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  1. Social Charisma https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/SC_Sales.mp4
  2. https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/May05Post.mp4 One man's problem is another man's opportunity. The same situation, seen from a more resourceful mindset, looks much, much different than it does to somebody with a more limited mindset. For example, plenty of guys get at least a little bit upset when their lady gushes over movie stars or musicians or athletes. Some see this as a sign of disrespect. That she should refrain from speaking about such feelings. Or even having such feelings. Most guys have a false beliefs that they are super hero alpha killers. That their gal MUST behave with utmost respect and deference. They even go on forums and complain that their gal is "misbehaving." Like a dog that peed on the carpet. How do I train my dog to stop doing this? All this is the PROBLEM state. What is the OPPORTUNITY within this problem? An unsatisfied woman. Very few men and women in relationships feel ABSOLUTELY satisfied. Even among life long best friends there are good things and bad things. But more importantly, how can you LEVERAGE this problem state? Of many, many, unsatisfied women out there? For one, understand WHAT specifically they want. That actor, that musician or athlete, what do THEY represent? The hero of every love story. The UNATTAINABLE goal. The MAN all the ladies are lusting for but can't have. Most guys, and most gals today are very BORING. We don't spark each other's emotions very well. For most of us, being sexually, romantically and emotionally STARVED makes it EASY for us to get into relationships. When you are STARVING, anything edible is good. This, again, is a HUGE opportunity. There is three basic steps to make it work. And work well. Step one, is you learn some basic storytelling skills. Storytelling that has heroes, deep emotions, romance and passion built into them. Then you drop in a few covert techniques. To subconsciously connect the FEELINGS in the stories to you. The next step is the EASIEST. Split. No not, like in gymnastics. But LEAVE. Leave her alone to think about the stories. To think about the emotions in them. And let her ancient cause-effect generator, that lives in EVERYBODY'S brain, to get to work. Meaning that every time she thinks of a hero, or romantic fantasy emotions, she will UNCONSCIOUSLY think of you. This will create a deep longing in her, that she, perhaps, has NEVER felt. Why do you think woman LOVE romance stories, vampire stories, forbidden lover stories? Be the one to CREATE those feelings in her, and you'll find out. Get Started: https://mindpersuasion.com/hypnotic-seduction/
  3. https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/Dec28Post.mp4 Many things have two time components. Short term and long term. These are almost always inversely proportional to one another. For example, sleeping in and then eating carne asada nachos along with a bottle of Jack Daniels feels very good in the short term. But it will kill you in the long term. On the other hand, getting up early, doing some calisthenics, and carefully monitoring your caloric intake most definitely SUCKS in the short term. But it will generate some very LONG term gains. Another common human trait is to get bad things over with as quickly as possible. Like pulling of a bandage. Or setting a bone. Or doing your taxes. If you combine these two you CAN end up in disaster. Especially when it comes to attempting to create attraction in the ladies. Generally it works like this. A guy sees a cute girl. He is getting some signs of interest, but you can never be too sure unless you go over there and say hey. So, the guy uses the bone setting approach. To get it OVER with as quickly as possible. But guys also tend to try the short term approach. To try to generate attraction RIGHT NOW. This very rarely works. Even the most confident guys, when trying this technique, have a VERY LOW success rate. Instead, consider flipping the script on BOTH models. One, forget about short term attraction. Attraction is BEST created in HER mind when you're not around. When she's thinking about you. Wondering about you. This, after all, was how feelings of love and attraction happened naturally. When she was thinking about you, and not knowing WHEN or even IF she would see you again. So, if you walk over there and make it OBVIOUS you want to jump in her panties, she'll never WONDER about you. Since she KNOWS that all she has to do is call and you'll come running. How, specifically, can you create the wonderful wondering effect that most ladies are desperate for these days? One is to become a Man with a Plan. A guy who's got a lot more going on in his life that trying to jump in any girl's panties who gives him more than a nanosecond of eye contact. Two, is when you talk to her, makes sure she's NOT SURE if you are interested in her or not. How do you do this? By asking her questions about HER. Not to judge her, not to qualify her, but just to get a better picture of her. Ask her about her future plans, her dreams, and whatever else she LIKES about herself. No judgement, but also not obvious compliments. Ask her, become interested in her, and leave while she's still feeling good. Then she'll wonder about you and HOPE that she sees you again. Start to do this normally, not just with cute girls, but with everybody, and pretty soon the world will be filled with cute girls wondering about you. And hoping you contact them again. Learn How: https://mindpersuasion.com/get-girls/
