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  1. https://mindpersuasion.com/gold-horsemen-and-apocalypses/
  2. Once upon a time, there was no money. Now there is tons of money. Even in the last few years, there has been a lot of NEW money. Crypto-money. Invented essentially from scratch. Every day in the FOREX markets, there are trillions of dollars traded. Your blood cells go around your body. They pick up energy in the form of food and oxygen. Deliver the energy to the cells that need it. And then they turn around and transport the waste out. Without blood, and the cells within it, you'd be dead. Money serves the same purpose. Goods flow around the world one way. Money flows the other way. They say that as long as goods and money are flowing across borders, there's no reason for war. War only happens once money and goods STOP flowing. The flow of money around the world keeps the world healthy and thriving. As soon as money stops flowing, problems start, and people die. As soon as blood stops flowing, problems start and YOU die. When bears get ready for the winter, they store energy in the form of body fat. When ancient societies got ready for the winter, they stored energy in the from of grain. Now we humans can get ready for ANY span of time when we DON'T want to work by storing energy. This energy, of course, is money. You put a bunch of people together with a bunch of skills, and they'll INVENT a form of money. Sometimes they use cigarettes. Sometimes they use cases of soda. Sometimes they use shells, or salt, or gold or silver. When love to think of ourselves as individuals. But we are also very social animals. With a whole bunch of social instincts. Consider that one our MOST IMPORTANT social instinct is to make stuff. Or help make stuff, and then trade that stuff for money. The more money you get, the more stuff you can get. With everybody making stuff and selling it to each other, the amount of stuff increases. And the amount of money increases. This has been happening ever since they first invented coins, back in a few hundred BC. The amount of stuff has been increasing ever since. The amount of money has been increasing ever since. If aliens were studying humans, they'd see we have two purposes. To make stuff and make money. But since would see us trading stuff for money and money for stuff, they would see MONEY as the energy of earth. This is your destiny. To make money. Get Started: http://mindpersuasion.com/money-brain/
  3. Imagine two fighters. Boxers if you will. One guy has spent tons of time practicing lots of techniques. The other guy, not so much. But the first guy, with all the moves, is in very terrible condition. He is barely able to stand up after a couple minutes. He's so exhausted, he hangs on to the other fighter for dear life. But the second fighter, the guy who has very little techniques is in VERY good shape. He can dance and around and bounce on his feet for a full twelve rounds. Who do you think would win the fight? Unless the first guy got lucky, he would be too tired to do much. None of his advanced techniques would do squat if he was too tired to lift his arms. When it comes to any kind of martial art, it's clear that physical conditioning is as important, if not more, than the actual fighting techniques. Now, this metaphor is not entirely realistic. Because it would be hard to practice fighting techniques without also getting into shape. So we can imagine another pair of fighters. This time, their skills are equal. But one guy is in WAY better shape than the other guy. Obviously, the guy who was in better shape would win. What's this got to do with anything? When it comes to social behavior, interactive social behavior, there is inner game, and outer game. Outer game is kind of like the technical skills. Knowing what to say, and how to say it. Inner game is much more like physical conditioning. In a fighting metaphor, if you are too tired, you can't really use any of your technical skills. In a social situation, a weak inner game means you'll be spending A LOT of brainpower being worried or anxious. So any of the stuff you practiced before won't to mind. This is EXACTLY what happens when you practice a speech until you've got it down PERFECTLY. But then when you stand up to give it, it VANISHES from your brain. Your brain essentially freezes. This is why having solid inner game is much, much more important than any outer game techniques. But most people don't pay much attention to inner game. Since most people don't know HOW to strengthen their inner game. Most people simply assume that stronger inner game comes from experience. But this is incorrect. In fact, there are plenty of ways to build up a rock solid inner game, just like you could build up rock solid conditioning. You can do this alone, without needing to interact with anybody. And the longer you practice, the stronger your inner game will be. Learn How: http://mindpersuasion.com/party-hero/
  4. https://mindpersuasion.com/seduction-revenge/
  5. One way to understand attractive personalities is to think in terms of ancient societies. Our brains, bodies and instincts are the same as they were tens of thousands of years ago. We humans just don't evolve very quickly. So, what personality characteristics are MOST attractive? The biggest problem in ancient societies was getting enough food. Of handling problems that came up during that process. Back then, you HAD to be productive. You had to be able to get stuff done. And the more stuff you could get done, the more TRUE CONFIDENCE you would radiate. Not confidence based on anything fake. Confidence based on real memories of real experiences where you were successful. This may not be something you want to hear, but humans send and receive a TON of information via subconscious body language. So if you truly FEEL confident, everybody is going to know. If you are trying to fake confidence, it may work for a little while, but it won't last through a conversation. This is exactly WHY girls test guys. To see if their confidence is REAL or FAKE. Just that she's testing you is a bad sign. If