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https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/Jun28Post.mp4 There are some pretty cool videos about magnets. Particularly the ones that show the normally "invisible" magnetic lines of force. If you have a regular magnet, the lines of force shoot out straight from one pole and then arc down toward the other pole. Normally, when we think of magnets, we think of short distances. (Or refrigerators and our shopping list...) But the magnetic field, where the normally invisible lines of force go, are cool when we get a glimpse. The way they make these videos is they put a ton of small metal shavings on a surface. Then they drop a huge, heavy magnet. The shavings bounce up in the air, and for a brief moment, they line up, in the air, according to these normally invisible lines. The guy who came up with the equations that describe electro-magnetic radiation is Maxwell. Maxwell's equations, which describe the electrical and magnetic field, as well as how and why they propagate through space, are generally considered to be most beautiful and elegant equations in all of science. It's very much a "chicken and egg" type of idea. Electromagnetic radiation propagates through space. It's a combination of the electrical field, and the magnetic field. The electric field changes, and as it changes, it creates changes in the magnetic field. Then as the magnetic field changes, those changes generate the electric field. And off they go, forever in mutual oscillation, cruising through space. One creates the other. Then the other creates the one. And since light itself is an electromagnetic wave, Maxwell's equations are a theoretical way to measure the speed of light. Something that is a constant everywhere, no matter the reference frame. Once scientists figured out how to harness these two things, civilization took off. This is exactly how they create electricity. Take an electrical wire, and coil it around and around and around. Boil a bunch of water (coal or nuclear energy) and make the electrical wire spin around and around. Surround that spinning coil with magnets and you get an electric current. The seemingly magical energy that powers our lives. The thing about science is that if you step back enough, you can see these same structures EVERYWHERE. For example, an historian made an interesting connection between the formation of stars, and the formation of large societies. Stars slowly come together by all the dust particles slowly being pulled together by gravity. Societies come together by the gravity of all the nomads out wandering around pulled by the "gravity" opportunities in a city. Stars galaxies and are governed by the laws of physics. Societies and people are governed by the laws of human nature. Namely, man and woman, oscillating around one another since the dawn of time. Just like electricity and magnetism. One creates the other. The other creates the one. Understand this law of human nature, and understand everything. Learn More: https://mindpersuasion.com/seductive-frame/
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https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/Jun27Post.mp4 When I was a kid, me and my friends would play football. Usually two on two, or three on three. In the street, or somewhere. This was way back in the days when it was safe to play outside. Often, when somebody's mom would come looking for them, we'd use the "next touchdown wins" rule. Even if one team was ahead by a lot, we wanted to make it exciting till the very end. This also made it feel like we had control. So that nobody could blame somebody else's mom for interrupting the game, when they were JUST about to mount their comeback. As adults, nobody would put up with that. Even in some places (before the internet) when they had concerts go on sale, they'd give everybody who lined up a random number. Imagine if you were waiting in an office for a job interview. For a very FANTASTIC job. You had the degree, you had the experience, and you'd even hired a consultant to help you practice giving the best interview possible. So you show up, and there are about 20 other people in the interview room. But then a couple minutes before your scheduled time, the hiring manager comes out of his office. "Sorry everybody, but my wife just called. I need to come home IMMEDIATELY for dinner, or I'll be in big trouble!" "So, we're just going to put everybody's name in a hat, and whoever I draw is going to get hired!" The only person NOT pissed would be the dude or gal whose name was drawn. But even then they'd feel like they cheated. And any company who hired randomly like this would go out of business. Life has been on earth for more than a billion years. And yes, genetic variations are randomly created. But the only ones that survive, and replicate, are the ones that can DO BETTER than everybody else. The BETTER something is, the more competition there will be. The best jobs, the best houses, and the BEST relationship partners. Imagine if they made a LAW saying that all relationships would be determined by RANDOM selection. That would SUCK! One common idea that is very "popular" today is that there isn't much difference between men and women. Or within men and women, any label of "attraction" is a social construct. This is utter horse poopy. Imagine a couple of ladies in front of you. One is your absolute DREAM girl. The other is the OPPOSITE of your DREAM girl. Both in EVERY WAY. Body type, hair type, personality type, intelligence, EVERYTHING. Dream girl on one side. Anti-dream girl on the other. If you had a MAGIC WAND, that could easily make EITHER GIRL fall madly in love with you, which would you choose? Is there ANYTHING that would make you NOT choose the REAL dream girl? No effing way! Here's the harsh truth. Women feel the SAME WAY about men. There are DREAM MEN, and there are ANTI dream men. Which one do you want to be? Learn How: https://mindpersuasion.com/seductive-frame/
