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  1. Create Subconscious Halo Effects: https://mindpersuasion.com/create-subconscious-halo-effects/ https://mindpersuasion.com/3x3/
  2. How To Be The Source Of Truth: https://mindpersuasion.com/how-to-be-the-source-of-truth/ https://mindpersuasion.com/3x3/
  3. https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/Aug02Post.mp4 Most of "game" is reversed engineered from folks who are naturally successful. Most of sales is reversed engineered from folks who are naturally successful. This idea, of copying what works, is as old as time. The first guy who invented a spear probably copied from somewhere else. Maybe he was chasing some deer, the deer tripped and accidentally impaled himself on a tree branch. Then the cave guy thought: "Damn! Why didn't I think of that!" He tried it, and it worked. Everybody else copied him. Then one guy thought about combining a rock with a stick, and made the first "blade on a stick." Everybody copied that, and here we are a million years later. So it IS a very, very good strategy to copy what others are doing that works. But when it comes to game and sales, it's a lot more than what we see. In fact, a "truism" from an old school economist from the 1800's (Bastiat if you're interested) is very, very helpful: It's not what you see, it's what you don't see. Of course, he was talking about economics. And he was talking about long chains of invisible cause-effect. X happens, which causes Y to happen, which causes Z to happen, but only under certain circumstances. But all we see is the X and then, sometimes, a little bit later Z. You need to see all the stuff going on the middle to TRULY understand. And when it comes to game, and to a larger extent all sales and persuasion, what you DON'T see is much, much more important. This is something a lot of people don't like to even think about. Because what you DON'T see is a function if inner game. The stuff few people think about, for ANY reason. Because inner game is all about confidence, or lack of confidence. Beliefs, deep feelings of inadequacy, all the deep subconscious things running in the background that we never even notice. This is what Jung was getting at when he talked about making the unconscious conscious. That unless we make the unconscious conscious, it will run our lives, and we will call it fate. This is externalizing in a nutshell. We try to get an outcome, and we fail. We blame things OUTSIDE of us. The world, the gods, fate. But the things driving our behaviors are INSIDE us. All the things that we might describe as INNER GAME. Understand this part of you, understand EVERYTHING. Instead of copying a lot of outer game techniques, and trying to come up with a huge memorized checklist, solving inner game is MUCH EASIER. Re-calibrate your inner game, and all outer game, in ALL situations will become natural, automatic, and much more effective. Get Started: https://mindpersuasion.com/anxiety-killer/
  4. https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/Feb18Post.mp4 There's a lot of sayings from the self help space that are both really corny, but really true. They are corny not because of the saying themselves, but because of the goofs running around saying them. Most of these types of "truisms" are said by folks who really have no idea what they are talking about. So they say these things without fully understanding them. So they get applied to the wrong situations. And they end up sounding like self delusional BS. But once you experience these ideas, you "get them" on a much different level. Which will give you a much different reaction when the self-help goofs say these things. Before, you might be annoyed. By a bunch of pretend gurus saying a bunch of crap they don't understand. But after you experience one or two of these, you'll be amused. Like when little kids say things that they don't really understand, but they say them with an adorable, child like seriousness. Anyhow, enough preframing. What's the statement I'd like to explore? This one: Inch by inch, life's a synch. Yard by yard, life is hard. When we try and do too much, too soon, we fail miserably. Yo-yo diets, blown out knees from too much exercise, goals that are WAY too hard. This is essentially what happens when you run before you can walk. This is the mistake nearly every guy makes when he tries short term, superficial game. First you learn a few openers. Then you learn a few inter-conversational techniques. Then you learn a few closing techniques. Then you learn a few physical escalation techniques to try on the first or second date. That is when things usually go sideways. Why? Because for most guys, BEFORE you have sex, it's pretty easy to keep things logical, objective, strategic, etc. But once you cross the sexual threshold, ancient instincts take over. Unless you've already got a few dozen notches on your bedpost, your ancient caveman is going to REALLY want to KEEP this lady you're luckily banging. And once your ancient instincts take over, your logical brain doesn't stand a chance. Paradoxically, JUST when you start to feel this way, SHE loses interest. Because the YOU who is being driven by your rational, thinking, strategizing mind is a DIFFERENT YOU than the one driven by your ancient instincts. So, from her perspective, once you get laid, you CHANGE your personality. This is the EXACT reason behind the female joke: Why are men like bathroom tiles? Lay them once and you can walk all over them. What's the answer? Stop swinging for the fences! Forget about PUA nonsense for a while. Work on building a strong, masculine core. Through slow, steady, inch-by-inch exercises and drills. To build a very attractive REAL YOU. One that won't change no matter what. One that won't require ANY outer game. Just show up, be yourself, and pick whatever lady you like. Learn How: https://mindpersuasion.com/get-girls/
