own way. You may even say this is the main PURPOSE of our life. To MAXIMIZE the stuff we can get FROM the world. By interacting WITH the world. Of course, part of this involves recognizing that the entire world is filled with other people. With every one having that same exact strategy. To interact WITH the world. To get their needs met FROM the world. It's common to think that SOME of our needs are still NOT our responsibility. Even as adults. How can this be? This would REQUIRE that some adults have the responsibility of TAKING CARE of those they will never meet. Non relatives. This is a dangerous idea. Of expecting your needs to be met by people you will never meet. It's one thing to put energy INTO the system, and expect energy OUT OF the system. Energy in being work, time, effort, etc. Energy out being money, goods, things we need for life, etc. This is healthy. This natural. Put in, and get out. As you go through life, you maximize the ratio. By making the things you PUT IN more and more valuable. And that you can do with less and less effort. But if you only expect to get things OUT, without also putting things IN, that creates problems. Because what if EVERYBODY on Earth decided to do that? The flip side is that you can figure out how to MAXIMIZE the ratio of inputs and outputs. Creating a much better life. Learn How: http://mindpersuasion.com/seven-rules/
  13. https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/Sept05Post.mp4 I've always liked science. When I was a kid I'd read science books. Once in high school, our teacher was talking about some obscure scientific concept. He asked if anybody had heard of it, and I raised my hand. He asked me where I'd heard about it. And I said it was from a science magazine. That brought a chuckle from everybody else. I guess high school kids reading science magazines isn't quite normal. In physics, their are four basic forces. Two nuclear forces, electromagnetism, and gravity. They goal is to come up with one meta theory that ties them all together. Some are close, others are not. The two nuclear forces operate on very, very tiny levels. Gravity, on the other hand, operates on MASSIVE levels. So far, nobody has a clue how you might relate the two. Add in quantum mechanics, and it gets even more confusing. They say what we know about science is like the coastline of a tiny island. And what we don't know represents the ocean. Which means the more of what we know, the more we realize we don't know. Human nature is like this. There is a LOT that seems utterly confusing. Like the meaning of life. Or if you're a guy, what women really like. If you're a girl, it's pretty easy. At least in the short term. There's that one joke that's been going around online for years. Two lists of what to do to create attraction in the opposite sex. For guys, to create attraction in girls, there are tons of stuff. All complicated, all emotional, all romantic. For girls, to create attraction in guys, it's pretty simple. Show up naked. Trying to understand things like human nature and the meaning of life from inside our own brains is pretty difficult. But it's actually not so hard once you take an objective view. In fact, it can be pretty easy. For example, most people know about things like social proof. Social proof is a powerful advertising technique. It can also be used and dating. Understanding it from the outside is easy. Being effected by it from the inside is hard to spot, unless you are deliberately looking for it. All our social instincts are like this. And all our social instincts can combine to create some very powerful feelings. When it comes down to it, our main "purpose" is pretty basic. Get enough food, don't get killed and make more people. Understanding how all our instincts conspire to make this happen is pretty fascinating. And very useful. Learn More: http://mindpersuasion.com/love-instinct/
  14. https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/Aug11Post.mp4 An ideal role model for becoming an effective public speaker is Marcus Aurelius. He was a famous orator and Roman emperor. But he's not a good role model because of his success. He's a role model because of how he achieved his success. When he was young, he had a speech impediment. Today, that's enough to destroy your self-confidence for life. Imagine how it must have been back in the Roman times. But that didn't stop young Marcus. Not one bit. He spent the days of his youth down at the beach. Not wishing things were better. Not waiting for somebody to come and fix his problems. Not praying to the gods to intercede in his behalf. He spent his days screaming at the ocean. Not in anger, or frustration. But in practice. He would fill his mouth with stones. And yell. In his mind, it was him vs. the sound of the ocean. He was PRACTICING. He was building up ability to speak loudly and confidently. And by filling his mouth with rocks, he was CONSCIOUSLY training his mouth. His lips and his tongue and his teeth. By the time he was a young adult, he had the confidence, the logic, and the articulation to move large crowds. A far cry from being a kid that talked funny. Later, as a successful statesman and politician, he was a prolific writer. His most famous book is still read today. Meditations. One vital line in there speaks great truth to human nature: "Everything is opinion." This is very similar to something Socrates discovered. Socrates discovered that nothing is true. And he made his career by proving nobody around him REALLY knew anything. This got him killed. Marcus had the same realization. But instead of using it as buzz kill skill, he did the opposite. Socrates had the notion that he would walk around and PROVE that everybody was wrong. Maybe he thought that would get him laid. Maybe he thought that would gain him some respect. It did make him famous. But only after he was killed. Marcus, on the other hand, took that same idea and leveraged for MASSIVE power while he was alive. If you KNOW that ALL the ideas that exist in other people's brains are NOT TRUE, there are two ways to respond. You can prove they aren't true, like Socrates. Or you can make YOUR ideas more compelling, like Marcus. The choice is yours. Which will you do? Learn More: http://mindpersuasion.com/watching-mind/
  15. https://mindpersuasion.com/slippery-slopes-of-terror/
  16. https://mindpersuasion.com/beliefchange/
  17. lol daing So im testing, supermale model out and mang its wierd like its changing ur mind set, but i paired the version that just has voice no theta and played in background kroom sexual frequincy sound track on youtube, bcs kroom is the spiritual sound of sacral chakra ,, oooo vi fudge. ..... its wierd i feel and reactions i get is like i have Superpowers ,, and i listen to miracle generator with just the voices no theta to the kroom sexual freqincy on youtube....... daimmmm cuz its stimulating the sacral chakra ..while the 256 voices program the mind i think im making supernatural progress ........ greek god mode baby lol... cuz you gotta have the sacral chakra powered up to manifest.... together is a blast or... you can pair 256 voices with rain/water & birds sounds..... that stimulates sacral chakra
  18. https://mindpersuasion.com/think-your-way-out/
  19. Most people have an idea of the halo effect. It’s when people that are attractive have an easier time than the rest of us. A famous study unquestioningly illustrated this. They sent in attractive people to job interviews. Carefully prepped them to give purposely boneheaded answers. They also prepared normal looking people. The normal looking people gave very good answers. As you’d expect, the pretty people who gave dumb answers were hired at a higher rate than the normal people who gave intelligent answers. The conclusion most people draw from this is life ain’t fair. Lucky for us normal folks, it isn’t fair. That is FANTASTIC news. Why? Because the halo affect only applies to those who are GENETICALLY gifted. The halo effect is something you either have, or don’t have. Sure, you can dress nice, wear some nice perfume or cologne, but if you ain’t got a pretty face, there’s not much to do. At least if you’re a normal human. Lucky for you, you know how the halo effect works. It’s used in advertising all the time. They put a sexy person next to a toaster, and people buy toasters. (Put my ugly mug next to a toaster and somebody’ll call the cops...) But for those skilled in the arts of covert hypnosis, you know you can CREATE the halo effect. The way it normally works is somebody looks at a pretty girl with big boobs. And that creates a GENETICALLY PROGRAMMED feeling of, “Holy crap! I’d like some of that!” That feeling, of course, gets stuck to the toaster, or whatever else they are selling. But there are MANY ways to create that, “I want that” feeling. Sure, sticking a model up there with big boobs is easy. She just stands there and creates that feeling all by herself. But you can create an equally powerful feeling with words. The thing with words is you can shape them. Form them like a master sculptor. Allowing you to create LASER TARGETED halo effects that you can attach to ANYTHING you want to. This is a skill. And skills can be learned. Practiced. Enhanced. The more you practice them, the better they’ll get. As long as you can breathe and think, the more you can enhance your super customizable halo effect powers. Compare to that sexy model with the big boobs. Time is NOT her friend. But it is YOURS. Get Started: http://mindpersuasion.com/hypnotic-copywriting/
  20. Some of the deadliest or most dangerous ideas are the ones that seem the safest. For example, there’s the idea of our comfort zone. By definition, inside is safe, outside is dangerous. So it makes sense to stay inside. At least in the short term. But the longer you stay inside, the harder it is to go outside. This goes way beyond simple things like social skills. Since the dawn of time humans have been oscillating between safety and catastrophe. We stay as safe for as long as we possibly can. Then something FORCES us to move. And that “thing” is so dangerous and potentially deadly we have to invent new ways of dealing with it. But then that creates whole different level of safety. And the cycle repeats. Sometimes that results in evolutionary bottlenecks. When only a few of any species survives. That means the new “inventions” to deal with the threat are genetic responses. The structure is similar, whether it is over the course of a couple years, or a couple hundred thousand. The longer you remain safely inside your comfort zone, the harder it will be to go outside. Another seemingly safe thing to do