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  1. https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/July17Post.mp4 One common piece of advice, if you want to approach an attractive person, is act like they are your friend. This is slightly different than the "be yourself" advice, but its intentions are the same. When you are with your friends, you are yourself. The idea is pretty simple. When you are yourself, you are your most congruent. Your brain is working the quickest. The most uninhibited by social anxiety. You can respond playfully to your buddies at the highest level of efficiency. This is the result of be
  2. https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/Jun22Post.mp4 When I was much younger, I was in Boy Scouts. The best parts were the long hikes. Especially the multi-day backpacking trips. The first day was always the worst. Very long, very steep, very difficult. But once we got over the first high mountain pass, life was fantastic. Huge valleys with very few people. Big lakes, nobody around, fantastic fishing. When most people go camping, they think about car camping. Of loading up their cars with as much junk as possible. Big coolers filled with beers
  3. https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/Jun21Post.mp4 How would you like to be remembered? No, not like that! This isn't for your funeral! But after you have a conversation with a cute guy or girl? How would you like to be remembered? When they see your text, for the FIRST time after the conversation, what would you like them think? How would you like them to feel? This is ONE simple reframe to get you a little bit out of your anxiety state. Most of us see a cutie across the room. We want to talk to them. So we focus ONLY on the impending conver
  4. Energy Transfer Loss: https://mindpersuasion.com/energy-transfer-loss/ https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/Apr10Loop.mp4
  5. https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/Feb10Post.mp4 Humans are fantastic at self deception. We want something, but we are too terrified to try and get it. So we pretend we don't want it. Even better, is we do this by taking the reason we don't want it, and use that very same reason to make ourselves feel BETTER than everybody else. Humans are not only primates, but hierarchical primates. Self-organizing, hierarchical primates. But since the primate, self-organizing hierarchy part of us was around LONG before conscious thought, it operates mostly subconsciously
  6. https://mindpersuasion.com/necessity-of-social-fears/
  7. When we are very young, getting what we need is simple. We start screaming until somebody fixes whatever is wrong. When we are happy, we express certain emotions via facial expressions and noises. Our parents are driven by genetics to feel happy when we are happy, and feel terrified for our safety when something is wrong. If you have kids, or know anybody who has kids, they'll tell you it changes their value system significantly. Eventually, though, we all have to grow up. In ancient societies, this had to happen sooner rather than later. Getting enough food
  8. Plenty of experiments have demonstrated human hierarchy. The simplest is when they stick ten people in a room. Then they drop in an complicated task. Within minutes, and usually without much discussion, there is a hierarchy. We humans seem to have a very instinctive way of looking around and quickly, democratically and subconsciously figuring out who's in charge. This means a lot of things. One of them is that ninety percent of people, (or more depending on the size of the group) have a "go to" strategy when uncertain about what to do. And that strategy is to
  9. One of the reasons for human dominance on Earth is flexibility. The first time this showed up was when there was a split among gender roles. This was WAY back before this became an issue. Before humans could even talk. For every other animal, except us humans, the males and females each get the same kind of food. Male and female sharks both eat fish. Male and female rabbits eat carrots. Male and female monkeys eat bananas. But for some reason, male pre-humans started hunting. And female pre-humans started gathering. At the same time. This allow
  10. One of the most common fears is the fear of rejection. When you think about learning skills, we can put them into two categories. Those that involve other people, and those that don't. Those that DON'T involve other people are things you do on your own. Learning software, instruments, playing sports. Sports sort of involves other people, but it doesn't invoke the fear of rejection. Even in one-on-one sports like boxing and martial arts since they are performance based and not choice based. Meaning each person does their best, and whoever performs the best win
  11. There's a saying in horse racing. "You can beat the race, but you can't beat the races." Meaning you might get lucky once in a while, or you may get some inside info, but generally speaking, in the long run, you'll lose money. The more you play any legal gambling game, the more likely you'll lose. The house usually wins in the end. Otherwise, they'd go out of business. Luckily (or unluckily, depending on your perspective) women are the OPPOSITE. Meaning it's pretty easy to win with women in general. Problem is many guys have their sites set on ONE WOMAN.
  12. Many things in life are the OPPOSITE of what we think they are. Rumi, and ancient Sufi poet knew this. In one of his poems, he talked about how backward we humans are. We think we're going into the cool water when we're really going into the fire. We think we're going into the fire when it really turns out to be cool water. What the heck does this mean? Plenty of guys spend their entire lives chasing ONE woman. When they SHOULD be chasing WOMEN. Because women, collectively, are easy. Any particular WOMAN can be IMPOSSIBLE. The truth is that onc
  13. Ten exercises to destroy it and replace it with a much more positive idea, that attractive people are safe and fun to talk to. https://mindpersuasion.com/ten-easy-exercises-to-obliterate-approach-anxiety/
  14. If you've ever been to a bar or club or party, you have likely seen this behavior. A guy, or group of guys come in and approach every girl and every group. From the guys' standpoint, this can seem pretty fun. But if you're not ultra confident, it can also be extremely nerve wracking. If you've ever approached a group of girls on your own, you know what I mean. If it works, it works. But if they start grilling you, and you aren't sure how to respond, it can make you want to run away with your tail between your legs. Luckily, there is a much better way. It
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