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  1. Comparative Advantage Between Multiverses: https://mindpersuasion.com/multi-verse-nail-sex/ https://soundcloud.com/mindpersuasion/the-nail-sex-multi-verse-theory https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/Sept20Loop.mp4
  2. Difficulties With Evil Magic: https://mindpersuasion.com/why-evil-magic-is-difficult/ https://soundcloud.com/mindpersuasion/why-evil-magic-is-difficult https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/Sept19Loop.mp4
  3. https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/Sept15Post.mp4 Humans tend to externalize quite a bit. It's a very useful instinct. Imagine an ancient dude is out hunting. He tosses his spear at a animal and misses. If he got angry or upset at himself, that would NOT be very effective. Externalizing, on the other hand, would be very effective. Getting mad at the animal. This would cause anger. Anger would create more energy and motivation. This worked perfectly back in the day. When it was US vs. our environment. US were the people we lived with. The people we grew up with. Our environment was other animals. Other tribes. Or forces of nature that were treated like people. The gods of the sky, etc. Today, our instincts are flip flopped. Hunger is the easiest to understand. Back then, the rule was simple. Eat whatever tastes good. Eat as much as you can. Eating as much as you can was necessary because food was hard to find. Eating whatever tasted good was necessary, since there was a high correlation between good tasting food and healthy food. Tree bark, dirt, etc., didn't taste good and it wasn't healthy. Fresh meat tasted good and it was healthy. So were vegetables, fruits, some plants. Today, if we BLINDLY follow our hunger instincts, we'll get metabolic syndrome. Obesity, stress, high cholesterol, high blood pressure. We have to use our conscious minds to regulate our hunger instinct. Our externalizing instinct is also similarly messed. Back then, our environment was stuff that we needed to kill, or was trying to kill us. Today, our environment is other people. Back then, trying to kill an animal and getting mad at the animal was very useful. Today, trying to interact with other people, and getting mad at them if we don't, is NOT a useful strategy. Luckily, we can use our conscious minds to understand, tame and regulate our social instincts. Turns out this is MUCH EASIER than regulating our hunger instinct. Hunger is life or death. Social instincts are not. Which means when you figure out HOW to regulate and manage both your social instinct and your externalizing instinct, social interactions are MUCH easier. Which social interactions? All of them. Friends, lovers and everything in between. Learn How: http://mindpersuasion.com/love-instict/
  4. https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/Sept07Post.mp4 One interesting aspect of our language is the metaphors we use. The problem with MOST of these metaphors, is that we really have NO idea why they were chosen. For example, a common expressions is "raining cats and dogs." Everybody knows this means it's raining pretty hard. But nobody really knows why. Sure, there's a few theories, but it's impossible to know. Because who knows how long people used them BEFORE writing them down. Way back in the day, there wasn't much stuff being written. Books and newspapers. Nobody wrote blogs or anything like that. There weren't many newspapers. To get a job writing newspapers, you had to demonstrate a LOT of skill. Similarly, there was no such thing as self publishing back then. In order to become a published author, any company had to have a pretty good idea that your stuff would sell. All this meant that there were very FEW writers. And the editors that looked at these things being written were very CAREFUL about letting weird phrases slip by. Which meant they didn't put stuff like, "raining cats and dogs" into print until it had been a regular part of speech for a LONG TIME. So no matter how sure somebody is of its origins, it's ONLY a guess. There is no way there COULD be a record. And yeah, everybody has their theories. Dogs and cats climbing around on roofs and slipping off during the rain, etc. But based on how language and words evolve, there is no way to tell if that's accurate, or just popular. Even worse are metaphors. Metaphors about who we are and where we came from. A common idea is we have a purpose that is NOT dependent on our choices. As if we were made TO DO something. Sure, if you make a sandwich, the purpose is get eaten. But that isn't determined by the sandwich. That is determined by the maker. So if you DO believe in a "maker" as an entity, then our purpose would be up to THAT person. On the other hand, you might decide to CHOOSE YOUR OWN purpose. Why not? That's kind of the idea anyway. To figure out your skills, abilities, make a few friends along the way, etc. One thing that would help would be to understand not WHY you were made, but HOW you were made. The deep programs running inside your brain. The instincts that serve as the human operating system. Turns that they're not only NOT complicated, but once you figure them out, you may get a huge advantage. Learn How: http://mindpersuasion.com/love-instinct/