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https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/Jun25Post.mp4 If you've ever made the switch from regular soda to diet soda, it might be a little harsh at first. But it's easy to get used to. And if you drink regular soda by accident, it will taste like pure sugar water. This happens to your taste buds, if you gradually shift to a healthier diet. If you get into the habit of eating healthy, processed food taste really bad. If you re-calibrate your taste buds to the natural sweetness of fruit, eating some ice cream would be too much. If you work out regularly, but can't for some reason, it feels like something's missing. Some negative loops are HARD to escape from. If you start eating processed food, and spend a lot of time being as lazy as possible this is a HARD cycle to escape from. But some loops are so bad, you do anything to escape from them. For example, imagine if all you ate for a few meals in a row was PURE junk food. Like nothing but extra sugar soft drinks and donuts. After a couple of days, your body would be STARVING for something more substantial. If you were really depressed and stayed in bed, eating junk food and watching Netflix, you'd eventually feel COMPELLED to get up and at least stretch. The modern world is messed up in a lot of ways. Every where you look, you can find examples of a "race to the bottom." This, of course, is just a metaphor. Nobody is really trying to get to the "bottom." But companies always try and out do each other. There is always competition. But in most areas now, companies and people are competing for how EASY they can make things. How INSTANT they can make things. Not LITTLE we need to think to consume things. This makes us have shorter and shorter attention spans. Which makes them compete even more for quicker, easier, and lazier thinking based things. But deep inside, we STILL have our ancient instincts. Instincts for food, instincts for real social validation, and instincts for sex. Most relationships today are in the "junk food" category. Fake looks, fake personalities, fake everything. But everybody out there still craves that which fed our ancient instincts for hundreds of thousands of years. When it comes to relationships most people's brains have been destroyed by online dating. We've been trained to decide within LESS than a second wether we want to hook up with somebody. There is NO WAY we would have survived if this was natural. It is not. What is natural? It's the one thing that EVERYBODY is craving. Even if they don't know it. Learn More: https://mindpersuasion.com/seductive-frame/
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https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/May20Post.mp4 If you are a fan of science fiction, you'll eventually run into the idea of a silicon based life form. The reason for silicon is it's kind of related to carbon. Now, why does life on Earth, and according to scientists, life in the rest of the universe made up of carbon? Not just carbon, but carbon, hydrogen and oxygen? Those three atoms have TONS of different ways they can link up together. Carbon has four valence electrons. What does that mean? That carbon can hook up with each one of those valence electrons. Hydrogen has one. Oxygen has six valence electrons. Carbon has four different connectors. Oxygen has six. Hydrogen has one. This means the various combinations are IMMENSE between these three atoms. All the food we eat, where we get our energy from, is stored in these various carbon-hydrogen-oxygen connectors. We eat the food, be it plant or animal, and our bodies break apart those bonds and that's where we get our energy from. On it's most basic level, life is all about connections. The more connections, the more complex, the better. This is true on a very basic, organic chemistry level. This is true on a large, human society level. The more connections you've got, the better. Now consider this experiment. You've got one lonely carbon atom, bouncing around by itself. Will it connect with anybody? Nope. Nobody to connect to. Now fill up that same chamber with BILLIONS of other carbon and oxygen and hydrogen atoms, and what happens? This is how they believe life happened in the first place. A whole bunch of atoms and basic molecules bouncing around. The sheer number of atoms and molecules were so HUGE something was BOUND to happen. What about human connections? If you sit around in your house and wait, they are very unlikely. The only people you'll connect with are Mormons and Jehovah's witnesses. But if you want to make REAL connections, you gotta get out and around people. Not to go through a bunch of cold approaches, or collect numbers. Just get out there and bounce around. That's EXACTLY what they mean when they say, "put yourself out there." This is the cool paradox about human connections. It really is possible to simply "be yourself" and find plenty of connections. All those atoms and molecules that were bouncing around were being themselves. They eventually smashed into each other enough times and created life. Life became more complex. Cut out the long boring middle part, and today there is YOU. Reading this very sentence. Within the same set of rules. The more you "put yourself out there" the more connections will organically happen. What kind of connections? Friends, lovers and everybody in between. Learn More: https://mindpersuasion.com/love-magnet/
