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  1. https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/Feb21Post.mp4 A very useful skill is to "go meta." This is why many couples go to therapy. The benefits aren't because some goof knows more about their relationship than they do, and can tell them what to do. The main benefit is the therapist, so long as they're decent, will remain objective. If we get into an argument with somebody, it's very easy to get stuck into our position. This makes it HARDER to be objective. This is sometimes called the pushback effect. Because it's VERY HARD for us humans to admit we are wrong, whenever somebody challenges our position, we dig in even further. But if you can manage to let go of your ego, and step back and get an objective view, it's much easier to settle differences. This requires that it's more important to have a healthy relationship that to "be right." This is difficult for any human. It's one of those inner game issues that requires CONSTANT calibration and re-calibration. If you go meta too much, you'll end up being a pushover, and everybody will treat you like a doormat. If you never go meta, and ALWAYS stick to your position, you'll be seen as an aggressive blowhard. With one person fighting another person, it's pretty difficult to maintain the right balance. But with PEOPLE in general, it's actually VERY EASY. It's the OPPOSITE of that old saying about betting on horses: You can beat the race, but you can't beat the races. Meaning you might get some inside info, or get lucky on individual race. But in general, you'll lose money, over time, at the races. If this WASN'T true, then all casinos, racetracks and other gambling places would go out of business. How does this apply to interpersonal relationships? It's hard to get an easy angle in any ONE relationship, but it's VERY EASY to gain considerable advantages over relationships, plural. How so? By stepping back and going meta, you can see EXACTLY what causes attraction in women. Both short term and long term. These are qualities about yourself that can be MEASURED. These are qualities about yourself that can be IMPROVED. Not just a little bit, but continuously. This leads to a very true statement about dating that is the grammatical opposite of horse racing. You can't get A GIRL to like you. But you can easily get GIRLS to like you. This leads to a very EASY strategy. Most guys spend all their time CHASING girls. This is a WASTE. What's a better alternative? Don't chase girls. Ever. Interact with them, yes. Be nice to them. Make them laugh, smile and feel good. But never, ever chase. So long as you are continuously building your inner masculine core, AND you are INTERACTING with people, more and more girls will be attracted to you. Which means more and more girls will start to CHASE you. They'll see you, compared to all the other guys. They'll see all the other girls, seeing you, compared to all the other guys. You can sit back and let them do the work. Of seducing you. Learn How: https://mindpersuasion.com/get-girls/
  2. https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/Feb18Post.mp4 There's a lot of sayings from the self help space that are both really corny, but really true. They are corny not because of the saying themselves, but because of the goofs running around saying them. Most of these types of "truisms" are said by folks who really have no idea what they are talking about. So they say these things without fully understanding them. So they get applied to the wrong situations. And they end up sounding like self delusional BS. But once you experience these ideas, you "get them" on a much different level. Which will give you a much different reaction when the self-help goofs say these things. Before, you might be annoyed. By a bunch of pretend gurus saying a bunch of crap they don't understand. But after you experience one or two of these, you'll be amused. Like when little kids say things that they don't really understand, but they say them with an adorable, child like seriousness. Anyhow, enough preframing. What's the statement I'd like to explore? This one: Inch by inch, life's a synch. Yard by yard, life is hard. When we try and do too much, too soon, we fail miserably. Yo-yo diets, blown out knees from too much exercise, goals that are WAY too hard. This is essentially what happens when you run before you can walk. This is the mistake nearly every guy makes when he tries short term, superficial game. First you learn a few openers. Then you learn a few inter-conversational techniques. Then you learn a few closing techniques. Then you learn a few physical escalation techniques to try on the first or second date. That is when things usually go sideways. Why? Because for most guys, BEFORE you have sex, it's pretty easy to keep things logical, objective, strategic, etc. But once you cross the sexual threshold, ancient instincts take over. Unless you've already got a few dozen notches on your bedpost, your ancient caveman is going to REALLY want to KEEP this lady you're luckily banging. And once your ancient instincts take over, your logical brain doesn't stand a chance. Paradoxically, JUST when you start to feel this way, SHE loses interest. Because the YOU who is being driven by your rational, thinking, strategizing mind is a DIFFERENT YOU than the one driven by your ancient instincts. So, from her perspective, once you get laid, you CHANGE your personality. This is the EXACT reason behind the female joke: Why are men like bathroom tiles? Lay them once and you can walk all over them. What's the answer? Stop swinging for the fences! Forget about PUA nonsense for a while. Work on building a strong, masculine core. Through slow, steady, inch-by-inch exercises and drills. To build a very attractive REAL YOU. One that won't change no matter what. One that won't require ANY outer game. Just show up, be yourself, and pick whatever lady you like. Learn How: https://mindpersuasion.com/get-girls/
