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bogdy23

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  1. How do i reframe with sleight of mouth the following.ITs to expensive, im to busy, i don`t have the time, i have a boyfriend. THe hirearchy of criteria, Don`t you think that you could get a lot more value for paying a higher price Don`t you think that making some time for this or that will make you a lot happier Don`t you think that if you give more time you`ll have more time? The last one i have no ideea. THe consequence pattern iF YOU DOn`t pay more you`re probably not gonna have much out of it Thinking that you are to busy is self fufilling profecy wich will tend to repeate itself every day the last 2 still have no clue Another outcome pattern THe real issue isn`t that is to expensive its that i just can`t afford it The real issune isn`t that i`m to busy it`s just that i don`t see how i can help you?(not sure about this one) The issue isn`t that i don`t have time for you its just that i have a lot of work to do with my job and i can`t allocate any of my time to friends. The issue isn`t that i have a boyfriend but the fact that im not ready now for a relationship REdefine pattern its not that its truly expensive its just that i don`t feel confortable spending so much money It`s not that i am too busy its that im focused now on other things Its not that i have no time its the fact that i am engaged now in a lot of other activieties that take out a lot of my time its not the fact that i have a boyfriend its the fact that i`ve been hurt in love so many times Methaphor analogy If it delivers you a lot of value it`s not really that expensive it`s just that you probably can`t afford if it means that im too busy dosen`t mean that i don`t have time for you it just means that i have a lot on my plate right now If it mean that i don`t have the time it`s because im preocupated with a lot of things right now and i can`t allocate any of my time No idea for the last one Chunking down How specificaly is it more expensive compared to what How specificaly do you mean that you are busy with what are you busy with How specificaly do you don`t have time what is it occupied with No idea Chuncking up So do you mean that everyghing that is above youre means is unaffordable for everyone else Are you saying that the fact the you are to busy right know means that you won`t have any time even in the future Are you saying that the fact that you don`t have any time is tha main reason you can`t see me tommorow No idea Counter example Isn`t it possible that you just can`t affort it and that its not really to expensive Isn`t possible that the fact that you are to busy is caused by the fact that you have poor time management skills Isn`t it possible that the fact that you have no time is because you`re preocupated with things that arrent important no idea Intent pattern, I know that youre intetion is not to overpay but isn`t it more expensive because it offers you the most value for your money Since you are to busy right now i`m sure that you will find a posibilty for you to meet with me in the future My intent wasn`t to not have time for you its just that other things have come up no idea Model of the WORLD Not all people think that its too expensive some belive that its farily priced Most people that i know and are to busy today usually find a spot for me the following week You may say that you have no time but thats just an excuse no idea REality strategy How would you know that this is too expensive if you haven`t tryed it out to see what i can offer you How specificaly are you busy what exactly do you have to do how would you know if you don`t have the time when you don`t know what i have to offer How speficilay do you have one how long have you been dating Apply to self A person wich is concered with value would be able to overlook if the price is a little high Are you sure that you are to busy to squeeze me in even tomorow ISn`t it the fact that you have no time do to the fact that you do to many unecesary things no idea Change frame size it may seem more expensive to you know but if you look in the long run you will see the benefits Is that truly what you belive or is it the fact that you can`t squeeze me in No idea for the last 2 Metaframe You`re just saying that because you`re not focused on the value that it offers you You`re just saying that because you`re focused on doing so many things that you don`t have time for what matters No ideea for the last 2
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