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  1. https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/Feb20Post.mp4 Things that feel good in the short term rarely feel good in the long term. Unless, of course, those short term positive feelings are riding on top of a long term positive trend. For example, suppose you're training to run a 10K. You've got a target time in mind, and your nearly there. You've had a good run that day, and you're sitting down to eat some dinner. You cook a healthy meal. While you are eating it, the taste (which is secondary to the health aspects) reminds you of the path you are on. You look back into your recent history, and feel good. You look into your future, and feel even better. You imagine what it will be like when you cross the finish line under your target time. That particular meal is a REMINDER of all those good feelings. Good feelings that are a result of YOUR behaviors. This is likely one of the best feelings there is. Now think of somebody who hasn't done squat. Their ONLY concern is for the pleasure of the MOMENT. One that doesn't reference any past nor future. For food, this would be like eating a dozen donuts with a 2 liter bottle of soda. While watching a brainless TV show or movie. Feels good IN THE MOMENT. But not so much in the long term. This is a PERFECT metaphor for the dating market. Guys practice plenty of in-the-moment game. They spend tons of energy on clothing, hair styles, shoes and short term conversational styles. It works IN THE MOMENT, but only in the moment. Imagine a guy is wearing some decent clothing. He's practiced a few openers, some jokes and a few conversational techniques. This works for SHORT TERM attraction. Very much like donuts and Pepsi work for SHORT TERM mouth pleasure. But the next day, if he's lucky enough to wake up next to her, he's got to KEEP pushing with all his conscious might. This takes a TON of mental energy. Which makes it VERY unsustainable. On the other hand, think of a much more enlightened "player." He "in-the-moment" pleasure might SEEM to be less. But like our 10K runner, it's riding on top of a much longer term trend. One that is NOT dependent on luck. What trend would this be? Slowly building up his natural, masculine core. One that is part of who he is, so he doesn't have to THINK about it. If our runner trains correctly, he'll glide right to the finish line in under his target time. He'll ENJOY the race. Similarly, the enlightened "player" will simply have natural conversations with ladies that he DOES NOT need to think about consciously. And EVERY conversation with EVERY LADY, or perhaps even EVERY HUMAN will be like our runners healthy dinner. Absolutely DELICIOUS, not because of the in-the-moment taste, but because of the self generated TREND towards success it represents. When you're doing this for health, it feels pretty good. But when you're building a trend toward a stronger masculine core, there is nothing better. Get Started: https://mindpersuasion.com/get-girls/
  2. Death Cycles: https://mindpersuasion.com/death-cycles/ https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/Feb20Loop.mp4
  3. https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/Feb19Post.mp4 A very common desire for humans is to show up, be told what to do, and get paid. This was possible a few decades ago. This was possible way back in our ancient caveman background. This trait, of being a team player and following orders, is likely a very strong instinct. Modern studies indicate this. But like many other instincts, they were OK before, but they can kill us today. Hunger is an obvious one. The rule of hunger is simple. Find something that tastes good. Eat as much of it as you can. Do that, and you stay alive. At least way back then. Way back then what tasted good was closely calibrated to what was healthy. Today, what tastes good is closely calibrated with mass produced death. So, if you want to stay healthy, you have to consciously MANAGE what you eat. Not automatic, but FAR from impossible. Male-female relationships are another example of ancient instincts that have long gone off the rails. Female attraction for men works very much like our ancient hunger. Our ancient hunger says find something that tastes good, and eat as much as you can. Ancient female attraction triggers say find a guy who is attractive, and do whatever you can to seduce him. This is contrary to what game gurus preach. The ancient female instincts create attraction IN HER for a certain type of man. Once she felt that, she did everything she could to seduce him. Of course, this is nothing like how men think about seducing women. Men think of things like spitting game, showing off bling, dropping hints of wealth and power. But when her ancient instincts are attracted to you, the female seduction strategy is MUCH, MUCH subtler. She'll go out of here way to be around you. In your line of sight. Find ANY excuse to talk to you. Ladies are programmed with something like a "plausible deniability" instinct. When they DESPERATE for a guy, they'll create a SITUATION that both allows a guy to sweep her off her feet, AND have total plausible deniability if he doesn't. Guys have NO IDEA what it's like to be a girl. Girls have a deep instinct that says if she's blatant in her desire for a any one guy, everybody will see that. And if it doesn't pan out, she'll be DONE. In modern times, this plays out as having a ruined reputation. The same instinct that keeps girls from blatantly sending out nudes to any thirsty dude who asks. The WORST thing for a girl is to be labeled as "easy." So, yes, she will seduce you. But no, it won't be blatant. She'll just CREATE a whole slew of OPPORTUNITIES for you to say hey, and get the ball rolling. But she ONLY does this for QUALIFIED men. Men with a strong inner MASCULINE core. One very few men have today. Which means if you build one, you will be in VERY HIGH DEMAND from the ladies. Learn How: https://mindpersuasion.com/get-girls/
