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  1. https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/Aug04Post.mp4 There are, have always been, and always will be "hacks." Ways to shortcut any type of system. You might even say trying to find "hacks" is a driving evolutionary force. Metaphorically, every advantage a new species gets is a kind of environmental hack. To get a leg up against the competition. One interesting theory uses this to explain why humans have such a high capacity of self-deception. Once upon a time, we were fairly simple creatures. We spent our lives living around everybody we knew. Nobody ever met a stranger. So the idea of lying to get any benefit didn't make sense. Then the population started getting bigger and bigger. And people started to run into strangers. The first "hack" was to lie and get a benefit. Those had the "liar instinct" did better than those that didn't. This makes sense, as plenty of animals survive by deception. But then a few people developed a defense against liars. Then THESE people had the upper hand. For a while. But then the liars got MORE effective at lying. Because when the lied the old way, there were not congruent. So the lie detectors could tell they were lying. But then the new liars figured out how to lie congruently. By FIRST lying to themselves. And these folks were the MOST effective. To have a subconscious intention AND a conscious intention. Maybe this is true, maybe it's not. But nature does tend to use whatever works. The problem with ideas like this is we are all pretty much brainwashed into thinking that things are they way certain people think they SHOULD be. Lying is bad. People SHOULDN'T lie. Therefore, in our past, nobody ever DID lie. At least not enough to make an evolutionary difference. Maybe the people in charge are worried that if they DID admit that lying provided an evolutionary benefit, we would ALL start to lie. And that wouldn't be acceptable. Because only the people in charge are allowed to lie! Perhaps we humans also have a "do as I say, not as I do" instinct. Since that seems to be a pretty common way of ruling. Ever since the dawn of time, there seems to always been TWO sets of rules. One for the dudes in charge. One for everybody else. It's common to get ANGRY at the way things are. At all the corruption. That only creates frustration. It might be a better strategy to understand HOW the human mind works. Since all this corruption is a function of the human brain. Once you understand how the mind works, then you can get in the game and get some. Learn How: http://mindpersuasion.com/watching-mind/
  2. If you ever get stuck in a social situation and you don't know what to do, it's usually too late. Humans behave BEST when we are operating mostly subconsciously. Automatically. In sports, the coveted flow state is when you are operating at a very high level AND mostly unconsciously. When it seems like you are WATCHING yourself perform. This can happen socially as well. For most of us, this happens with close friends with whom we have a ton of built in rapport. This is when conversations flow and good times roll. But it is also possible to create this social flow state with people you've just met. This requires we think a little meta. If you want to get good at something, you have to practice. The more you practiced, the higher level of unconscious competence you'd become. For example, it's pretty easy to get to the level of unconscious competence playing "Mary Had a Little Lamb" on the piano. But getting to that same level of unconscious competence while playing something like Beethoven's Moonlight Sonata would take a LOT more practice. So how can you develop unconscious competence, that flow state, with social situations involving people you DON'T KNOW? By practicing talking to people you don't know. Most people don't like this idea. They only like the idea of talking to somebody they are interested in. This is actually a form of self-deception. They think about being social and outgoing around EVERYBODY, and it scares them. So they cover up this fear by saying things like, "Why would I talk to THAT person? I'm not interested in them!" But by practicing friendly small talk with EVERYBODY, you'll be practicing social skills on a META level. And you'll soon get to know "people" on a structural level. After you talk to ENOUGH people, you'll realize TWO THINGS about everybody. One, that everybody is unique in some way. Two, everybody is VERY SIMILAR in many ways. And once you feel this similarity on a deep and unconscious level, all fear will VANISH. This means talking to anybody NEW will seem familiar. Which means it will be much easier to enter into that free flowing, outcome independent flow state. Which everybody finds INSANELY attractive. This REQUIRES that you see small talk as something you PRACTICE. Not something you do because you ONLY enjoy it. That would be like somebody who doesn't exercise because they don't enjoy it. It takes a while to ENJOY exercising. And it will always be BOTH a means and an end. So will small talk. It may suck to think of practicing it. But when it becomes both a means and an end, you will be developing some very rare, and very attractive, social skills. Learn More: http://mindpersuasion.com/girls-like-you/