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https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/May19Post.mp4 Imagine you were having a big dinner party. You just got a promotion, or she said yes, or any other reason. You were cooking something that you'd never cooked before. Some huge roast pork of some kind. All your dinner guests were excited, ready to taste the delicious smelling pork. You check the recipe, and it says to cook it until it reaches an internal temperature of 170 degrees. You check it, and sure enough, 170 degrees. You pull it out, cut it up, serve to your guests. They eat it. Only twenty minutes later, everybody dies! Egads! You wonder what's wrong. You haven't been arrested yet, so you do some experimenting in your kitchen. You think maybe your thermometer might be the culprit. You put it in a pot of boiling water that you KNOW the temperature of. Only your thermometer says is TWICE AS HIGH as you know it is!' That's why! Your thermometer is out of calibration! Ok, here's another silly story. Your friend said he'd give you $1,000,000 if you can jump your motorcycle over crocodile canyon. You dust off your calculus book, do some calculations, and figure if you hit the ramp at 80 mph, you should make it. So you hit the ramp, your speedometer reads 80 mph, and you start dreaming of your million bucks. Until you land smack dab in the middle of crocodile river. After you recover, you take in your bike and have it checked. You THOUGHT you were going 80 mph, (that's what your speedometer said) but you were really going 40 mph! Egads! This is what happens when things aren't calibrated properly. You are getting readings that you THINK are accurate, but they are not. This happens in movies all the time. If they are comedies, the are funny. If they are not comedies, they are CRINGE worthy. Some lady will give a guy a hug. An emotional, FRIENDLY hug. But the guy thinks it's a SEXUAL hug. He starts reaching his hand up the back of her shirt. She pulls back, horrified. What the heck do you think you're doing, bub!? His "sexual interest response meter" was IMPROPERLY calibrated. Calibrated based on HOPE rather than data. When most of our instinctive measurements are OUT of calibration life SUCKS. Death dinner parties, eaten by crocodiles, and getting slapped in the face. But when you RE-CALIBRATE your instincts? Life is good. REALLY good. Good times, sexy hugs, and not a crocodile sight! Learn More: https://mindpersuasion.com/love-magnet/
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https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/May18Post.mp4 The best relationships are mutually beneficial. Even raising kids. Sure, the kid doesn't do much except receive stuff from the parent. Food, safety, love, various forms of teaching, etc. But the benefit to the parent is immeasurable. The child knows absolutely nothing about this ancient arrangement. They just show up, and suck as much experiential data into their brains as possible. But once you have a kid, it changes everything. It changes your outlook, your priorities and the things make you happy, as well as the things that keep you up at night. This is automatic, instinctive, and subconscious. Nobody needs to "plan" to become a parent. Sure, in modern times, there are plenty of busybodies who make it their business to make sure other parents are parenting "correctly." But if being an effective and loving parent was something that some goof needed to teach, we would have gone extinct hundreds of thousands of years ago. When you have a kid, it's like a switch goes off in your brain. This is how ALL our instincts work. Some are more powerful than others. But it's kind of like the science and the rainbow debate. Some philosopher once feared that if he knew the science behind the rainbow, it would make it less beautiful. But scientists know better. The more you understand the science behind the rainbow, the more beautiful and astonishing it becomes. The same with human instincts. From the outside, it's EASY to detach emotionally and talk about them as if we are Vulcans. "Hmm, it appears these humans have some kind of genetic based, emotional binding force that keeps them together when it appears illogical to do so..." But inside of these seemingly scientific emotions is LIFE. And everything wonderful about it. However, there is a bit of a problem with our vast collection of emotions. They are somewhat out of calibration. They were calibrated for a much different time, when our environment was much simpler, and much more dangerous. Which CAN present a problem. But only if you stumble through life half asleep, with blinders on. Take off the blinders, understand your instincts, and the emotions they create, and get to work. Get to work doing what? Deliberately creating the situations that will create the BEST emotional response. Friendship, food, health, social validation instincts, and of course, the very best instinct: Love. Get Started: https://mindpersuasion.com/love-magnet/
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https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/May17Post.mp4 Mother Nature is a genius. The way she calibrated our instincts to survive back in the day was fantastic. Particularly when you consider our brains, our main feature. Brains are extremely expensive. Thinking about difficult subjects is literally hard work. Our brains burn more calories per gram than any other body part. So sitting and studying algebra literally is hard work. And way back in the day, when our brains were tripling in size over a couple million years, a decision had to be made. Our brains weren't even close to being finished. But there was a very physical limit. The width of female hips. If the hips kept growing bigger, as our brains kept growing bigger (over the thousands of generations) we would have lost the ability to walk. Turns out walking, or being "bi-pedal" is a close second to our big brains. We need both. This presented a problem. This meant that as our brains kept growing bigger and bigger, we were born less and less finished. Which meant it would take longer and longer for us to "grow up." We spend AT LEAST 4 years being utterly helpless. And potentially dangerous once get up and run around. And back then, no one person could afford to stick around unless somebody else would get TWICE as much food. Half for them, and half for mom and the kid. This is where Mother Nature's utter genius kicks in. From a purely tribal standpoint, this is sheer brilliance. Men compete with one another to get food. Whoever is the most productive, meaning whoever consistently kills the biggest animals, gets the most social status and recognition. This social status and recognition sparks the most desire in all the females. So the better a hunter any one dude is, the more CHOICE he's got with the young cave girls. But this is only the beginning. See, Mother Nature KNEW if that any of these dudes had a "hit it and quit it" instinct, the tribe would fall apart. So she created a much more POWERFUL instinct. Much more powerful than sex. The one that GLUED two people together long enough to give the baby a fighting chance. This is where we get this instinct. We see a pretty lady. We want to accomplish something MAGNIFICENT to hopefully get her attention. And once we are with her, this is when LOVE, the best instinct, kicks in. At least, this is how it used to work in the old days. Today our society is essentially a train wreck. A train that crashed because it was driven by drunken clowns. But these deep instincts are still there. In everybody. In you. And when you learn HOW to manage them, you CAN feel that true feeling of love. Just the way nature intended. Learn How: https://mindpersuasion.com/love-magnet/
