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  1. https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/Dec11Post.mp4 One common problem both salespeople and social persuaders have is an inability to close. Sales people can give the most fantastic presentations ever, but when it comes to the close, they flounder. Guys and girls can talk a great game, but when it comes time to close, it goes sideways. Both people feel it. Both people know that SOMEBODY should say something. But both sit there, mumbling and suddenly avoiding eye contact. "So, uh, yea, wow, gee..." There are two ways to get around this common problem. One is to ALWAYS close. Close everywhere and often. This, however, is only a superficial solution. It's kind of like ripping a bandage off. It's painful, and you want to get it over with. This is the basic philosophy of number closing everybody who looks in your direction. It kind of, sort of, makes it SEEM like you are being confident. If you tell your buddies you number closed twenty girls in the past weekend, they'd be impressed. After all, most guys are terrified of number closing ONCE, let alone twenty times. But when you look at the stats, they aren't really that great. You ask twenty girls for their number. Fifteen politely decline. Four gave you a number only because they were too shy to say no. That one who was actually interested, was really only interested in the moment. You impressed her with your confidence, your focus, your lack of anxiety. But since that attraction was built QUICKLY, it dissipated quickly. So when you call her a day or so later, she might not even remember you. So, yeah, while number closing twenty girls a week is pretty cool from a confidence, brag to your buddies angle, it's pretty ineffective if you actually want to MEET people. If you want to slowly expand your social circle, and get to KNOW people, number closing everybody with a pulse is not the way to do it. Consider doing the OPPOSITE. This is counter intuitive. This is a LONG GAME strategy. This will build up your REAL confidence. The deep confidence that isn't temporary. The kind of deep confidence that naturally radiates from you when you are ordering a slice of pizza or asking the waitress for a refill on your diet coke. How can you BUILD this confidence? By practicing hit and run compliments. But not OBVIOUS compliments. Not compliments about how they look, or how pretty their eyes are. Compliments about their choices, their decisions. Compliments about THEM. That indicate you see them more deeply than everybody else. What will make these particularly powerful is if you deliver them with linguistic presuppositions. These will make them radiate in their mind much longer. Walk up, deliver the compliment, smile and keep walking. This will create a massive number of memories in your brain. Of people looking at YOU and wanting more. This will add up to a deep and REAL belief that people WANT you. This is something few people will EVER experience. Learn How: https://mindpersuasion.com/cold-reading/
  2. Unstable Death Wobbles: https://mindpersuasion.com/unstable-death-wobbles/ https://soundcloud.com/mindpersuasion/unstable-death-wobbles https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/Dec11Loop.mp4
  3. https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/Dec10Post.mp4 There's a pretty cool technique from covert hypnosis. It's called "blurred realities." It's when you are quoting somebody, but it's not clear who. This can create a sense of confusion. Confusion is kind of like taking up brain processor resources, so you can slip ideas into their brain more easily. For example, if you walked up to a really cute girl and said: "I think you're pretty. I think you should give me your phone number." It would be absolutely clear what was going on. Saying that directly, unless you were super confident, would make you nervous. Hearing that directly, unless SHE was super confident, would make her nervous. Nervousness tends to HEIGHTEN the conscious critic. On the other hand, supposed you walked up and said this: "Hi, you remind me of my brother's wife. When they meet he walked right up, looked her in the eye and said, you are the most beautiful woman I've ever seen, I think we should be together." This is also referred to as the "quotes pattern." It allows you to say some blatant things to people with absolute plausible deniability. Another way to use the blurred reality is to tell a bunch of stories within a bunch of stories. And inside one of the nested stories, one character is talking to another character. But the things that character says to the other character also hold true other stories around that middle story. They also can work between the story teller and the story listener. This will give the listeners are very slippery feeling their brain. It is a very real, very unexpected, and very fuzzy hypnotic effect. And it will make you, the storyteller, seemingly capable of real magic. But there's also another way to use the blurred reality technique. Start to talk about your own abstract feelings and emotions. Not just the direct emotions, but emotions about emotions, and judgments about emotions. This takes some courage, since you'll need to look inside and explore your own emotions. But here's the cool part. We ALL, more or less, have those same emotions and meta emotions. So when you talk about your own emotions, you can apply the blurred reality technique. By deliberately using your pronouns in a specific way, even though YOU are talking about, and referencing YOUR OWN inner emotions, the other person will start to believe you are reading their minds. Which will make you seem like a much more powerful wizard. A mind reading wizard. Something most people only believe exist in movies and comic books. But there you are. In the flesh, performing real magic. Learn How: https://mindpersuasion.com/cold-reading/