  3. Very often there is huge difference between long term and short term strategies. If you want something in the short term, this will often make it MUCH more difficult to get those same things in the long term. And if you try to get those same things in the LONG TERM, it will make it much more difficult to get satisfaction in the short term. One obvious area is food, eating and exercise. Sitting on the couch and eating burgers FEELS GOOD in the short term. But it adds up to lots of PAIN in the long term. The older you get, the more your joints will hurt. The more clogged you arteries will get. And ultimately, the sooner you'll die. Jogging and eating healthy every day doesn't feel good in the short term. But it adds up to a much LONGER and healthier and happier life. You will have much less body pain as you get older. You won't have pains shooting up and down your joints when you get out of bed. You'll even keep your brain intact for much longer. As they say, short term gain leads to long term pain. And short term pain leads to long term gain. This is also true in dating and attraction. For example, many guys have mastered the art of short term success with the ladies. Any time you use ARTIFICIAL strategies, or "game," you are using a collection of INORGANIC personality traits. This is why a guy CAN have ton of short term success, but not much long term success. Since that short term success is based on an inauthentic representation of YOU, it's hard to keep up. Pretty soon the REAL YOU will show up. And that REAL YOU will be different than the guy she was attracted to. Consider an alternative. Of being the REAL YOU all the time. This sounds like VERY CORNY advice! Just be yourself! The trick is to ALWAYS be improving your REAL SELF. So your REAL SELF will always have better and better results. How do you do this? By improving your goals. By improving your communication skills. By improving your financial skills. Here's where it gets REALLY interesting. The quality of woman you can attract by being the REAL YOU is a very useful PROXY for how SUCCESSFUL of a life the REAL YOU can achieve. Which means if you continue to build up the REAL YOU to have a much better life, you'll AUTOMATICALLY be more attractive to higher quality women. This means you'll need to ditch short term, magical "game" type thinking. And focus on REAL, long term success. Learn How: http://mindpersuasion.com/girls-like-you/
  4. It's a common idea to wish for magic seduction tricks. Even in other things like weight loss, it seems we humans are absolute suckers for the "one weird trick" scam Like if we find that one weird trick to lose weight, our problems are over. Or if we find that one secret hack into the female mind, we'll understand how easy it is to make ANY girl fall head over heels in lust with us. Unfortunately, these are all cons. Based on the same idea of the ancient snake oil salesman. The guy who would roll into town, and sell the "one weird potion" that would fix everything. Of course, he NEVER sold stuff out of an actual store. He HAD to sell it off the back of a wagon. So he could go from town to town. The idea being he'd be gone when people were wise to the scam. PT Barnum famously said there is a sucker born every minute. And suckers are suckers because we are willing to believe something that is too good to be true. Like shortcuts to making money, or shortcuts to losing weight, or shortcuts to romantic success. The truth is that anything WORTH getting will have a couple of clear identifying signals. One is it will be something FEW people have. If EVERYBODY had it, whether it be a thing a skill or a characteristic, it wouldn't be special. Two is it takes time and effort. And since most people are SCARED and LAZY, most people would rather spend their entire lives searching for one weird trick. In a way, this is good news. Because if you actually put in the work, you'll slowly differentiate yourself from every other lazy goof out there. And when it comes to developing GENUINE attraction from attractive women, the more work you put in, the more attraction you'll generate. So long as you start SLOWLY, and continue SLOWLY, it will very soon become a daily habit. And daily habits are easy. So long as they are daily habits that are BUILDING valuable skills. And it turns out the SAME SKILLS that attract high quality women are the skills that build a high quality life. And these skills have NO upper limit. Which means the more consistently you build them, the BETTER and STRONGER your skills will become. No weird tricks needed. Learn More: http://mindpersuasion.com/girls-like-you/