  3. https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/Dec25Post.mp4 One way to figure out what to do is ask what a caveman would do. A common problem people have is with overeating. That's because our hunger instinct is out of calibration. Back in the day, we had to spend a lot of time, energy and risk to get food. So, our bodies slowly calibrated themselves, via natural selection, to our environment. So we have a three phase energy system. The first phase is we get a hungry feeling. This is an unconscious signal that makes us want to eat something. All animals have this, so we don't need conscious thought. Sure, we can describe our hunger. We can talk about how we can satisfy our hunger. But the hungrier we get, the more we want to eat something. For ancient humans, this got us up out of bed and got us out looking for something to eat. The second phase of our hunger instinct is when we actually HAVE something to eat. The "pleasure" of food in our mouths sends a signal to our brains. To stop thinking about anything else, and eat as much as we can. This is like a family on a road trip, stopping and filling up every time they pass a gas station. The third phase of our hunger instinct is that we store the extra. So we can go for DAYS between meals without dying. The longer we go without food, the hungrier we get. When we have food, we eat as much as we can and store the extra energy. An absolutely PERFECT system for an ancient world. Today, this SAME system will KILL you if you don't always and consciously manage it. Modern dating is the same. Our mating instincts in the PAST worked fantastically. Today, if we obey them they will DESTROY any chance of long lasting sex and love. So, how would it have worked in the past? Men were always away from the women, looking for something to kill. They would bring back stuff, and everybody, including all the ladies, would be grateful. Then the men would leave again. The women would NOT KNOW when they would come back. So when they did, they were grateful. And since men had to follow the animals (the wealth of hunter gatherers) the women had no choice but to follow the men. The instincts of men is to chase and kill (acquire) wealth. The instincts of women is to follow men. If you go to a fast food restaurant, it will be very hard to control your instincts. The food will trigger your ancient eating instincts whether you like it or not. If a woman sees a MAN WITH A PLAN, it will trigger her attraction instincts. Whether she likes it or not. Once they are triggered, she'll have little choice but to obey them. What will they make her do? FOLLOW the man who is chasing wealth. How to you BECOME this man? Learn How: https://mindpersuasion.com/get-girls/
  4. https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/Dec24Post.mp4 Short term benefits almost always create long term problems. This was essentially the story of the Pied Piper. Dude promised to rid a town of rats. He did, and then he came to collect. The townspeople decided not to pay him. So he got rid of all children the same way he got rid of the rats. Moral of the story? You can pay now, or you can pay later, but you're gonna pay. And basic economics tells us the LONGER you defer any payments, the more they will add up. This is why payday loans create such a vicious cycle. Some folks are SO desperate for money NOW, they don't care what the costs are. So when they borrow $500, for example, it might end up costing them a few thousand. If you decided to eat a bunch of junk food, it would taste great NOW, but the long term consequences would be much worse. If you decided to sleep in every day, it would feel good in the short term, but add up to disaster in the long term. This is one major reason why modern dating is such a dumpster fire of disaster. For example, a guy is desperate to get laid. He doesn't want to get laid in a year or two, he wants to get laid right NOW. The problem is, in order to dot this, he's got to use a ton of conscious effort. He's got to say things in the right way. Act in the right way. Listen carefully to what she says, and respond in the right way. This takes a lot of conscious effort. But it's also a very SHORT TERM strategy. Eventually, the REAL YOU will pop up. This is why many people get stuck in a serial monogamy trap. And just by playing the odds, if you are serial monogamist, HALF of those relationships will be ended by the OTHER PERSON. Getting dumped sucks. What's the solution? To stop using external game that requires a ton of conscious effort. Instead, learn to behave in a way that is NATURALLY attractive. So you don't even have to think about what to say and do. Just show up, and be yourself, and create attraction. The benefits of this are ENORMOUS. Once is you'll have real feelings of sexual abundance. You'll never feel like you need to TRY to get laid. You'll always feel like you have plenty of options. So you'll never need to worry about what to say or do. This will come across in your body language, energy and non verbal communication. Even better is girls will be trying to convince YOU to choose THEM. This will give you an ENTIRELY new outlook. One that will change all areas of your life. Learn How: https://mindpersuasion.com/get-girls/
