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  1. https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/Apr03Post.mp4 A very common trope in romantic movies is the guy or gal who "gets" the other guy or gal. This is the opposite of another common romantic movie trope. That when two people are getting closer and closer, one of them is TERRIFIED that the other person will find out who they REALLY are. And when this happens, it's over. These are two sides of the same coin. The coin of who we really are on the inside. The fear side is us being TERRIFIED of being "found out" and forever rejected. The best-case-scenario side is them seeing our true selves and not only fully accepting this, but embracing us BECAUSE of this. This is the famous, "you get me" line that all hopeless romantics are looking for. The good news is that EVERYBODY feels this way. Everybody has deep fears of being "found out" and being rejected forever. This fear is built into all humans. Which means it's based on a false premise. But you don't have to do any kind of deep emotional healing to get rid of this. Why? Because there is a very easy, and very powerful way to GET pretty much anybody. And when you learn how to GET pretty much anybody, they will NEVER want to leave you no matter what. Doesn't matter if they are friends, lovers, or even business partners. Since so many people never really "get" anybody, you will stand out. You will be one among millions who GET those close to them. How? It's a pretty easy. First, it begins with understanding how humans think. The structure of our thoughts. The structure of our fears and desires. This may sound pretty complicated. And it IS if you force yourself to see the world through your own, ego-based world view. But turn off your own ego, just long enough, and you'll see that EVERYBODY is very easy to understand. So when you asks simple questions about how they think, how they see the world, how they choose, YOU will stand out. You will be the one they never want to leave. You MUST, however, be careful. If you use these techniques too soon with strangers, they may fall HARD for you. This is very dangerous. Ideally, these are best used when you've already established your relationship boundaries. Friends, business partners, romantic interests, etc. But so long as you are sure, fire away. And they will NEVER want to let you out of their sight. Learn How: https://mindpersuasion.com/deep-mind-persuasion/
  2. Bias Decoupling Strategy: https://mindpersuasion.com/bias-decoupling-strategy/ https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/Feb13Loop.mp4
  3. https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/Aug28Post.mp4 A very common idea in self-development is being broken. Of having tried all kinds of ideas and programs, yet you're still stuck. What does, "stuck" mean, exactly? It's a metaphor that approximates a physical situation. Like a car that is stuck in the mud. The engines work, the tires work, but you aren't getting any traction. The work done by the engine is being wasted. No forward movement. Another physical description of being stuck is like when goofy criminals try to sneak in through the chimney. And get stuck. They writhe and grunt and push and wriggle, but they don't move. Another common metaphor is being "broken." Like if your car makes noise, but it doesn't quite turn over. Or your toaster has some kind of defect. This is much more common than people realize. Most people feel stuck and or broken. Quite often. But it's one of those things that we don't tend to talk about. So everybody believes it's only happening to them. Why do we feel like we are stuck or broken? The first part comes from generally success. When anybody is successful, in any area, it's MOSTLY unconscious. People that are naturally outgoing don't really know WHY they are. But our ego needs to feel like we are always in control. So if we ask them why they are so naturally outgoing, they'll feel the need to give us a conscious reason. The problem comes when we BELIEVE that conscious reason. And then WE apply that conscious reason and it DOESN'T work. Since it works for THEM, but not for US, then we must be BROKEN. Or we keep trying it, it doesn't work, and we feel stuck. But that's only because we are trying the WRONG thing. People that do things naturally and easily have NO IDEA why. But it's hard to admit that, as a normal human. Anything that we do well, our ego NEEDS to take credit. The truth is two fold. Everybody needs to DISCOVER their own way of doing things. Trying to copy others will NEVER work. We have no idea what it's like to be them. Their conscious answers don't really help, since that's NEVER the full story. The second half is that the process of discovering how to do things on our own is a LIFELONG PROCESS. This is something we DO NOT LIKE. We very much wish it were quick and easy. Because we are inherently lazy. Which is why we keep trying QUICK and EASY things. And when they don't work, we claim we are STUCK. Or broken. You're not. Take your time, go slow and learn how. Learn How: http://mindpersuasion.com/social-anxiety-killer/