  4. Rearview Brain Strategy: https://mindpersuasion.com/rearview-brain-strategy/ https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/Dec10Loop.mp4
  5. https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/Dec09Post.mp4 Understanding economics is critical. But it also pretty much sucks. That's why it's called the "dismal science." When we are children, we can get away with believing in magic. We don't have to worry about how much stuff costs. But once we have to get out in the world and get it done, we are forced to face the idea of costs. If you only have ten bucks in your pocket, there's only so much you can buy. If you only have an hour, there's only so much you can do. This is true socially as well. We would all love having super rich, super gorgeous partners. But here's the part most people don't like to think about. Those super gorgeous, super rich people have TONS of options. If you are a guy, and you're trying to get a really beautiful woman to fall in love with you, you ARE going to have your work cut out for you. Because you have plenty of competition. And that super gorgeous girl has TONS of dudes all clamoring for her attention. If you approach her like all the other drooling dudes, with the same strategy as all the other drooling dudes, how, SPECIFICALLY will you make yourself stand out? This goes for the ladies as well. How SPECIFICALLY will you make yourself stand out among all the competition for Mr. Handsome Rich Guy? If you still have a little bit of kid in your, you'll rely on the "I'm special" idea. The HE or SHE will see ME and notice that "special thing" about me, and THAT is what will make THEM fall in love with me. The problem with this theory is it is very common. Pretty much EVERYBODY has that "I'm special" strategy. That if only the rest of the people on planet Earth will notice how SPECIAL we are, THEN they would "give us" all the good stuff. This is great if you are kid watching cartoons, but as an adult in the real world, you need a better strategy. Luckily, some famous or smart person once said that "within every problem, are the seeds to a solution." What, exactly does that mean for us, Dear Reader? Because that super gorgeous lady or that super handsome man ALSO have the "I'm special" idea. So when you forget about getting them to notice YOU because of your "specialness" why not notice THEM because of THEIR specialness? Of course, you must go BEYOND what normal people do. And look BENEATH the surface. This is very, very easy when you know how. And it WILL make you stand out. Not because of your ideas. But because of you're behavior. Learn How: https://mindpersuasion.com/cold-reading/
  6. Brain Softening Technology: https://mindpersuasion.com/brain-softening-technology/ https://soundcloud.com/mindpersuasion/brain-softening-tech https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/Dec09Loop.mp4
  7. https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/Dec08Post.mp4 Linguistic presuppositions can be a very, very powerful weapon. But as they are almost always used subconsciously, and defensively. Kind of like we tend to favor injured parts of our body. For example, if you've got a sore left elbow, you'll tend to keep it close. It's instinctive and protective. You don't want it exposed. Similarly, we have tons of ideas we like. But we wouldn't really feel comfortable defending them logically. This is why using the meta model can get you in a lot of trouble, very, very quickly. The meta model can target with laser like precision the ideas we have in our brains. Ideas we don't want to discuss out in the open. The meta model is NOT a party skill. But linguistic presuppositions CAN be. But only if used consciously and positively. For example, consider the one called, "subordinate clause of time." Suppose you and your spouse were going out to get dinner. And you would LIKE to go to restaurant X. But you're kind of afraid that if you make that a conscious choice, they might disagree. So you'd very much like to slide the idea of going to restaurant X into an otherwise normal conversation. And you do so by putting the focus on something ELSE in that same sentence. Say, for example, your spouse or partner wants to see a certain movie. And seeing that movie is not such big deal for you. But it's a big deal for them. So you say: "Hey, after we have dinner at restaurant X, how about we go see movie Y?" The having dinner at restaurant X is presupposed. Assumed be true. Using the "subordinate clause of time" pattern. And the focus is on movie Y. Hopefully, they won't argue against restaurant X. On the other hand, if you said, "Hey do you want to go to restaurant X, and then go watch movie Y?" That invites them to change either choice, if they feel like it. There are plenty of ways to positively use presuppositions. For example, say your buddy is eyeing a cute girl across the room. You COULD say: "Hey, why don't you go talk to her?" Or you COULD say: "Hey, IF you go and talk to her, I'll buy you a beer." Or you could be clever and presuppose it's going to happen. Look at him, look at her, look at your watch and say: "Hey, we need to get there before happy hour ends. AFTER you go talk to her, I'll buy the first round. Let's get going." Not only are there plenty of presuppositions (about twenty) but there are TONS of way to PRESUPPOSE good things about other people. Most people give blatant compliments. But when you presuppose compliments, and hide them inside sentences, they'll leave their mind spinning. And when you use them as a "hit and run" technique, they'll have a positive feeling in their brain. And they'll wonder who YOU are. To Learn how, visit: https://mindpersuasion.com/cold-reading/