in the short term that can be deadly in the long term is confirmation bias. Especially when it comes to the people we hang out with. Confirmation bias makes us hang out with the people that have the same opinions, ideas, tastes and beliefs. Pretty soon we start to think that we are “right” and everybody else is “wrong.” One fantastic habit to get into is simply meeting people outside your comfort zone. This be as simple as having a very simple conversation with people you normally deal with. Co workers, waiters, retail staff, etc. Just exchanging a few common pleasantries will go a long ways in making your comfort zone get a lot bigger. One critically important skill is being able to have a conversation with an interesting stranger when the opportunity presents itself. After all, any relationship, be it business, friendship, or romance will be with somebody that starts off as a stranger. And if you’re “having simple conversations with strangers” skills are lacking, why not practice them? The better you build THAT skill, the more people you can meet. The more people you meet, the more relationships (of all kinds) you can create. There are plenty of ways to start as easily as you can, so you can grow your comfort zone as comfortably as you can. Learn More: http://mindpersuasion.com/lovers/
  21. One of the biggest “deep skills” you can develop is the long game. This is considered “deep skill” because it’s not only intangible, but it’s something that isn’t testable. Developing the ability to play chess, for example, is a mental skill. But it is something you can test and measure. The same with many mental skills. Usually this happens in school, or in any kind of work related certification. You are given some information, you are tested on this information, and then if you can demonstrate that you KNOW this information, you’ll be given a piece of paper as proof. Usually from a recognizable authority. This is necessary for many reasons. If you show up for a job saying you can do a bunch of stuff, but you don’t have any proof, the guy hiring you would have to take a risk. On the other hand, if you had pieces of paper from recognized authorities showing that you indeed had those skills, there would be much less risk required on his part. But other skills that don’t come with pieces of paper are also fairly measurable. Sales is one of these. You might say you can sell well. Anybody who wanted to hire you could easily see whether or not you could sell in a short amount of time. So even if you didn't any certificates or diplomas, you could still demonstrate this skill. But some skills are skills that simply cannot be demonstrated. At least in the short term. They can be measured, they can’t be tested. To the extent that they can, they are very, very subtle. Hence the term, “deep skills.” Like being able to play the long game. Playing the long game means holding an intention in mind for a long time. It necessarily has to be the SAME intention. Most people start off with an intention, find out how hard it is to manifest that intention, and then CHANGE their intention. And then because of the magic of hindsight bias, they pretend they HAD that intention all along. But being able to hold the SAME intention (and not just pretend) is something that is very rare. And it is only something that can be tested over a long time. It’s also one of the most important skills in building a mutually enjoyable, emotionally and sexually satisfying relationship. You have to FIRST have the kind of person in mind that you want to get with. All based on NON-PHYSICAL criteria. Then you have to HOLD that intention while you go looking for them. Then when you FIND THEM, you have to build attraction and desire. This requires very strong long game skills. But here’s the thing. If you can master the long game skills of relationship engineering, you can master ANYTHING. Because in the game of life, the winners are the ones with the LONGEST game. Learn More: http://mindpersuasion.com/lovers/
  22. Everything must obey the laws of supply and demand. If there is plenty of something, and not a lot of people want it, it’s not going to be worth much. On the other hand, if something is scarce, and lots of people want it, it’s going to be worth plenty. Many people get the idea of economics and relationships messed up. When you go out for lunch, there are plenty of restaurants available. But they each have food. If you need a car, there are plenty of models available. But they all essentially do the same thing. The mistake comes when we think of things like SMV, or sexual market value. This isn’t really appropriate since personal relationships are much more subjective. A car, for example, has to have plenty of objective characteristics. Only after those objective characteristic (price, color, gas mileage, etc.) are satisfied, does subjectivity come into play. But when you are “shopping” for a relationship partner, there is MUCH more subjective difference from person to person. Supply and demand, and many other economics ideas, usually assume a certain amount of uniformity across the available products. But the difference between each individual is much different than between cars. So the term, SMV, is not really appropriate. Because relationships are all about how compatible people are. When shopping for car, you