she is testing you, her subconscious DOUBTS your confidence. But it's easy to create REAL confidence, even if you don't feel it. At least right now. The trick is not to conjure it up in the moment. This is the FAKE confidence that invites frame tests. Real confidence can be built using ONLY the memories in your brain. It takes time, but it is VERY POWERFUL. You can do this with any emotional state you want. Even building in various switches for various emotional states. People that are naturally charismatic and outgoing do this NATURALLY. Meaning they NATURALLY recall and reference positive memories. This creates a string of positive experiences. Which keeps the whole positive charisma cycle going. You can, however, jump start this process. Kind of like priming a pump. Just take some time, find plenty of decent memories and PURPOSELY reference those. And you can create that SAME outgoing, friendly, charismatic attitude. This is THE most important thing. It only seems like it's not because so FEW people have this natural, outgoing charm. But when you take the time to build it, you'll see. Once you have a collection of positive inner game states, layering some outer game behaviors on top will be EASY. Making you the most attractive person around. Learn How: http://mindpersuasion.com/party-hero/
  6. https://mindpersuasion.com/global-hive-mind/
  7. There is a clear discrepancy between what we say we want, and what we really want. The things we TELL ourselves (and each other) what we want is based partially on what we SHOULD want. But the things we actively GET, especially when nobody's looking, is what we REALLY want. This is one main reason why marketing studies must be done like medical studies. As objectively as possible. If you ask people for feedback, they'll tell you what they think you WANT to hear. So marketers have to take care to set up special studies so they can OBSERVE what people choose. Similarly, whenever anybody does any medical research, and the data is SELF-REPORTED, it's almost always flawed. Especially if it involves eating. Nobody is totally honest when they report what they REALLY ate. When thinking about humans and attraction, there is a common idea. That you should ignore what people SAY, and watch what people DO. But there is ONE THING that people SAY that want, and also respond to. The ONE quality we all both consciously acknowledge is desirable. And will subconsciously acknowledge as desirable. What is this mysterious trait? A sense of humor. Everybody SAYS they value humor. AND people naturally gravitate AROUND people who HAVE a strong sense of humor. Maybe because humor is a function both an inner and outer game. True outer game humor reflects inner game STRENGTH. Especially self-deprecating humor. This can be VERY DANGEROUS. Many people attempt self deprecation without being 100% congruent. So in a sense, they are kind of fishing for compliments. But if you can use self-deprecating humor with 100% congruence, it will be VERY ATTRACTIVE. Because it demonstrates massive inner confidence. This is the underlying "energy" of the "agree and amplify" response to any playful insults. "Dude, that shirt is ugly!" "I know, right! I got the UGLIEST shirt in the shop! Winner Winner chicken dinner!" This is HARD to pull off if you don't feel it. But if you DO feel it, the surface structure doesn't need to be complex. It can be very, very simple. Paradoxically, the BEST self-deprecating humor demonstrates the STRONGEST confidence around. It's almost like you are proudly challenging anybody to an insult contest. Where YOU can insult you better than anybody else can insult you. Only exceptionally confident people with exceptionally strong frames can do this. Which means that ONLY learning the words aren't enough. You must also build up your inner game. You can learn that here: http://mindpersuasion.com/party-hero/
  8. https://mindpersuasion.com/origins-of-wealth/
  9. Expanding conversational skills can leading to growing social circles. And if you are going to grow your social circles, you'll need a place to keep them. The thing about social circles is that most people have NO IDEA how big they can get. Which means if you have a small one to start off with, you might need to switch to a bigger container. And interesting thing about expanding social circles is they can lead unexpected opportunities. Of course, unexpected opportunities differ from expected opportunities. Expected opportunities tend to turn out differently than we think, which makes them unexpected but in a different way. Compared to your normal, run of the mill unexpected opportunities which just normally pop up when you least expect them. Which isn't really that normal. Since being normal is only doing what is expected. Of course if you ONLY do what is expected, that presupposes there's a group of people out there who have a bunch of expectations. Kind of selfish of them to hog all the expectations. You'd think they'd share some of them with the rest of us. Then we could ALL have some expectations. Then we might get together and trade expectations like baseball cards. And then you might get some expectations that might not be worth much in their rookie year. But then they might turn out to be a super star. And THOSE expectations might turn out to be worth a pretty penny! I once knew a girl named Penny, but she wasn't pretty. I mean she was cute, but I wouldn't go so far as to call her pretty. I didn't really EVER have to go very far, since she lived next door. Next door neighbors can be a mixed blessing. Of course, mixing blessings CAN be dangerous. Kind of like in chemistry class. When our teacher specifically told us to NOT mix two jars of chemicals. Me, being the kid I was, decided to mix them just to see what the big deal was. What happened was I got kicked out of chemistry class. Not the reaction I was expecting. I was expecting AT LEAST some smoke or something. Maybe an explosion. Developing an explosive sense of humor can REALLY help you be a hit at parties. Or anywhere you WANT a party to be. Some people ONLY go where previously planned parties are expected to happen. Other people have learned how to MAKE parties happen. Anywhere they happen to be. Which can be YOU if you play your cards right. Of course, you don't really need cards. Just your brain. Learn More: http://mindpersuasion.com/party-hero/
