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  1. Catch All The Fish In The Sea: https://mindpersuasion.com/catch-all-the-fish-in-the-sea/ https://mindpersuasion.com/3x3/
  2. Snake Charmer https://mindpersuasion.com/3x3/
  3. More Money Better Lovers: https://mindpersuasion.com/more-money-better-lovers/ https://mindpersuasion.com/3x3/
  4. Be The One They Want: https://mindpersuasion.com/be-the-one-they-want/ https://mindpersuasion.com/3x3/
  5. https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/Dec11Post.mp4 There's a common myth about male-female relationships. It's a comforting myth, which is true of most, if not all myths. Myths ARE myths because they can't be proven. But they SEEM to be true because we accept them, we see evidence of them everywhere. This is a function of confirmation bias. Even more dangerous is if common myth has a couple of other "Cialdini ideas" supporting it. Namely, social proof, potential authority, and commitment and consistency. Each one of these helps ideas to slide into our heads. For example, say you try to get a lady to "like you," and you fail. You try again, and you fail. So you go online, and express your frustration. You are told about this "myth" and it soothes your nerves. After all, if you found it was YOUR fault, that would suck. That would mean you needed to do a LOT of practice. Practice doing things that are TERRIFYING. Talking to pretty girls over and over again. Getting rejected over and over again. Until you FINALLY got it right. That is terrible just to think about. So you go online, and talk to your buddies. Enter the "myth." This "myth" solves everything. Firstly, you can pretend it's not YOUR fault. It's the very NATURE of women. Once you accept that comfortable myth, you stat looking for evidence. And your confirmation is always happy to help. So you go back to your online network and report your findings. Just the act of posting this invokes the rule of commitment and consistency. Once you publicly proclaim something, it's VERY difficult to take it back. A bunch of your online bros agree. Now you've got an externalizing myth (not my fault, THEIR fault). You've also got commitment and consistency. You've also got social proof. And if this online community is BIG enough, there's likely authority. Somebody posts a YouTube vid of a "guru" who's got a few hundred thousand followers. This makes it VERY difficult to STOP believing this myth. Now for the very DIFFICULT question. Are you satisfied with NOT getting some action, so long as you've got all these comforting reasons why it's NOT your fault? Or would you rather GET some? Not just a little bit, but a lot. Easily. Consistently. So, what's the myth? The myth is that women are emotional, men are logical. Not true. Not even a little bit. NOBODY is logical. Humans are not Vulcans. We are not angels. We are primates who are only learned to think and talk in a BLINK of an eye's time. Watch a bunch of dudes watching a down-to-the-wire game and try to find ANY logic in there. Watch a video a guy holding his first child and try to find logic. There is none. Pure, human emotion. There IS a bit of a difference between female emotions and male emotions. But that doesn't really matter. Because genuine human emotion will get you much, much further than a FALSE BELIEF in logic. Learn More: https://mindpersuasion.com/emotional-mastery/
  6. https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/Nov05Post.mp4 A very important aspect of human nature is our dreaming mind. Ever since humans invented fire, the battle for hierarchical supremacy has been a thinking contest. All the young cave kids would look up at the stars at night and dream. Now they might somebody slay the monster like the hero of the stories. Life way back then was VERY harsh, but very simple. The two critical things for ANY living entity is food (energy) and sex. For humans, this was manifested through the dreaming mind. The storytelling and story listening mind. Old guys tell stories to the kids. Stories about heroes who do great things, kill huge monsters and get the great rewards. These stories have powered humans since the dawn of time. Kids lay next to the smoldering fire and dream of growing up to be the hero. Those ancient humans that were the hungriest did better than those who were less hungry. Those ancient humans that were the horniest, and could ONLY get laid after demonstrating productivity (killing monsters) did much better than those without that ceaseless sex drive. Those that were motivated the most by those stories did better than those who weren't. Feeding our dreaming mind is just as critical to our survival as feeding our guts. Today, however, most everything is a trainwreck. It's HARD to dream when everything comes easy. At least enough food to not die. And sex if you're willing to lower your