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  2. The Greatest Storyteller On Earth: https://mindpersuasion.com/the-greatest-storyteller-on-earth/ https://mindpersuasion.com/live-training/
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  4. Risk Reward Love: https://mindpersuasion.com/risk-reward-love/ https://mindpersuasion.com/live-training/
  5. Cotton Candy Brain: https://mindpersuasion.com/cotton-candy-brain/ https://mindpersuasion.com/live-training/ https://soundcloud.com/mindpersuasion/out-hypnotize-everybody
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  8. Unlearn Social Anxiety: https://mindpersuasion.com/unlearn-social-anxiety/ https://mindpersuasion.com/mm/ https://soundcloud.com/mindpersuasion/fearless-social-domination
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  10. How To Dominate Socially: https://mindpersuasion.com/how-to-dominate-socially/ https://mindpersuasion.com/mm/
  11. Peanut Butter Speech https://mindpersuasion.com/3x3/
  12. Head And Shoulders Above Everybody: https://mindpersuasion.com/head-and-shoulders-above-everybody/ https://mindpersuasion.com/3x3/
  13. Blatant Money Sex Secrets: https://mindpersuasion.com/blatant-money-sex-secrets/ https://mindpersuasion.com/3x3/
  14. Broccoli Man https://mindpersuasion.com/3x3/
  15. https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/Aug25Post.mp4 Binge watching has become pretty common. In some ways, this is a kind of sad state of the world. The word "binge" used to be associated with bad behaviors. Binge drinking, where you'd drink until you passed out, and then start drinking again as soon as you regained consciousness. Binge eating, where you eat way more than you need. Or binge and purging, where you eat and then make yourself vomit, so you can eat some more. But binging is now accepted. Even considered normal. When a new TV show drops on Netflix, for example, it's even assumed that most people will binge it in one weekend. Maybe this doesn't involve food or alcohol, this isn't considered as bad. But on a much deeper level, it represents an absolute inability to delay gratification. I've seen some negative reviews for shows, with the reason being is that they ONLY release one show a week. As if planning to watch your favorite TV show once a week is to difficult for adults. But like all things, there are good things and bad things. For example, food companies purposely engineer food so we can't help but keep eating. They have some pretty high tech scientists. Brain scanning, MRI tests, all to maximize the addiction. So you cannot only eat one chip. Bingeable TV shows are designed the same way. They've got the whole cliffhanger thing down to a science. But not just at the end of the episode, all throughout the episode. Sometimes it's so blatant, that it seems silly. But at the same time, you HAVE to keep watching just to find out. For example, I was watching one show where a woman came to a man's house. She was serving him divorce papers. He said something about a previous deal. "You said I'd get X so long as I didn't tell him the truth!" To which, she said: "I don't care! Tell him! It will hurt him more than me!" Of course, the "truth" was left out, so you have to find out what it is. This is a very easy, and often cheap way to get your attention. A better way is to create characters and stories so compelling we are genuinely interested in what happens next. But even if we AREN'T that interested in the characters, our brains will MAKE US keep watching. Just to find out. Kind of like even though we WANT to stop eating chips, our taste buds, our brains MAKE us keep eating. If you were cooking, and wanted to create this effect, it would be difficult. Those food engineers are mostly PhD chemists. But making your speaking binegable is very, very easy. There are some very easy linguistic techniques you can use. To COMPEL people to pay attention to you while you are speaking. Even better, is if you do this in front of a few people. Then EVERYBODY will see EVERYBODY ELSE watching you. Giving you both social proof and authority. Learn How: https://mindpersuasion.com/stage-wizard/