  5. Despite modern popular propaganda, there are tons of differences between men and women. And a very easy way to imagine these differences is the ONE THING that led to human flexibility and creativity. Every other animal except for humans doesn't have a sexual division of labor when it comes to getting food. Choose any animal, and when they are hungry, males and females both go after the same type of food. But humans split along gender lines. LONG before we were humans. Men hunted, and women gathered. We either become omnivores BECAUSE of this, or we split along gender lines BECAUSE we were omnivores. Men got protein and fat. Women got roots and other stuff from the ground. This lasted for a few million years, and accounts for MOST behavioral and psychological differences between men and women. For example, women are capable of carrying on about a million different conversations at once. This is because while they were digging for roots and grubs, they were watching the kids AND gossiping like crazy. Not only can they carry on tons of conversational threads at once, BUT they seem to have eyes all over their heads. When you were a kid, and you thought you mom couldn't see you, now you know why she could. It is an evolutionary advantage. Men, on the other hand, are the complete opposite. They can carry on ONE conversational thread at most. And even then it's mostly grunts and nods. And male vision is very long range and narrow. This is what you'd expect from spending all day hunting. Not talking much, always scanning the horizon for something to kill. This gives us an insight into the type of MEN women are hard wired to be ATTRACTED to. NOT the kind who can carry on a girly type conversation. NOT the kind who is prone to gossip. The kind of guy women are hard wired to be attracted to is the guy who is ALWAYS looking for something to kill. And when he DOES kill it, he drags it back to camp. The guy who kills the biggest animal gets the biggest rock star treatment. This is why women love a guy with REAL social status. The social status that comes from being a KILLER. He goes out, he kills, he comes home and chills with his people. This is why if you text too often it will kill attraction. This is why if you're too needy, it will kill attraction. This is why if you're too worried whether she likes you, it will kill attraction. She wants you to get out and kill something. And then bring it back. Translate these instincts into modern times, and you've got it made. Learn How: http://mindpersuasion.com/girls-like-you/
  6. If you have tons of money, it's easy to get a loan. If you not only have tons of money but have a couple of steady income streams, it's even easier to get a loan. On the other hand, if you're broke and walk into a bank, they'll want nothing to do with you. The same idea goes for generating unconscious attraction. If you are desperate, nobody will want anything to do with you. If you are the opposite of desperate, everybody will want some. If you've walked through any crowded nightspot with a nice lady on your arm, you know this feeling. EVERYBODY is checking you out. From a social proof standpoint, there's about four different levels. The first level is if you are by yourself and radiating desperate energy. Your head whips around to every pretty girl that walks by. The second level is if you are with a group of guys. But if that won't do much more if you still radiate that desperate energy. The third level is you are a clear alpha of that group. You don't pay much attention to what's going on around you. You and you crew are doing fine on your own. The fourth and most coveted level is if you are with one or more ladies. This sends a completely DIFFERENT signal to the entire room. But it's very possible to cultivate that fourth level energy EVEN IF you are by yourself. 93% of communication is non-verbal. Most of THAT is subconscious. Both sent and received. If you are desperate, you are sending out TONS of non-verbal and subconscious signals. But if you are the OPPOSITE of desperate, you'll be sending out completely different types of energy. Very attractive types of energy. Energy that will be picked up subconsciously. This takes a while to develop. But you can get started today. Most of the required exercises are pretty easy. They are JUST LIKE calisthenics. The more you do, the stronger you'll get. Most guys will ALWAYS be desperate. Meaning even when they are IN a relationship, they'll still be worried about losing access to emotional and sexual intimacy. This is why most guys are pretty easy to manipulate. But when you develop this anti-needy energy, you will radiate the opposite. YOU will be the chooser. And everybody will know that. Which means you can take your time, develop your criteria and be patient. Learn How: http://mindpersuasion.com/girls-like-you/