either like the car or you don’t. The car just sits there and is judged by the people shopping for cars. The car doesn’t have a say in the matter. But since relationships are WAY more subjective than shopping, AND compatibility is much more important, the idea of any kind of objective “value” is pretty ridiculous. And by altering your communication, you can make yourself MUCH more valuable to pretty much anybody. This is the whole point of things like education, learning and experience. The person coming OUT of any learning experience is more valuable than the person going in. This is good news. Because the more you improve your “relationship skills” the more “valuable” of a relationship partner you’ll be to more people. This will give you much more choice. Learn More: http://mindpersuasion.com/lovers/
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  24. When looking back through history, we tend to see things in terms of "events." Like the French Revolution, for example. It sounds like an event. Something that happened. History books tell us that it lasted ten years. But that's not entirely accurate. It's not like everybody was feeling fantastic right up until the night before that ten year "event" started. Then everybody spontaneously decided having a revolution would be a good idea. More likely a lot of people had been upset for a lot of different reasons for a LONG TIME before they started throwing punches. Tom Clancy became famous for writing thriller novels with MASSIVE attention to detail. One of his books was about terrorists who got their hands on an atomic bomb. Now, a nuclear explosions is FAST. But Clancy somehow spent two pages describing this "process" that takes microseconds. And made it interesting! It's been said that there are three kinds of people in life. Those who make things happen, those who watch things happen, and those who say, "What happened?" One way to look at life, either on an individual level or even a society wide level is a great "unfolding." The "end" of one event and the beginning of another "event" all depends on how you define these events, AND who is doing the defining. A common idea in life is to "hurry up and get there." Like kids in the back seat of a car on a family trip. "Are we there yet? Are we there yet? Are we there yet?" Consider instead to enjoy the never ending PROCESS of life. Sleeping to waking, being hungry to being full, being bored to being excited. There is no shortage of "unfoldings" to appreciate. If you are TOO focused on the destination (are we there yet?) you'll miss all the stuff along the way. Once upon a time all humans were nomads. Explorers. They NEVER really wondered "are we there yet" since they had no idea where they were going. Only that they wanted to find a BETTER place than where they were. Consider making the decision to ENJOY the unfolding of life. Especially the transitions, state changes and phase shifts. One of the most profound thing of all is how "thoughts" become "things." After all, once upon a time there was nothing on Earth. Now there is TONS of stuff. And every single one of those "things" was a "thought." What's thoughts will you turn into things? Get Started: Sex Transmutation
  25. Energy has always been a problem for all living creatures. Even small single cells have to worry about the energy they consume, and they energy they spend. Of course, they don't actually "worry." It's more or less programmed into their genetics. The same way a monkey gets a certain feeling when he looks up at a banana. If the banana is worth only 200 calories, but it will take 300 calories to get it, the monkey won't get a good "feeling." He'll get a "that banana is too high" feeling. Humans are more or less the same way. But the difference with us humans is our brains are WAY more complicated. So when we think of getting something, most of the "feelings" we get "either good or bad" are wholly IRRATIONAL. Also, we rarely think in terms of calories. Instead we think in terms of money, which is the same thing, namely stored energy, but in a VERY complex form. So here we are with our complex brains filled with complicated ideas (most of them false) trying to estimate how hard or easy it will be to get some "energy" (in the form of highly complex "money"), and it's no wonder we get confused. We're using a lot of HALLUCINATIONS to think of getting complex money-energy (a hallucination itself) which is represented by PAPER. Even if you REMOVE this "hallucinated money-energy" from the equation, just thinking about interacting with other HALLUCINATING entities (other people) is pretty confusing. Just walking up to somebody with the intention of making them smile and appreciate you is pretty scary for most of us. Luckily, we ALL have an internal "energy" source that can POWER THROUGH most of the junk. Kind of like those guys in those jungle movies use machetes to hack their way through the brush. This energy can act like a LIGHT, a purifying source that will blast away all the false reality that keeps us stuck. Kind of like stumbling around in your garage in the dark, vs. opening up the garage door and letting in the sunlight. When you learn to RADIATE this energy, EVERYTHING will be much simpler, and much easier. Find Out More: Sex Transmutation
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