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  5. There's a lot of cool hallucinations in mathematics. Way back in junior high school, I was a super-geek. I loved reading books about quantum physics. Books that had all the math taken out, but had all the cool stuff. Like the idea that a photon is sometimes a particle, and sometimes a wave. But in pure math there are some doozies. There are some shapes, that have an infinite circumference, but a finite volume. Meaning if you took a piece of string and tried to wrap it around the outside, it would go on forever. But if you measured the area inside this infinite length of string, you'd get a finite measurement. Another one is tossing a coin. If you toss a coin an infinite amount of times, something goofy would happen. The ratio (heads divided by tails) would approach 1.0. Like 1.0 with a kajillion zeros. But the difference (heads minus tails) would approach infinity. Some things are easy to think about. But the more you keep digging beneath the surface, the less they make sense. They say human knowledge is like a the shoreline of an island. The more stuff we understand, the bigger the shoreline gets. But the bigger the shoreline gets, the bigger the vast ocean representing human cluelessness gets. Clearly, we aren't built to think about things. If we had to think about EVERYTHING, we'd be stuck. Luckily, we have some built in programs to help us. Things that drive us to behave in different ways. A kind of "behavioral thermostat." But it's very easy for this behavioral thermostat to get knocked out of whack. When that happens, it not only perceives data incorrectly, but the signals it sends us are kind of messed up. We misinterpret the world around us, and the things we are driven to do are difficult, when they should be easy. If you had a thermostat in your house that was like this, it would suck. The thermostat might think it was -20 when it was really 80 degrees. So in the summer, it would keep the heat on high. If this happened, you'd call some guy to come and fix it. How can you fix your own thermostat if it's giving you wrong signals? With this: Ego Taming
  6. Everywhere you look, you'll find cycles. Earth around the sun. Moon around the Earth. Earth around it's access. Tides, seasons. Even astrological "ages" are based on the cycles built into our galaxy and solar system, as they are dependent on star configurations. Bees have their own set of cycles. They can tell when the summer solstice happens. When the suns angles reach a maximum at the maximum point of the day. Bees are good with angles. When they go out looking for food, they come back and report their findings. They fly around in a figure eight. The size and angle of the figure eight describe the size and direction of the source of food. All the hunters come back, have a quick pow-wow to see who's found the biggest treasure, and they all go off in that direction. They don't argue, or worry who's going to get credit, or make sure they won't get into trouble if their wrong. They gather, they share, they decide, they go. When they all recognize the summer solstice (from the angle of the sun) they start getting ready for winter. Automatically, collectively, unconsciously. A bee hive in winter needs to be configured much differently than a beehive in summer. All of these are unconscious and instinctive feedback signals. We humans have a ton of these as well. But due to how we are born (with brains not nearly as big as they'll be when they are fully developed) we also have a ton of learning. On top of that, we have a conscious mind. We think, we have instincts, and we can learn new instincts. When these three systems are working in harmony, there is NOTHING we cannot do. Especially when you've got a group of like minded people together. Land on the moon? No problem. Split the atom? No problem. But this isn't guaranteed. We also do a lot of less than cool things. Both as groups and as individuals. As individuals, it's very easy to slip out of balance. To feel conflicted. We want to get something, but we fear it at the same time. It's very easy to feel stuck. But with a little understanding, and some mental exercises, you can re-claim your natural balance. And be much more in tune with your nature. And once ALL the parts of you are aligned, you'll be unstoppable. Learn How: Ego Taming
  7. The other night I watched a YouTube video about the Mandelbrot set. It's a fractal pattern, based on imaginary numbers. (I find a lot in common between mathematics and hypnosis...) A fractal pattern is a shape that keeps repeating the more you zoom in. It also has the curious property of having an infinite circumference, but a finite volume. Meaning the squiggly line going around the outside goes on forever. But the area inside this closed loop of infinity is finite. But it's also in a lot of natural shapes. Trees, roots and branches each are like fractals. The trunk, branches, leaves, and each vein within the leaf are repeating patterns. Our cardiovascular system, nervous system and even our neurology are fractal-like patterns. Reality is kind of weird like this. Ideas, patterns, systems seem to be found a many levels. One of the common ideas in all of science is equilibrium. The sun is in equilibrium with the Earth. The Earth with the moon. Our bodies and our sleep cycles. When we are in-sync, everything feels fantastic. When we are out of sync, everything feels like crap. When athletes or musicians are highly in-sync, they call it the "flow state." Where the conscious mind just shuts off and takes a back seat. This might be described as the highly coveted "self-actualized" person. An athlete or musician or scientist who is operating a peak efficiency, and in total equilibrium with the world. Not in the world, but part of the world. The seamless flow between thought and things. The athlete just barely imagines the perfect move and then it happens. The difference between the sounds in the musician's mind and the sounds coming out of the speakers shrink to zero. Of course, the minute you start thinking consciously when you're in one of these states, you ruin it. This is when you're playing a song (or video game) perfectly, but then you start to focus on an aspect if it, and you "lose" that balance. These events happen over short periods, but also over long periods. Once humans lived in groups that were in perfect harmony with each other. One of many, many of one. But it's hard to find that these days. Everybody's in a hurry, everybody's trying to play everybody. You don't know who you can trust. But the possibility still exists. To tap that inner guide of your social equilibrium. To get back into social balance. Where social fears are a thing of the past. Learn How: Ego Taming