  7. Long, long ago, we humans didn't need to think very much. We were DRIVEN by our instincts. Those with the strongest instincts survived. Since food was hard to get, those who were always the HUNGRIEST were the most successful. Sexual desire is another powerful instinct. Humans are primates. And different primates have different strategies on how to deal with sex. Human females don't make it obvious when they are ovulating. Other primates, like chimps, do. Plenty of studies have shown that when a woman is ovulating, she finds a different type attractive than when she is not. Whether she acts on this attraction is a completely different story. Kind of like eating. If you are on a diet, and it's important to you, you'll feel ATTRACTED to certain foods, but not eat them. Just like men and women can feel ATTRACTION to certain people and not act on it. It wasn't always like this. Our instincts were created to DRIVE our behavior. So when ancient cave ladies were ovulating, they were naturally attracted to the MOST ALPHA looking and acting guy around. This makes sense in an ancient setting. When it was VERY important for her to have kids with a guy who would have the HIGHEST probability of providing for her and her kids. But just like hunger can be managed, so can attraction. If we ONLY ate what looked good, we'd all super fat. If we ONLY blindly obeyed our sexual desires, we'd be a mess. However, there is one thing that usually doesn't get much attention. And the attention it DOES get is the wrong kind. What I'm referring to is MALE sexual desire. When dudes get horny, they get desperate. And since most dudes are very UNDERSEXED, most dudes are VERY DESPERATE. Women know this. All too well. Just look at any girl that's got tons of orbiters. She KNOWS she can manipulate them. The trick is to NOT be one of those guys. Desperate for female attention and affection. How do you do this? There are TWO very powerful ways. One is to make a habit of making small talk with anybody you can. Men, women, old people, young people. Once you develop the habit of talking to anybody, anywhere, anytime about anything, you'll radiate a different kind of energy. The second is to get a handle on your sexual energy. If you wanted to stay healthy, you'd have to feel hungry and not eat. No way around that. To radiate non-needy energy, you'd do the same with your sexual energy. Feel it, but learn to live with it. WITHOUT expressing it. Napoleon Hill talked about this. Many ultra successful people know this. The BEST part is if you combine this with some very basic social skills, you will send out a very rare energy to women. It will make you seem unattainable, and therefore VERY attractive. Learn How: http://mindpersuasion.com/girls-like-you/
  8. A very common, and very dangerous idea is that you need money to get girls. It's common because like most beliefs, it's easy to find proof. This is a function of confirmation bias. On the other hand, if you purposely tried to find evidence of guys with NO money who could easily get girls, you'd find it. One of the reasons this idea, that you need money to get girls, is dangerous is it can serve as a very HANDY excuse to stay on the sidelines. There you are, looking out across the room. You see TONS of sexy girls. But then that belief pops into your head. That you need money to get girls. And since you don't have any money, you stay on the sidelines. This is the PERFECT cover for the real reason. Which is that talking to girls causes a ton of anxiety in most NORMAL people. But most normal people also don't like to admit they are scared of doing SEEMINGLY normal things. Like talking to cute girls. Luckily, we can kill both false beliefs at once. First is to understand that money is only a EXTERNAL SIGNAL of something deeper. Or it least it CAN be. That something deeper is what women are REALLY attracted to. And that is raw ambition. The desire to BECOME something better than you are. Now, for most of history, when you combine this raw ambition with half a brain, you get a guy who gets out there and gets stuff done. This USUALLY involves making money somehow. That money, and all the signs of money, are really EXTERNAL pieces of evidence of a deeper characteristic. It's also why girls get together with guys who HAVE money, but get bored. Because in today's corrupt clown show economy, it's easy to make money WITHOUT having a sense of "old school" ambition. That's actually GOOD NEWS. Because you can cultivate that old school ambition. This requires you have a PLAN for your life. A REAL PLAN. Not a bunch of things you wish or hope will happen. Having a REAL PLAN based on REAL AMBITION will trigger those ancient desire instincts. But you have to be willing to EXPRESS that ambition. This is EASY. But it requires you understand part two of this strategy. That you don't talk to girls ONLY to get their number. And you don't ONLY talk to cute girls. NOR do you ONLY talk to girls. You talk to EVERYBODY. Practice chit chat. Eventually somebody will ask what you do. And no matter WHAT your job is, even if you don't have a job, when you express your ambition correctly, they will remember you. Why? Because so few people HAVE ambition today. This will help you cultivate and develop a REAL reputation. Which will make you INSANELY attractive. To EVERYBODY. Learn How: http://mindpersuasion.com/girls-like-you/