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https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/May16Post.mp4 The metaphors we use are very helpful. But only if we pay attention to them. Most of the time, metaphors are used only to make sure we are talking about the same thing. And most of the time, nearly all of these metaphors are used unconscious. Our language is filled with metaphorical expressions of unknown origins. It's easy to see why. Somebody says something, metaphorically, to mean something. It sounds pretty cool, so everybody else starts to use it. Metaphorical expressions can exist in spoken language for a long time before being written down. So by the time they appear in print, nobody really knows the how that particular metaphor was created. There is no evidence. Some examples are statements like, "raining cats and dogs." Everybody knows that means raining very hard. But nobody knows WHEN people started saying that. Or why they, and everybody heard them understand that raining cats and dogs MEANT raining very hard. Sure, there are plenty of theories. And if you took a vote, there would be one theory that was preferred over all theories. But without any EVIDENCE of when and why that was first used, it's really just a guess. Just because everybody likes one particular reason doesn't mean it's true. Stephen Pinker points that we have many, many phrases like this in English. Phrases where everybody KNOWS, but nobody knows WHY those phrases mean those things. And because they are only spoken, sometimes for decades or even CENTURIES, it is IMPOSSIBLE to find the origin of those statements. Cocktail, kick the bucket, there are phrases that we know the meaning, but not the origin. In a sense, these exist in our brains as DEFINITIONS. "kick the bucket = die." "bucket list = something you do before you die." Because they exist in our brains that way, we don't NEED to know the origins. Other metaphors are interesting, but for different reasons. One is the intangible nouns we use. We use them AS IF they were real objects. I'm "in" a meeting. What, exactly IS a meeting? A shared hallucination. Sure, there's a table, some chairs, papers, phones, coffee machines, but the meeting itself is an intangible noun. But we say IN a meeting indicates that our ancient monkey brains think of a meeting AS IF it were some kind of container. What other intangible nouns are containers? Love. As in "I'm in love." Or, "I think I'm falling in love with you." If you've ever BEEN in love, AND you've ever jumped from a very high point, you know this is accurate. Falling due to gravity and falling due to a sudden emotional connection to somebody feels very much the same. If you want to fall due to gravity, it's pretty easy. But what if you want to fall due to love? What then? Here's What: https://mindpersuasion.com/love-magnet/
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https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/May15Post.mp4 Way back before recorded history, there was this huge war. They believe it happened during the Bronze Age collapse, which started around 1200 BC. This war is referred to as "World War Zero." And the best they can guess was a bunch of folks from one area, south of the Mediterranean, who they think were referred to as the "Sea People," vs a bunch of people from Northern Greece. Some folks reckon this was the true events with later led to the idea of the Trojan War. For a while, they believed the Trojan War was pure myth. Until they found some ancient ruins, in what is now Turkey, of what many now believe as Troy. There may have even bee a whole bunch of Troy's piled on top of one whatever. Cities collapse and are later rebuild in the same place. Now, suppose you were a Greek writer, and you wanted to tell the story of what was then the GREATEST war in human history? The first time one collection of people on one side of the known world got together and fought together against people on the other side? Back when few people know how to write, and most of the stories were handed down? What would you, the ancient poet, (This is Homer we're talking about, by the way) use to give this story a HUMAN feeling? And a believable reason for the war? Well, what Homer did use was the most powerful force in human history. Love. Not happy love, but lost love. Two dudes, one lady. Oldest story in the world. Based on the strongest human emotion in the world. Of course, the characters themselves were epic. Paris, the dude who stole the lady, was the ultra lady's man. Helen of Troy, the most beautiful woman in the world. King Menelaus of Sparta, the vengeful husband. And of course, Hector, Paris' brother. BAMF defender of Troy. Love triangle, some epic characters, and boom! You got a story that has been read for thousands of years. A story that is essentially re-told for thousands of years. Romeo and Juliet, the Jets and the Sharks, and countless other retellings of the most powerful, most ancient, most destructive forces of human nature. Forbidden love that leads to massive bloodshed. Why is love so strong? Because without it, we'd still be living in trees and eating bananas. Human brains are big. Human brains are expensive. So only those raised by LOVING parents could survive. Love that was absolutely NOT optional. You fall in love, you stay together for life. Your love gets taken, and you fight a war to get them back. Love is, without question, the greatest emotion. Get Some: https://mindpersuasion.com/love-magnet/