  4. Circle Origin Story: https://mindpersuasion.com/circle-origin-story/ https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/Feb19Loop.mp4
  5. https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/Feb18Post.mp4 There's a lot of sayings from the self help space that are both really corny, but really true. They are corny not because of the saying themselves, but because of the goofs running around saying them. Most of these types of "truisms" are said by folks who really have no idea what they are talking about. So they say these things without fully understanding them. So they get applied to the wrong situations. And they end up sounding like self delusional BS. But once you experience these ideas, you "get them" on a much different level. Which will give you a much different reaction when the self-help goofs say these things. Before, you might be annoyed. By a bunch of pretend gurus saying a bunch of crap they don't understand. But after you experience one or two of these, you'll be amused. Like when little kids say things that they don't really understand, but they say them with an adorable, child like seriousness. Anyhow, enough preframing. What's the statement I'd like to explore? This one: Inch by inch, life's a synch. Yard by yard, life is hard. When we try and do too much, too soon, we fail miserably. Yo-yo diets, blown out knees from too much exercise, goals that are WAY too hard. This is essentially what happens when you run before you can walk. This is the mistake nearly every guy makes when he tries short term, superficial game. First you learn a few openers. Then you learn a few inter-conversational techniques. Then you learn a few closing techniques. Then you learn a few physical escalation techniques to try on the first or second date. That is when things usually go sideways. Why? Because for most guys, BEFORE you have sex, it's pretty easy to keep things logical, objective, strategic, etc. But once you cross the sexual threshold, ancient instincts take over. Unless you've already got a few dozen notches on your bedpost, your ancient caveman is going to REALLY want to KEEP this lady you're luckily banging. And once your ancient instincts take over, your logical brain doesn't stand a chance. Paradoxically, JUST when you start to feel this way, SHE loses interest. Because the YOU who is being driven by your rational, thinking, strategizing mind is a DIFFERENT YOU than the one driven by your ancient instincts. So, from her perspective, once you get laid, you CHANGE your personality. This is the EXACT reason behind the female joke: Why are men like bathroom tiles? Lay them once and you can walk all over them. What's the answer? Stop swinging for the fences! Forget about PUA nonsense for a while. Work on building a strong, masculine core. Through slow, steady, inch-by-inch exercises and drills. To build a very attractive REAL YOU. One that won't change no matter what. One that won't require ANY outer game. Just show up, be yourself, and pick whatever lady you like. Learn How: https://mindpersuasion.com/get-girls/
  6. Mental Brain Illusions: https://mindpersuasion.com/mental-brain-illusions/ https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/Feb18Loop.mp4
  7. https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/Feb17Post.mp4 It's no mystery that the dating market these days is an absolute dumpster fire. On the back of a train that is about to crash off a cliff. Being driven by drunken clowns who are also probably a little off to begin with. What's a guy to do? The main thing that makes modern dating so confusing, and extremely frustrating (and depressing) for modern men is online dating. Online dating is heavily tilted in women's favor. But not for reasons most people believe. And only on the surface. Firstly, we need to truly understand how male-female attraction works. Most people have an idea that men are more visual, which is why men are more drawn to looks. This is only half right. Men are drawn to looks, but NOT because men are visual. Men are drawn to looks is because from an evolutionary perspective, the best mates, from a caveman's perspective is based on how a woman looks. Not how she behaves or speaks or moves. But on how she looks. Why? Men only need to know that women are young and healthy. The job of women, according to evolution and mother nature, is to make more people. The younger a women is (yet beyond puberty) and the healthier she is, the more babies she can have. So, according to natural selection, men who happened to be attracted to young, healthy women had many more babies than men who were attracted to a different kind of women. This attraction is created through signs of youth, and signs of health. These are the SAME things that would describe a gorgeous woman. That's why women really only need to show their picture to create plenty of attraction in plenty of men. What about men? What kinds of things, in men, create attraction in woman? It's NOT looks. Women's job (according to evolution) is to make more people. What is man's job? To provide for those people. So, women evolved a natural attraction for men who demonstrate the traits associated with being a strong provider. Not a strong provider today, but a strong provider back when we were hunter-gatherers. This is VERY MUCH dependent on men's behavior. Confidence, social skills, leadership skills, speaking skills, persuasion skills. All the things that would make an ancient man a natural leader. Somebody who would demonstrate the ability to acquire resources. But many men today believe that women like men based on looks, just like men like women based on looks. This means VERY FEW men are even working on things like inner game. Most men are worried about looks, and very superficial things like short term game. So when you decide to work on your inner game, you will not only be very attractive to a LARGE number of women, giving you plenty of choice, but you'll leave all those pretty boys trying and failing in online dating in the dust. Even better, is working on inner game can be done anywhere, any time. No cold approaches or even conversations with ladies needed. Just keep building, and they will come to you. Learn How: https://mindpersuasion.com/get-girls/