  9. It's a very common idea to NOT do something SPECIFICALLY to attract women. This is a very good idea. Because if you are ONLY doing things to attract women, or any particular women, this is dangerous. You're basically sending a message to her, and your subconscious that getting a woman is MORE important than living a successful life. Most guys do this when they put women up on a pedestal. The make her seem much better than they really are. This is a form of one-itis. When you have an IMAGINATION of her that is not based on reality. When you fall in love with an idealized version of her. But this can also happen when you try to pursue women in general. You start to focus on doing things ONLY to get women. For example, when you buy clothing ONLY to impress women, this can be dangerous. However, there is a LOT of overlap. Meaning if you ONLY focus on living a successful life, then chances are you will be MORE attractive to women. In this way, the general attraction you are generating WITHIN a large number of women can be a very useful measurement. A side effect. Especially when you consider that women are attracted to non-verbal behaviors. The type of non-verbal behaviors that are highly associated with general male leadership. This can be very confusing. Many guys try and FAKE alpha behavior. This can work well in the short term. But it's generally ONLY associated with short term female attraction. Deep and intuitive alpha behavior is picked up on by both men and women. Deep and intuitive alpha behavior will make you more attractive to PEOPLE in general. More men will WANT to follow you. More women will WANT to be with you. The truth about female attraction triggers is they are attracted to male behaviors. Behaviors that indicate general success potential. Since the dawn of time, men have been PRODUCTIVE. And women have been ATTRACTIVE. The job of women is to choose the most productive man and seduce him. This gives us a very keen insight. That if you measure the attraction you are creating in women, the deep intuitive attraction, this is ALSO a strong measure of your masculinity. Not fake masculinity, where you are worried about what to say and what to wear and how to act. REAL and deep masculinity. That is EXTREMELY rare today. The kind of masculinity that builds financial empires. The kind of masculinity that leads men to conquer nations. The kind of masculinity that all women deeply crave. If you work on building this kind of masculinity, you can choose from among a whole slew of women. For whatever reasons you want. Learn How: http://mindpersuasion.com/girls-like-you/
  10. One of the biggest killers of attraction is to make your intentions known. One of Dale Carnegie's most helpful insights is the idea that you can get anybody to do anything so long as they believe it's their idea. Which means if you are CONSCIOUSLY trying to create attraction, it won't work very well. Best case is you are her only choice. And she ALREADY has a baseline level of attraction. But if you come out of nowhere, and start talking to her, it's very difficult to CREATE attraction from nothing. It's especially hard if she sense's that is your intention. If she DOES become attracted to you, it will be IN SPITE OF your conscious efforts. Why is this? Because you absolutely cannot consciously create attraction. This is the deep natural subconscious attraction. This ISN'T a girl consciously deciding the TYPE of guy she wants. When it comes to girls and guys, a food metaphor is appropriate. Nobody can CONVINCE you (or anybody else) to LIKE a certain kind of food. Sure, they can convince you that it's healthy, and good for you. But only your SUBCONSCIOUS can determine if you LIKE something or not. If it gives you PLEASURE while you eat it or think about eating it. But you CAN figure out how to COOK SOMETHING that has a high probability of being liked to many people. You can do some reverse engineering of what many people eat. Find out what kind of restaurants are popular, etc. So if you were having a dinner party, for example, you could figure out BEFORE HAND what kind of food people would like. Then make that. But it would be IMPOSSIBLE to talk somebody into liking something that they didn't like. Sure, you could convince them it was HEALTHY. That they SHOULD eat it. But you'd never be able to convince somebody to like it. Girls being attracted to guys works exactly the same way. The guys that she is NATURALLY attracted to is beyond her choice. And it's beyond your choice as well. At least in the short term. If a girl REALLY likes you, you can get away with a lot. If a girl DOESN'T like you, there's not much you can do. But if you understand the types of guys she and other girls NATURALLY like, you can slowly build in those characteristics. Turns out there are some very SIMPLE exercises that you can do. The MORE you do the, the more girls will be naturally attracted to you. While you can't get A GIRL to like you, you CAN get many, many GIRLS to like you. Learn How: http://mindpersuasion.com/girls-like-you/