  5. https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/Dec20Post.mp4 When it comes to food, we all have two choices. Stuff that tastes good, or stuff that is healthy. The holy grail would be both. But if you are like most people, you've tried several different attempts by food manufacturers to be both. But they fail miserably. Like you might eat some chips that are baked instead of fried. Not terrible, but not like regular chips. Air fryers are becoming more popular. Air fryers are essentially re-branded convection ovens. From a purely scientific standpoint, heat can only be transferred two ways. Convection, or conduction. Conduction is when two objects are touching, and the heat goes directly from one object into the other. Like some delicious bacon sizzling in the frying pan. Convection is when there is air in the middle. So, strictly speaking, any oven is a convection oven. But air fryers are small, hotter than normal, and they have a huge fan. An old school, convection of is simply a regular oven with a fan inside. By the name, "air fryer" is TRYING to make it sound healthy AND delicious. But no matter how COOL your air fryer looks, now matter HOW popular it is, french fries cooked in an air fryer will NEVER taste as delicious as french fries deep fried in LARD. Even better is if you take those deep fried (in lard) fries and cover them with some carne asada, some cheese, some guacamole and... Wait, what were we talking about? Oh yea, health vs. taste. This seems to be a huge problem for us silly humans. The things that FEEL GOOD vs the things that we know we SHOULD Do. Like getting up early vs. sleeping in. Or studying vs watching Netflix. Or saving money vs. spending it on hookers and cocaine. Um, I mean, a new pair of shoes that you don't really need. Another very COMMON way this plays out is how we choose our romantic partners. The people we are SEXUALLY attracted to, or the people we know we SHOULD be with. Now, let's be honest. Most of the time, we don't really HAVE a choice. We take whatever we can get and call it good. But let's flip this around. If you are a guy, then you've gotta know that girls face this same choice. The guy that she is INSTINCTIVELY attracted to. The bad boy. Then the guy she knows she SHOULD be attracted to. The guy her friends like, her mom likes, the guy a stable job. But what if YOU could be BOTH? What would THAT do to your dating life? Learn How: https://mindpersuasion.com/get-girls/
  6. One question that is tough to answer is what you do for a living. You could be in the middle of a conversation with a cutie and everything could be going smoothly. But then the "what do you do?" questions pops up. There are a couple of things to understand about this. One is there are always two layers of communication. Conscious and subconscious. If the conscious layer sounds good, but the subconscious doesn't, it will come across as incongruent. This is why movie acting isn't as easy as it appears. On the surface it seems pretty easy. Just remember your lines, right? But if you've ever seen a crap movie with crap acting, then you know that the lines are only a tiny part. The best actors have the best underlying energy to go along with their lines. So even if you have a decent sounding job, if you deliver your job description with some less than confident energy, it will kill attraction. But the opposite won't work either. If you work at Jack in the Box, and really enjoy your job, that might not be a good answer either. More important than how you make money now is what your plans are for the future. Not your hopes or wishes, but PLANS. If she asks what you do, no matter WHAT your current job is, so long as you deliver a solid PLAN for the future, it will INCREASE attraction. How do you do this? The first step is to actually CREATE a plan. Write it out. Start where you are, and write out your PLANS for the future. The steps you'll need to get there. Keep journaling these steps over and over. Until they are hard wired into your brain. Until it makes you feel ALIVE when you think about it and say it. When you think about your plan for the future, it should seem MUCH more compelling than any ONE girl. This is what creates very deep and irresistible female attraction. Of hearing a guy who doesn't chase girls, but chases his LIFE. But if you ONLY chase your life, girls won't naturally follow. You've got to interact with them. Not to try and seduce them, just to have friendly conversations. Make a habit of this, and pretty soon plenty of girls will be thinking of you. And all you'll have to do is choose the best one. Learn How: http://mindpersuasion.com/girls-like-you/
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