  5. https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/Sept01Post.mp4 Humans are kind of like chainsaws. Chainsaws only operate at very high RPM's. At low RPM's, they kind of rumble and sputter. But rev 'em up, and their purr like a kitten. A kitten that can chew through trees like crazy. Humans are KIND OF like that. Meaning we were designed to operate BEST under certain conditions. What conditions? A lot of external pressures. External motivating forces. These operate how we feel SUBCONSCIOSLY. Not rationally. For example, imagine you had a fantastic job. Great pay, great working conditions, great workers, great potential for advancement. But if you showed up ONE MINUTE late you'd get a black mark. Three black marks and you'd be fired. You can even imagine that showing up on time is not based on any human's decisions. Imagine it was based on some uncontrollable, external event. And let's say the drive from your house to work was twenty minutes. Would you ever be late? Probably not. Because NOT being late would be easy. Getting up, showering, getting dressed, etc. The benefits of simply rolling out of bed on time would be ENORMOUS. Most humans, under these situations, would manage to organize their lives around getting up on time for work. But give that SAME HUMAN a bunch of money, so they don't need to work, and it will be much, much more difficult to get up on time. All our instincts were calibrated like this. Strong internal drives. Strong external pressures. Today, if you get a job that's pure commission, most people would hate it. If you don't sell anything, you don't get paid. But for the bulk of human history, this was the rule. If you don't work, you don't eat. If you don't KILL you don't eat. It's hard to imagine this without the external incentives. This is one reason we LOVE hero's journey type movies. Because even hero's like Luke Skywalker need to be FORCED onto the path. Most don't go willingly. WE don't go willingly. So we LOVE the idea of our circumstances FORCING us to take action. In fact, this is the most common reason for NOT talking ANY action. "If it was really important, I'd get it done." This means we'll never take action unless we are FORCED. But by then, it might be too late. You aren't getting any younger! You don't have to take HUGE action. Just small, tiny daily action. To build up your ACTION TAKING muscle. Pretty soon, you'll be a new human. Get Started: http://mindpersuasion.com/social-anxiety-killer/
  6. https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/Aug12Post.mp4 I went to this goofy seminar a long time ago. I don't remember what the purpose was. But I do remember one exercise. There was a small star inside another bigger star. And you had the trace another star between the two. But you had to do it while watching ONLY the tip of your pencil in the mirror. It was nearly impossible with all the angles. Every time you thought you'd go one way, the pencil would end up going the other. In plenty of movies that have fight scenes inside houses of mirrors. The most famous being a Bruce Lee Movie. A common scene is the good guy will be wandering around, his gun ready. Then he sees the bad guy, shoots him, only to find it's a reflection. This happens in life quite a bit. It's based on how we externalize many of our problems. This is VERY HARD to see from inside your brain. It's VERY EASY to see in others. Which itself is kind of a meta-externalizing. It's common to externalize negative traits on others that we refuse to acknowledge within ourselves. Gone unchecked, it's like living in a house of mirrors. Many things that are wrong are thought to be OUT THERE. A common structure in many problems is the "world is broken" structure. Or the "world is rigged" structure. Add in some confirmation bias, and it's even MORE difficult to get to the bottom of things. Add in a bunch of social proof, plenty of folks who have similarly structured problems, and you got a conspiracy. Even WORSE is when there is actually EVIDENCE that the world IS rigged. That the world IS broken. That is not helpful. Because if you are NOT getting what you want FROM the world, there is only one LEGIMATE way to respond. To CHANGE your behaviors to get something different. Something better. This requires that you figure out WHICH parts are REALLY broken, and which parts you are EXTERNALIZING. Once you acknowledge the parts that you are externalizing, your natural, "trial and error" learning mechanism will kick in. This is tough to do ONLY by thinking. You've got to get the ideas OUT of your head and on paper. So you can look at those ideas as OBJECTIVE concepts. This takes time and introspection. Two things people don't have much patience with. We want things quick. We want things easy. And we want things GIVEN to us from OUTSIDE ourselves. But if you CAN manage to start looking at your ideas and strategies objectively, you can start getting much better stuff. While everybody else is still waiting for a free ride. Learn How: http://mindpersuasion.com/watching-mind/