  11. The halo effect is an interesting phenomenon. It exists and has been proven through various studies. But it's also something that nobody benefits by admitting. If you are particularly attractive, the last thing you want to do is chalk up any success to your looks. If you want to make an attractive person angry, tell them they are ONLY successful (or even partially successful) due to their looks. But normal looking people also don't like to acknowledge the halo effect. That would mean since we normal folks aren't gorgeous, we'll be limited. The good news is that plenty of studies also show some interesting things about physical beauty. Physical beauty is enough to get attention. And it's enough for things that aren't that consequential. But the more that is riding on any given relationships, the LESS physical appearance starts to matter. Studies of the types of women that men choose for partners illustrates this. In one long-ranging study, they found that for short term flings, men only really care about looks. But for long term relationships, (families, children etc.) looks were not very important. This very good news. Because if you are attractive, and that's all you've got, the clock is always ticking. All your other characteristics can only get BETTER with age. When it comes to any individual, we can think of three different categories. Inner game, outer game, and looks. Looks matter only in the short term. Next is outer game, how they behave, communicate, and interact with others. The most important is inner game. Intelligence, sense of confidence, short term and long term goals, etc. Inner game drives outer game. So if you only work on building up inner game, outer game will be easy. And looks will be unimportant. Inner game is kind of like a muscle, but better. Meaning if you started to exercise your muscles, the more you exercised them the stronger they'd get. Up to a point. After a certain point, you'd start get diminishing returns. Consider jogging, for example. At first, it might take a while just to jog a mile without stopping. Then you might shoot for jogging a mile in under ten minutes. Then eight minutes. Then six minutes. But pretty soon, the more work you put in, the less results you'd get. But with inner game, there is no limit. Since it's all built on mental strength, which can be increased infinitely. The more you put in, the more you get out. This means the longer you live, the better you get. Learn How: http://mindpersuasion.com/attractive-personality/
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  14. Social proof is a very powerful force. But since the term, social proof, is so common, we tend to overlook it. People say things like using social proof to become more attractive. Or adding some social proof on a website to increase sales. The way the term is used conversationally, it sounds like a spice you'd put on food. "I'm going to add some social signals to my site to increase conversions." "I'm going to add some crushed red peppers to my pizza to increase flavor." As if social proof, or social signals (things that indicate social proof) are some physical things kept in a separate jar. We can use them if we want to, but we don't have to. But social proof is something that is always present. And it is something that is always affecting us. Humans are highly social creatures. We simply cannot function without being around, or at the very least, referencing our social peers. Even getting dressed in the morning. You either wear clothes to attract attention, or to avoid attention. The kajillion's that are spent on fashion and accessories, for men and women, are specifically BECAUSE of the power of social proof. Humans and social proof are like fish and water. It's not something we "can" use "some times." It's something that affects us every second of our lives. The Asch experiment showed how powerful it is. Even when choosing something as simple as a line length, we choose the WRONG answer if everybody else around us is choosing the WRONG answer. This has been proven time and time again. But because it's always happening unconscious, we pretend it isn't there. We hate public speaking BECAUSE of the negative social pressure we'll feel. Most of us would prefer to blend in WITH the group, rather than stand out in front of it. One of the most compelling social forces is based on LOSING our social reference group. The famous "FOMO" or "fear of missing out" is when we think our social group is leaving us behind. Walk through any crowded mall and see how easily you can find mothers trying to leverage FOMO to get their kids to behave. "If you don't hurry up I'm going to leave you here!" But there's a positive side to this. If you KNEW you were going into the Asch experiment, you could purposely mess with the researchers. Meaning if you KNEW the other "subjects" were purposely choosing the wrong line length, you could choose the correct one. Or you choose the wrong one that was different than the others were purposely choosing. This would make the researchers go nuts! All that requires is you PRE-FRAME any situation by understanding the social proof that is always operating. Once you KNOW what the game is, you can easily jack it in your favor. Learn More: http://mindpersuasion.com/beta-male/