  4. https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/Dec21Post.mp4 A huge problem with us silly humans is misunderstanding cause and effect. Most of the time, we get it backwards. This is where we get anecdotes like putting the cart before the horse. For example, guys will see another guy talking to a girl. Both are obviously into each other. Body language is open. She's smiling and nodding while he's talking. She's laughing at his silly jokes. When he touches her on the arm, she doesn't recoil. Instead she leans into his touch, slightly, not too obvious. While she's listening and laughing and smiling, she's hoping he'll ask her for her number. The mistake comes from observing this. We see his words, his behaviors. The natural response is to see his words and behaviors as a CAUSE for her attraction. So we tend to copy them. This is pretty much how ALL game is created. But looking at the EXTERNAL BEHAVIOR. Even old school ideas like "cocky and funny" are like this. If you are confident (inner game) and have plenty of memories of past successes (inner game) that will make it very EASY to be cocky and funny. You don't even need to think about being cocky and funny. Cocky and funny is NATURAL behavior for humans in friendly conversations. So if you try cocky and funny, but WITHOUT the inner state, it will come across as incongruent. Any type of "game" or "PUA" behavior that requires conscious thinking is very, very dangerous. Dangerous because it's incongruent. Dangerous because if it doesn't work, it can crush your confidence even further. It's much, much better to build up a strong, inner state. So strongly that the outer behavior, the words, gestures, etc. happen automatically. And when you combine this inner strength with an understanding of the ancient, unconscious triggers that drive ALL male-female attraction, you'll have a MASSIVE advantage. This will allow you to walk into any social situation, and see who is ALREADY sending you signs of interest. Sings of interest because the girls that like you like you BEFORE you start talking to them. Creating attraction with words only is very, very, difficult. By amplifying existing attraction, on the other hand, is very, very easy. Learn this and you'll never worry about the ladies again. Get Started: https://mindpersuasion.com/get-girls/
  5. https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/Dec20Post.mp4 When it comes to food, we all have two choices. Stuff that tastes good, or stuff that is healthy. The holy grail would be both. But if you are like most people, you've tried several different attempts by food manufacturers to be both. But they fail miserably. Like you might eat some chips that are baked instead of fried. Not terrible, but not like regular chips. Air fryers are becoming more popular. Air fryers are essentially re-branded convection ovens. From a purely scientific standpoint, heat can only be transferred two ways. Convection, or conduction. Conduction is when two objects are touching, and the heat goes directly from one object into the other. Like some delicious bacon sizzling in the frying pan. Convection is when there is air in the middle. So, strictly speaking, any oven is a convection oven. But air fryers are small, hotter than normal, and they have a huge fan. An old school, convection of is simply a regular oven with a fan inside. By the name, "air fryer" is TRYING to make it sound healthy AND delicious. But no matter how COOL your air fryer looks, now matter HOW popular it is, french fries cooked in an air fryer will NEVER taste as delicious as french fries deep fried in LARD. Even better is if you take those deep fried (in lard) fries and cover them with some carne asada, some cheese, some guacamole and... Wait, what were we talking about? Oh yea, health vs. taste. This seems to be a huge problem for us silly humans. The things that FEEL GOOD vs the things that we know we SHOULD Do. Like getting up early vs. sleeping in. Or studying vs watching Netflix. Or saving money vs. spending it on hookers and cocaine. Um, I mean, a new pair of shoes that you don't really need. Another very COMMON way this plays out is how we choose our romantic partners. The people we are SEXUALLY attracted to, or the people we know we SHOULD be with. Now, let's be honest. Most of the time, we don't really HAVE a choice. We take whatever we can get and call it good. But let's flip this around. If you are a guy, then you've gotta know that girls face this same choice. The guy that she is INSTINCTIVELY attracted to. The bad boy. Then the guy she knows she SHOULD be attracted to. The guy her friends like, her mom likes, the guy a stable job. But what if YOU could be BOTH? What would THAT do to your dating life? Learn How: https://mindpersuasion.com/get-girls/
  6. Medieval Historian Disaster: https://mindpersuasion.com/medieval-historian-disaster/ https://soundcloud.com/mindpersuasion/medieval-historian-disaster https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/Oct15Loop.mp4