  16. https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/Aug12APost.mp4 One interesting study was done on attractiveness. Both men and women. They took a bunch of guys and girls, and had them walk around through social areas. Then the researchers followed them, showed people their pictures. And they asked, based only on their brief memory, to rate them on a scale of 1-10. This was the first half of the experiment. Then they repeated this experiment, and changed only one thing. They went to a bunch of other similar social areas. And again, they quickly followed the test subjects, and showed the same head shot pictures. And again, asked them to rate them on a scale of 1-10. The one thing they changed increased their score by an average of two points. Those that were a six in the first situation were an eight in the second. Everybody, both guys and girls. What did they change? Not clothing, not cologne, not hairstyle, not eye color, not any kind of extra bling. In fact, the thing the changed was free and something YOU can begin doing RIGHT NOW. What is that magical thing? The first time they walked through normally. They second time they walked with consciously held positive posture. Eyes up, shoulders back, back straight. Most folks significantly UNDERESTIMATE the power of non-verbal communication. Body language. But the thing about body language is it is VERY DIFFICULT to maintain consciously. It's kind of like breathing. Sure, you can focus on your breathing, but pretty soon your mind will wander. This is why meditation is SO hard. Our minds don't like to focus on boring things like this. This is also why when you are in a happy relationship, you get plenty of IOI's from pretty much everybody. And when you haven't been laid since Obama was president, you radiate completely different energy. This "energy" is your body language. When you are in a happy relationship, and are getting some, you walk much more confidently. Getting your sexual needs met is a POWERFUL confidence builder. And just like borrowing money or getting jobs, the more you get, the easier it is to get. If you've got plenty of money, borrowing more is easy. If you've got a decent job, getting a better on is easy. If you're getting some nice sex, getting more is easy. This has nothing to do with metaphysics or any goofy law of attraction ideas. It has a lot to do with how SUBCONSCIOUSLY confident you are. This is why con artists can walk into BANKS and scam them. With strong enough confidence, everybody will want to be on your team. Sex, money, a good job, these are all EFFECTS of strong confidence. Chasing each one of these on its own is tiring and time consuming. But there is a META way to build some META confidence. So sex, money and career will be an OUTCOME. What is this meta skill? How can this meta skill build meta confidence to make everybody a natural and automatic outcome? Find Out: https://mindpersuasion.com/stage-wizard/
  17. https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/Aug07Post.mp4 There are two "best case" scenarios or outcomes if you are proficient salesperson. One is to eventually start your own company. This is risky, but it can come with massive rewards. The guys who invented the Go-Pro camera, essentially a camera on a stick, are ultra rich. But in order to make Go-Pro cash, you've got get Go-Pro lucky. You've got to go through a ton of risk, rejection, years of trial and hustle error, all without a guarantee success. So being very good in sales is really just an entry ticket. What's the other "best case" for the salesperson? Selling from the stage. This does require a few risks. But these are not REAL risks. If you start a business, you risk REAL money. But selling from the stage is like public speaking. The risks are imaginary. The costs are zero, or minimal at best. Consider two different professional speakers. One demands a huge payment. The other will speak for free, and will only receive commissions. Commissions from back of the room sales. The kind where when you finish your speech, people RUSH to buy whatever is in the back of the room. This kind of skill is in HUGE demand. This kind if skill IS ALWAYS and WILL ALWAYS be in huge demand. Selling expensive home study courses. Selling elite memberships to rich people. Getting people at a free seminar to sign up for a weekend seminar. Do this and you can work ONLY when you want. And get paid five figures each time. How can you get to this level? Well the public speaking part is easy. At least from an intellectual standpoint. Hit up your local toastmasters, and KEEP hitting it up until it's easy and fun. Which it WILL be. Once you get over the very common fear of public speaking, public speaking is like a DRUG. Standing up in front of people and talking is a VERY POWERFUL human instinct. This is the same instinct that makes power corrupt and absolute power corrupt absolutely. Just the IDEA of speaking to a crowd and motivating them is compelling. Just this skill alone, of feeling comfortable in front of a crowd, is worth a ton of money. But to take it to the next level, you'll need a big more. The ability to move people's emotions. The ability to drive people to action. And here's the best part. Once you can do this for ONE type of market, you can do this for EVERY MARKET. Because the STRUCTURE is the same. Which means once you get the structure down, you can wrap it around any content you want. Don't want to sell from the stage? No problem. Any time you want to talk, and move people (or a special person) this structure will do the trick. Learn More: https://mindpersuasion.com/storytelling-magic/
