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https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/Jan04Post.mp4 It's no secret that today's dating market is a dumpster fire. A romantic disaster. It's very easy to get frustrated today. Our instincts are getting yanked all over the place. If you're a guy, you can't help but to notice bombardments of pretty faces everywhere you look. At the same time, getting something going seems next to impossible. It's like being adrift on the ocean, and dying of thirst. Water, water, everywhere, and not a drop to drink. It would SEEM that the ladies have it easy. All they need to do is put up a decent photo on any online dating app, and they get tons of responses. Right? Not so fast. Believe it or not, ladies are just as frustrated as guys today. Sure, they get tons of responses, but nearly all of them are about as helpful as spam. Everybody is the same boat. That boat that is surrounded by water that you can't drink. The reasons for this are many. A corrupt system, tons of social media, the world sinking into entitlement. Everybody feels they deserve the goods, but nobody feels responsible for putting in any effort. Kind of like only eating processed, deep fried sugar. It sort of tastes good, but if that's ALL you eat, it will kill you. Male and female dating instincts are being fed with pure junk. That's why everybody is frustrated. Luckily, it's easy to fix. Especially if you are a guy. Guys are meant to lead. One of the reasons so many women are frustrated today is most men absolutely CANNOT lead. Most men are under the impression that looks are just as important to women as they are to men. Most men actually believe that if you get shredded, get some Chad like looks, all you need to do is show up, and the women will flock to you. This is what happens when you're ONLY experience is in online dating. In reality, your personality, your confidence, your frame are MUCH more important than how you look. Even more than how much you make, or how much you have. Think of an old fairy tale. What kind of guys do girls fantasize about? The prince. The man who WILL become king. Not the king. This is the missing ingredient in the modern dating dumpster fire. The missing ingredient is men with AMBITION. Not bling, not six packs, not looks. But raw, ancient male AMBITION. Build this, and you'll never worry about dating again. Learn How: https://mindpersuasion.com/get-girls/
There's a famous story of Hachi, a dog in Japan. He would follow his owner to the station every day. Hachi's master was a professor. Hachi would wait for him at the station around the time he got off work. But one day Hachi's master died at school. But Hachi kept waiting. (If this sounds familiar, they made a movie about this with Richard Gere). Now, exactly WHY Hachi (a dog) kept waiting is anybody's guess. Since we humans like to imagine animals with human emotions, it's a good story about loyalty, obedience, friendship, etc. It's also pretty widely known that when people lose limbs, they can develop "phantom limb syndrome." If they have their leg amputated, for example, they wake up nights with leg pain in their leg they don't have any more. Doctors recognize this as real pain, not imaginary. It seems both our brains, and a lot of animals (like Hachi) expect certain things to be there. And when they are gone (masters, legs, etc) we don't know how to cope. So our subconscious pretends they are there. This is normal. Plenty of experiments show, again and again, that humans are hierarchical. We NEED to line up according to SOME KIND of "pecking order." Even if there ISN'T a "real" leader, we NEED one. So we'll take whatever we can get. But it's really not so different from Hachi waiting for his dead master or somebody waking up with phantom limb pain. If there isn't a REAL leader, we'll IMAGINE one. This presents a good opportunity, both for good AND for evil. If you are evil, and you recognize people are desperate for a leader, you can easily hijack their minds and lead them to terrible places. Sadly, this happens quite often. On the other hand, if your intentions are GOOD, you can do the same. Lead people to wonderful places. Physical places, mental places, places of opportunity and discovery. Even inner exploration. If you lead, they will follow. Learn How: Cult Leader
I used to work with this guy that was from Cambodia. He was a living example of the saying that, "If you took all the money in the world and spread it out evenly, it would be back in the same hands within a generation." What does this mean? It means that those to have a lot of money, generally got it because they have skills that most of us normal humans don't have. Of course, more than a few people with these "money skills" are sociopaths who ONLY care about getting more money. But most of the folks who have a ton of money, worked for it. Just imagine for a second if the ONLY way to get a ton of cash was to be "evil." That means for us normal humans, we would HAVE TO choose between "evil" and "broke." Luckily, that's not the case. The question, however, is WHAT skills do those "money people" have? My Cambodian friend is a shining example. He came from a rich family. But when the communists took over, they had to flee. And they lost everything. He was even stuck in a "re-education" camp for a few months. Nearly starved to death. But when he eventually got to the states, he got busy building his fortune. Or RE-BUILDING. He was smart, so he studied everything he could. Worked in hospitals, build his own computers, and finally got an advanced degree in electronic engineering. But his degree and his technical skills are NOT what got him rich. He has a very rare skill, a skill most humans DO NOT possess. He would be in meetings with other engineers, smart dudes, and managers. They'd have a problem and nobody would know what to do. They were all worried, but this guy was frustrated. Frustrated that with all the brainpower sitting around the table, nobody was confident enough to make a decision. So HE started making the decisions. And THEY started following them. Some of them were right, some of them were wrong. But by CHOOSING what to do, and choosing STRONGLY, he made himself INVALUABLE to any company he worked for. And THAT is the skill that will get you paid. (And a lot else!) With that skill, and that skill alone, you can hire the smartest people in the world, and build an EMPIRE. Because most people are DESPERATE for a real leader. Even the smartest guys on the planet. When you LEAD, they will follow. Learn How: Cult Leader