standards and wear some thick beer goggles. But that dreaming instinct still lives there. Otherwise, movies, books, fiction, video games wouldn't exist. All those serve the same purpose. To allow us to imagine we are much better than we are. To allow us to believe we are much more capable than we've been. But here's the thing. It's very, very easy to elicit that same dreaming mind conversationally. The hardest part is keeping your yap shut. Keep your yap shut and NOT try and impress them with the ideas in your head. And allow yourself to BE IMPRESSED by the ideas in their head. Particularly their fantasies and dreams. When we are openly wondering about a potential future this is VERY hypnotic. Similar to movie hypnosis. Sure, if you can talk a good game, you can create the same effect. But that's very difficult. It takes a lot of practice. But when you use the ideas that already EXIST? And you build them as BIG and BRIGHT and COMPELLING as possible? Their wonderful hypnotic future fantasies will be subconsciously connected to YOU. Particularly your voice and your presence. Give ANYBODY this gift, and they will NEVER forget you. Ever. Learn How: https://mindpersuasion.com/hypnotic-communication/
  7. https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/Sept18Post.mp4 The world is a messed up place. The world has always been a messed up place. The world will always be a messed up place. Everybody has to compete for scarce resources. If you can organize a society with enough forethought and patience, you can make it pretty fair. But even then, people will figure out how to scam the system. Historians and anthropologists recognize this. During the caveman days it was really hard to be a slacker. Everybody knew everybody. And the more you produced, the more love you got. If you were always out killing big animals, you got mad respect and a lot of sexual opportunities. So, technically, you could kind of skate by. You'd get food, but you wouldn't get much social love or sex. But once they invented agriculture, that changed everything. Historians and anthropologists called this the "freeloader problem." And the free loaders weren't like we imagine them today. The guy who says he wants to borrow your couch but never leaves. That's a modern free loader. But ancient freeloaders were more like scam artists. They would figure out ways to get plenty of stuff without really producing anything. And these folks existed in many, many levels. Mostly the political class. If you study the middle ages in detail, you'll find this was a constant battle. Producers vs. the scammers. Makers vs. the takers. Today, it's no different. How you respond to this will make all the difference. It's easy to complain. So easy that everybody can do it. But what does complaining get you? Miserly does love company. No matter what your complaint about society is, you'll find plenty of folks with the SAME type of complaints. This is very dangerous. You get social proof, authority if the group is big enough, and a very comfortable "us vs. them" feeling. This FEELS very good. To be surrounded by people with the same complaints. But what it WON'T get you is any REAL social love. You won't get any REAL sex. What is REAL sex? The kind of sex where the person having with you wants YOU more than the sex. It's easy to find a warm body that is also looking for another body. This is one reason why relationships are so chaotic today. People have sex FIRST and then get to know each other LATER. This is FUN, but it doesn't do a lot for long term happiness. Instead, consider going old school. Of creating ATTRACTION first. Not just in one or two other folks, but in a LOT. Then take your time getting to know all those people who are attracted to you, and choose the best one. This is much, much easier than most people will ever realize. Because you only need to build one important trait. One that few people have. One that people will be able to SENSE from you before you speak. It's based on how you think of yourself and the world around you. And outcome of some simple meditation-like exercises. And like any other exercise, the more you do the stronger this trait will become. Learn More: https://mindpersuasion.com/attractive-mindset/
