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You Are The River: https://mindpersuasion.com/you-are-the-river/ https://mindpersuasion.com/3x3/
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Baseball vs. Football Lifestyle: https://mindpersuasion.com/baseball-vs-football-lifestyle/ https://mindpersuasion.com/3x3/
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Stop Building Up Regret: https://mindpersuasion.com/stop-building-up-regret/ https://mindpersuasion.com/3x3/
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Maximum Love Transactions: https://mindpersuasion.com/maximum-love-transactions/ https://mindpersuasion.com/3x3/
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What Signals Are You Sending?: https://mindpersuasion.com/what-signals-are-you-sending/ https://mindpersuasion.com/3x3/
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Selling Jesus?: https://mindpersuasion.com/are-you-selling-jesus-to-strangers/ https://mindpersuasion.com/3x3/
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https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/Sept16Post.mp4 Most people today are very fake. In fact, consider that presenting a "false identity" is part of human nature. Our deep instincts don't really know what to do with all these people. Our instincts were calibrated when we lived among the same people all our lives. And even until recently, before the internet, most people stayed around the same people all their lives. But from all the way back from the caveman days to now, reputation is CRITICAL. If you started getting negative looks from people way back then, you were DOOMED. The positive and negative social validation instincts work VERY MUCH like hunger. To motivate us to do things to keep us alive. The hungrier you get, the more you want to kill something and eat it. But social validation is much more mental and emotional. If your tribe were shooting you daggers, that meant you did something WRONG. Not something they didn't like. Something that was DANGEROUS. Like if you went hunting, came back with nothing. Or if you were out hunting, and you made some noise and scared away the prey. Once people knew that, they would give you a rough time. This would create a very UNCOMFORTABLE mental feeling. This would MOTIVATE you to do much better next time. The opposite is also true. If you came back with a HUGE kill, people would give you plenty of love. That would motivate you to DO MORE of that. So today, in our modern chaotic clown show of a society, these instincts STILL LIVE inside us. They still HURT or FEEL GOOD as much as they used to. This is people sometimes kill themselves due "only" to online bullying. Whoever says they don't care what people think are LYING. This is WHY so many people are FAKE. The absolute WORST thing that can happen to us is we express our TRUE selves, and get rejected. The only things that would feel worse than this, literally (not figuratively or metaphorically) would be STARVING to death or getting EATEN to death. Since few people starve or get eaten nowadays, social rejection of our TRUE selves is the most horrifying thing possible. This is why people are fake. It's a defense mechanism. Since you KNOW this, you can have a huge advantage. You can develop a deep sense of acceptance of yourself, so this will OVERRIDE any "surface level" rejection you may receive from others. But even BETTER, if you know this about others, that they are TERRIFIED of being rejected, and WHY, you can make a HUGE impression on them. Find out a little bit about the REAL THEM, and show through your communication, body language and frame, that you ABSOLUTELY accept the real them. This will make you STAND OUT as a genuine, honest, KIND person is a sea of fakeness. This will significantly enhance your success with friends, colleagues, business partners, lovers and potential lovers. Learn How: https://mindpersuasion.com/attractive-mindset/
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https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/Feb06Post.mp4 One of the reasons sociopaths can be successful is they can mimic whatever people need them to be. We can imagine three kinds of sociopaths. The criminal type, who end up in prison. The high performing types, who have high level jobs like politicians. These types can do pretty much anything, but they are intelligent enough to not do anything against the law. For most non-sociopaths, the law is close to our own morals. We don't kill people because doing so would cause irreversible damage to our psyche and emotional health. High level sociopaths don't kill people because they don't want to end up in prison. But then there is the run of the mill sociopath. The kind of person who can easily morph into anything they need to. These are the kind most of us interact with. They are compelling in part because they act EXACTLY like we need them to. They essentially mirror what we project. Without really feeling it. They get what they need, and then disappear. The reason these types are so compelling is because most people are nowhere NEAR this level of "connection." Most of us are hidden inside our own protective shell. So when we meet others, we are essentially getting to know them through THEIR own protective shell. This is why it takes a while to really get to know somebody. Sociopaths don't have that protective shell, since they feel no emotions, and therefore they aren't afraid. Afraid of what? Most of us have a deep fear of somebody getting to know the REAL us. And rejecting it because of it. But this is based on false idea. That it is possible for people to see US separate from our behavior. That deep fear of rejection (that all non-sociopaths have) is from before we could really think. Way back when we were screaming babies. But when we get older, nobody is even capable of judging us one some abstract concept of who we "really" are. They can ONLY judge is, in the moment, based on our behavior. As little kids, we really are just, "are." But as adults we ARE our behaviors. Our behaviors are an outer representation of who we are. If you are a quiet, shy wallflower, that says one thing. If you aren't making any efforts to let people know about you, that makes it very unlikely that others are going to make an effort to know about you. However, there are a few more variables that meet the eye. You likely have FANTASTIC ideas about yourself. You just can't put those ideas to words. So it may be just a matter of learning HOW to express yourself. Of learning more flexible linguistic skills. These will give you plenty of options on how, specifically, to express all those ideas in your brain. Ideas that people are desperate to hear. Learn More: https://mindpersuasion.com/hypnotic-coypwriting/
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