  5. https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/Feb17Post.mp4 It's no mystery that the dating market these days is an absolute dumpster fire. On the back of a train that is about to crash off a cliff. Being driven by drunken clowns who are also probably a little off to begin with. What's a guy to do? The main thing that makes modern dating so confusing, and extremely frustrating (and depressing) for modern men is online dating. Online dating is heavily tilted in women's favor. But not for reasons most people believe. And only on the surface. Firstly, we need to truly understand how male-female attraction works. Most people have an idea that men are more visual, which is why men are more drawn to looks. This is only half right. Men are drawn to looks, but NOT because men are visual. Men are drawn to looks is because from an evolutionary perspective, the best mates, from a caveman's perspective is based on how a woman looks. Not how she behaves or speaks or moves. But on how she looks. Why? Men only need to know that women are young and healthy. The job of women, according to evolution and mother nature, is to make more people. The younger a women is (yet beyond puberty) and the healthier she is, the more babies she can have. So, according to natural selection, men who happened to be attracted to young, healthy women had many more babies than men who were attracted to a different kind of women. This attraction is created through signs of youth, and signs of health. These are the SAME things that would describe a gorgeous woman. That's why women really only need to show their picture to create plenty of attraction in plenty of men. What about men? What kinds of things, in men, create attraction in woman? It's NOT looks. Women's job (according to evolution) is to make more people. What is man's job? To provide for those people. So, women evolved a natural attraction for men who demonstrate the traits associated with being a strong provider. Not a strong provider today, but a strong provider back when we were hunter-gatherers. This is VERY MUCH dependent on men's behavior. Confidence, social skills, leadership skills, speaking skills, persuasion skills. All the things that would make an ancient man a natural leader. Somebody who would demonstrate the ability to acquire resources. But many men today believe that women like men based on looks, just like men like women based on looks. This means VERY FEW men are even working on things like inner game. Most men are worried about looks, and very superficial things like short term game. So when you decide to work on your inner game, you will not only be very attractive to a LARGE number of women, giving you plenty of choice, but you'll leave all those pretty boys trying and failing in online dating in the dust. Even better, is working on inner game can be done anywhere, any time. No cold approaches or even conversations with ladies needed. Just keep building, and they will come to you. Learn How: https://mindpersuasion.com/get-girls/
  6. https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/Dec30Post.mp4 If you trade stocks, or are even passively interested in the markets, then you know what a moving average is. If you don't, it's pretty simple. Every day, any particular stock (or commodity, etc.) has an opening price, a high of the day, a low of the day, and the close. But to make it easier to see the general trend, they have a moving average. The ten day moving average is the average closing price of the last ten days. The two hundred day moving average of the last two hundred days. Generally speaking, if both the ten day moving average and the 200 day moving average are going up, the stock (or underlying company) is in good shape. Why is this important? Because people tend to think in terms of moving averages as well. Everything we see, we tend to compare, at least subconsciously to a bunch of other stuff. But since our memories are pretty short, we can only compare what we see to that last few things we've seen. Kind of like a mental moving average. Imagine a group of ancient hunters. One guy brings back a big kill on one day. For that particular day, he'll get a lot of recognition. But suppose the next several days, he doesn't kill anything. Most people will forget. Most of us have the "what have you done for me lately" filter in our brain. On the other hand, consider a guy who gets some decent kills a couple times a week. He'll have much more stable social status. And for all the ladies in the tribe, he'll be the one they crave. This is how women view men. Comparatively. Whatever you qualities you demonstrate, they necessarily will have to compare them to every other guy they remember in the past few days or weeks. For many guys, this intimidating. But only on the surface. Because guys only practice external game. When you practice internal game, all you need is a few minutes conversation to see you as somebody who stands out. Likely more than any guy she's ever talked to. And building up inner game is much easier, as it's more of a life skill than a pick up skill. And when any girl even suspects you've got more going on that chasing the ladies, this will DEFINITELY make her remember you. This will trigger her deep and ancient attraction instincts. Think about it from an ancient caveman perspective. Men went out hunting every day, hunting wealth. Women had to follow the men. Modern men, who purposely and overtly chase ladies, will NEVER trigger her deep and ancient instincts. You, on the other hand, can. And give her something she is starving for. And can't find anywhere else. Learn How: https://mindpersuasion.com/get-girls/