  7. https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/Aug03Post.mp4 Humans suffer from a lot of biases. Although that word, "suffer" isn't accurate. We have biases for a reason. It's just that in modern times, our instincts are kind of out of date. Normalcy bias, for example, makes us assume things are "normal" when evidence suggests otherwise. In the past, this kept us focus on the task at hand. Those who stopped at the first sign of trouble tended to not survive as much, over the long haul, than those who IGNORED signs of trouble and kept going. Another modern bias that trips us up but worked well in the past is confirmation bias. This helps us to filter for what we are looking for, and nothing else. Of course, confirmation bias is only a "problem" today when others disagree with us. We WANT them to see our point of view, but they refuse. So we give them the negative label of having confirmation bias. Consider, though, that every single trait we have, both good and bad, HELPED us in some way in the past. One common label that is being tossed around quite a bit today is "red pill." This, of course, comes from the movie, "The Matrix." But they borrowed it from Alice in Wonderland. Alice in Wonderland is where they get the term, "down the rabbit hole." Alice followed a rabbit, down a rabbit hole, and the deeper she got, the more crazier things got. She was given an opportunity to choose between two pills. The very SAME two pills reference in the Jefferson Starship song, "White Rabbit." The Red Queen is also a character that Alice met. She was running on a treadmill. She famously said you've got to keep running just to stay in place. This label, "The Red Queen," was used as the title for a pretty well known book, about evolution. The idea is that evolution is kind of an "arms race." That you have to keep going forward, to stay even. We humans certainly love our metaphors and labels. But we also make some common errors. One of them is mistaking the "map" for the "territory." Metaphors are necessarily much SIMPLER than the complex thing they are describing. Because if we actually HAD to speak accurately, just talking about an idea in your brain would take a LOT of time. Even that word, "idea" is a metaphor. A vastly oversimplified description of the MASSIVE neural activity in your brain. It's very easy to get caught up in all the metaphors and labels being tossed around. Which is why understanding HOW the mind can help. The mind as metaphor maker. The mind as label giver. Understand THIS and you'll know more than all the other metaphor collectors out there. Learn More: http://mindpersuasion.com/watching-mind/
  8. Access Hidden Brain Parts: https://mindpersuasion.com/advice-from-imaginary-people/ https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/July28Loop.mp4
  9. Love, Amnesia and Instincts: https://mindpersuasion.com/jungian-love-instincts-and-fate/ https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/July17Loop.mp4
  10. Why You Are Evolving Stronger Germs: https://mindpersuasion.com/evolution-of-indestructible-roaches/ https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/July14Loop.mp4
  11. Ancient Secrets To Modern Music: https://mindpersuasion.com/mind-portal-music-flow/ https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/July3Loop.mp4
  12. Way Beyond Language Patterns: https://mindpersuasion.com/mental-push-power/ https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/July2Loop.mp4
  13. Lucid Dream Programming: https://mindpersuasion.com/lucid-dream-manipulation/ https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/Jun30Loop.mp4
  14. Access Infinite Intelligence: https://mindpersuasion.com/finding-hidden-spiritual-access/ https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/Jun29Loop.mp4
  15. She Spoke With A Heavenly Voice https://mindpersuasion.com/hypnotic-goddess-preacher/ https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/Jun27Loop.mp4
  16. How He Made Easy Money: https://mindpersuasion.com/black-magic-vitamin-c/ https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/Jun25Loop.mp4
  17. Rediscover Your Inner Purpose: https://mindpersuasion.com/advice-from-spirit-guides/ https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/Jun24Loop.mp4
  18. Dangers In Incorrect Spirit Guide Acquisition https://mindpersuasion.com/spirit-guide-acquisition/ https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/Jun23Loop.mp4
  19. Secrets Of Hidden Treasure: https://mindpersuasion.com/infinite-nests-of-treasure/ https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/Jun21Loop.mp4
  20. Ancient Secrets of Psychic Seduction: https://mindpersuasion.com/psychic-seduction-princess/ https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/Jun16Loop.mp4
  21. Brainwashing Audiences and Amnesia Jumping: https://mindpersuasion.com/hypnotizing-audiences-and-kangaroos/ https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/Jun15Loop.mp4