  7. https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/Sept23Post.mp4 One of the greatest feelings as a human is one that few people feel today. Ideas like happiness are great for writing newspaper articles. Plenty of academics like to do research on things like happiness. It's something everybody wants, nobody knows how to define, and everybody is clueless on how to get it. So this means there's a lot of interest in the subject. Lots of interest means a lot of people can write a lot of articles about it. But the problems come with HOW they do their research. The first mistake is to ASK people. A common rule in dating, for men, is not to pay attention what women say, but rather what they do. This is not only excellent advice, but it applies to EVERYBODY. If you are a marketer, and you ask people what they want or like, you're wasting your money. Marketers and advertisers have known for DECADES that watching what people do is MUCH MORE useful than listening to what they say. One reason for this is that VERY FEW people can admit the truth to themselves, let alone to a goof with a clipboard. The second mistake these happiness researchers make is trying to come up with some kind of happiness INDEX. Income, health, friends, sex, etc. These are all external things. Two different people with the SAME EXACT lifestyle will have two different levels of happiness. They could even look alike and live next door to one another. Maybe one guy, while he was in high school, had a HORRIBLE childhood. All his teachers told him he'd be lucky to get a job digging ditches. The other guy may have been told since he was a toddler what a SUPER GENIUS he was. One guy expected a horrible life and ended up with a pretty good one. This guy is HAPPY. His next door neighbor expected a wonderful life but ended up with "only" a pretty good one. This guy is MISERABLE. But you'd never know by looking ONLY at the external things. Not only is happiness a completely INTERNAL state, but it's a SIDE EFFECT. The side effect of looking back into your past. Seeing where you are today. And then extrapolating into an even better future. That STATE creates a real, genuine, feeling of happiness. But here's the thing. The content of the past, present and future are IRRELEVENT. If you are better than you were, and you KNOW you will be better than you are, THAT is what creates the most wonderful human feeling. Continuous forward movement. Continuous improvement. Consistent happiness. Get Started: http://mindpersuasion.com/seven-rules/
  8. https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/Sept06Post.mp4 Few people would disagree that the modern dating scene is a train wreck. A train carrying a bunch of dumpster fires. Headed toward a cliff. Being driven by some drunken clowns. And everybody riding the train is hammered and passed out. OK, so maybe a little over dramatic. But spend any time on any of the online dating sites and apps, and it's like walking through a jungle at the edge of time. All kinds of monsters and witches and ghosts. Acting all sweet and friendly on the outside. But secretly wanting to bake you into a pie. OK, so it's not THAT bad. But it's far from ideal. It's not THAT much different then the growing obesity problem. (see what I did there?) Way back in the day, being super hunger was a great instinct. Not only being hungry, but REALLY enjoying eating. That twin instinct keep people looking for food. And it MAXIMIZED how much we would store as extra energy. Today, that same instinct that helped us is killing us. Kind of like the guy on the ship during a storm. The boat was rocking, so he grabbed onto the first thing he could see. Which was the anchor. He hang on for dear life, and the anchor saved him. Only a couple hours later, when the weather was calm, they dropped the anchor. But he STILL held on. And what helped him before ended up killing him. This is what happens today when we BLINDLY follow our instincts. Metabolic syndrome and dating disasters. Obesity is pretty easy to understand. Not only is it physical, but it's pretty linear. Eat too much, and you've got problems. Manage your hunger, and you can avoid problems. But all the INSTINCTS that are built into human relationships are much more complex. Much more NON-LINEAR. And much more emotional. Which CAN make them much harder to manage. If you WING it, like pretty much everybody else, you risk ending up on the clown train of death. But if you take the time to UNDERSTAND the love instincts, you can get a massive advantage. Avoiding heartbreak. Knowing BEST how to screen people, to create the best relationships. You'll even be able to predict which of your friends' relationships will last, and which won't. Kind of like having a secret set of blue prints for modern love. Learn More: http://mindpersuasion.com/love-instinct/
  9. Benefits Of Female Hypergamy: https://mindpersuasion.com/the-benefits-of-female-hypergamy/ https://soundcloud.com/mindpersuasion/benefits-of-female-hypergamy https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/July19Loop.mp4
  10. https://mindpersuasion.com/girls-like-you/