  10. https://mindpersuasion.com/girls-like-you/
  11. https://mindpersuasion.com/eternal-battles-and-your-soul/
  12. There's a lot of math problems floating around online. They usually have a catchy title. Like, "90% of adults fail this third grade math problem." One I've seen a few times involves something called "order of operations." Say you've got a math problem with some addition signs, subtraction signs, multiplication signs and division signs. According to the strict rules of math, you MUST do them in the correct order. Otherwise you'll get the wrong answer. This is why many adults will "fail" those third grade problems. Because adults will FORGET the correct "order of operations." For example, consider the following math problem: 3+3x7=? You're supposed to do the 3x7 BEFORE you add the other 3. If you do them from left to right, like reading, and add the two 3s's and THEN multiply by 7, you'll get the wrong answer. But in English, this order of operations doesn't exist. It's only assumed. But this means you can have a LOT of fun. For example, say you went to a party. And somebody asked how it was. And you reported: There were a lot of pretty girls and people there. Most people would naturally assume the correct meaning. That there were a lot of people. And AMONG those people were some pretty girls. But you can misinterpret that on purpose. And assume that the group of "pretty girls" and the group of "people" are two different groups. So you might reply: "And the pretty girls, they were aliens or something?" When you learn to pay attention to the potential ambiguity in EVERYDAY speech, you can have a lot of fun. See, it's one thing to drop jokes. You say something funny, and people laugh. And then that's that. But when you purposely reframe ambiguity, it also INVITES other people to participate in. To PLAY ALONG with the joke. For example, in the pretty girls and people joke, you can EASILY go off on how "pretty girls" are a completely different species. Like they're from another planet, etc. This is the REAL SKILL of world class party humor. It's the kind of humor that can involve EVERYBODY. Not just some goof standing there hogging all the attention. And with the right inner game, you can covertly create a HUMOR CONTEST where everybody is trying to come up with the CRAZIEST examples. On whatever reframe you just dropped. All it takes is a little tweaking of how you view language. Do this and people will LOVE to have you around. Learn How: http://mindpersuasion.com/party-hero/
  13. https://mindpersuasion.com/subliminal-demonic-possession/
  14. One of the biggest stumbling blocks to starting a conversation is knowing what to say. You see somebody across the room. You smile, they smile. You flirt, the flirt. But then the thought of walking across the room and starting a conversation keeps you stuck. What would you say? Or you're in line somewhere. Maybe somebody is cute in front or in back of you. You or they glance around, your eyes meet, and you give each other the universal "What's up" nod. But then the same problem pops up. What do you say? You may even go online in search of "conversation starters." There is certainly no end of examples. But before you practice for hours in front of a mirror, consider this. Humans have been anatomically "humans" for about a hundred thousand years. Before that, we weren't yet humans. But we still communicated with each other perfectly. When they study chimps, even though chimps don't talk to each other, they have an EXTREMELY complicated social structure. So, what does this mean? Instead of coming up with a witty conversation starter, you should give people bananas? Not really, although that would be better than nothing. (Hey. You're cute. Here's a banana...) The point is the WORDS you say are not nearly as important as how you say them. And the first words you exchange with anybody only serve ONE function. To shift you from NOT being in a conversation, to BEING in a conversation. So make it as EASY on THEM as possible. It's tempting to try and say something clever, to impress them. But always remember you want to make it as EASY on them as possible. After all, the first words back and forth are really only so you can VIBE with your energy. If you words are too complex, both of you will be too nervous to do that. And for the first couple of minutes, all you really need to do is say some VERY simple things. Once they are comfortable with you, then you can start asking some easy to answer questions. How they answer will give you MUCH MORE insight into any memorized lines. Even when you are hanging out with close friends, the underlying ENERGY of the conversation is much more important the words. In fact, unless you are landing a jet via radio instructions, or listening to instructions on how to de-fuse a bomb, most of the time the words are IRRELEVANT. Focus on the underlying energy instead, and everything will be much easier. There are plenty of exercises to show you how. Get Started: http://mindpersuasion.com/party-hero/
  15. SATA (sell anything to anybody) would be a good start. Whichever method you used, you would have to first establish enough rapport so that you could elicit their criteria, and expand it using the techniques in the guide. But understand that most cold calling situations are highly dependent on scripts, numbers, and the personality of the sales agent and the client. Companies that decide to use a one-call cold call approach very much understand the numbers game AND pareto (80-20) meaning most sales will be made by a few agents. That being said, if you CAN establish any rapport away from any script, and get them talking about what THEY want (and not slamming them with features and benefits) SATA will take you a ways. The LONGER you can talk to them about what THEY want, the better. Give it a try, it's only $3!
