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  18. https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/Jan17_Post.mp4 One of the earliest "tricks" from NLP is the swish pattern. Unfortunately, like many other NLP ideas, this was treated as a once and done trick. Mainly because of how it was taught and learned in seminars. NLP seminars are like many other guru type seminars. The seminar experience is kind of an "alternate reality." Everybody is excited about all the cool tricks. And how much better their future will be. And when they try the exercise, they kind of "pretend" they work. Especially if the NLP seminar is expensive and in some exotic location, or even a nice hotel, like many are. It would feel TERRIBLE to admit you've wasted your money. So everybody kind of "pretends" that the techniques work FANTASTICALLY. So, when people do the "swish" pattern, inside the seminar, it's easy to believe it's a once and done trick. The swish pattern does work, but it takes time. You basically take some "trigger" that comes at you unexpectedly from the world. And before the swish pattern, that trigger causes an automatic and unwanted emotional response. This unwanted response is kind of like a little kid touching a hot stove. This creates an automatic "cause-effect" link in the kids mind. So they see the stove, they AUTOMATICALLY feel afraid. This is naturally overridden over time. Slowly but surely, as they grow up, they override that "hot stove = danger" with different responses. Hot stove = grilled cheese Hot stove = happy pancake party Hot stove = cooking dinner and hoping I get laid So yes, it IS possible to RE-WIRE any negative trigger-responses in your brain. But since you are essentially re-wiring a fear response, it takes plenty of time. Metaphorically, when the brain sees any kind of danger, or potential danger, any thing associated with that danger is laid down with THICK brain wiring. Those that didn't have this automatic fear-thick-wire response didn't survive. So in order to override that thick wire with pleasure, it takes time. What kind of pleasure? In the hot stove example, the fear of pain was slowly overridden with the pleasure of eating. But an even BETTER pleasure is SEX. Especially if you use the SAME trigger. Most of us have an automatic sex response like this. We see a hot guy or girl. We feel horny. That horniness makes us imagine talking to them and hopefully getting some. That causes fear and anxiety. That fear and anxiety drives UNATTRACTIVE body language. This is likely the most famous VICIOUS cycle of modern humans. The trick is to BREAK this cycle using the SAME sex urge. To stop that chain of events that leads with unattractive body language. And build in a DIFFERENT chain of events. To generate very, very attractive body language. So instead of FEELING nervous when you see a pretty lady. You'll AUTOMATICALLY feel insanely confident. Learn How: https://mindpersuasion.com/sexual-charisma/
  19. https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/Oct20Post.mp4 One of the very first "transactions" that went down on planet Earth happened by accident. Biologists believe the very first multi-cellular life form happened when one single celled dude tried to eat another single celled dude. But it was kind of like the world famous "peanut butter in my chocolate" discovery. That old commercial where one lady was walking down the street eating some chocolate. Another dude was walking down the street eating peanut butter, from a jar. They bumped into each other and BOOM! A new candy was invented. This is exactly what happened way back in the days if single celled organisms. When that one dude crept up on another dude and tried to eat him. Of course, he didn't really "eat" him. He (or it) tried to surround the smaller single cell and become a bit bigger, kind of like the horror movie "the blob." Only things didn't go as planned. Turns out the smaller dude was pretty good and producing energy. And the bigger dude had a very thick cell membrane. And they ended up being the perfect team. (Just like peanut butter and chocolate) The little dude on the inside would provide the energy. The bigger dude on the outside would provide the protection. Flash forward a billion years or so, and this kind of "overlapping selfishness" happens EVERYWHERE. Bees and flowers. Monkeys and fruit. Monkey see the bright colors and get excited. Because their DNA knows that "bright colors = sweet taste." The eat the fruit and poop out the seeds. This is EXACTLY like bees and flowers. One group gets the sweet stuff. The other groups gets help with reproduction. This is also how they think dogs went from wolves who ate people to being "man's best friend." Overlapping selfishness. Dogs got free food. Humans got this perfect alarm-home-defense system. Adam Smith even talked about this. The butcher, the baker, the brewer don't do what they do because they give two rips about us. They want our money. But like bees, and monkeys and dogs, they have to GIVE us something in exchange for our money. Bread, beer, bacon, etc. This is how ALL LIFE works. Even chemical bonds. Two single atoms are better off TOGETHER than they are rolling solo. This is also how human relationships are formed. Through a mostly unconscious overlapping selfishness. We like hanging around with friends and lovers because we are better TOGETHER than we are apart. Everybody knows HOW to do this. Little kids have been making friends with other little kids since the dawn of time. So when you look across the room, and ASSUME that gorgeous lady has EVERYTHING, and you walk over like a beggar, you are NOT following the rules of nature. But if you DO stroll on over there like an atom with an extra space for a electron, you ARE following the rules of nature. This is not something you need to learn. This is only something you need to remember. Get Started: https://mindpersuasion.com/personal-magnetism/
