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  1. https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/Feb17Post.mp4 It's no mystery that the dating market these days is an absolute dumpster fire. On the back of a train that is about to crash off a cliff. Being driven by drunken clowns who are also probably a little off to begin with. What's a guy to do? The main thing that makes modern dating so confusing, and extremely frustrating (and depressing) for modern men is online dating. Online dating is heavily tilted in women's favor. But not for reasons most people believe. And only on the surface. Firstly, we need to truly understand how male-female attraction works. Most people have an idea that men are more visual, which is why men are more drawn to looks. This is only half right. Men are drawn to looks, but NOT because men are visual. Men are drawn to looks is because from an evolutionary perspective, the best mates, from a caveman's perspective is based on how a woman looks. Not how she behaves or speaks or moves. But on how she looks. Why? Men only need to know that women are young and healthy. The job of women, according to evolution and mother nature, is to make more people. The younger a women is (yet beyond puberty) and the healthier she is, the more babies she can have. So, according to natural selection, men who happened to be attracted to young, healthy women had many more babies than men who were attracted to a different kind of women. This attraction is created through signs of youth, and signs of health. These are the SAME things that would describe a gorgeous woman. That's why women really only need to show their picture to create plenty of attraction in plenty of men. What about men? What kinds of things, in men, create attraction in woman? It's NOT looks. Women's job (according to evolution) is to make more people. What is man's job? To provide for those people. So, women evolved a natural attraction for men who demonstrate the traits associated with being a strong provider. Not a strong provider today, but a strong provider back when we were hunter-gatherers. This is VERY MUCH dependent on men's behavior. Confidence, social skills, leadership skills, speaking skills, persuasion skills. All the things that would make an ancient man a natural leader. Somebody who would demonstrate the ability to acquire resources. But many men today believe that women like men based on looks, just like men like women based on looks. This means VERY FEW men are even working on things like inner game. Most men are worried about looks, and very superficial things like short term game. So when you decide to work on your inner game, you will not only be very attractive to a LARGE number of women, giving you plenty of choice, but you'll leave all those pretty boys trying and failing in online dating in the dust. Even better, is working on inner game can be done anywhere, any time. No cold approaches or even conversations with ladies needed. Just keep building, and they will come to you. Learn How: https://mindpersuasion.com/get-girls/
  2. https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/Aug24Post.mp4 Externalizing is a very common human trait. It's when WE have a problem. But we don't want to admit it. So we imagine the problems is OUT THERE. It works metaphorically like a semi-permeable membrane. The kind around our cells that only lets good stuff in. And keeps out the bad stuff. Every aspect of our mind-body system was put there for a reason. Unfortunately, a lot of it is outdated. Like government computer systems. The problem is when use our natural defense systems too much. Externalizing is a powerful and necessary way to protect our ego. Way back in the day, when life was very dangerous and difficult, having a weak ego was DEADLY. It was always go-time. But today, life is MUCH more complicated. Back in the day, it was us, our buddies and our environment. Back in the day, our environment was the natural world. Trees, rocks, unexpected thunderstorms, animals, both predator and prey. Simple. Kill or be killed. Today, it's not so simple. In fact, it's WAY complicated. In the old days you either KILLED something in the environment, literally. Or that thing KILLED you. Literally. Today our environment is OTHER PEOPLE. Nobody is going to kill us. And we aren't going to kill anybody. Unfortunately, many of our programs haven't quite caught up. So our instincts need re-calibrating. So does our natural learner. Our natural learn KNOWS that takes plenty of practice to get something down. Music, sports, etc. But our natural learner doesn't quite see this with social situations. Our natural learner sees social situations as a kill or be killed type of thing. Which is why EVERYBODY is intimidated in social situations. Some a little. Some a lot. But unless you can turn down the natural anxiety to workable levels, you'll stay on the sidelines. And keep telling yourself the problem is OUT THERE. So long as you believe the problem is OUT THERE, you'll never feel comfortable. But once you accept that at least part of the problem is INSIDE, then you can fix it. Re-calibrate it. Get in the game and start learning some skills. But, won't that be terrifying? Nope. Re-calibrating your social instincts is actually pretty BORING. Like studying history, when you'd rather be playing video games. But if you do a few minutes a day, you'll eventually reach a tipping point. When getting in the game is FUN. Like it should be. Learn How: http://mindpersuasion.com/social-anxiety-killer/
  3. https://mindpersuasion.com/love-instinct/
  4. Benefits Of Female Hypergamy: https://mindpersuasion.com/the-benefits-of-female-hypergamy/ https://soundcloud.com/mindpersuasion/benefits-of-female-hypergamy https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/July19Loop.mp4
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