  16. Imagine if a rich person reached out to you. They wanted to do some kind of experiment. Maybe a new reality show or something. Every day, they'd give you a stack of $100's. All you had to do was hand them out. Walk up, introduce yourself, hand them a c-note, and bounce. For every person that accepted a hundred bucks, you'd get $20. Would that be fun? Would that be easy? Or would you be worried about getting rejected? Here's another mind experiment. Imagine you were hosting a party. But the only people coming were shy introverts. One new person would come every fifteen minutes. And as soon as they came in, you'd have to talk to them and find out certain things about them. And for every two people you introduced, and got a conversation flowing between them, you'd get $1,000. Meaning you'd have to find enough about each introverted party guest to introduce one shy introvert to another, and convince them they had enough in common to have a friendly conversation. Would you be able to do this? Or would you be too worried to start a conversation? The meaning of these goofy mind experiments is that once you put enough INCENTIVE into anything, it can seem easy. Walking up to people and introducing yourself to give out money seems easy. But walking up to people just to say hey seems difficult. But why would it? Imagine somebody says hey to you while waiting in line. They aren't trying to pick you up. They aren't trying to sell you anything. They're just saying hey. Would you be angry? Would they be interrupting your important thoughts about what you were having for dinner that night? Or watching on TV? What about the party host idea? Talking to people enough to find out information, so you can introduce them to other people seems EASY if you are going to get paid. But why not just to enjoy talking to people? Most people enjoy conversations. Humans are very social animals. Unless you are going to OVERTLY seduce or sell somebody, most people WELCOME a friendly conversation. But you can do much, much more than have a friendly conversation. You can learn to talk to people so they NEVER forget you. So they always remember. Not as that weird or awkward person, but as they cool party person. The one they want to see again. Learn How: http://mindpersuasion.com/party-hero/
  17. https://mindpersuasion.com/unconsciously-competent-skills/
  18. Imagine you were just about to walk into a party. And RIGHT before you opened the door, a super sexy person gave you a super sexy look. That would put you in a very GOOD mood. On the other hand, imagine the opposite. Right when you were about to walk into a party, a dog came up and peed on your leg. And the dog's owner, and all her friends, stood their laughing. That would put you in a very BAD mood. Most people accept this as normal. Stuff happens OUTSIDE of us. Then that puts us in a certain mood. That certain mood affects our behavior. Which affects the stuff around us. The people, etc. That can either KEEP us in a bad mood, or KEEP us in a good mood. If we happen to run into a string of GOOD things happening around us, we'll be in a GOOD mood. On the other hand, if we run into a string of BAD things happening around us, we'll be in a BAD mood. We say we're having a BAD day. Or we're having a GOOD day. But here's the thing. It's not really the THINGS that are happening around us. Once they happen, they are OVER. But their memory lingers for a while. In a sense, our conscious is a never-ending stream of what is happening, what we THINK is about to happen, and what just HAPPENED. And what JUST HAPPENED is projected forward slightly, affecting the events AS they happen. But we CAN have a huge amount of control over this. It's not based on magic, or metaphysics. Any more than doing pushups would make you stronger. Or running every day would burn body fat. If you PRACTICE remembering certain things, you can build up the STRENGTH of those memories. Build them up strong enough, and you can recall them whenever you want. So much that they can OVERPOWER anything that is happening around you. Putting you in such a good mood, that YOU become the CAUSE. And everybody else's mood will be an effect. Giving you the power to CHANGE the mood of everybody around you. What kind of memories do you want to recall? What kind of feelings do you want to HAVE whenever you want them? Any kind you want. So long as you are willing to build them, you will have them. You can build them as STRONG as you want. There is NO upper limit. Any feeling, any time, anywhere. A frame so strong that EVERYBODY wants in. Learn How: http://mindpersuasion.com/party-hero/ Till next time, George Hutton
  19. https://mindpersuasion.com/psychic-bookstore-lady/