  18. Peanut Butter Industrial Complex: https://mindpersuasion.com/peanut-butter-industrial-complex/ https://soundcloud.com/mindpersuasion/peanut-butter-industrial-complex https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/Sept21Loop.mp4
  19. https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/July29Post.mp4 Understanding Modern Frustrations Once I was in elementary school. And I had a crush on my second grade teacher. She gave us this math "test." More like a puzzle. She said we had to race to see who could finish first. I'm pretty sure I finished before everybody else. I thought it was easy. When I was done, I looked around, everybody else was still struggling. But I was too terrified to say anything. I was a shy kid. Then some OTHER kid stood up. The teacher gave HIM a whole bunch of public praise. For being so smart. Even though I'd finished before him. I KNEW what had happened. That I shot myself in the foot, so to speak. To terrified to stand up and IDENTIFY myself as being SEPARATE from everybody else. This is very closely related to the common fear of public speaking. ANYBODY can speak publicly in the right situation. But in these situations, we don't really think of it as "public speaking." Telling jokes when friends are around. But purposely SEPARATING ourselves from a group of STRANGERS is pretty scary. Especially when all those STRANGERS are staring at us. Many things in modern life are both easy yet maddening. We do fantastic things, but nobody notices. Other people do utterly EASY things, and everybody treats them like they are some kind of super hero. This kind of thing is rampant in the self help industry. Especially the kind where the super successful person becomes the super successful guru. "I have a super successful life. Copy what I did and you can be successful, too!" Only it doesn't quite work out for most people. Part of the reason that MOST of our behavior are not anywhere NEAR 100% conscious. So no matter WHAT we do, we don't really know HOW or WHY we did what we did. This is the problem when successful people try and teacher others how to become successful. Chances are they aren't really sure HOW they became successful. Even walking down the street, most of the INPUTS to our senses go straight PAST our conscious minds. This is widely understood phenomenon. But it generally only leads to interesting metaphysical understandings. Not any USEFUL strategies. To get useful strategies, you need to understand the human mind-body system from an objective, pragmatic standpoint. Not only will this give you a huge INSIGHT into the most common causes of frustration, but you'll be able to ELIMINATE them. Learn How: http://mindpersuasion.com/watching-mind/
  20. https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/Jun28Post.mp4 A very common movie scene is the halftime locker room speech. Where the hero's team is behind at halftime. The coach gives them a rousing speech that fires them up. They come out, destroy the other team, and everybody lives happily ever after. It's also common for guys who are going out to pick up girls to a have some kind of "pre-game" warm up. Some times this involves hitting a bar before to knock back a few and practice some conversations. So when they get to the place where the girls are, they built up their courage. It's also very common for movie heroes to give themselves mirror pep talks before critical events. All these situations presuppose that the extra boost of energy is helpful. Kind of like in the original Mad Max, when he fired up the nitrous oxide to give his "Interceptor" and extra boost of power to overtake the bad guys. But what would happen if you didn't need that extra boost? What would happen if you ALWAYS had the energy you needed? We like underdog movies, and stories about underdog hero's because WE feel like WE are underdogs. We wish somebody would give US a pep talk. We wish WE could pull off a stunning, come from behind victory. In a sense, that is the main PURPOSE of those movies. To BE that "pep talk" for us. To give us a little bit of extra inspiration to hang onto when WE go into whatever situations WE feel we would like that extra bit of juice. These types of stories have been told since the dawn of time. Even way back in the caveman days, sometimes those dudes needed some extra motivation. It wasn't always easy for them. It isn't always easy for us. We can imagine two levels of energy. Our constant, base level energy. And the temporary higher level that we CAN achieve when we REALLY need to. When it's down to you and somebody else for the job. When it's time to ask the girl for her number. When it's time to lay down the law to an office bully. All humans have a two sided story instinct. To listen and remember those motivational parts. The parts we need to get us over the humps. AND to be the story teller to inspire others. Most of the time, we need to be inspired. But sometimes we NEED to step up and inspire others. You can build skills for both. The more you practice, the stronger you'll be. On both sides of that ancient and necessary instinct. Learn How: http://mindpersuasion.com/public-speaking-confidence/