  8. https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/Sept14Post.mp4 There are a lot of harsh truths in life we don't like. In fact, we don't like these truths so much, we pretend they don't even exist. Sometimes, these are blatant and conscious. So our avoidance of these is blatant and conscious. Like you get a letter in the mail from your bank. You're afraid to open it. You might look at your balance and find you owe the bank a few thousand dollars. Egads! But sometimes our fears are so deep we don't even know they exist. And we layer a ton of self deceptive based rationalizations top of them. A very common structure is the sour grapes response. A guy tries to grow some grapes, and he sucks. He looks over this fence into his neighbhors yard, and sees some very big, very plump grapes. Since he doesn't want to admit he sucks at growing grapes and his idiot neighbor doesn't, he makes up a story. That his neighbhors grapes are SOUR. So, whenever you look at something, you want it, but you can't get it, and you reframe that thing as being BAD, rather than something you desire but can't get, this is the sour grapes response. And modern men and modern women are super, super guilty of this when looking out into the dating market. Men think women suck. Women think men suck. Maybe this is true, maybe this isn't. But guess what? If you're a guy, having tons of women who WANT YOU and are actively pursuing you, this makes it much easier. If you working under the "beggars can't be choosers" model, this DOES suck. But if you are living from an "abundance" mindset, it doesn't matter if most men or most women suck balls. Since most will actively PURSUE you, you can simply skim off the top. Leave the leftovers for the rest of the beggars and sour grape haters. Now, the money question. How do you DEVELOP this abundance mindset? Structurally, it's pretty simple. Develop something EVERYBODY wants, but few people experience. Most people today are VERY fake. Everywhere you look, there are tons of people pretending to think and believe and do things that are only true up on the surface. But after just a little bit of conversation, you'll see the mismatch. Between their surface structure descriptions, and their deep beliefs. This is why most people do things that don't match with what they say. So when YOU come across with pure congruence, you will be very, very attractive to a great many people. Which means you'll have a MUCH BETTER chance of choosing somebody that actually isn't a trainwreck. All by simple daily exercises, that you can do on your own, to build up MASSIVE congruence. Learn How: https://mindpersuasion.com/attractive-mindset/
  9. https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/Jul01Post.mp4 One interesting idea that is usually mis-interpreted is the idea of Yin and Yang. This is almost thought to be a static balance. For example, it's common to say that your yin and yang is out of balance. Or your "male-female" energy is out of balance. This is a common mistake, not just for this particular metaphor, but for plenty of metaphors. Of misunderstanding their origins, and then misapplying them. But according to those who study East Asian mythology, Yin Yang is NOT a static balance. Think of the famous circle, with the swirl of black swirling into the swirl of white. That circle is created by mapping out the sunrise and sunset, on a sundial, over the course of a year. It's a static picture, but it's meant to be a representation of a continuously flowing idea. Night is ALWAYS turning into day. Spring is ALWAYS moving toward summer. Think about this from an ancient man-woman perspective. Men's instincts are calibrated to get out, and KILL THINGS so everybody can eat things. Women's instincts are calibrated to create more people, and raise them from babies to fully functional adults. Men are driven to LEAVE the tribe every day, and KILL things. Destructive-creative energy. Women are meant to follow men, seduce them, create more people with them, and keep everybody together. Men are meant to leave and kill. Or to leave home and build. To create. More wealth. Women are meant to attract and bind. To create. More people. This cycle between man and woman has gone on for millions of years. Ever since we split, and created a sexual division of labor. Men hunted. Women gathered. No other animal does this. Once humans made this split, we were on the way. With this exit and return, mutual creation (wealth and people) strategy, humans eventually took over the world. This ancient magnetic attraction still exists. Or at least the POTENTIAL exists. For women, their instinctive methods of attracting men are still more or less intact. To be young, and healthy. Or in modern terms, young and gorgeous. Smooth skin. Firm breasts. Long legs. Flat stomach. Straight, white teeth. Just a little bit of body fat in the right places. But for men this is NOT so easy. Women just need to have the right DNA and men will DIE for them. This is nature in action. The youngest, healthiest (hottest) women have the most chance of having the most babies. But men need to CREATE their attraction. They need to develop a KILLER attitude. A leave home, slay the dragon attitude. This will come across in the way you walk, the way you talk, and the way you think. This DOES need to be cultivated. But the older you get, the more ATTRACTIVE you'll get to more and more women. And since so few men today even CONTEMPLATE developing the ancient killer attitude, ALL THE WOMEN will want you. This is the BEST part. Because deep in her mind, women would rather SHARE a sufficiently alpha killer, with plenty of other young, gorgeous ladies, than have a beta all to herself. Conquer your world. BE that guy. Learn How: https://mindpersuasion.com/seductive-frame/