  8. Social Proof Frame Strength: https://mindpersuasion.com/social-proof-frame-strength/ https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/Feb17Loop.mp4
  9. https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/Feb16Post.mp4 Long time ago, I watched this amateur cage fight. They weren't exactly in a cage. It was a regular boxing ring, but it was in the ground floor of this huge shopping complex. The dudes started off pretty good, but they both got really tired really quickly. After no more than a minute, both guys were exhausted. They would try to throw a punch or two, and then hang on to each other in a tight clench. The kind of thing when boxers or fighters are barely able to keep standing. The kind of thing you see in the last round of a prize fight. These two out of shape dudes were like that after less than a minute. No matter how many punches or blocks you know, once you start breathing hard, they'll be pretty useless. You can say the same thing for interpersonal skills. Just like fighting has skills and stamina, interpersonal skills have skills and confidence. You can memorize the best lines, the most compelling closes, and most seductive stories and patterns. But if you are too nervous, they won't work. Fighters that are too tired to throw a punch may as well not know any punches. If you are too nervous to spit game, then it doesn't matter HOW much you know or are capable of. Imagine two fighters, one has TONS of skills, but is out of breath after less than minute. Other guy has very basic skills, but MASSIVE conditioning. All the well conditioned fighter has to do is wait until the other guy is tired out. Similarly, imagine two guys going after one girl. One guy has MAD game, but he's to terrified to use it. The other guy has very little game, but massive confidence. The girl only knows that one guy will approach her, and say hey. Other other guy won't. Which guy will she go home with? IF you had to choose, confidence and some VERY BASIC communication skills will WIN every single time. Kind of like what Mark Twain said about reading. The difference between people who CAN'T read and the people who DON'T read is NOTHING. Most guys practice game, and techniques to AVOID just walking up and saying "hey." But for most girls, regular social skilled backed by STRONG confidence is plenty sexy enough. Luckily, you can build confidence WITHOUT approaching any ladies. Which means when your confidence IS strong enough, it will happen automatically. Learn How: https://mindpersuasion.com/get-girls/
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    Peak Brain: https://mindpersuasion.com/peak-brain/ https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/Feb16Loop.mp4
  11. https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/Feb15Post.mp4 When it comes to sales, there are two extremes. On one side, you spend tons of time with each potential client. Build rapport, elicit criteria, leverage criteria, close, overcome objections, close, etc. On the other side you spend the absolute minimum time possible. You give a pitch in less than twenty seconds, and check for interest. If there is ANY interest whatsoever, you covertly put the burden on the customer to qualify themselves. Most beginning salespeople are terrified of this. If you don't have a lot of prospects, this is also very difficult. There are advantages and disadvantages to both sides. But if you find that sweet spot, you can do very, very well. How, specifically, do you find that sweet spot? First, you refine your initial pitch. To make it as compelling as you possibly can. To create as much initial interest as you can. With the right words, and the right hypnotic patterns, you can create interest in pretty much any qualified candidate. Once you create this interest, you begin reeling them in. How? By IMPLYING scarcity. Most people understand scarcity. But applying it is much more subtle. If you blatantly say anything that indicates scarcity, it usually won't work. But if you can IMPLY scarcity, so your target can DISCOVER the scarcity, it will work a million times better. One way to imply scarcity is the "my way or the highway" model. You don't blatantly say that. But you imply that. Once you've got the initial hook set. You imply something like: "This is what I've got to offer. If you're interested, I'll keep talking. But since I don't want to waste your time, any hint from you that this isn't 100% for you, as it is presented, and I'll go find somebody else. After all, plenty of people want this. If not you, somebody else." A funny thing happens when you try the persuade-everybody-with-a-pulse model. Many people have ZERO intention of buying whatever you are selling. But they LIKE being pitched to. They keep asking questions AS IF they are "just about" to buy. But they really have no intention of buying. But if you always make them qualify themselves, you'll not only not waste time on those folks, but you'll INCREASE buying temperature. If you IMPLY (not state overtly) that you've got plenty of other people to talk to, AND you make it clear that ANY uncertainty on their part will get you to LEAVE, it imply a ton of scarcity. And the most powerful buying force of all time. FOMO, or fear of missing out. Create this conversationally, and people will be begging you to stay. Learn How: https://mindpersuasion.com/sugar-baby-hypnosis/