  21. https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/Jun27Post.mp4 There's a pretty common scene in movies. One guy has got to do something painful to another guy. Like set a broken arm, or put a dislocated shoulder back. The common way is for the guy or gal doing the painful thing to count. "OK, on three..." And then they invariably do the thing halfway between 2 and 3. The idea being to get the guy off guard, so it happens more quickly and less painfully. But this is so common in the movies, the some shows are starting to have the guy getting the bone fixed to KNOW that they're going to do it halfway between 2 and 3. Now, from a pure writing standpoint, they do this so the viewer won't think, "Oh I've seen this before." To have the other guy (the guy getting his bone fixed) know the same thing the viewer is expecting, that the dude's gonna pop his bone back on 2 1/2 instead of on 3. It's kind of cool from a meta, viewers standpoint. But it also presupposes that the guy getting his arm fixed has ALSO watched a bunch of those same shows. Otherwise, how would he know it was coming a 2 and 1/2? All centered around the idea that getting a bone fixed SUCKS. Or getting your shoulder popped back in. I can attest that getting a bone set really DOES suck. Even when they inject you with a bunch of stuff that's supposed to make it NOT suck. It STILL sucks. Which is why even in real life they do it quickly. This is how most of us think about personal development. We imagine whatever it takes to get to where we are is going to SUCK. So we want to get it over as quickly as possible. This is why we LOVE the idea of hypnosis. The idea that somebody can put you to SLEEP and do the work FOR YOU is massively compelling. But as an effective strategy, it's right up there with losing weight while you sleep. Sure, if you have to give ONE speech, it's not a bad idea to just suck it up and get it over with. But the idea of learning skills is completely different. Unfortunately, the ENTIRE self help industry is built around FALSE ideas of "quick fixes." That you need to pay a bunch of money and go to a seminar where you have a BREAKTHROUGH experience. But the truth is actually much, much simpler. AND easier. AND, believe it or not, cheaper. Changing your body through exercise diet takes time. And if you ever STOP, it's easy to backslide. But when anything related to social skills, once you get past a certain point it is self sustaining. This is why going as slow as possible is much better. No seminars, no gurus, no goofy metaphysics. Only a pen some paper, your brain and a few minutes per day. Learn How: http://mindpersuasion.com/public-speaking-confidence/
  22. http://mindpersuasion.com/instinct-persuasion/ https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/Jun26Post.mp4 Human instincts are extremely powerful for a reason. So powerful that they are impossible to ignore. This was so we didn't have to "think" about what to do every day. The trouble is this is hard to "see" in a real way today. Most people will never have a situation where they are hungry for more than a day, and NOT know where they are going to find food. This is why they say that EVERY SOCIETY is always three meals away from a revolution. If EVERYBODY realizes that there is no more food, it won't be long before everybody goes CRAZY. When otherwise normal people are in situations where they think they might actually DIE, they do crazy things to stay alive. Eating bugs, for example is very common. Most normal people, in normal situations would ONLY eat bugs if there was a lot of money on the line. Like on a TV reality game show, for example. But how much would you need to be paid to cut off your own arm? Or eat a dead guy? No amount of money would make anybody do these things. Yet these are things people HAVE done when the believe they will DIE if they don't. This is how strong our instincts are. They are there to keep us safe, and drive us to do INCREDIBLE things when we believe we are in danger. That's ONE of the problems of modern society. We are never in any kind of REAL danger. Which is good, really good. But it's also safe, really safe. This is one reason