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Hi, I've been listening to love magnet since the 5th January and All men love me for about 3 days.

 

I can definately see a huge amount of interest from men since I started this. I am getting constant messages on dating sites and it's the same guys (ones that I find attractive) who message me the most. A guy in real life has started talking to me more and someone on facebook sent me a message out the blue. Someone also sent me a gift.

 

My goal is to find "the one". Although as much as I am into the LOA and sprituality, I'm starting to doubt finding true love. So far the interest has been very sexual and I'm not looking for fwb.

 

I bought the alpha female package recently so I will listen to the self love and self esteem audios next.

 

I'll document any major changes here and if anyone has any suggestions on how I can improve my chances of finding "the one" I would really appreciate it.

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Firstly, welcome Laura!

 

Secondly, yes I am looking forward to the manifest men product!

 

I have very similar issues in my love life.  For me, I tend to be attracted to men in online dating, well on some of the ones, but when it comes to offline I rarely SEE a guy I fancy.  When I do,

I find myself very shy.  But also, I have the online ones mostly wanting sex.  

 

I'd love to have a boyfriend very much, but also, even if I could just get the kind of love life where I am regularly getting dates - especially dates that are more than just a coffee or a drink!

But even those are nice & I was getting one a month but it's really dried up since late October. there I DO have a couple of crushes :-)

 

Anyway, WELCOME!!!! 

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Despite what they have been asking for, it's really encouraging to hear about what HAS been happening in your love life, since using those subs and I feel like it is a good starting point.

 

I think when the attract men sub DOES come out, it would be nice to have SOME that are sexual, but also some that are just romantic, maybe some sexual mp3s, about attracting that, some about attracting dates and some about attracting a boyfriend.

 

What do you think girls?

 

Then that would cover a range of situations.

And maybe something about seeing and attracting men offline too, like in our daily life, wherever we go.  OOH that would ROCK! 

 

But also, things on beliefs too.  

I know some men believe ALL women can just snap their fingers and get ANYONE we want, but it's not always easy for US either, guys!

Also, limiting beliefs about us being attractive enough and so on can be an issue.  Even if we ARE attractive, cos that is what society shoves down our throats, that we are not attractive enough to get the kind of guy we want.

It would be nice to have other things in there like that we are smart enough, funny enough and so on.

Cos we hear SO much about looks and how guys go for looks.  Be nice to have affirmations about attracting men with OTHER qualities too!  And about knowing what to SAY to men, how to approach them, and attract more of THEM - ones we like - approaching US too, (offline, not just online! in both cases) being confident and knowing what to say in a text and message, on the phone and on dates and being secure when we GET them! 

 

Just suggestions. 

 

What do you think, Laura???

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Thanks for the welcome Loozid :)

 

I didn't know about the manifesting men package smokingskull, thanks, I will give that a try.

 

I'm the same Athena, I rarely find people in real life attractive and when I do, I'm too shy to talk to them and miss my chance! That's really the bit I need to change the most. I think for me, I open up to people online so they get to know my good points better, where as in real life I'm quite closed off, so that's probably why I attract more people online.

 

I have a crush on someone and he seemed interested in me, but I was too shy to talk to him and I really regret it because I haven't seen him since. I think I gave off the vibe that I am not interested.

 

I agree about having some subliminals with sexual affirmations and some without. It would be great to have some affirmations on how to approach men, confidence on dates, feeling secure in that stage from the first date til they next contact you, all those other bits in between them coming to you and being in a long term relationship. Those are some brilliant ideas Athena, especially about approaching men. I would love to have confidence when the guys I really like approach me instead of running a mile like I always do! Lol. This guy I liked was coming to talk to me and I turned my back and pretended I didn't see him because in my head all I could think was, I'm going to sound stupid lol.

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Hi George, my biggest issue is, I can't be myself around men I'm attracted to. If I wasn't attracted to a guy, I'd be myself and talk to them like I would any friend, but when it's someone I like, my nerves get in the way, I worry about what I'm saying, if they are interested, I am thinking too much how I can impress them, but at the same time, I want them to like me as I am.

 

I have no trouble getting as far as a guy being interested and talking to me or showing signs of having a crush on me, but it's my insecure feelings that I will some how put them off me.

It's a fear of rejection, but when I later reflect on these guys, who I thought would reject me or think I am out of thier "league" I realised that I was good enough and pretty enough, but at the time I see them I don't feel that confident.

 

I can be open to the men I'm not that keen on and they become attracted to me, but attractive men make me think I am going to instantly get rejected no matter what. I would love to be able to be relaxed and not overthink things when a good looking guy approaches me and to just be myself.

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More things I've noticed, people in general are contacting me more and today a random guy commented on my fb that he wanted to have a drink with me, he's not my type though.

 

Also, some of the guys have the same first name as my crush and one guy even looked exactly like my crush, but slightly older! Does that mean anything? Synchronicity?

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Yup I can certainly relate to some of what Laura has said here.

 

Another thing, and it came up tonight...I don't know if it's an ISSUE as such but maybe??

 

If a guy is talking to me - even if he has initiated the conversation - and then he talks and flirts with another woman, I back off IMMEDIATELY.  I'll usually actually walk away.   I walk away cos I assume if I stay I will be cramping his style, so let's walk away and make it easier for him to hit on her.   I'm really non-competitive, but maybe TOO much so?  

 

I'm gonna have a think about this. 

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@George, If I may add what I'd love to manifest men to include. 

 

I've listening to Raining Men, Romantic Dates, Irresistible Attraction, and a few others over the years, and they all work INITIALLY in attracting men, mostly online not in person (and I'd prefer both). I'm at the point in my life where I am ready for my SOULMATE relationship. A lasting relationship that leads to marriage. So, in other words, not just attracting or manifesting men in general, but attracting and manifesting men that are soulmate, serious lasting relationships that lead to lasting happy marriage where there is mutual attraction, love, lust and adoration.