  10. https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/Jun30Post.mp4 In some situations, it's pretty easy to con people. In other situations, it's almost impossible to con people. For example, back when TV's were really big, the manufacturers noticed that the ones that were heavier sold more. So they started purposely making them heavier. People would tend to think it was more valuable if it was heavier. This is a kind of easy con because it's based on our common short memory. If you spend an extra $50 for a TV, thinking it's worth it (when it really isn't) you won't buy another TV for a few years anyway. This is the kind of "con" that's arguably not really a con. More like very, very shrewd marketing. Another type of con works, but for different reasons. Like when I was a kid, in the back of comic books they'd always have these silly things being sold. X-ray glasses. They even had a picture of a kid looking through a ladies dress. Most people buy things like this not because they actually work, but because of curiosity. So you buy it NOT because you think you can suddenly get X-ray vision from a $3 pair of glasses, but just to SEE what the deal is. Then you get them, satisfy your curiosity, and aren't really surprised when they don't work. Other cons are much, much more elaborate, and much, much more deceptive. Like many, many foods are being marketed as "keto friendly" meaning they have few carbs. For example, consider a tortilla company that says they are low carb. And supposed this was a blatant lie. They KNEW they had carbs but they purposely lied. How, specifically, would anybody know? The FDA doesn't spend a lot of time on things like this. No individual consumer is going to spend millions of dollars suing the tortilla company over a $3 product that had more carbs than it promised. And even if somebody suspected they had carbs, the food companies can say they were using a different definition of carbs, or some other thing. All these cons are large scale, "institutional" cons. But other cons we try and play on each other. We pretend to be friendly with people we really don't like. We pretend to be more than we really are. We inflate our resumes, and downplay our "bad past." In the dating arena, this comes across as guys "lying" to women. Now, some guys have no problem with this. They blatantly lie, knowing they are only in it for the hit it and quit it. This is pretty easy. In fact, you might even say this is a two-way lie. The guy pretends to be something he isn't, and the girl, who is equally interested in a short term fling, pretends to believe it. But what if you don't want to lie? What if you don't want to need to, or have to lie? What if you just want to show up, and automatically CREATE attraction in most ladies? That's where your deep, honest, and attractive frame comes in. Learn More: https://mindpersuasion.com/seductive-frame/
  11. https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/Jun21Post.mp4 How would you like to be remembered? No, not like that! This isn't for your funeral! But after you have a conversation with a cute guy or girl? How would you like to be remembered? When they see your text, for the FIRST time after the conversation, what would you like them think? How would you like them to feel? This is ONE simple reframe to get you a little bit out of your anxiety state. Most of us see a cutie across the room. We want to talk to them. So we focus ONLY on the impending conversation. What might work, what might fail. This makes us nervous. Instead, think of building something. Imagine a few days BEYOND the conversation. When you are texting or calling them. What FEELING are you intending to start on NOW, that they will feel then? See, when you only think about the approach, it feels very much like you are performing. And THEY can choose to approve your or not. But if you, instead, think beyond the approach, and try to build a memory, it shifts the focus away from NOW. Away from them approving of you or not. This is the first step AWAY from a "right now" approach to a much more longer game approach. But let's take it a step further. Consider THIS crazy idea. That you approach, build in some good feelings and memories, but you DON'T close. Your ONLY goal is to walk up, break the ice, make them smile, perhaps laugh, and then LEAVE. Now, this is NOT a "trick" to use on one person to "get them to like you." This is a strategy to get MANY, MANY more people to like you. How so? Suppose you close EVERY person you talk to. What kind of percentages would you