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https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/Mar22Post.mp4 There's a lot of "tricks" in seduction. Perhaps the most famous, is the "instant connection" pattern. This has been copied and regurgitated over and over. It is basically when you are talking to somebody, either a romantic interest, or a potential customer. But somewhere in the pattern, you mention an "instant connection" with somebody. Like you are randomly going off on an "unexpected" tangent. And you say something like: "Have you ever felt an instant connection with somebody?" "Where you just feel this click..." This pattern SOUNDS cool. It's sure fun to IMAGINE THIS WORKING. To be able to walk up to a stranger, utter a few lines and get them to suddenly BECOME INTERESTED in you. Unfortunately, it misses the point. For this short pattern to work, they would have to feel MASSIVE rapport. It relies on them, going inside, and coming up with a memory of "clicking" with somebody. And then bringing back that "feeling" then and there in the moment. Let's take a quick tangent to this idea. When people go to see a therapist, it takes a long time to open up. A few weeks, at least, for the therapist to build enough rapport so the patient trusts them enough to share their deep feelings. This is because we humans don't just open up to any goof. So when a stranger walks up, and starts rambling about any "instant connection," the person hearing this will have a ton of defensive energy. This type of thing, of an instant connection, is the kind of stuff you talk to VERY close friends about. This is a very rare, very beautiful emotional experience. Nobody is going to immediately recall that feeling just because some random dude starts talking about it. If it were possible to DESCRIBE and emotion, and CREATE that emotion that you were describing, then it would be EASY to sell things. All a salesperson would have to say is: "Have you ever felt a strong buying desire?" "Where you just absolutely had to GET THIS?" You could even do an experiment, and try this out. Go buy a bunch of stuff that is legal to re-sell. Then to knocking on random doors. Start with saying this: "Hi, my name is Jack, I'm doing a quick survey. I only want to ask two questions." And then rattle of the quick, "instant buying desire" pattern above. See how many you sell. Turns out the "instant connection" pattern doesn't really create connections. It only TALKS ABOUT THEM. But there is a way to actually CREATE that connection. It takes a bit more brainpower than just rattling off a couple of memorized lines. But by asking the right questions, paying attention to the answers, and asking carefully calibrated follow-up questions, you can CREATE any emotion you want. Learn How: https://mindpersuasion.com/deep-mind-persuasion/
https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/Feb16Post.mp4 Long time ago, I watched this amateur cage fight. They weren't exactly in a cage. It was a regular boxing ring, but it was in the ground floor of this huge shopping complex. The dudes started off pretty good, but they both got really tired really quickly. After no more than a minute, both guys were exhausted. They would try to throw a punch or two, and then hang on to each other in a tight clench. The kind of thing when boxers or fighters are barely able to keep standing. The kind of thing you see in the last round of a prize fight. These two out of shape dudes were like that after less than a minute. No matter how many punches or blocks you know, once you start breathing hard, they'll be pretty useless. You can say the same thing for interpersonal skills. Just like fighting has skills and stamina, interpersonal skills have skills and confidence. You can memorize the best lines, the most compelling closes, and most seductive stories and patterns. But if you are too nervous, they won't work. Fighters that are too tired to throw a punch may as well not know any punches. If you are too nervous to spit game, then it doesn't matter HOW much you know or are capable of. Imagine two fighters, one has TONS of skills, but is out of breath after less than minute. Other guy has very basic skills, but MASSIVE conditioning. All the well conditioned fighter has to do is wait until the other guy is tired out. Similarly, imagine two guys going after one girl. One guy has MAD game, but he's to terrified to use it. The other guy has very little game, but massive confidence. The girl only knows that one guy will approach her, and say hey. Other other guy won't. Which guy will she go home with? IF you had to choose, confidence and some VERY BASIC communication skills will WIN every single time. Kind of like what Mark Twain said about reading. The difference between people who CAN'T read and the people who DON'T read is NOTHING. Most guys practice game, and techniques to AVOID just walking up and saying "hey." But for most girls, regular social skilled backed by STRONG confidence is plenty sexy enough. Luckily, you can build confidence WITHOUT approaching any ladies. Which means when your confidence IS strong enough, it will happen automatically. Learn How: https://mindpersuasion.com/get-girls/