  8. One of the laws of economics is the idea of an opportunity cost. Everything has a cost. Even free stuff. (There's generally a reason why it's free...) Even if you shift in your seat, you are spending energy (a calorie or two) to end up in a more comfortable position. But when thinking of doing or buying things, we usually only think of the direct costs. At least consciously. If you want a burrito, for example, it will cost five bucks. Or maybe some kind of effort, if the burrito store is a ways from your house. But also embedded into getting anything is the idea of opportunity cost. If you get a burrito, for example, you can't simultaneously get a cheeseburger. You COULD, but eating a burrito AND a cheeseburger would be a different experience than only eating a burrito. This is one of the things that can hold us back, on a subconscious level. We want something. But we also know that if we get that "something" we can't have another "thing." Us humans like the idea of a vague but positive future. This is why we like going on trips, birthday parties or other exciting things that are coming in the future. A feeling of positive expectation, where you aren't quite sure WHAT is going to happen is a pretty good feeling. And that vague positive expectation goes away when you KNOW what you are getting. We very much like the idea of "winging it." Some of the best experiences we have are when unexpected things happen. If you are in a relationship, and you start doing the same things over and over again, it can get boring. If you go to the same restaurant for dinner every night, it can get boring. But on the flip side of unexpected GOOD things is unexpected BAD things. As much as we love exciting adventures, we HATE dangerous risk. It can be very tough to find a balance. It can also be very easy to find yourself stuck. Wishing you could do something different (since what you're doing is pretty boring). But at the same to anxious or even scared to try something different. If you feel this way, even sometimes, it could be a signal that our social instincts are out of calibration. The whole purpose we have social instincts is to keep us within a safe and acceptable range. Very much like Goldilocks. Not too scary, but not too boring. Just right. But if your social instincts are out of whack, things could seem MORE scary than they really are. And when you Re-Calibrate your social instincts, you won't have to think very much. Just get in the game and have fun. Learn More: Ego Taming
  9. Most human problems can be tied to a mismatch in instincts. Hunger is the easiest to understand. Way back in the day, it was a benefit to be MORE hungry than there was food available. It kept us motivated, always moving. Even today, being "hungry" means being motivated. We want something that we don't have. So we do whatever it takes to get it. But on a literal level, our hunger instinct doesn't help us so much. If you've ever gone on a diet, you know how difficult it is. Sure, there are plenty of tricks to play on your hunger. Drink water before eating. Never go shopping when hungry. Eat slowly. But all these are things that you consciously need to remember to do. Your ancient (and very powerful) hunger instinct is ALWAYS waiting for you to forget about it. One of the big problems regarding health is our hunger only knows what TASTES good. It's programmed to eat whatever TASTES the best. It was calibrated WAY back in the day when "good taste = good health." In that regard, it's very simple. If something tastes good, eat as much as you can. Way back in the day when food was scarce, this was fantastic. Now it sucks. Because clever food producers know how to purposely trick our taste buds into feeling nearly ADDICTED to processed food. Now, this is JUST our hunger. But we have a lot of other instincts that misfire all the time. The most confusing are our social instincts. But they are opposite of our hunger. Our hunger THINKS that "junk food" is healthy because it TASTES good. But we KNOW when we are eating junk food. We KNOW we are eating healthy food. The problem is that junk food, to most people, TASTES BETTER than healthy food. But for our social instincts, this is the opposite. Healthy social signals from others FEEL FANTASTIC. Unhealthy social signals are fake and shallow, and feel fake and shallow. But unlike our hunger, it's very hard to tell the difference, unless you are actively looking. But the good news is that with a little bit of practice, you can RE-CALIBRATE your social instincts. So they ONLY are "fed" by healthy social signals. Since these FEEL better, you'll soon forget about all the fake ones. And it's the fake social signals that cause all social anxiety. Once you re-calibrate your social instincts, social anxiety will forever be a thing of the past. Learn More: Ego Taming
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