  7. https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/Jun13Post.mp4 One common piece of "advice" is to fake it till you make it. Sometimes this works pretty well. Other times it is bad advice. It works well when there is a simple correlation between inner state and outer behavior. And it's in an environment that is conducive. What's this mean? Normally, we think and behave naturally. We don't think about how we think. And we don't think about our thinking affects our behavior. Like if you are happy, you will naturally smile. But you can first smile, and hold it until it affects your inner state. And if you happen to be in a conducive environment, other people will see you smile and some will smile back. So if you are unhappy inside, but you FORCE yourself to exhibit happy behavior by smiling, you're faking it. Because it's a pretty close correlation between inner state and outer behavior, AND the environment is conducive to this, this is where faking it till you make it works. Even better is when you combine two simple "faked states." Like if you FORCE yourself to walk more upright and confident, AND you smile. If you're around fairly friendly people, this will work pretty well. On the other hand, faking it till you make it is HORRIBLE advice. Imagine trying this when selling $500 vacuum cleaners door to door. And you were trying to "fake" being the greatest vacuum cleaner salesman of all time. The reason this would be a disaster is neither of the two conditions are present. Not only is there NOT a simple correlation between inner state and outer behavior, but there is the OPPOSITE of a conducive environment. Most self help advice is like this. Pretty simple, and useful in SOME situations, but not in many. Sure, they sound good. Which means they're easy to remember. But in order to achieve real and continued success, you need to have a lot of skills. Inner skills and outer skills. Inner skills of thinking and feeling. Outer skills of speaking and behaving. And skills of reading the inner state of others. Often, this is the missing ingredient in a LOT of situations. You can remember all the best language patterns and techniques. But if you use them at the wrong time, with the wrong person, they'll backfire. The more you can READ the internal state of the person you're interacting with, the less you need to worry about complex external behavior. And more often than not, being able to accurately read others simply means turning OFF your inner anxiety. Since humans, in our natural state, are resonators. We can FEEL what each other is thinking and feeling with a lot of accuracy. But only when you get rid of the useless junk inside. Learn How: http://mindpersuasion.com/eq/
  8. https://mindpersuasion.com/outer-protection-inner-fear/
  9. What causes irresistible attraction in women? Money? Looks? Fancy clothes? Sure, these will get her attention. But if these AUTOMATICALLY caused attraction, then rich people would never get divorced. If having money CAUSED a girl to be attractive, then that attraction would exist as long as they money existed. And there're plenty of rich guys who couldn't get laid to save their lives. So there's got to be something different. Is it looks? Some girls are irresistibly attracted to ugly guys. It can't be looks. One way to understand this is take a broad look at human nature. We've only been living in large cities for a small fraction of the time we've been around. So the triggers for attraction have to be much older than anything we can find in modern society. What's the basic structure of pre-modern society? People were hunters and gatherers. Men hunted, and women gathered. Did men go hunting in the same spot every day? No, they did not. They were nomads. Because the animals they were hunting were always migrating. They men followed the animals, and the women followed the men. Every day the men would go out, and every day they could come back. What were animals back then? Wealth. They could use animals for food, for clothes, for weapons, for jewelry (that signaled status). So men chased wealth, and women chased men. Did men HAVE wealth? No, they rarely HAD wealth, at least the most important part (the meat) because it didn't last long. So in the ancient days, the most attractive men were the ones that were the most effective at CHASING wealth. What kind of wealth are YOU chasing? That is not only the secret to creating irresistible attraction in women, but creating a life worth living. What do you want to create with your life? How will you create your wealth? Start chasing it, and the women will follow. Click Here To Learn More
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