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https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/Jun19Post.mp4 You don't have to look very far to find that modern dating is a raging dumpster fire. There are plenty of related problems in modern society. Crappy diets, crappy TV, short attention spans. One thing that is kind of new (relatively speaking) is the idea of binge watching. This wasn't a thing a five or ten years ago. When a new TV show is released, it's common to for folks to watch it ALL in one weekend. Imagine if you were a master chef. And you prided yourself in your culinary creations. So you got hired in a brand new restaurant downtown. It was your first night, so you wanted to impress. You showed up in the kitchen early. Spent all day crafting the perfect meal. Complete with the perfect appetizer, the perfect entree, and the perfect dessert. You were told a very important customer was coming in. You were nervous, but you were ready. But then he said he wanted everything at ONCE. Appetizer, entree, dessert, AND three full glasses of wine. Curious, you peeked out into the dining room. And the dude absolutely INHALED everything at once. In less than a minute. How would you feel? This is our modern society. We want everything, and we want it NOW. If you want to play this game, it is VERY CROWDED. Especially in the social scene. Everybody gives everybody else about THREE SECONDS to pass muster. But guess what? Our ancient instincts are still the same. Which means you can clean up. By playing the long game. And compared to the modern attention span, playing long game is pretty easy. For example, consider how the average woman experiences the average guy. Especially if she's somewhat attractive, articulate, and intelligent. Her experience of most dudes are that they are DESPERATE and NEEDY. As soon as they start talking to her, they try to impress and close. In fact, this is what many PUA gurus teach. Approach, demonstrate value, amplify, close, etc. But what happens if you try a different approach? To approach, create massive happiness, and then LEAVE? Wait, what? Why leave? Take a moment and think of the long game this will have on your confidence. If you follow that simple strategy, of creating good feelings, and the leaving, what will happen? You will have a long memory that people, IN GENERAL, very much like you. That people very much enjoy you. That people very much WANT YOU to hang around. This will change your frame. This will change your subconscious, non-verbal behavior. And this will make you MUCH more attractive. So much that people will begin closing YOU. So much that people will begin CHASING you. Play the long game, and win. Learn How: https://mindpersuasion.com/charming-personality/