get? Not just numbers, but successful POST conversation flirtations? It's pretty EASY to get plenty of numbers. But most of those numbers will be fake. Not fake numbers, but fake DESIRE to give you the numbers. Most will just be polite to get rid of you. Which means if you ONLY collect numbers, MOST of them will not pan out. This means you'll ALWAYS be struggling against the cold hard numbers game. This is where cold approaching is a HORRIBLE idea. If you shoot free throws, you'll slowly get better. If you play scales on the piano, you'll slowly get better. With most practice, you slowly get better. The only thing pushing BACK against forward progress is boredom. But with number closing, you have a much more POWERFUL force pushing back against forward momentum. Social rejection, which is an instinctive FEAR. And like fear of heights or loud noises, you can't EVER get rid of this. So, what's the answer. NEVER CLOSE. Only approach, get a smile, and bolt. This WILL increase your confidence. Because there won't be any rejection. Not only will your confidence grow, but soon, a certain percentage will be closing YOU. And these folks will be VERY HIGHLY QUALIFIED. Not the throw-away numbers most people get. Learn More: https://mindpersuasion.com/charming-personality/
  12. Social Charisma https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/SC_Sales.mp4
  13. https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/May05Post.mp4 One man's problem is another man's opportunity. The same situation, seen from a more resourceful mindset, looks much, much different than it does to somebody with a more limited mindset. For example, plenty of guys get at least a little bit upset when their lady gushes over movie stars or musicians or athletes. Some see this as a sign of disrespect. That she should refrain from speaking about such feelings. Or even having such feelings. Most guys have a false beliefs that they are super hero alpha killers. That their gal MUST behave with utmost respect and deference. They even go on forums and complain that their gal is "misbehaving." Like a dog that peed on the carpet. How do I train my dog to stop doing this? All this is the PROBLEM state. What is the OPPORTUNITY within this problem? An unsatisfied woman. Very few men and women in relationships feel ABSOLUTELY satisfied. Even among life long best friends there are good things and bad things. But more importantly, how can you LEVERAGE this problem state? Of many, many, unsatisfied women out there? For one, understand WHAT specifically they want. That actor, that musician or athlete, what do THEY represent? The hero of every love story. The UNATTAINABLE goal. The MAN all the ladies are lusting for but can't have. Most guys, and most gals today are very BORING. We don't spark each other's emotions very well. For most of us, being sexually, romantically and emotionally STARVED makes it EASY for us to get into relationships. When you are STARVING, anything edible is good. This, again, is a HUGE opportunity. There is three basic steps to make it work. And work well. Step one, is you learn some basic storytelling skills. Storytelling that has heroes, deep emotions, romance and passion built into them. Then you drop in a few covert techniques. To subconsciously connect the FEELINGS in the stories to you. The next step is the EASIEST. Split. No not, like in gymnastics. But LEAVE. Leave her alone to think about the stories. To think about the emotions in them. And let her ancient cause-effect generator, that lives in EVERYBODY'S brain, to get to work. Meaning that every time she thinks of a hero, or romantic fantasy emotions, she will UNCONSCIOUSLY think of you. This will create a deep longing in her, that she, perhaps, has NEVER felt. Why do you think woman LOVE romance stories, vampire stories, forbidden lover stories? Be the one to CREATE those feelings in her, and you'll find out. Get Started: https://mindpersuasion.com/hypnotic-seduction/
  14. https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/Dec28Post.mp4 Many things have two time components. Short term and long term. These are almost always inversely proportional to one another. For example, sleeping in and then eating carne asada nachos along with a bottle of Jack Daniels feels very good in the short term. But it will kill you in the long term. On the other hand, getting up early, doing some calisthenics, and carefully monitoring your caloric intake most definitely SUCKS in the short term. But it will generate some very LONG term gains. Another common human trait is to get bad things over with as quickly as possible. Like pulling of a bandage. Or setting a bone. Or doing your taxes. If you combine these two you CAN end up in disaster. Especially when it comes to attempting to create attraction in the ladies. Generally it works like this. A guy sees a cute