why soldiers coming back from combat have issues. The way humans are designed is to operate MOST OF THE TIME in life or death situations. After experiencing that, soldiers can have a hard time getting back to normal life. In fact, the ONLY REASON we invented modern society was to stay safe. To stay as far away from those dangerous situations as possible. For most people, are BIGGEST fears are NOT REAL. For our ancestors, our biggest fears were LITERALLY deadly. Today, most of our fears are social based. Things that will ONLY cause emotional pain. Thing is this emotional pain is RELATED to real, physical pain. Being socially ostracized, way back in the day, was a step closer to death. Getting mauled by a saber-toothed tiger WAS death. So in a way, social fears ARE as REAL as things that CAN kill you. Luckily, there's way to kind of con your way around the fear. To slowly build up an emotional resistance. So social fears are no longer real. And so that they no longer bother you. This means you CAN become socially fearless. Learn How: http://mindpersuasion.com/public-speaking-confidence/
  23. https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/Jun25Post.mp4 Our instincts are like the Borg from Star Trek. Resistance is futile. This is why the willpower diet ALWAYS fails. The only way to lose weight, and keep it off (which, according to studies is INSANELY difficult) is to MANAGE your hunger. To plan your meals carefully. To not eat fast food more than a couple times a week. It's common to fall for the "Hollywood diet" trap. The idea it that movie stars, since they are always ultra ripped, have discovered some secret diet plan. And they sort of HAVE discovered a secret diet plan. It's not the diet, it's the STRATEGY. The only strategy that will EVER defeat our relentless hunger instinct. The secret weapon that can shut down our desire to eat. What, Dear Reader, is that secret weapon? Another instinct. Our instincts are based on ancient programming. Our conscious brains are very recent. Our reptilian brain and mammalian brain are very thick. Our neo-cortex (new brain) is very thin. So the ONLY way to have a fighting chance against ANY of these deeper instincts is to get ANOHTER deeper instinct on your side. For those Hollywood actors, that other instinct is MASSIVE amounts of social status and genuine authority. For most of us normal humans on a quest to lose weight, we'll have the EXACT same lives after we lose weight. Same jobs. Same friends. Same relationships. All those dudes and ladies in the gym getting ripped? It's to GET more sex and social status and even money. Every time they look at themselves in the mirror, they are IMAGINING tons of social recognition. Instinct vs. Instinct. Any time we try and pit our conscious choice against our deep instincts, it's like what that Russian Boxer said in one of the Rocky movies: "You will lose." The ONLY hope we have of overcoming ANY instinct is to figure out a way to get AS MANY of our other instincts on our side. Which means to take some time to IMAGINE the benefits. And put those benefits in terms of instincts. Napoleon was famous for saying, "Men will die for Ribbons." This means he knew, from experience, the BEST WAY to motivate his troops. To give them rewards (ribbons) in front of everybody. Positive social validation given in front of our peers is a VERY STRONG motivator. I used to read a lot of Tom Clancy. The main character was Jack Ryan. One scene had Jack Ryan being the newly elected president. And he had give his first campaign speech. He, he character, described giving a speech in front of adoring fans like a DRUG he could never have imagined. This is what Napoleon was referring to. This is the BEST feeling in the human experience. To stand up in front of a crowd, give them a MOVING message, and watch them go crazy with appreciation. If you can do this, then EVERYTHING else you want in life will be AUTOMATIC. Learn How: http://mindpersuasion.com/public-speaking-confidence/
  24. https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/Jun24Post.mp4 Human hierarchies are everywhere. But they are mostly subconscious. The thing about humans is that we are driven by deep instincts. But we are capable of being driven by external triggers that indicate those deeper instincts. For example, by sheer mathematics, men have evolved a natural attraction to women who are, all else equal, younger rather than older. This is simply because the guys of the past who were RANDOMLY programmed to be attracted to younger women had MORE babies. Because a women who starts having babies younger rather than older will have more babies, since she's got more baby years ahead of her. So more kids will be born that have the gene to make the dudes naturally attracted to younger