  15. There was one episode of Seinfeld when George, one of the characters, accidentally discovered the secret of success. He was a typical guy who had less success with the ladies than he wanted. And one day, he gave up and tried something different. What he did was the opposite of what he would normally do. He would walk up to tall, gorgeous women (he was short) and say that he was unemployed, and that he lived with his parents. And it would work like magic. Of course, it was a comedy. And it was TV. But like most art, it imitates life. Meaning when you are in a situation, sometimes doing the OPPOSITE of what your instincts are screaming at you to do is generally good idea. For example, a guy sees a girl across the room. He'd love to go over and talk to her. So he waits, and thinks, and tries to come up with the perfect thing to say. The more he does this, the more he "pedestalizes" her. Meaning if she were just a normal person, he'd just walk over and say hey. But the longer he tries to come up with the PERFECT line, the more he builds her up as this PERFECT creature in mind. And the ONE THING that most gorgeous girls want is that people treat them like normal people. Because they are gorgeous, guys are always walking on egg shells around them. But on a much bigger picture, the "George Costanza" theory is even more accurate. Because walking up and talking to a gorgeous girl might not even be the right strategy. Why? Think of what it implies. Girls just show up, and guys have to do all the work. Pretty girls sit there, wait for all the guys to approach them, and then choose the best one. Simply by walking over there, you're playing into that strategy. It's certainly not HER strategy. That's just the way it ends up. Imagine girls were always nervous around you since elementary school. And every time they tried to talk to you, they were nervously trying to impress you. You'd NEVER have to worry about approaching anybody. You'd just sit there and let all the girls do the work. Unfortunately, it's not like that. Does this mean you've got to play the same game everybody else is playing? Not at all. In fact, this whole "guys approach the girls" strategy is VERY RECENT. Instinctively, guys never had to worry too much about girls. For the longest time, guys would chase life. And girls would chase guys. It's only been in the last few hundred years that the scripts have flipped. But if you dig deep, and find your instincts. And let them guide you. Learn More: http://mindpersuasion.com/beta-male/
  16. One of the easiest ways to sneak any idea into anybody's mind is put it in hypothetical language. There are many ways to do this. One is by using the second conditional. This uses the past tense and "would" or "could." Whenever we hear the second conditional, we subconsciously understand it's just a hypothetical question. For example, just taking a standard compliment (you're beautiful) and putting it into the second conditional makes it MUCH HARDER to process. Try this out for yourself to see what I mean. Walk up to an attractive woman, and give her a blatant compliment. "You are beautiful." See what she ways. She might blush, she might say thank you, she might call the cops. Maybe you could try it on five to ten women to get an average. Then put it in the second conditional. "If I told you that you were beautiful, what would you say?" This is ALMOST a compliment, but not quite. If you tried this on five different women, you'd get a much better response than if you just said it flat out. Just this simple linguistic "trick" is enough to get her mind spinning. Imagine what you could do when you use ALL of your communication like this. Because the second conditional is just one of MANY techniques to get her feeling emotions, but not quite sure why. One simple statement won't do much. And she'll have a good idea that it's a "line" since it really IS a line. But when you speak to her for several minutes like that, using all kinds of different techniques, it will add up to something amazing. She'll be feeling emotions that add up to attraction, but she won't be quite sure why. AND she'll be looking at you the whole time. And since our brains HAVE to have a reason for everything, she'll come up with HER OWN REASONS why she's looking at YOU and feeling attraction. And once that happens, she'll NEVER get you out of her mind. Learn How: Hypnotic Seduction
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