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  1. Secret People Training Skills: https://mindpersuasion.com/secret-people-training-skills/ https://mindpersuasion.com/3x3/
  2. Make Them Crave You https://mindpersuasion.com/make-them-crave-you/ https://mindpersuasion.com/3x3/
  3. Be The One They Want: https://mindpersuasion.com/be-the-one-they-want/ https://mindpersuasion.com/3x3/
  4. The Sweet Baby Love Pattern https://mindpersuasion.com/the-sweet-baby-love-pattern/ https://mindpersuasion.com/3x3/
  5. https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/Dec15Post.mp4 People can, and are, trained just like animals. We have a built in learning system, which is based on the same learning that is built into lower animals. The famous "anchoring" process from NLP is a perfect example. It's based on Pavlov's famous dog experiments. Scientist had a dog. He brought the food, and the dog salivated. He brought the food, and rang a bell, and the dog salivated. He rang the bell WITH the food a few times. Then he ONLY rang the bell, and the dog salivated. He essentially "trained" the dog to salivated at the sound of a bell. Our human learning system works the same way. We learn things by association. When you learn to play an instrument, for example, you learn to associate correct finger movements with pleasing sounds. And incorrect finger movements with un-pleasing sounds. For Pavlov, he only associated ONE external thing with ONE pleasing thing. The bell and the idea of eating. For learning something, we connect GOOD feelings to the things we want to learn. And we connect BAD feelings to the things we want to NOT learn, or UN-learn. If we point ourselves in the direction a large collection of skills, like being fluent in a musical instrument, these bad results (bad notes) and good results (good notes) will slowly GUIDE our behavior toward higher and higher skill levels. This happens consciously, when we can direct our own behaviors. This happens unconsciously, when we "model" behaviors from others. But it also happens the way we ACT around others. If you behave in a certain "bad way" around others, they will slowly and UNCONSCIOUSLY associate those "bad" behaviors with YOU. For example, if you are always nervous, and shifty, and say weird things, people will naturally want to avoid you. They often will not know why. They'll just say things like, "that guy gives me the creeps." Most of the way we train each other happens unconsciously. This is why it's hard to consciously CREATE things that are normally unconscious, like emotional and sexual attraction. There is, however, a kind of hack. A way that leverages THEIR thinking about you. It's actually pretty simple. But it IS a long game strategy. It requires that you accept they will create positive feelings about YOU when you are NOT around. Which means they will be thinking about you. In a positive way. This will NEVER, EVER happen if you talk to them TOO LONG. Beyond the point of maximum positive feelings. The "trick," is to QUICKLY create very positive feelings in them, and then SPLIT. Do this over several interactions, and THEY will subconsciously build up positive feelings about YOU. Just as automatically as Pavlov was "trained" to salivate at the sound of the bell. They will be "trained' to salivate at the THOUGHT of you. Learn How: https://mindpersuasion.com/cold-reading/
  6. Me and NLP: I have done a couple of basic NLP courses (just online ones, but not free, technical terms I have done a practitioner and mastery course, though I'm not a trainer) and read about it, but I don't consider myself an expert and need to practice much more and maybe do more intensive training in the future. However, I'd really love to share what I DO know here as this knowledge can help me solidify my training and knowledge and also I think these techniques can be very helpful. It's also another way I can say thank you to George Hutton and give a little something back, I guess. I have used some of these techniques with people and they worked well. NLP, by the way, stands for Neuro Linguistic Programming. I know it sounds very technical! and I may write about the history of NLP and so forth later but for now I want to jump straight in with some basic techniques that you can use (and remind MYSELF about them!) (I'm writing most of this out of memory, mostly because I want to keep quotes to a minimum - but I do cite my sources though a lot of this will be generic NLP knowledge - if you have any questions or want me to elaborate, please just ask me here and I will be happy to.) I am also posting these things to get a bit of a dialogue going here in the NLP section, as there are some great tools that we can add to our existing toolbox of awesome! One of these NLP techniques is anchoring. Basically with anchoring you link a stimulus to emotions, memories and visualizations. Let me give you some very specific examples and it will make a LOT more sense! The Circle of Confidence: (This is part one of my post here on Anchoring, Part two: Focus on Fun is in my reply) This is probably the best known anchoring exercise and one of the best-known NLP exercises. It is a technique to increase your confidence and I find it (when I remember to do it, like I said, I need to practice!) helpful to use it before a situation that might be a bit intimidating such as potentially stressful work or social situations. Squeeze your thumb of your dominant hand and your pointer finger together, like you are making an "OK" sign. That's what it will look sort of like if you are right-handed (and White). As you are squeezing, cast your mind back to a situation in which you felt really confident. Take your time to think of one if you need to. For me, I sometimes get "butterflies" in my tummy before I sing karaoke, even though I love to do it. I really want my song to sound great. One night, I went up on stage and I even had this gorgeous guy in the crowd that had been flirting with me and that normally would have ADDED to my nervousness! However, somehow, and I don't know HOW! I had this boost of confidence and this feeling that I could DO it. I sang the song and it kicked some serious BUTT. And yes, he was impressed too. So, that's a memory I can use, I can remember that and how it FELT as I squeeze my finger and thumb. (I told you that not to brag about the great singing of the song or the cute guy but just to give you an example of what I mean, by the way!) Release your finger and thumb. Then you can do the technique about two more times with two OTHER memories. Look, it doesn't matter if you were THREE when that memory in which you felt confident happened. However far back you need to go, GO there in your mind as you squeeze your pointer finger (forefinger?) and thumb together and "feel" those feelings of confidence. Now. Release them and this time you are going to squeeze them together again but you think of the situation/event in which you want to feel confident in. (It may, of course, be a COMPLETELY different situation. For example, if someone was visiting my workplace, someone in authority and their visit might have some kind of consequences, good or bad, I could still use the memory of me singing confidently on stage and then I would imagine feeling confident with the visitor evaluating my work.) So squeeze and visualize the situation you want to feel confident in and how it will feel to have those confident feelings. When you are in that situation, or just before it, squeeze your finger and thumb together again and "feel" those feelings as much as you can. It's like the brain starts to link the feelings of confidence with the physical/kinesthetic action of squeezing your thumb and pointer finger of your dominant hand together. Feel free to use and share this technique if you wish as it's quite widely well-known in NLP circles and as far as I know not attributed as the intellectual property of any one NLP practitioner/master/trainer. The focus on fun and the sad memories technique, please keep them to yourselves at this stage but use them for yourself as much as you like! Anyway, something to experiment with, if you wish. See my reply to this, it's called "Focus on Fun" and it's a technique focused on attracting more fun into your life, something we could try and see, if you wish! And another example of anchoring, one I came up with myself.
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