  22. https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/Jun14Post.mp4 Most sales is a numbers game. Especially direct to consumer. Business to business sales is a little different. Since there's usually a lot more money, and they money being spent is not usually coming out of anybody's pocket. Business to business sales is not as dependent on commissions. But retail sales of large ticket items usually is. And numbers is king. If you are a salesperson, the more people you talk to, the more chances you have. Even from the owner's standpoint, it's the same. The more people you hire, the better your chances. Consider two possibilities. One is you spend a lot of time and money hiring people and training them. This will get the owner a certain number of sales per month. The second possibility is to just hire whoever walks in the door. Turns out this is much more effective. To hire people, give them the bare bones training and then turn 'em loose. Because you'll usually get a few people that are naturals. Pareto principle says that the top 20% will make 80% of the sales. But how they are trained is kind of interesting. The salespeople are trained to talk to a manager before the customer leaves. The salesperson tells the customer that they want to go grab a business card and give to them before they leave. The customer waits, and the salesperson runs inside. The salesperson finds a manager, and tells them what objection they are stuck on. They manager tells the salesperson what to say, and they salesperson runs back to the customer and says EXACTLY the same thing. If the salesperson has enough patience, they'll learn a lot. For many people in many social situations, this is IDEAL. To have some secret person to run to whenever they get into trouble, and to be told EXACTLY what to say. This is essentially the story of Cyrano de Bergerac. Cyrano was a word magician. But he had a huge nose. His buddy, Christian was a good looking guy but had no game. Cyrano would tell Christian EXACTLY what to say to Roxanne, the girl they both loved. This type of thing has been done over and over. We like this story because we all WISH we could have some secret helper telling us EXACTLY what to say in social situations. In fact, this is what we tell ourselves. I WOULD go and talk to that person, but I DON'T know what to say! If I KNEW what to say, it would be easy! But here's the funny thing. What to say is EXTREMELY easy when you can read emotions. When you can effectively read the emotions of others, conversations and social situations are much, much easier. How do you do that? Learn How: http://mindpersuasion.com/eq/
  23. https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/Jun10Post.mp4 Science is, at it's core descriptive. Meaning they look at things, and describe what happens. To the extent that what they describe is repeatable, they can predict what's going to happen. Even things that are complex, yet repeatable, can be used scientifically without really knowing why. A prime example is anesthesia. Tens of thousands of time per day, people are knocked out, cut open, sewed back up, and are perfectly fine. A week or so later they can get up and walk around like nothing happened. But WHY, exactly, does anesthesia work? Truth is nobody really knows. They have a lot of educated guesses, but beyond that, they're not sure. This is especially true with ANYTHING involving us humans. Sure, if you're doing experiments on things like plants or interactions between inanimate objects, you can do it over and over. But you can't really do that with humans. So any time anybody talks about us humans, especially when people start tossing numbers around, it's ONLY a metaphor. And metaphors are NOT the "thing" they are trying to describe. The are less complex descriptions of more complex things. So we can understand. Why do we want to understand? Well, there are only two reasons. One is to have an academic, logical, rational understanding. But since with humans this is impossible, there's only one other option. And that is because we want to achieve an objective. For doctors and anesthesiologists, the objective is simple. To be able to knock 'em out, cut 'em open, sew 'em back up, and send them on their way. So long as they can achieve that, HOW, exactly it happens is not so important. Often times we humans tend to overly focus on the metaphor. Usually when we DON'T WANT to look at our objectives. This is very common in social situations. Somebody will toss about a metaphor about this or that social idea. And instead of seeing that metaphor for what it is, a tool to help GET IN THE GAME, we instead focus on the metaphor. We want to dissect the metaphor. Try to outdo each other with BETTER and CLEVERER metaphors. This is what they mean when they say, "Don't look at the finger, look where it's pointing." A very common example of this is whenever people talk about our subconscious mind. The subconscious is a metaphor. The conscious is a metaphor. They describe different categories of thinking and behavior. Very GENERAL categories. You KNOW when you're stuck up in metaphorical la-la land when you're worried about the SPECIFIC intentions of your "subconscious." "Maybe I should wait because my subconscious wants me to do this or that or the other thing..." Uh huh. Instead, consider just getting in the game and having some fun. http://mindpersuasion.com/eq/
  24. Understand Their Thoughts: https://mindpersuasion.com/simple-mind-reading-technique/
  25. Transferring Thoughts Into Things https://mindpersuasion.com/ancient-books-and-human-purpose/
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