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https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/May04Post.mp4 There are two basic ways we humans fall in love. Slowly, and quickly. When it happens quickly, consider that this MUST be based on superficial ideas. Simply because we humans are so complex. And it takes a LONG TIME to get to know us. So when you meet somebody, and you fall in love with them very QUICKLY, it CAN'T be about things you know about them. But at the same time, we all have experiences having a HUGE crush on people we rarely know. How is this possible? For one, we all have a "love instinct." Or, rather a collection of "love instincts." Meaning we all have an IDEAL PERSON we are carrying around inside our brains. We also have a TON of biases. One of the most powerful for falling in love is confirmation bias. We all have a largely subconscious idea of our DREAM LOVER. And because reproduction is a POWERFUL force, this dream lover idea is VERY IMPORTANT to us. Kind of like when you are super hungry, and you're driving to a restaurant. Even if you've never been there before, you will FANTASIZE about what you will eat. Most modern humans are absolutely STARVED for love. So we have a very STRONG dream lover living in our brains. The absolute best case, dream person whom we'd do ANYTHING to be with. This is the source of one way crushes that are IMPOSSIBLE to get out of our mind. It works like this. We have this huge dream lover in our brain. We see a person who matches this dream lover. Once THAT idea wakes up, that THAT person might be our DREAM lover, our ancient instincts kick in. The ancient instincts that said we only get ONE CHANCE. This fires up our confirmation bias. Since our imaginary dream lover is UNDEFINED, and lives in our subconscious, this confirmation bias is a TWO WAY street. We find all the qualities about THEM that match our dream lover. We augment our vague, dream lover hallucination so it will more match that person we see in real life. Add in some scarcity, and BOOM! You're in love. Even if you've never talked to them. Every time you are away from THIS PERSON, your mind goes into over drive. MIS-REMEMBERING who they really are, to match your dream lover hallucination. RE-CALIBRATING your dream lover to match the real person. This is how people FALL IN LOVE. When two people feel the same way about EACH OTHER? Wars have been fought for less. LITERALLY. Luckily, there is a wonderful, powerful and hypnotic way to MOVE this process along. With anybody. Learn How: https://mindpersuasion.com/hypnotic-seduction/
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https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/Mar29Post.mp4 There are a lot of ways to leave a positive impression on somebody. Meaning you interact with them, the interaction ends, and you go your separate ways. The more you can leave a positive impression, the more they'll think about you. The more they think about you while they are away from you, the BETTER they'll tend to think about you. If you are a salesperson, and you leave a positive impression on them, as they are shopping around, they'll compare all other salespeople to YOU. The BETTER of an impression you leave, the BETTER you'll look in comparison. And the more likely they'll EAGERLY come back to you. At first, this may seem difficult. After all, it's you against all the other guys, right? But most people, including salespeople, are pretty clueless about leaving a positive impression. Leaving a positive impression PRESUPPOSES they will leave, and then come back. For most salespeople, this is TERRIFYING. But for an enlightened salesperson, this is FANTASTIC. A BEST CASE scenario. Because, as it turns out, leaving a positive impression on people is pretty easy. And, for salespeople, it's much more profitable. The MORE people come to you, and then go shop around, so long as they have a positive impression of YOU in their mind, the more they'll come back. This will not only create a nice, relaxing, enjoyable conversation with every customer who walks into your shop. But it will also create a FLOOD of customers coming BACK because all the other goofs were trying all kinds of short term "game." Even better is if you use this technique socially. Particularly if you are intending to create a romantic relationship. Or MANY romantic relationships. The same structure will happen. First conversation is EASY and relaxed. You are insanely confident BECAUSE you know that the competition doesn't stand a chance. So after they have a nice, relaxing, FIRST conversation with you, they'll talk to the "competition." And all the competition will seem WEAK compared to you. All the competition will seem DESPERATE compared to you. All the competition will seem shallow and hopeless compared to you. Which will cause a secondary FLOOD of people thinking of you. And what happens when people think about you, when they are away from you? They tend to fall in love, that's what. So, the money question. How, specifically, do you CREATE this lasting impressions? First, you STOP trying to impress them with anything that has to do with YOU. You ask them questions that will resonate in their mind. That will make them dig deep to find out the BEST THINGS about themselves. Questions they'll be thinking about for DAYS. Questions that will make YOU look better and better. Especially compared to all the desperate slobbering goofs wandering the Earth. Learn More: https://mindpersuasion.com/deep-mind-persuasion/
