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  1. Salsa Seduction Pattern https://mindpersuasion.com/salsa-seduction-pattern/ https://mindpersuasion.com/3x3/
  2. Develop True Outcome Independence https://mindpersuasion.com/develop-true-outcome-independence/ https://mindpersuasion.com/3x3/
  3. How To Become Outcome Independent: https://mindpersuasion.com/how-to-be-outcome-independent/ https://mindpersuasion.com/3x3/ https://soundcloud.com/mindpersuasion/easy-brain-tweak-for-outcome-independence
  4. The Seduction Witch https://mindpersuasion.com/3x3/
  5. https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/Dec15Post.mp4 The idea of outcome independence is very compelling. Very compelling for two reasons. For two reasons on both sides of the equation. We all have experiences of both sides of the equation. We all know the more we want something the harder we try, and this can cause anxiety, which messes up our performance. Kind of like when you are ALMOST to the point of being unconsciously competent at something. For example, suppose you wanted to learn how to juggle. And you were getting better and better a juggling three objects. There you were in the park, juggling three bean bags with your buddies. You're talking, laughing, joking, AND juggling. But then three super hot ladies come strolling by. Now you start to WORRY about looking bad. This causes a lot of anxiety, which shifts you back down into the conscious competence part. This makes you pay way too much attention to the bean bags, and you mess up. On the other hand, think of something you do very, very well, and have for many years. Riding a bike for example. For example, you are your buddy are riding your bikes slowly down a bike path. Two ladies come on from a different bike path and are SLOWLY passing you. Because your skill of riding a bike is very, very, unconsciously competent, you don't crash. Sure you're energy changes, your conversation with your buddies change. But you are MUCH less likely to crash your bike that you would mess up in juggling. Although this IS a fairly common scene in romantic comedies. Some goof is so overwhelmed with an unexpected beauty he crashes his bike into a tree, or goes down some stairs into the subway. This is funny because we all have this experience. Of doing something, seeing somebody attractive, and then messing up. When the thing we are doing is talking to THEM this is very, very frustrating. At the same time, most of us have an experience of just "flowing" within a natural conversation. When you TRULY don't expect anything. Even this, non-expectation, is NOT a choice. It just HAPPENS. So the advice SEEMS kind of like good advice. But how can you just "be" outcome independent? Especially when your ancient instincts are SCREAMING at you to be successful? It would be equally impossible to STOP eating once you get to 800 calories. Suppose you were on strict diet. Only three meals 2400 calories per day. And for dinner, your friends shows up with TONS of fast food. It would be IMPOSSIBLE to be halfway through a burger and just stop. Your instincts won't let you. Similarly, it's very, very hard to just "forget" about having any outcome when you are talking to a gorgeous person. At least in the short term. However, when you switch to the long view, everything changes. And you CAN flow much more consistently. On auto pilot. Learn How: https://mindpersuasion.com/relationship-generator/
  6. https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/Nov18Post.mp4 When most of us see people we'd like to know, it makes us nervous. Whether they be a key person at a networking event, or an attractive and potential romantic interest, simply the DESIRE to create a positive impression causes problems. This is why people talk about things like "outcome independence." This is true, but just saying we should be more "outcome independent" is pretty worthless. It's like telling somebody struggling with weight loss to simply "eat less than you burn." Or somebody who is trying out for the Olympic team to simply, "run faster than anybody else." Or a coach telling their team to "score more points than the other guy." Suddenly becoming "outcome independent" is one of things that is an IDEAL to strive for. Most of the goofs saying, "just be outcome independent" have no clue how to do that. Buy giving this kind of advice kind of IMPLIES they not only know how to do that, but they are experts. This is why it is VERY easy to come across online as guru type. Just read a bunch of stuff, then give that advice and it's ASSUMED that you've mastered that stuff. But doing this face to face is very difficult. For example, say you go to the gym, and sign up with a trainer. The trainer is ripped. He might give you the advice of "just eat only 1000 calories per day, and do two hours of exercise every day." Clearly, that works FOR HIM. But nobody, not even him, understands his inner motivations and strategies. Certain things are simply easier for others. Otherwise EVERYBODY could just "do those things" that the gurus recommend. However, it also doesn't do any good to find excuses why we can't do that. We REALLY want to know HOW to be "outcome independent." There is a way to approach that. Normally, when we want to "impress people," be they potential bosses or lovers, we think we need to SAY impressive things. But this is absolutely not necessary. In fact, most of the time, trying to impress somebody you don't know almost always backfires. How the heck can you impress somebody you don't know? Well, it is pretty easy, so long as you don't actually try to impress them. First, you need to fill your head with different thoughts. Or better, simply open your mind to them. Match their body language, and let your body language drive your thoughts. With practice, your thoughts will be pretty close to their thoughts. And with some basic "guesses" about the situation, you'll know pretty much WHAT they are thinking. Then you simply pace THEIR thoughts, by expressing them as if they are YOUR thoughts. Which they will be. This will create very, very DEEP rapport. Body language rapport. Mental rapport. Energy rapport. And since they will FEEL themselves in you, you won't need much else. Learn More: https://mindpersuasion.com/telepathic-enhancer/
  7. Anti Anxiety Nightmare: https://mindpersuasion.com/anti-anxiety-nightmare/ https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/Nov05Loop.mp4
  8. https://mindpersuasion.com/flow-states-and-new-instincts/
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