  20. https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/Sept25Post.mp4 Magic tricks are cool. I've been fortunate enough to know two guys who were professional, up close, sleight of hand magicians. Up close meaning they would perform at places like this club in Hollywood called the "Magic Castle." And they wouldn't be up on stage. The rooms were set up like rooms at big, Hollywood Hills style house parties. And the guy would be sitting behind a table, and they would have very small, kind of "bleachers" set up. So you could have a straight line of sight from where you were to the dudes hands. The rooms were small enough so you could hear the magician talk without him needing a mic or even to speak loudly. And they would tell this long, stories while doing their tricks. Card tricks. Shuffling and dealing. And since these guys were top notch, sleight of hand specialists, they could deal FROM anywhere in the deck and deal TO anywhere in the deck. We'd be watching his hands closely. He'd be watching his hands closely. He'd be telling some long, random story. But the story would end, and he'd deal out all the cards, one by one, and they would match PERFECTLY. Clearly this is something you'd need to practice A LOT. But it was also a kind of blurred reality. Often, when a magician is telling a story, it's mostly for misdirection. You're paying attention to the story, not his a hands. But when the story is actually part of the trick, it creates a very, very hypnotic effect. My other friend did a bit of stage work, but for him, magic was mostly a hobby. He'd show up at a bar, talk a good game, telling magician type stories, while doing simple tricks with coins, etc. He's ALWAYS get a crowd around him. And even though he wasn't "handsome" by any stretch, the dude got laid like CRAZY. Even if you don't know any magic, don't want to learn any magic, you can still leverage this technique. Of talking a good game. But this is the cool part. Most people are NOT articulate. Most people mumble their words, or repeat words and phrases used by others. But articulation, and verbal energy are two things can PRACTICE. And practice every day. All by yourself. So even if you are talking about a duck you saw while walking in the park, you can generate the same magical effect. The secret is that unless you are helping a pilot land a plane, the words you use are NOT very important. So you take any random words, and add in some mental power, and some mental based articulation, you can mesmerize anybody. And crowds will gather just to hear you speak. Learn How: https://mindpersuasion.com/mental-strength/
  21. https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/Apr05Post.mp4 What does it mean to be charismatic? There are a plenty of ways. Charisma is a general label. One that means the person labeled as charismatic is VERY enjoyable to be around. There are two basic ways to do this. One is to focus COMPLETELY on other person. Not just lazy, fake focus. But real, genuine interest in who they are. Not just their looks, but everything about them. Most of us can ONLY do this with people we are physically or otherwise attracted. But charismatic people can do this with EVERYBODY. Now, most people believe this is some kind of genetic gift. One that some people have, and others don't. But it is something you can practice. But this kind of charisma has one very significant drawback. You can ONLY use it on one person at a time. Because it is focused on bringing OUT the best things about that other person. There is a different kind of charisma. One that can create attraction, desire, and fascination in AS MANY people as you want. Some people "try" to approach this when they learn various "techniques." Like doing card tricks or other interesting bar tricks. These CAN be very useful. We DO like magic. But this means you'll need to have a LOT of magic tricks up your sleeve. And when you run out, you run out. Show's over, Elvis has left the building. Since we ARE talking about magic tricks, there is another aspect of doing magic. And that is the magician's patter. A magician silently standing there doing tricks is interesting. But a magician that does SIMPLE tricks while telling INTERESTING and complex stories? Way better. In fact, with ONLY the storytelling part, you can do LOT BETTER than any random bar magician. Why? Because stories are based on STRUCTURE. You learn a magic trick you can ONLY do that magic trick. But once you learn a few story STRUCTURES, you can tell the same stories over and over and over. Just different content each time. Even better is that stories move us NOT because of their content, but because of their STRUCTURE. It is their structure that moves our emotions. It is their structure that will allow YOU to move their emotions. One at a time, or all at once. This is the ULTIMATE in charisma. To be in a random, organically evolving conversation. Somebody says something about the weird guy working at Jack In The Box. Somebody else says something about something kind of related. Then you slide in. "That's like this one guy..." you begin. Next thing you know, the entire ROOM is mesmerized. Hanging on very word. All their attentions in YOURS. Their emotions in YOUR control. And YOU forever in their memories. Learn More: https://mindpersuasion.com/storytelling-magic/
