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https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/Sept06Post.mp4 Few people would disagree that the modern dating scene is a train wreck. A train carrying a bunch of dumpster fires. Headed toward a cliff. Being driven by some drunken clowns. And everybody riding the train is hammered and passed out. OK, so maybe a little over dramatic. But spend any time on any of the online dating sites and apps, and it's like walking through a jungle at the edge of time. All kinds of monsters and witches and ghosts. Acting all sweet and friendly on the outside. But secretly wanting to bake you into a pie. OK, so it's not THAT bad. But it's far from ideal. It's not THAT much different then the growing obesity problem. (see what I did there?) Way back in the day, being super hunger was a great instinct. Not only being hungry, but REALLY enjoying eating. That twin instinct keep people looking for food. And it MAXIMIZED how much we would store as extra energy. Today, that same instinct that helped us is killing us. Kind of like the guy on the ship during a storm. The boat was rocking, so he grabbed onto the first thing he could see. Which was the anchor. He hang on for dear life, and the anchor saved him. Only a couple hours later, when the weather was calm, they dropped the anchor. But he STILL held on. And what helped him before ended up killing him. This is what happens today when we BLINDLY follow our instincts. Metabolic syndrome and dating disasters. Obesity is pretty easy to understand. Not only is it physical, but it's pretty linear. Eat too much, and you've got problems. Manage your hunger, and you can avoid problems. But all the INSTINCTS that are built into human relationships are much more complex. Much more NON-LINEAR. And much more emotional. Which CAN make them much harder to manage. If you WING it, like pretty much everybody else, you risk ending up on the clown train of death. But if you take the time to UNDERSTAND the love instincts, you can get a massive advantage. Avoiding heartbreak. Knowing BEST how to screen people, to create the best relationships. You'll even be able to predict which of your friends' relationships will last, and which won't. Kind of like having a secret set of blue prints for modern love. Learn More: http://mindpersuasion.com/love-instinct/
I had a friend way back in college. Always had a different girl every weekend. But I never thought of him as a player. In fact, he was the opposite of any stereotypical player. I never saw him approach any girl, never saw him ask for a number. Yet ever morning I would see a different girl leave his dorm room. He was the opposite of what every PUA guru and coach teaches. It was like magic. But it wasn't magic. It was simple. Logical even. He created a very positive energy around him. Not in any metaphysical hocus pocus way. He was just a friendly guy to be around. If you were driving somewhere with him, it was enjoyable. If you were hanging out with him in an otherwise boring dorm room, it was enjoyable. He never tried, he never used any technology. He was just "being himself." So whenever he went to big parties, the party always gravitated to wherever he was. And the end of the night, all he had to do was look around at all the folks hanging around, and pick the cutest girl to take home with him. And they were always happy to oblige, since he was always the hero of the party. How can you become the hero of the party? Relax, and enjoy yourself. Make people feel good about themselves. Take anything that people say and "reframe" it so it's funny. Not funny at somebody's expense. Just funny funny. (Two lions were eating a clown, and one lion said: "Hey, does this taste funny to you?) When most people think about reframing, they think of reframing things to win arguments. To be right when somebody else is wrong. To control and maintain the frame. As if everybody is always locked in frame-control battle to the death. But you can use the very same strategies to reframe ANYTHING to be funnier, less serious, more enjoyable than it is. And when you do it carefully, the person who's statement you reframed into a funny joke, they'll feel like they were part of the creation of the joke. Everybody's involved, everybody is laughing. And you are the party hero. Learn How: http://mindpersuasion.com/party-hypnosis/