girl. He is getting some signs of interest, but you can never be too sure unless you go over there and say hey. So, the guy uses the bone setting approach. To get it OVER with as quickly as possible. But guys also tend to try the short term approach. To try to generate attraction RIGHT NOW. This very rarely works. Even the most confident guys, when trying this technique, have a VERY LOW success rate. Instead, consider flipping the script on BOTH models. One, forget about short term attraction. Attraction is BEST created in HER mind when you're not around. When she's thinking about you. Wondering about you. This, after all, was how feelings of love and attraction happened naturally. When she was thinking about you, and not knowing WHEN or even IF she would see you again. So, if you walk over there and make it OBVIOUS you want to jump in her panties, she'll never WONDER about you. Since she KNOWS that all she has to do is call and you'll come running. How, specifically, can you create the wonderful wondering effect that most ladies are desperate for these days? One is to become a Man with a Plan. A guy who's got a lot more going on in his life that trying to jump in any girl's panties who gives him more than a nanosecond of eye contact. Two, is when you talk to her, makes sure she's NOT SURE if you are interested in her or not. How do you do this? By asking her questions about HER. Not to judge her, not to qualify her, but just to get a better picture of her. Ask her about her future plans, her dreams, and whatever else she LIKES about herself. No judgement, but also not obvious compliments. Ask her, become interested in her, and leave while she's still feeling good. Then she'll wonder about you and HOPE that she sees you again. Start to do this normally, not just with cute girls, but with everybody, and pretty soon the world will be filled with cute girls wondering about you. And hoping you contact them again. Learn How: https://mindpersuasion.com/get-girls/
  15. https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/Dec21Post.mp4 A huge problem with us silly humans is misunderstanding cause and effect. Most of the time, we get it backwards. This is where we get anecdotes like putting the cart before the horse. For example, guys will see another guy talking to a girl. Both are obviously into each other. Body language is open. She's smiling and nodding while he's talking. She's laughing at his silly jokes. When he touches her on the arm, she doesn't recoil. Instead she leans into his touch, slightly, not too obvious. While she's listening and laughing and smiling, she's hoping he'll ask her for her number. The mistake comes from observing this. We see his words, his behaviors. The natural response is to see his words and behaviors as a CAUSE for her attraction. So we tend to copy them. This is pretty much how ALL game is created. But looking at the EXTERNAL BEHAVIOR. Even old school ideas like "cocky and funny" are like this. If you are confident (inner game) and have plenty of memories of past successes (inner game) that will make it very EASY to be cocky and funny. You don't even need to think about being cocky and funny. Cocky and funny is NATURAL behavior for humans in friendly conversations. So if you try cocky and funny, but WITHOUT the inner state, it will come across as incongruent. Any type of "game" or "PUA" behavior that requires conscious thinking is very, very dangerous. Dangerous because it's incongruent. Dangerous because if it doesn't work, it can crush your confidence even further. It's much, much better to build up a strong, inner state. So strongly that the outer behavior, the words, gestures, etc. happen automatically. And when you combine this inner strength with an understanding of the ancient, unconscious triggers that drive ALL male-female attraction, you'll have a MASSIVE advantage. This will allow you to walk into any social situation, and see who is ALREADY sending you signs of interest. Sings of interest because the girls that like you like you BEFORE you start talking to them. Creating attraction with words only is very, very, difficult. By amplifying existing attraction, on the other hand, is very, very easy. Learn this and you'll never worry about the ladies again. Get Started: https://mindpersuasion.com/get-girls/