  12. Hypnotic Stranger Parties: https://mindpersuasion.com/hypnotic-stranger-parties/ https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/Feb15Loop.mp4
  13. https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/Feb14Post.mp4 Science is pretty cool, but also pretty wacky. Not really, since our brains can't really handle much. At least not intuitively. We can only make sense of very simple interactions. We see A happen, and we can sort of predict that B might happen. Even Bastiat, and old school economist from a couple centuries ago noted this. He said it's not what you see that's important, it's what you don't see. He wasn't talking about ghosts or spirits. He was talking about the more complex outcomes of the things we see. We'll see A happen, and figure that would probably cause B. But what we DON'T see is that B might cause C, and C might lead to D and E, but only under certain conditions. In the realm of economics, this is what explains the "law of unintended consequences." This is because in the world of economics, pretty much EVERYTHING is connected. You change something way over here, and the effects will work it's way through the system. Eventually, sometimes a few years later, it will create outcomes that nobody could have predicted. If you are LOCKED into simple, "A causes B" thinking, you will be very limited. For example, somebody gives you some advice. You imagine doing that advice, and you can't imagine how that advice will lead DIRECTLY to a positive outcome. So you think the advice is wrong, or misguided. This is a trick. To not only protect your ego, but to keep you safely on the sidelines. You get to PRETEND that you are being smart, but not taking risks. But in reality, if anything was that easy, everybody would be doing it. Everybody could hear advice to do A, for example. And everybody would imagine how A would lead directly to B, that positive outcome. And EVERYBODY would do A to get B. And then EVERYBODY would have B. This the trouble with ONLY taking action when you have a sure thing. Since it's a sure thing, EVERYBODY can do it. So if you want to get MORE than you have right NOW, you've got to DO THINGS that others are too scared to try. Nobody ever got rich without taking risks. Nobody get got the hot guy or girl without taking risks. Nobody ever got mad skills without experiencing the opportunity costs. Luckily, you don't need to take HUGE risks. You don't need to expose yourself to HUGE opportunity costs. Just a little bit at a time. While everybody is safely staring at social media, or TV, or whatever their comfort zone allows, you can be building skills. Skills that will get you whatever you want. Learn More: https://mindpersuasion.com/sugar-baby-hypnosis/
  14. Reverse Engineered Cult: https://mindpersuasion.com/reverse-engineered-cult/ https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/Feb14Loop.mp4
  15. https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/Feb13Post.mp4 Storytelling and hypnosis are very closely related. Therapeutic hypnosis and movies are essentially the same structure. You sit there and let another "entity" do your thinking for you. When you are in the therapist's office, he or she is talking, you've got your eyes closed, and your following along with their words. So long as their words are guiding you toward better and more resourceful emotions, you're pretty good. Similarly, when w watch a movie or even a TV show, we are letting the story do our thinking for us. Most of the time, this is just to relax our brain. But when a movie or show grabs our attention, it can move us through some very POWERFUL emotions. This is essentially what the Greeks discovered, and called Catharsis, way back in the day. A way to specifically move people through a series of specific feelings and emotions. In a way that would give them the feelings, but not of the risk. They could experience, pain, love, loss, grief, success, agony, etc., ALL without upsetting their real lives. The Hero's Journey story is essentially a well calibrated, motivational story. To give the hero enough confidence and get out there and kill the bad guys, and get the rewards. Fame, sex, admiration and respect. Most people spit words without much thought. We have half baked ideas and spit them out with randomly chosen words and phrases. But language is, or can be, EXTREMELY powerful. You can move people's emotions with your words. And once you realize this, you can move them ANYWHERE you want. To inspire, to motivate, to persuade, to seduce. And if you toss in a few well placed ambiguities, something very, very cool will happen. If you tell a story about dragons and knights, it can be pretty entertaining. But they'll remember it being about dragons and knights. But if you carefully calibrate WHERE you put in the specific vagueness, they will remember the story with THEM as the hero. Which means they'll take OWNERSHIP of the ideas in the story. This means with simple words, you can lead ANYBODY to make any decision you want. All while believing it was their idea. Not yours. They'll fall in love with you, if you want. They'll give you money, if you want. They'll wish they'd never met you, if you want. And anything else you can dream up. This hypnotic storytelling skill can be used anywhere words can be spoken. Clubs, bookstores, shopping malls, telephone calls, or anywhere else you can dream of. Learn How: https://mindpersuasion.com/sugar-baby-hypnosis/
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