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https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/Mar24Post.mp4 According to anthropologists, language and conscious thought is why humans eventually took over the planet. Many other animals can learn, but humans can do so collectively. This means we can discover and idea, and share it with others. Once everybody has this idea, it becomes part of the "collective consciousness." This allowed humans to learn as a group. Even from generation to generation. Even while skipping a bunch of generations. This is one of the things that ended the dark ages, and opened up the enlightenment. They started to "re-discover" the things the Greeks did. This is the power of language. The power of thought. It's how two people who have just met can lose hours over a simple dinner date. Talking and sharing and creating a "mutually shared hallucination." When this happens, it is very rare, and very beautiful. When two people talk, and there is mutual physical and sexual attraction, that's pretty cool. But it CAN be pretty nerve wracking. Both people KNOW there is some kind of attraction. So both people are very nervous. They both want to keep this. Neither wants to ruin this. So they both are very careful to NOT say anything stupid. This is essentially how all "organic" relationships start. It usually takes a while. Something like this is HARD to engineer. It has to happen in it's own time. This is why the best relationships come through mutual social circles. There is a lot of possibilities of these random meetings. Where that organically growing attraction can grow. It's also why a lot of people stay with their high school sweet heart. High school is a great place to meet your life partner. It has ALL the ingredients. Mutual social circles. Plenty of opportunities to "find yourself" in a conversation. Plenty of times when you both like the other, but you aren't sure how the other feels about you. These kinds of feelings are the INTENTION of any kind of conscious game. Where you see somebody, you would very much like to get to know them, but you don't have the necessary organic opportunities. You see them, you WANT to create that mutual attraction, but you don't have much time. The tendency is to use an outside-in approach. To use "artificial" game techniques that are meant to IMPRESS the other person. These do work. But they only work in the short term. Sometimes TOO much. Kind of like starting an exercise program too fast. The desire is there, but you might blow out a tendon. What's the solution? Twofold. One, find out ABOUT them. Not in a superficial way. Not in a "who is your favorite band," way. But find out HOW they think. Find out the structure of their thoughts. This will actually CREATE those deep and long lasting conversations that most people think are very, very rare. Once you can GENERATE those "rare" feelings in anybody, you'll be the one they chase. Learn How: https://mindpersuasion.com/deep-mind-persuasion/
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https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/Dec28Post.mp4 Many things have two time components. Short term and long term. These are almost always inversely proportional to one another. For example, sleeping in and then eating carne asada nachos along with a bottle of Jack Daniels feels very good in the short term. But it will kill you in the long term. On the other hand, getting up early, doing some calisthenics, and carefully monitoring your caloric intake most definitely SUCKS in the short term. But it will generate some very LONG term gains. Another common human trait is to get bad things over with as quickly as possible. Like pulling of a bandage. Or setting a bone. Or doing your taxes. If you combine these two you CAN end up in disaster. Especially when it comes to attempting to create attraction in the ladies. Generally it works like this. A guy sees a cute girl. He is getting some signs of interest, but you can never be too sure unless you go over there and say hey. So, the guy uses the bone setting approach. To get it OVER with as quickly as possible. But guys also tend to try the short term approach. To try to generate attraction RIGHT NOW. This very rarely works. Even the most confident guys, when trying this technique, have a VERY LOW success rate. Instead, consider flipping the script on BOTH models. One, forget about short term attraction. Attraction is BEST created in HER mind when you're not around. When she's thinking about you. Wondering about you. This, after all, was how feelings of love and attraction happened naturally. When she was thinking about you, and not knowing WHEN or even IF she would see you again. So, if you walk over there and make it OBVIOUS you want to jump in her panties, she'll never WONDER about you. Since she KNOWS that all she has to do is call and you'll come running. How, specifically, can you create the wonderful wondering effect that most ladies are desperate for these days? One is to become a Man with a Plan. A guy who's got a lot more going on in his life that trying to jump in any girl's panties who gives him more than a nanosecond of eye contact. Two, is when you talk to her, makes sure she's NOT SURE if you are interested in her or not. How do you do this? By asking her questions about HER. Not to judge her, not to qualify her, but just to get a better picture of her. Ask her about her future plans, her dreams, and whatever else she LIKES about herself. No judgement, but also not obvious compliments. Ask her, become interested in her, and leave while she's still feeling good. Then she'll wonder about you and HOPE that she sees you again. Start to do this normally, not just with cute girls, but with everybody, and pretty soon the world will be filled with cute girls wondering about you. And hoping you contact them again. Learn How: https://mindpersuasion.com/get-girls/
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Invisible Attraction: https://mindpersuasion.com/invisible-attraction/ https://soundcloud.com/mindpersuasion/invisible-attraction https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/Dec05Loop.mp4
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Inter Generational Resonance: https://mindpersuasion.com/inter-generational-resonance/ https://soundcloud.com/mindpersuasion/inter-generational-resonance https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/Nov28Loop.mp4
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Oscillating Desires: https://mindpersuasion.com/oscillating-desires/ https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/Nov19Loop.mp4