  8. Consciousness Transplanting: https://mindpersuasion.com/consciousness-transplanting/ https://soundcloud.com/mindpersuasion/haunted-forests https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/Dec08Loop.mp4
  9. https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/Dec07Post.mp4 A common idea in psychology is separation anxiety. This idea can be very helpful. People who tend more toward metaphysics see this as source of all human pain. Intuitively, we feel a lack of connection. Once upon a time, according to the metaphysicians, we were once a kind of universal consciousness. And since we think we are separate entities, in this physical body, we feel separated. We can't remember what it was like to feel our original connection to one another. This idea pops up a lot in self help. And it does make a bit of sense. When you approach a stranger, if see them through a frame of "separateness" that will increase your anxiety. That if you approach them as a friend, you will feel much more open, make a much stronger connection, and have a much better chance of getting whatever it is you are after. On the other hand, while this advice sounds good, it's kind of hard to apply. It's like telling people to "just" NOT be afraid. Or telling people it's easy to lose weight, because all you need to do is be hungry and NOT eat. This is essentially the problem with most self help ideas. The ideas SOUND fantastic, but only from a metaphorical, theoretical side. If you go to a seminar, and listen to some guru go on and on about how we really are all connected, it SOUNDS fantastic. But how, specifically, are you supposed to apply that when you want to walk across the room and attempt to seduce the most gorgeous girl in the place? Once upon a time a guy went to a seminar. It was three days of fantastic preaching about universal love and inter-connectedness. When he left he was in the best mood ever. He thought, since he was now, "enlightened," everything would be smooth sailing. Then he got bit by a dog. He went back and complained to the seminar guru. "If I was enlightened, why'd the dog bite me? Aren't we all connected?" he demanded. The seminar guru responded: "Yes, you are enlightened, you are connected to everything. But the dog didn't know that." Just making assumptions about our inter-connectedness won't do much. What will do something? Actually finding EVIDENCE of our inter-connectedness. Sharing that evidence with others. It's much easier than most people realize. With a little bit of practice, you can learn to read what people are thinking just by their body language. And when you casually mention that, what's going on in their mind, THEY will feel a strong connection. With YOU. Learn How: https://mindpersuasion.com/cold-reading/
  10. Evil Psychic Jewelry https://mindpersuasion.com/evil-psychic-jewelry/ https://soundcloud.com/mindpersuasion/evil-psychic-jewelry-1 https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/Dec07Loop.mp4
  11. https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/Dec06Post.mp4 A very powerful law of influence, which operates outside of conscious awareness, is commitment and consistency. This is the psychology behind sales funnels. This is why it's hard to change your mind once you've stated your opinion publicly. One reason why this law is so powerful is it conserves thinking. Our brains are very powerful, but they are huge energy hogs. We don't like to think if we don't have to. This is why doing things that are familiar are so comfortable. If you had a choice between riding your bicycle up and over a huge hill, or riding around that same hill, most normal people would ride around the hill. Riding around the hill would take less energy, and therefore be more pleasant, than riding up and over the hill. When we go out to eat, for example, we tend to stick to familiar choices. Going to a new restaurant, and looking over a new menu, and taking a risk on a new dish, would be like riding over a huge hill. That takes a lot of mental energy. On the other hand, ordering something you KNOW is going to taste good takes very little energy. So, we tend to choose the mentally easier choice. Especially if the MAIN reason for going out to eat is to enjoy some friendly conversations with friends. If you go somewhere new, that would take energy away from your pleasant conversations. This is also why we are much more reserved around strangers. We have to be careful what we say and how we act. If you reveal too much too quickly, you might kill any chances of a happy friendship or romantic relationship. Since knowing what and when to reveal things is mostly a conscious process, it is very brain intensive. So talking to new people is like riding over a huge hill. Hanging out with friends is like riding around and enjoying the view. Imagine if you met somebody who did ALL the work. They did all the talking. They somehow knew you. They knew the REAL you. Not only did they know the REAL you, but they accepted the real you. They appreciated the real you. And they did all this in a way that required very LITTLE of your brain energy. And they made it very clear they DID NOT want nor expect anything from you. They weren't trying to get you to join their MLM group or get you to join their cult. They were just being friendly. How would you feel about that person? More importantly, how can you BE that person? Learn How: https://mindpersuasion.com/cold-reading/