  22. https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/Mar31Post.mp4 A few years ago, a friend of mine asked me to go with her on this weekend business thing. She said it was something she and her sister were interested. She was pretty vague, and didn't make it seem very important. So, since it was Saturday, I wore my Saturday clothes. A pair of shorts, a t-shirt and some sneakers. Everybody else there was wearing a suit. I felt a little out of place. Until I realized it was some kind of MLM scam. The energy at those kinds of places is pretty unique. Everybody has got these strong, yet fake, sense of urgency. After, my friend asked what I thought. I said, yeah, uh, no. MLM's are fantastic if you are the founder. You CAN make a ton of money. But for most other suckers, it's a waste of time. Funny thing is plenty of things have a MLM "structure." Only they aren't cons, they are regular competitions. For every ONE job, you'll get hundreds of applicants. Millions of young people go to Hollywood every year hoping to be famous. Very few do. (many end up in porn...) Tens of millions of high school kids dream of playing professional sports, but few come close to making the cut. Because this is part of life, it's accepted. That's kind of the point of being human. Of figuring out WHERE to aim your skills, so you can do the best. One thing that has made being "famous" much easier is social media. Before, if you were to become "Hollywood famous" you had to have the right look, AND you need to have the right collection of skills. But today, ALL you really need is the right look, and you're in. This is absolutely FANTASTIC. Especially for those of us who are NOT genetically blessed. Wait, what? Because more than ever, being famous requires LITTLE or ZERO skills. Only appearances. That means with just some basic social skills, you can CLEAN UP. It's definitely not a simple as taking your picture and waiting for fame. But it's actually pretty easy. Because with some little-known-about language skills, you can CREATE your own halo effect. Sure, you might not ever be famous on YouTube or Instagram. But whenever there are people around, you CAN become a rock star. Old school, inter-personal charisma. The kind that people FEEL. Not the fake kind based on looks. This means when you operate socially, people will see you. They'll feel you. They'll very much WANT to know you. Giving you a HUGE advantage. Learn How: https://mindpersuasion.com/deep-mind-persuasion/
  23. https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/Mar21Post.mp4 Many guys have problems with girls. Guys would LOVE to know what to say to get certain girls to like them. To get girls to feel certain ways about them. To do certain things. Many girls have problems with guys. Girls would LOVE to know what to say to get certain guys to like them. To get guys to feel certain ways about them. Salespeople have problems with customers. They would LOVE to know what to say to get customers to buy. To buy, buy again, and refer more people to them. This is a very common human problem. We see somebody. We want that other somebody to do something, or feel something, or say something. But we have zero idea what WE can say, so they believe or feel or behave in a way that we want. Even if you want to start a conversation with somebody, knowing what to SAY is often the barrier keeping you on the sidelines. But what if you don't need to SAY anything? No, we aren't talking about using telepathy or any kind of psychic techniques. But what if getting ANYBODY to do ANYTHING wasn't about what you said, but about what kinds of questions you asked? After all, everybody is always eager to talk about themselves. This is what Dale Carnegie said DECADES ago. That everybody is always listening to their favorite radio station. WII FM or "What's In It For Me?" Dale Carnegie also famously said that the best way to be a CHARISMATIC conversationalist is to LISTEN much more than you talk. This is a good START, but that advice doesn't help much. You won't get very far by walking over to that cute girl or guy and saying: "So, tell me about yourself!" Sure, that kind of lame opener works if you are a famous talk show host, but if you are some random guy or girl, people will look at you funny. The REAL question is how, specifically, do you lead them by only asking certain questions? What specific questions do you ask, and in what order? When it comes to questions, and conversational topics, there is CONTENT and there is STRUCTURE. Nearly everybody talks or asks about CONTENT. What's your favorite band. What's your favorite cake icing. How many Watts does your microwave have. You won't get very far by asking content questions. But what about asking structure questions? Questions about HOW they think? How they choose what they like? How they LITERALLY "see themselves" doing things? Not only will this be very unique way of talking, but it will make THEM feel very, very good. Because you start asking them about the structure of their thinking, you can lead them to VERY pleasant feelings. Pleasant feelings they'll associate with you. Learn More: https://mindpersuasion.com/deep-mind-persuasion/