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Hypothetical Love Insanity: https://mindpersuasion.com/hypothetical-love-insanity/ https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/Nov18Loop.mp4
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https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/Oct11Post.mp4 They say that no man is an island. What does this mean, specifically? Nobody can exist on their own. Even you happen to have a fat enough bank account, and nice cabin far away from society, it is impossible to survive without other people. The stuff you buy has to be made by other people. The plumbing and electricity in your home has to be maintained by other people. Once a science writer tried, as an experiment, to make a toaster from scratch. Something that you can get for $20. Something so simple we take it for granted. But he wanted to see how complicated it would to build one. Entirely from scratch. Not buying the parts and putting them together. But creating the copper and the metal and the rubber and everything. It turned out that it was impossible. That's just the toaster. Making bread would be equally difficult. Grow the wheat, grind the wheat, mix it with water, put it in the oven. Of course, that oven would be need to be made. So even if you've got tons of money, getting what you want absolutely depends on other people. Sometimes this is as easy as handing over the cash, and them handing over whatever it is you want. Some bread, a toaster, etc. But what about things that can't be purchased? Like friendship or love? What about the money itself? Turns out this is where most people have the most trouble. The non-financial transactions. Making friends, creating relationships, and creating fat income streams. This isn't something they teach in school. Not even business school. Sure, they have all kinds of theories. But these theories are pretty vague. Especially when it comes to making friends and collecting romantic partners. The most common advice is very, very vague. Be yourself. Be more confident. Make a move. Easy for those who do those things easily. But what about the rest of us? What SPECIFICALLY do we do? What SPECIFICALLY do we say? Luckily, there is a system. A very simple system. To get from where you are, to where you want to be. To create fantastic feelings in others. So they'll be MORE than willing to help you get what you want. Whatever it is. Especially if it comes from them. Learn How: https://www.udemy.com/course/get-anybody/
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https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/Sept29Post.mp4 A lot of things we humans do is to avoid facing tough issues. Eating, sex, TV, alcohol, drugs, etc. But unless we face these tough issues, they won't go away. For most of us, these aren't nearly as dramatic as on TV or in the movies. For most of us, these are like Mark Twain fears. Mark Twain famously said that 90% of his fears never happened. But unless you realize this, they will SEEM real. Which is the basis of one of those clever acronyms. F.E.A.R = "false enemies appearing real" The problem is unless you look at them in the eye, and PROVE to yourself they are false, they will act as if they are real. In every hero's journey story is what Joseph Campbell called the "belly of the whale experience." It's when Luke had to go into the cave in "Empire Strikes Back" to face Vader. It's when Gandalf the Gray faced the demon of hell that "shall not pass." And became Gandalf the White. It's when Hercules had to spend time in Hell before becoming a hero. It's also when Jonah was in the belly of a literal whale. And when Jesus was in the tomb for three days. Why are these "belly of the whale" experiences in nearly every hero's journey story? Because unless we face our FALSE FEARS inside, we'll never be able to face our real obstacles in the world. The obstacles in the real world are NEVER as big and scary as we THINK our inner fears and demons are. The ones that come in the middle of the night. Those pesky worries that invade an otherwise good night's sleep. Back in the times of hunters and gatherers, our deepest fears were VERY dangerous. They involved killing a huge animal that didn't want to be killed. For most ancient hunters, unless they literally FACED this fear, they would never get the good stuff in life. The mad social status. The crazy sex. The rock star treatment. All that was on the OTHER SIDE of facing their fears. Literally face to face with a much larger animal that very much DID NOT WANT to be killed. So every story they listened to around the campfire growing up had heroes who faced much bigger monsters. Dragons and demons and witches. If you never face your inner fears, the good things in life will always be out of reach. If you DO face your inner fears, the good things in life will be possible. Not easy, but possible. Mechanical even. Learn How: http://mindpersuasion.com/seven-rules/
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https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/Sept19Post.mp4 There are two ways to respond to the world. This assumes that every single human will look out into the world and see it as being LESS than ideal. This must be true. Since all humans will always have a collection of unmet needs. Food, water, protection from the elements. Emotional, sexual, relationship needs. All these need to come from our environment. So at any given time, every single one of us looks out into the world. When we do so, we have a collection of things in our mind that we would like FROM the world. Some are conscious and simple. Some are unconscious and utterly complex. Some things can be satisfied quickly and easily. Some may take a lifetime, and we still may fall short. How we RESPOND to this common human experience will define our lives. When we are very young, we are helpless. We absolutely DEPEND on those around us who have much more power than us. Those who have many more resources than us. Up to a certain age, it is absolutely necessary to expect OTHER PEOPLE to satisfy our needs. But beyond a certain age, we need to start getting our own needs in our own way. You may even say this is the main PURPOSE of our life. To MAXIMIZE the stuff