women. Similarly, all else equal, women are genetically programmed to be naturally attracted to older, more powerful men. For the same reasons. Ancient women that had the RANDOMLY programmed genes to be attracted to older, more powerful men had more kids. Since that older, more powerful man could support more kids than a young guy. So over time, more kids were made with the genes that made women naturally attracted to older, more powerful men. All this happened WAY before organized society. Long before money was invented. There are other instincts that can override these deeper, and basic instincts. One of those is social proof. If the entire tribe believes something, that will tend to OVERRIDE the deeper, more ancient instincts. In modern societies, we have all kinds of instincts fighting for our attention. For example, let's say you've got a big reunion coming up. The part of you that wants positive social proof, a very strong instinct, will WANT you to lose weight. But the part of you that wants to eat, ANOTHER very strong instinct, will compete with that. This is really the ONLY WAY to shut down the instincts we don't like. By pitting them against other instincts. Either for real, or by building up powerful emotional images. As mentioned above, we are still very influenced by social hierarchies. Where we are in the hierarchy. Men AND women. Modern experiments show this over and over. Stick ten people in a room, give them a task, and they will QUICKLY and subconsciously self organize into a hierarchy. How do they do this? We can imagine we all are giving off, and reading, some collection of subconscious, non verbal behavior that indicated where WE are on the social hierarchy. So much that every time they do this experiment, the same thing happens. Everybody looks around, reads this energy and AUTOMATICALLY takes their place. The take way is that the MORE of this subconscious, social hierarchy energy you are RADIATING, the higher up the food chain you'll be. Learn How: http://mindpersuasion.com/public-speaking-confidence/
  25. https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/Jun23Post.mp4 If you were an athlete, you would need to practice two things. Three, if we get technical. The first would be the skills of the particular sport. The second would be strength and flexibility The third would be endurance. We can put these into two basic categories. The direct skills needed, and the supporting skills. Of course, strength, endurance and flexibility aren't really skills. Their more considered part of general health. Even if you aren't an athlete, it would be beneficial to be stronger, more flexible, and have some endurance. Most people recognize the natural impact this will have on your confidence. On a subconscious level, doing things to improve your health sends a strong message to yourself. That you are doing things that aren't particularly enjoyable as you do them, but you know the results will have a positive impact. Any time we do anything that involves this kind of delayed gratification, it has a positive impact on our psyche. We can say the same for mental skills and social skills. There is the direct skills. And then there are the indirect skills. Indirect skills can be things like mental flexibility and strength of focus. The more strongly you focus on any particular subject, particularly one that is not so interesting, the better mental state you'll create. Being mentally lazy is kind of the same as being physically lazy. Soft body, soft mind. Being physically non-lazy is the same as being mentally non-lazy. Strong body, strong mind. One is easy to do. So easy that everybody can do it. One is not so easy. The better you can do these not-so-easy "exercises" the stronger of a mind and body you'll have. The more you'll be able to handle unexpected situations, from both a mental and a physical standpoint. There is another mental strength that will enhance all other mental strengths. This is confidence. It's somewhat similar to physical endurance. It allows you to withstand unfamiliar situations, and be at the top of your game, for a much longer period of time. And just like in sports, you can train endurance in many ways. For example, plenty of people build endurance on stairclimbers and stationary bikes. It's not that they are getting ready for a bike race or mountain climbing contest. But by training AS IF they are getting ready to do those actual things, they build up MASSIVE endurance. Similarly, you can build your confidence AS IF you are getting ready for a particular task, even if you aren't. You will still build the valuable confidence that can be applied everywhere else. Learn How: http://mindpersuasion.com/public-speaking-confidence/
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