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https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/Dec20Post.mp4 When it comes to food, we all have two choices. Stuff that tastes good, or stuff that is healthy. The holy grail would be both. But if you are like most people, you've tried several different attempts by food manufacturers to be both. But they fail miserably. Like you might eat some chips that are baked instead of fried. Not terrible, but not like regular chips. Air fryers are becoming more popular. Air fryers are essentially re-branded convection ovens. From a purely scientific standpoint, heat can only be transferred two ways. Convection, or conduction. Conduction is when two objects are touching, and the heat goes directly from one object into the other. Like some delicious bacon sizzling in the frying pan. Convection is when there is air in the middle. So, strictly speaking, any oven is a convection oven. But air fryers are small, hotter than normal, and they have a huge fan. An old school, convection of is simply a regular oven with a fan inside. By the name, "air fryer" is TRYING to make it sound healthy AND delicious. But no matter how COOL your air fryer looks, now matter HOW popular it is, french fries cooked in an air fryer will NEVER taste as delicious as french fries deep fried in LARD. Even better is if you take those deep fried (in lard) fries and cover them with some carne asada, some cheese, some guacamole and... Wait, what were we talking about? Oh yea, health vs. taste. This seems to be a huge problem for us silly humans. The things that FEEL GOOD vs the things that we know we SHOULD Do. Like getting up early vs. sleeping in. Or studying vs watching Netflix. Or saving money vs. spending it on hookers and cocaine. Um, I mean, a new pair of shoes that you don't really need. Another very COMMON way this plays out is how we choose our romantic partners. The people we are SEXUALLY attracted to, or the people we know we SHOULD be with. Now, let's be honest. Most of the time, we don't really HAVE a choice. We take whatever we can get and call it good. But let's flip this around. If you are a guy, then you've gotta know that girls face this same choice. The guy that she is INSTINCTIVELY attracted to. The bad boy. Then the guy she knows she SHOULD be attracted to. The guy her friends like, her mom likes, the guy a stable job. But what if YOU could be BOTH? What would THAT do to your dating life? Learn How: https://mindpersuasion.com/get-girls/
https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/Aug09Post.mp4 A common strategy is to anticipate somebody's intention. For example, defenders who can accurately read the offense tend to predict movements before they happen. In movies, enemies are always trying to out think and out fake each other. Sometimes they use chess terminology to describe this. Chess is a game of strategy and hidden intentions. The pieces are plainly visible, but the intentions behind the pieces are not. A common sales objection strategy is to understand the intention behind the objection. If you DON'T understand the intention, it's hard to address the objection. Sometimes our intentions are hidden, even from ourselves. When patients visit therapists, for example, there are often two issues. The presenting issue, which is the one the patient thinks is the real issue. And the deeper issue, which may take quite a bit of time to get to. This is why couples tend to get into vicious fights about things that don't appear to be a big deal on the surface. But underneath there is some deep emotional issues. The longer we let these emotional issues fester, the worse we'll explode during silly arguments about toilet seats and toothpaste caps. Sometimes our outward expressions are the OPPOSITE of our intentions. Because we have doubts about our intentions. But we don't want to acknowledge those doubts. So we ignore them, usually by externalizing them. And we end up seeing them in other people. When you have two people, like a couple, that have similarly structured doubts, that are both hidden and externalized (onto each other) the arguments can be very explosive. Like a self-destructive dance of death between matter and anti-matter. From a structural standpoint, this can be pretty easy to understand. On a deep level, we have our basic instincts. Food, sex, social validation, etc. Then we have our surface level, conscious expressions of those instincts. In between we have our doubts about HOW we may or may not get those outcomes satisfied. It can seem pretty confusing at first, but if you take the time to understand our basic thought process, it gets pretty easy. It's kind of like having X-ray vision. Knowing what moves the other guy is going to make. Before they make it. Like advanced athletes, chess players, and movie spies. Needless to say, this will give you an incredible advantage. Learn More: http://mindpersuasion.com/watching-mind/