https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/July31Post.mp4
Externalizing is a useful instinct.
To blame things outside of ourselves for our failures.
We can do an imaginary split test and see why.
Imagine two hunters, going after two animals.
Two different valleys, but otherwise the same.
They both throw their spears and they both miss.
The guy WITHOUT the externalizing instinct has a very OBJECTIVE description of what just happened.
He realizes his spear throwing abilities are not what they could be.
Sure, he'll still go after that animal.
But he'll