  12. Angelic Symbols of Magic: https://mindpersuasion.com/angelic-symbols-of-magic/ https://soundcloud.com/mindpersuasion/angelic-symbols https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/Dec06Loop.mp4
  13. https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/Dec05Post.mp4 I had this crazy nightmare once. I told my friend about it, but then I forgot. Later, he told me a story that matched my nightmare perfectly. He knew that I'd forgotten. As he was explaining it, he phrased it as if it was something that was about to happen. For a while, I was freaked out. I thought I was trapped in some kind of inter-dimensional rift. Finally I told him that what he'd just described was exactly like a dream I'd had. I thought maybe I'd tapped into some time travel, telepathic, future prediction dream technique. He started laughing and told me what had happened. That he was essentially telling me what I'd told him a couple weeks ago, but forgot. While he was telling me, it was like reality had broken. After he told me that I'd told him before, and forgot, I felt like an idiot. He, of course, thought it was pretty funny. And it was. After I got over my fear of the universe being broken, I thought it was pretty funny as well. The reason it was a horrifying experience for me was because the dream itself had been about magnificent death and destruction. Had the dream been about rock star sex parties, it would have been a much, much more enjoyable experience. This is EXACTLY why people love going to see psychics. We all have the same basic fears and desires. But since most of us rarely take time to look at these in detail, they live very vaguely in our subconscious. But with a little bit of practice, you can learn to "read" people's fears and desires. Describe their future in terms of these deep dreams. Of course, how you do this will have a HUGE impact on how they feel about you. If you deliver these readings as common things we all share, they won't have much of an impact. But if you deliver them as if you are noticing something very unique about them, they will be FASCINATED. Fascinated in your ability to read them to accurately. Fascinated that you've discovered their unique dreams. This will make them feel very good. Better than they have in a long, long time. Perhaps the best they've felt in their adult lives. If you deliver these correctly, they will associate this good feeling with you. Which, of course, you can leverage however you like. Learn How: https://mindpersuasion.teachable.com/p/cold-reading/
  14. Invisible Attraction: https://mindpersuasion.com/invisible-attraction/ https://soundcloud.com/mindpersuasion/invisible-attraction https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/Dec05Loop.mp4
  15. https://loopvids.s3.amazonaws.com/Dec04Post.mp4 Imagine this scenario. You're at a party or social gathering. Bar, pub, club, etc. You see a cute girl or guy across the room. They're flirting with you. You're flirting with them. You've exchanged eye contact a few times. Flirty, quick, coupled with a slight, perhaps embarrassed smile. From a purely objective standpoint, it's on. On like Donkey Kong. But from inside your own subjective brain, it's kind of like what old school announcer for the Lakers, Chick Hearn used to say: "Ladies and gentlemen it's nervous time at the Forum!" This is a problem with humans. Objectively, things are easy. Subjectively, those very same things are terrifying. Without question, the most common thing that keeps us frozen is the age old question: "What do I say?" You know there is some deep, subconscious, even animal attraction. But it would be a bit silly to just walk over, get closer to them and only stare. It would be even worse to walk over and say: Hi. Uh, hi. And then stand there and stare. A common response is to memorize a bunch of lines and patterns. Even some short term personality behaviors. This can work, but once you run out of memorized material, you're back in the same situation. The more importance you place on them, the harder this is. Job interviews, asking your boss for a raise, talking a cute girl or guy into becoming interested enough to exchange numbers. Anxiety is like crippleware on your computer. As soon as anxiety kicks in, it sucks up all your thinking resources. But what if you KNEW what they were thinking? What if you KNEW what they wanted, and what they didn't want? Sherlock Holmes is famous for being able to read situations with insane accuracy. Of course, that's in books and movies, where the truth is expected to be stretched. But it IS possible. Not to look at her left pinkie, notice the slight indention in the right side of the tip, and guess that she'd been baking cookies earlier that day. But you can learn to read her body language. The way her eyes are looking around the room. The particular situation she is in. This will allow you to pace what's on her mind. Not control, or give advice, or demonstrate any weird pick up skills. But pace. To speak the same thoughts she is thinking. Most people only notice what's on the outside. You have pretty eyes! You have nice shoes! Your boobs look delicious! Anybody with a pair of working eyeballs can do that. But sense what's on her mind? And pace it, as if what she or he is thinking is completely normal? This will impress them far more than any other line-memorizing goof out there. Impress who? Anybody. Guys, girls, hiring managers, next door neighbors, friends, lovers and whoever else you want. Learn How: https://mindpersuasion.teachable.com/p/cold-reading/
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