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  1. Salsa Seduction Pattern https://mindpersuasion.com/salsa-seduction-pattern/ https://mindpersuasion.com/3x3/
  2. Develop True Outcome Independence https://mindpersuasion.com/develop-true-outcome-independence/ https://mindpersuasion.com/3x3/
  3. https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/Dec11Post.mp4 One common problem both salespeople and social persuaders have is an inability to close. Sales people can give the most fantastic presentations ever, but when it comes to the close, they flounder. Guys and girls can talk a great game, but when it comes time to close, it goes sideways. Both people feel it. Both people know that SOMEBODY should say something. But both sit there, mumbling and suddenly avoiding eye contact. "So, uh, yea, wow, gee..." There are two ways to get around this common problem. One is to ALWAYS close. Close everywhere and often. This, however, is only a superficial solution. It's kind of like ripping a bandage off. It's painful, and you want to get it over with. This is the basic philosophy of number closing everybody who looks in your direction. It kind of, sort of, makes it SEEM like you are being confident. If you tell your buddies you number closed twenty girls in the past weekend, they'd be impressed. After all, most guys are terrified of number closing ONCE, let alone twenty times. But when you look at the stats, they aren't really that great. You ask twenty girls for their number. Fifteen politely decline. Four gave you a number only because they were too shy to say no. That one who was actually interested, was really only interested in the moment. You impressed her with your confidence, your focus, your lack of anxiety. But since that attraction was built QUICKLY, it dissipated quickly. So when you call her a day or so later, she might not even remember you. So, yeah, while number closing twenty girls a week is pretty cool from a confidence, brag to your buddies angle, it's pretty ineffective if you actually want to MEET people. If you want to slowly expand your social circle, and get to KNOW people, number closing everybody with a pulse is not the way to do it. Consider doing the OPPOSITE. This is counter intuitive. This is a LONG GAME strategy. This will build up your REAL confidence. The deep confidence that isn't temporary. The kind of deep confidence that naturally radiates from you when you are ordering a slice of pizza or asking the waitress for a refill on your diet coke. How can you BUILD this confidence? By practicing hit and run compliments. But not OBVIOUS compliments. Not compliments about how they look, or how pretty their eyes are. Compliments about their choices, their decisions. Compliments about THEM. That indicate you see them more deeply than everybody else. What will make these particularly powerful is if you deliver them with linguistic presuppositions. These will make them radiate in their mind much longer. Walk up, deliver the compliment, smile and keep walking. This will create a massive number of memories in your brain. Of people looking at YOU and wanting more. This will add up to a deep and REAL belief that people WANT you. This is something few people will EVER experience. Learn How: https://mindpersuasion.com/cold-reading/
  4. https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/Dec04Post.mp4 Imagine this scenario. You're at a party or social gathering. Bar, pub, club, etc. You see a cute girl or guy across the room. They're flirting with you. You're flirting with them. You've exchanged eye contact a few times. Flirty, quick, coupled with a slight, perhaps embarrassed smile. From a purely objective standpoint, it's on. On like Donkey Kong. But from inside your own subjective brain, it's kind of like what old school announcer for the Lakers, Chick Hearn used to say: "Ladies and gentlemen it's nervous time at the Forum!" This is a problem with humans. Objectively, things are easy. Subjectively, those very same things are terrifying. Without question, the most common thing that keeps us frozen is the age old question: "What do I say?" You know there is some deep, subconscious, even animal attraction. But it would be a bit silly to just walk over, get closer to them and only stare. It would be even worse to walk over and say: Hi. Uh, hi. And then stand there and stare. A common response is to memorize a bunch of lines and patterns. Even some short term personality behaviors. This can work, but once you run out of memorized material, you're back in the same situation. The more importance you place on them, the harder this is. Job interviews, asking your boss for a raise, talking a cute girl or guy into becoming interested enough to exchange numbers. Anxiety is like crippleware on your computer. As soon as anxiety kicks in, it sucks up all your thinking resources. But what if you KNEW what they were thinking? What if you KNEW what they wanted, and what they didn't want? Sherlock Holmes is famous for being able to read situations with insane accuracy. Of course, that's in books and movies, where the truth is expected to be stretched. But it IS possible. Not to look at her left pinkie, notice the slight indention in the right side of the tip, and guess that she'd been baking cookies earlier that day. But you can learn to read her body language. The way her eyes are looking around the room. The particular situation she is in. This will allow you to pace what's on her mind. Not control, or give advice, or demonstrate any weird pick up skills. But pace. To speak the same thoughts she is thinking. Most people only notice what's on the outside. You have pretty eyes! You have nice shoes! Your boobs look delicious! Anybody with a pair of working eyeballs can do that. But sense what's on her mind? And pace it, as if what she or he is thinking is completely normal? This will impress them far more than any other line-memorizing goof out there. Impress who? Anybody. Guys, girls, hiring managers, next door neighbors, friends, lovers and whoever else you want. Learn How: https://mindpersuasion.teachable.com/p/cold-reading/
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