 

I'd love to STILL be attractive to men in general, but I prefer quality over quantity at this point, if this all makes sense.

 

Manifest my husband would be awesome.

 

Affirmation: I am a wonderful person that deserves the best. I am so happy and grateful now that my soulmate and I have met easily, effortlessly and perfectly. Or I am a wonderful person that deserves the best. I am so happy and grateful now that I am a great wife to the right man for me and we are both so happy and in love! (Favorite)

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For me, I work with almost exclusively women and children, so I don't see men at work.  But, while I sometimes see handsome men ONLINE, (and the online ones are more likely to be seeking sex, whereas apparently offline they may also be open to dating and relationships ---so I want to see more attractive OFFline ones, who also like me) on the train, and at social events (meet up groups and so on), I don't tend to see men I am actually attracted to.  So affirmations also about seeing more handsome men in daily life (e.g. on public transport, at shops, at social events would be great.  Men who I find attractive and who find me attractive.  And that they approach me and it is easy to approach them (and that they like this!) Men to ask for my number too.  

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For me, I work with almost exclusively women and children, so I don't see men at work.  But, while I sometimes see handsome men ONLINE, (and the online ones are more likely to be seeking sex, whereas apparently offline they may also be open to dating and relationships ---so I want to see more attractive OFFline ones, who also like me) on the train, and at social events (meet up groups and so on), I don't tend to see men I am actually attracted to.  So affirmations also about seeing more handsome men in daily life (e.g. on public transport, at shops, at social events would be great.  Men who I find attractive and who find me attractive.  And that they approach me and it is easy to approach them (and that they like this!) Men to ask for my number too.  

 

Coming soon to a pair of headphones near you....

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I've started using the all men love me and irrestible attraction again lately and I am feeling more confident with men. I forgot the results I got with this last time and I'm excited to try these both together this time. I didn't use them long enough last time. 

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I'm feeling a bit confused today. I'm a beautiful woman, I get told that a lot, but men never approach me, ever! Everywhere I go I see at least one guy staring at me or checking me out, but guys never add me on facebook or message me. People seem to get such great results with subliminals, but I've tried loads off youtube and nothing! It's disheartening because it makes me feel like maybe I'm just unlovable? I'm a really nice, down to earth, sweet, funny & smart person, I just only get stares, nothing else. I don't get it.

I just re-read my first post and I used to get messages, but not anymore.

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45 minutes ago, laura89 said:

I'm feeling a bit confused today. I'm a beautiful woman, I get told that a lot, but men never approach me, ever! Everywhere I go I see at least one guy staring at me or checking me out, but guys never add me on facebook or message me. People seem to get such great results with subliminals, but I've tried loads off youtube and nothing! It's disheartening because it makes me feel like maybe I'm just unlovable? I'm a really nice, down to earth, sweet, funny & smart person, I just only get stares, nothing else. I don't get it.

I just re-read my first post and I used to get messages, but not anymore.

Hey Laura89!

That's a damn shame if I saw you in real life I would spit out the "game" and let you know how awesome and beautiful you are. Tell you what, let's pretend, this is real life for just a few seconds.
Me: Hey I think you're cute what you up to??

You: Not much just walking around the mall trying to find something good to wear. I think I gained a few pounds these pants don't fit.
Me: What's your name by the way I forgot to ask? Oh, and you look very beautiful, So I don't even know why you thinking about it. But if you have to think about it just know you are someone is very beautiful. Any guy would love to get to know you. And in fact, you are beautiful I think most guys are a little intimidated your beauty. Tell you what because I am here right now and you are listening to me speak at this moment in time. Why don't you give me your number. *hands phone* We can grab some coffee. It will be on me. 

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3 hours ago, laura89 said:

I'm feeling a bit confused today. I'm a beautiful woman, I get told that a lot, but men never approach me,

 

To be approached, you have to be approachable. Sounds silly, but it's likely that you are giving off a weird vibe. Maybe they see you, and part of them thinks they might get rejected outright if they approach. That's generally what stops guys from approaching, is thinking that there will be a high probability of failure. 

You might need to do some digging through your brain to find out what may be causing this, OR you could just practice talking to people. Not people you are interested in, just people in general. Not for any reason, just to get experience talking to people and feeling that most people are normal It could be that you have some fears of others that you are projecting, which they (guys that notice you but don't approach) interpret the wrong way.

 

Ideally they want to see you, notice that you are physically beautiful, AND sense that you have a friendly, easy going, enjoyable to talk to type  of personality. The best way to radiate that is it simply practice talking to people and gaining experience BEING that person.

This is explained more fully in the Manifest Men course, if you have it. 

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I got a phone number! I took on board what George said about being approachable so when a guy I liked kept looking over at me at a party, I made sure I made eye contact and smiled every time. He started looking more and showing off around me. Before he left he gave me his number and said he wants to see me again. I started listening to "people love me" a few days before I saw him.

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I changed the way I listened to the subliminals and gotten 2 good results!! I just got a number off a guy I've liked for a year. Not my main crush, but who knows if I keep this up. And I'm meeting up with a guy soon. I started meditating to the subliminals so I went into alpha/theta brainwaves and started listening to them 2 hours a day.

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Excellent!

 

Keep a journal of everything, what works, what doesn't, everything you can remember. Write down something every day.

The idea is to build in an instinctive feeling (built after writing everything, good and bad, down) of what works and what doesn't.

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@laura = you mentioned you changed the way you listened to subliminals....what did you change? Frequency? Duration? The ones you listen to?

Please expound - thanks!

@george is the attract men available for us in the subliminals section of the forum or is this a separate purchase?

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