we can get FROM the world. By interacting WITH the world. Of course, part of this involves recognizing that the entire world is filled with other people. With every one having that same exact strategy. To interact WITH the world. To get their needs met FROM the world. It's common to think that SOME of our needs are still NOT our responsibility. Even as adults. How can this be? This would REQUIRE that some adults have the responsibility of TAKING CARE of those they will never meet. Non relatives. This is a dangerous idea. Of expecting your needs to be met by people you will never meet. It's one thing to put energy INTO the system, and expect energy OUT OF the system. Energy in being work, time, effort, etc. Energy out being money, goods, things we need for life, etc. This is healthy. This natural. Put in, and get out. As you go through life, you maximize the ratio. By making the things you PUT IN more and more valuable. And that you can do with less and less effort. But if you only expect to get things OUT, without also putting things IN, that creates problems. Because what if EVERYBODY on Earth decided to do that? The flip side is that you can figure out how to MAXIMIZE the ratio of inputs and outputs. Creating a much better life. Learn How: http://mindpersuasion.com/seven-rules/
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https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/Sept15Post.mp4 Humans tend to externalize quite a bit. It's a very useful instinct. Imagine an ancient dude is out hunting. He tosses his spear at a animal and misses. If he got angry or upset at himself, that would NOT be very effective. Externalizing, on the other hand, would be very effective. Getting mad at the animal. This would cause anger. Anger would create more energy and motivation. This worked perfectly back in the day. When it was US vs. our environment. US were the people we lived with. The people we grew up with. Our environment was other animals. Other tribes. Or forces of nature that were treated like people. The gods of the sky, etc. Today, our instincts are flip flopped. Hunger is the easiest to understand. Back then, the rule was simple. Eat whatever tastes good. Eat as much as you can. Eating as much as you can was necessary because food was hard to find. Eating whatever tasted good was necessary, since there was a high correlation between good tasting food and healthy food. Tree bark, dirt, etc., didn't taste good and it wasn't healthy. Fresh meat tasted good and it was healthy. So were vegetables, fruits, some plants. Today, if we BLINDLY follow our hunger instincts, we'll get metabolic syndrome. Obesity, stress, high cholesterol, high blood pressure. We have to use our conscious minds to regulate our hunger instinct. Our externalizing instinct is also similarly messed. Back then, our environment was stuff that we needed to kill, or was trying to kill us. Today, our environment is other people. Back then, trying to kill an animal and getting mad at the animal was very useful. Today, trying to interact with other people, and getting mad at them if we don't, is NOT a useful strategy. Luckily, we can use our conscious minds to understand, tame and regulate our social instincts. Turns out this is MUCH EASIER than regulating our hunger instinct. Hunger is life or death. Social instincts are not. Which means when you figure out HOW to regulate and manage both your social instinct and your externalizing instinct, social interactions are MUCH easier. Which social interactions? All of them. Friends, lovers and everything in between. Learn How: http://mindpersuasion.com/love-instict/
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https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/Sept14Post.mp4 There are a lot of cartoon events that make for useful metaphors. A common one is when Wiley E. Coyote runs off a cliff. And he doesn't know he's no longer on solid ground. He stops, looks the viewer, and holds up a sign. He has to hold up a sign since coyotes can't speak. The sign usually says something like, "uh oh..." This is a very applicable metaphor. Useful for when describing something that has gone on too long. And what worked before is no longer working. Only nobody realizes it. The idea being that once people realize what's happening, they'll have a "Wiley E Coyote" moment. Then everything collapses. Lately, this metaphor has been applied to our economy. Specifically, the MASSIVE amount of global debt. Supposedly, everybody is going to realize that it's no longer working. And we'll all plummet to our death. Or something. But like many metaphors, they are very easily misapplied. The map, as they say, is not the territory. Even in the cartoon, Wiley E never dies. Even though if anybody DID run off a cliff, they would. Gravity is pretty quick. But collapsing economies usually take a while. Plenty of things can go on FAR longer than people think. From a purely historical standpoint, every single society that has ever existed has ended. Sometimes slowly and boringly. Sometimes quickly and chaotically. But they all end. One of the reasons may be that our mind-body systems were not exactly created to keep large societies. Our mind-body systems were designed to live in small, tight-knit communities. Where everybody knew everybody. And everybody had the idea that if you wanted to consume, you had to produce. Even a few decades ago, you won't find nearly the social problems we have today. From a pure social issue standpoint, we ran off the cliff long, long time ago. And only now are we starting to realize it. This is another MIS-APPLICATION of that metaphor. Wiley E Coyote is ONE dude. Society is made up of MILLIONS. And unless we've got our arms linked together, and we are all running of the cliff at the same time, we can not only survive, but thrive. It's just matter of understanding HOW our instincts are causing so much modern disasters. Once you figure this out, it's actually pretty easy to NOT run off the cliff with every other goof. You just need to stop and think for yourself. Look around, figure out what you want, and get it. Learn How: http://mindpersuasion.com/love-instinct/