  16. https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/Dec20Post.mp4 When it comes to food, we all have two choices. Stuff that tastes good, or stuff that is healthy. The holy grail would be both. But if you are like most people, you've tried several different attempts by food manufacturers to be both. But they fail miserably. Like you might eat some chips that are baked instead of fried. Not terrible, but not like regular chips. Air fryers are becoming more popular. Air fryers are essentially re-branded convection ovens. From a purely scientific standpoint, heat can only be transferred two ways. Convection, or conduction. Conduction is when two objects are touching, and the heat goes directly from one object into the other. Like some delicious bacon sizzling in the frying pan. Convection is when there is air in the middle. So, strictly speaking, any oven is a convection oven. But air fryers are small, hotter than normal, and they have a huge fan. An old school, convection of is simply a regular oven with a fan inside. By the name, "air fryer" is TRYING to make it sound healthy AND delicious. But no matter how COOL your air fryer looks, now matter HOW popular it is, french fries cooked in an air fryer will NEVER taste as delicious as french fries deep fried in LARD. Even better is if you take those deep fried (in lard) fries and cover them with some carne asada, some cheese, some guacamole and... Wait, what were we talking about? Oh yea, health vs. taste. This seems to be a huge problem for us silly humans. The things that FEEL GOOD vs the things that we know we SHOULD Do. Like getting up early vs. sleeping in. Or studying vs watching Netflix. Or saving money vs. spending it on hookers and cocaine. Um, I mean, a new pair of shoes that you don't really need. Another very COMMON way this plays out is how we choose our romantic partners. The people we are SEXUALLY attracted to, or the people we know we SHOULD be with. Now, let's be honest. Most of the time, we don't really HAVE a choice. We take whatever we can get and call it good. But let's flip this around. If you are a guy, then you've gotta know that girls face this same choice. The guy that she is INSTINCTIVELY attracted to. The bad boy. Then the guy she knows she SHOULD be attracted to. The guy her friends like, her mom likes, the guy a stable job. But what if YOU could be BOTH? What would THAT do to your dating life? Learn How: https://mindpersuasion.com/get-girls/
  17. Medieval Historian Disaster: https://mindpersuasion.com/medieval-historian-disaster/ https://soundcloud.com/mindpersuasion/medieval-historian-disaster https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/Oct15Loop.mp4
  18. https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/Sept23Post.mp4 One of the greatest feelings as a human is one that few people feel today. Ideas like happiness are great for writing newspaper articles. Plenty of academics like to do research on things like happiness. It's something everybody wants, nobody knows how to define, and everybody is clueless on how to get it. So this means there's a lot of interest in the subject. Lots of interest means a lot of people can write a lot of articles about it. But the problems come with HOW they do their research. The first mistake is to ASK people. A common rule in dating, for men, is not to pay attention what women say, but rather what they do. This is not only excellent advice, but it applies to EVERYBODY. If you are a marketer, and you ask people what they want or like, you're wasting your money. Marketers and advertisers have known for DECADES that watching what people do is MUCH MORE useful than listening to what they say. One reason for this is that VERY FEW people can admit the truth to themselves, let alone to a goof with a clipboard. The second mistake these happiness researchers make is trying to come up with some kind of happiness INDEX. Income, health, friends, sex, etc. These are all external things. Two different people with the SAME EXACT lifestyle will have two different levels of happiness. They could even look alike and live next door to one another. Maybe one guy, while he was in high school, had a HORRIBLE childhood. All his teachers told him he'd be lucky to get a job digging ditches. The other guy may have been told since he was a toddler what a SUPER GENIUS he was. One guy expected a horrible life and ended up with a pretty good one. This guy is HAPPY. His next door neighbor expected a wonderful life but ended up with "only" a pretty good one. This guy is MISERABLE. But you'd never know by looking ONLY at the external things. Not only is happiness a completely INTERNAL state, but it's a SIDE EFFECT. The side effect of looking back into your past. Seeing where you are today. And then extrapolating into an even better future. That STATE creates a real, genuine, feeling of happiness. But here's the thing. The content of the past, present and future are IRRELEVENT. If you are better than you were, and you KNOW you will be better than you are, THAT is what creates the most wonderful human feeling. Continuous forward movement. Continuous improvement. Consistent happiness. Get Started: http://mindpersuasion.com/seven-rules/