  20. Being an entertainer is a valuable skill. Most of PUA tactics include demonstrating value. The bulk of the Mystery Method involves doing various bar tricks. Magic tricks, sleight of hand tricks, etc. They all have the same thing in common. Of the person you are trying to impress not needing to do anything. If you have plenty of tricks up your sleeve, this can be a fantastic way of standing out. Since most goofs CAN'T, even a couple of tactics can work wonders. But they do have their drawbacks. For one, if you happen to REALLY hit if off with somebody, you'll eventually run out of material. Once the REAL YOU comes up, it might not be the same. If you've ever seen famous comedians or actors when they are NOT being filmed or interviewed, they are MUCH DIFFERENT than on stage. Of course, if you're ONLY after hit-and-run fun, then having a half hour of material is really all you need. Show up, demonstrate value, pick your prize and have fun. However, if you want to develop deeper relationships, you'll need to be MORE than an entertainer. This is the other half of being socially outgoing that most people miss. There's a lot more than just showing up and entertaining the crowd. The flip side is how comfortable you make others feel. If you can not only tell a few jokes, and create good feelings, but also help shy folks come out of their shell, you'll be head and shoulders above any one-trick pony. And it turns out that easing others out of their shell is pretty easy. Even better, the longer you do it, the easier it gets. It's opposite being an entertainer type. The longer you entertain, the HARDER it gets. People start to build expectations. That's why it's usually only good for short term fun. But if you want to create REAL relationships, with friends, lovers, and everybody in between, then having the "make others feel comfortable around you" skill is a definite plus. It's easy to learn, and easy to do. And after you practice it for just a few minutes, they'll actually remember YOU much more than the tricksters. Why? Because EVERYBODY can enjoy the trickster. They do the same tricks for EVERYBODY. But when you flip the script, and find out what's important about ONE person in particular, then they KNOW you are focused ONLY on them. Which means they'll remember you much, much longer than anybody who's telling jokes or doing magic tricks. Learn How: http://mindpersuasion.com/party-hero/
  21. https://mindpersuasion.com/mind-control-plant/
  22. One flexible source of meaning is any cause-effect. Our brains seem to struggle with any kind of cause-effect. If you are a scientist, and you need to PROVE that A causes B, it's not so easy. A common phrase that illustrates this is the famous, "correlation doesn't imply causation." Somebody, either in person or online, will mention that something causes something else. Or they'll imply it with the many handy linguistic tools built in to our brain. Then somebody will wisely say (or post): "Well you know, correlation doesn't mean causation." These can lead to some interesting discussions. And some heated arguments. But they can ALSO lead to some pretty funny statements. Or purposeful "misinterpretations" of what people say. Our language is FILLED with ambiguities. If you were to learn to SPEAK in ambiguities, it would take a while. But it would be INSANELY powerful, as speaking articulately and specifically in terms of ambiguities is what covert hypnosis is all about. But if you can pluck out any of the ambiguities that we silly humans say all the time, and PURPOSELY misunderstand them, it can be VERY FUNNY. Not just cause-effect statements, but something called "scope ambiguity." A scope ambiguity is the driving force behind the famous Groucho Marx joke: "Last night I shot an elephant in my pajamas. How he got into my pajamas I'll never know!" Once you train your brain to SEE these, you'll see them EVERYWHERE. For example, let's say you have a friend who said she went out to get the paper in her bathrobe, and her neighbor saw her. "The other day I was getting my paper and my neighbor saw me in my bathrobe. It was pretty embarrassing!" You COULD say: "Your neighbor? In your bathrobe?" To which your friend would say: "Yes!" To which you'd reply in mock horror: "What was your neighbor doing in your bathrobe?" Obviously, this is pretty silly. But it's also very EASY. And it's also potentially very CATCHY. Meaning if your friend is in a playful mood (if you're at a party or a bar and the drinks are flowing) she can play along with the "new reality." This what happens when you build a party frame. Somebody says something normal. Which most people do most of the time. Then YOU take it and REFRAME it into something goofy. Since a fun, goofy frame is BETTER than a normal, boring frame, people will tend to join in. And play along with the idea that your friend has a weird neighbor that is somehow sneaking into her house and getting her clothing. And then standing outside wearing it like no big deal. Once you train your brain to reframe cause-effect statements and scope ambiguities, you'll see them EVERYWHERE. Giving you TONS of opportunities to make people laugh out loud. Learn More: http://mindpersuasion.com/party-hero/
  23. https://mindpersuasion.com/art-gallery-seduction/
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