  24. https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/Mar20Post.mp4 Most things are best understood as a numbers game. You talk to 10 girls you might get a couple numbers. You send out a few dozen resumes, and you might get a couple calls. You stand in the batting cages and you might really connect with one out of three or four pitches. This CAN be discouraging. Especially if you focus on every single swing, or approach, or phone call. But the longer you can stretch out your perception, the easier it seems. Especially if you understand from the beginning that it's just a numbers game. Even more so if you are slowly improving. One of the oldest jokes in the entertainment business is the guy walking down the street in New York. He asks a local how to get to Carnegie Hall. The local says, "practice." If you want to get ANYWHERE, you need to practice. On one hand, this kind of sucks. Especially in modern times when everybody is not only entitled but insanely impatient. We want what we want, and we want it NOW. On the other hand, once you get into a routine, you'll ALWAYS be getting some. Getting what? Getting better. When you don't have something but you want something, it can create a paradox of never ending frustration. You want it, you want it NOW, but you don't know HOW you'll get it. This is maddening to say the least. But when you start taking small, tiny, daily steps toward what you want, something pretty cool will happen. In a week or so, you'll look behind you and see how far you've come. You'll look out ahead of you and you'll KNOW how far you'll be going. You'll get rid of that "now-frustration" that is never ending. And replace it with continuous feeling of forward momentum. This means you'll KNOW where you are going. You'll feel it. It will start to change how you feel, what you think, how you speak and behave, and how people perceive you. A "now-frustrated" person is very UN-attractive. Nobody wants to hang around somebody who wants things, wants them now, but doesn't know HOW to get them. This is like hanging around a baby who is constantly screaming. On the other hand, when you develop consistent forward momentum, that is much more attractive. People will you see you, and they IMMEDIATELY notice that you are different than most. They won't see somebody who is dependent on others. They won't see somebody who is frustrated and stuck. They'll see somebody who is going places. Which places? Whichever direction you choose. Transforming your life, and everybody around you. One easy step at a time. Learn More: https://mindpersuasion.com/self-esteem/
  25. https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/Feb01Post.mp4 In writing, they have a common rule of showing instead of telling. This leverages and old idea from Dale Carnegie. That you can get anybody to do anything, so long as it was their idea. If fiction, this works by allowing the readers or viewers to discover, on their own, what's going on. This makes it much more of their idea. This makes them much more invested in the story, or the character arc. This works very well in interpersonal relationships, sales, romance and seduction. Consider the statement: "I want you to be happy." Happiness is a feeling. You can't just "be" happy. If we could control our emotions so easily, nobody would ever have negative emotions. Imagine if that silly statement (I want you to be happy) actually worked. Somebody is sitting there, sad or depressed. Then somebody looks at them and says: "I want you to be happy." As if the person who is sad is incapable of being happy unless the other person tells them to. Sometimes we say things like, "I want you to be happy," to exhibit a part of us. Like we did something that made the other person upset. And we want to explain that wasn't our intention, so we say, "I want you to be happy." Think about what this means. The person's BEHAVIOR made the other person, "unhappy." But their words indicate that they really don't care about the other person. Their actions, the thing they SHOWED created an unhappy feeling. Their words, what they attempted to SAY (tell) indicate the opposite. They showed one thing. They told something else. Now, if they REALLY wanted the other person to be happy, they would have BEHAVED in a way to create the happy feeling. Unfortunately, for most people, our behaviors are unconscious. Our words less so. Actions, as they say, are much louder than words. Whatever you SHOW will always overrule whatever you TELL. Luckily, you can train your thinking to be much more congruent with your speaking. Most people wander the earth without ever noticing the difference between their actions and words. But with some specific understandings, you can make your words and actions much closer. Which will make you much more congruent. Congruence is a very attractive trait. It will come across as charisma, and an extremely strong frame. What kind of understandings? The kind that drill into your brain all the hypnotic language patterns found in covert hypnosis. So you will think, speak and act in a very congruent way. A way that will automatically generate the desired behaviors on others. Which behaviors? Whichever ones you want. The wants that make EVERYBODY feel the happiest. Learn How: https://mindpersuasion.com/hypnotic-copywriting/
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