  19. https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/Sept06Post.mp4 Few people would disagree that the modern dating scene is a train wreck. A train carrying a bunch of dumpster fires. Headed toward a cliff. Being driven by some drunken clowns. And everybody riding the train is hammered and passed out. OK, so maybe a little over dramatic. But spend any time on any of the online dating sites and apps, and it's like walking through a jungle at the edge of time. All kinds of monsters and witches and ghosts. Acting all sweet and friendly on the outside. But secretly wanting to bake you into a pie. OK, so it's not THAT bad. But it's far from ideal. It's not THAT much different then the growing obesity problem. (see what I did there?) Way back in the day, being super hunger was a great instinct. Not only being hungry, but REALLY enjoying eating. That twin instinct keep people looking for food. And it MAXIMIZED how much we would store as extra energy. Today, that same instinct that helped us is killing us. Kind of like the guy on the ship during a storm. The boat was rocking, so he grabbed onto the first thing he could see. Which was the anchor. He hang on for dear life, and the anchor saved him. Only a couple hours later, when the weather was calm, they dropped the anchor. But he STILL held on. And what helped him before ended up killing him. This is what happens today when we BLINDLY follow our instincts. Metabolic syndrome and dating disasters. Obesity is pretty easy to understand. Not only is it physical, but it's pretty linear. Eat too much, and you've got problems. Manage your hunger, and you can avoid problems. But all the INSTINCTS that are built into human relationships are much more complex. Much more NON-LINEAR. And much more emotional. Which CAN make them much harder to manage. If you WING it, like pretty much everybody else, you risk ending up on the clown train of death. But if you take the time to UNDERSTAND the love instincts, you can get a massive advantage. Avoiding heartbreak. Knowing BEST how to screen people, to create the best relationships. You'll even be able to predict which of your friends' relationships will last, and which won't. Kind of like having a secret set of blue prints for modern love. Learn More: http://mindpersuasion.com/love-instinct/
  20. Benefits Of Female Hypergamy: https://mindpersuasion.com/the-benefits-of-female-hypergamy/ https://soundcloud.com/mindpersuasion/benefits-of-female-hypergamy https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/July19Loop.mp4
  21. https://mindpersuasion.com/girls-like-you/
  22. A very common idea is that if you ONLY know what to "say" to a girl, everything will be fine. Since the dawn of time, guys have been searching for the magic pick up lines that will unlock her golden gates of heaven. "Just tell me what to say," they ask. "I just need to know what to tell her to make her interested," they request. But here's the thing. That "idea" that you need to "say" the right thing is a FALSE idea. Sure, some things you say are better than others. If you walk up and give her a genuine compliment, it would probably work better than if you walk up and say, "Grilled bacon and cheese!" But the whole idea of thinking you NEED to KNOW what to say misses the point. What is the point? Man's greatest fear when talking to an attractive woman is getting STUCK. Of freezing up. Whenever a guy walks up to a girl, he feels as if EVERYBODY is watching. She's watching, her friends are watching, everybody else on EARTH is watching. Further, they imagine they have to PERFORM for her. Even some of the most popular seduction products and seminars are based around PERFORMING for her. Doing things to IMPRESS her. Like you're a clown juggling bowling ball pins in front of the queen. This only addresses the SURFACE STRUCTURE of your communication. And no matter HOW MANY surface structure "techniques" you learn, she may come up with something that can effectively DEFEND against it. Even if you use them with extreme congruence, she is going to TEST YOU to make sure you're just has a well-practiced PUA. She'll even do this without knowing. Which is why any SURFACE STRUCTURE tactics (words, techniques, openers, etc.) are temporary. Suppose she really falls in love with you. Pretty soon you're going to run out of material, and she'll get to know the REAL YOU. Why not cut to the chase? Get rid of the need for surface structure junk in the first place? How do you do that? By ejecting all those false fears that make you THINK you need the "right thing to say." When you have ZERO FEAR of any woman, or any interaction with any woman, it doesn't matter WHAT you say. Just walk up and start talking. If you have ZERO FEAR, you won't feel the need to impress her. You won't feel the need to "say the magic words in the right order." You won't be worried if nobody talks. You'll just be enjoying her. (SHE'LL be super nervous, though!) How do you EJECT all fear? Here's How: Zero Fear Game
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