  11. A very common idea is that if you ONLY know what to "say" to a girl, everything will be fine. Since the dawn of time, guys have been searching for the magic pick up lines that will unlock her golden gates of heaven. "Just tell me what to say," they ask. "I just need to know what to tell her to make her interested," they request. But here's the thing. That "idea" that you need to "say" the right thing is a FALSE idea. Sure, some things you say are better than others. If you walk up and give her a genuine compliment, it would probably work better than if you walk up and say, "Grilled bacon and cheese!" But the whole idea of thinking you NEED to KNOW what to say misses the point. What is the point? Man's greatest fear when talking to an attractive woman is getting STUCK. Of freezing up. Whenever a guy walks up to a girl, he feels as if EVERYBODY is watching. She's watching, her friends are watching, everybody else on EARTH is watching. Further, they imagine they have to PERFORM for her. Even some of the most popular seduction products and seminars are based around PERFORMING for her. Doing things to IMPRESS her. Like you're a clown juggling bowling ball pins in front of the queen. This only addresses the SURFACE STRUCTURE of your communication. And no matter HOW MANY surface structure "techniques" you learn, she may come up with something that can effectively DEFEND against it. Even if you use them with extreme congruence, she is going to TEST YOU to make sure you're just has a well-practiced PUA. She'll even do this without knowing. Which is why any SURFACE STRUCTURE tactics (words, techniques, openers, etc.) are temporary. Suppose she really falls in love with you. Pretty soon you're going to run out of material, and she'll get to know the REAL YOU. Why not cut to the chase? Get rid of the need for surface structure junk in the first place? How do you do that? By ejecting all those false fears that make you THINK you need the "right thing to say." When you have ZERO FEAR of any woman, or any interaction with any woman, it doesn't matter WHAT you say. Just walk up and start talking. If you have ZERO FEAR, you won't feel the need to impress her. You won't feel the need to "say the magic words in the right order." You won't be worried if nobody talks. You'll just be enjoying her. (SHE'LL be super nervous, though!) How do you EJECT all fear? Here's How: Zero Fear Game
  12. Now, I haven't got my ex back (yet?) and I don't know if I will but my goodness this video is really fun to experiment with. I have noticed this, and another girl I shared it with when it was on youtube had the same thing, other guys coming back to us. I'm sure this would happen with other girls coming back to if someone who was attracted to girls (a straight guy or gay/bi girl) because it's a gender neutral video it doesn't say if you are attracting back a man or a woman so I believe it will attract back according to which one you want. Anyway, while my ex hasn't come back, it's been hilarious watching these OTHER guys come back into my life. I know that some guys can be like that anyway, but not like this I have NEVER EVER experienced that sort of thing to this level. And I LOVE it! (I think I've used this video three weeks to a month and started a couple of times more again recently but results happened quite quick I think.) I had a guy who I'd been texting with come back six weeks later, get back in touch and we went on two dates and had a lovely time. I think if certain circumstances in our lives were different, it's possible we'd still be dating by the way. Another one came back out of the blue and we didn't end up meeting but I got the closure I wanted. I think that can be part of the ex back thing, by the way, closure. I hear people saying you can get an ex back and realize they are NOT all that great well I STILL think that's a great thing, cos then you get closure. And as far as my own ex, I think it DID left my beliefs that it COULD happen, so I think if you want your ex back, try this video, what have you got to lose? But use it playfully cos I know this can be an emotionally-charged situation cos I know how it can feel. Yesterday I had a guy I had 2 dates with in April get back in touch with me and he even ended up saying all these things like "I want to date you, would you consider that?" and telling me these reasons why. Like I mean I think he wants to go on lots of dates with me and maybe be my boyfriend, that's SORT of what he was getting at. I'm thinking about it, but I said to him we'll go on another date soon and just see how it goes. And there's another one - there's been a few of them, you guys, in fact ANOTHER one started contacting again last night, it's like that they are just popping up, and it's so funny to watch and so fun and kinda exciting cos you never know who's gonna pop back next! - who is suddenly text flirting with me again but he even when he started getting in contact he was on holiday in a beautiful place and suddenly thought of me. That's it they suddenly start thinking of you and that's even what one of the guys said. Another guy who wasn't nice got in touch but it was GOOD cos he was nice to me and we got something resolved and that felt SO powerful too so amazing. I realized he was harmless, he WASN'T a bad guy. That guys NOT dating material but it was more getting things resolved. WOW. You HAVE to try this. If you want your ex back or just to explore this and see who comes back into YOUR life, give it a go. But like I said do it for fun, have fun with this. Cos it's really fun, I think, to watch what happens! (I think this is obvious but, it's under the Relationships section of the videos.)
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