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    How To Talk To Girls

    Consider this idea: If you close anybody, you still benefit. Having a memory of 100's of closes (good and bad) will make closing easier. Having a memory of even 100's of failed closes will signficiantly give you a much more attractive "energy" as you won't be very nervous or worried. Think of closing like doing pushups. They are no fun, and you're glad when you're done. But if you make it a habit, you'll get in pretty good shape. If you see talking to and closing girls like exercise for your "attraction energy" it's not that much different than doing pushups. Pretty soon even getting rejected over and over will be fun, just like jogging is enjoyable after the first few minutes. Talking to girls = exercising your confidence Doing pushups = exercising your body results are irrelevant
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    Fear of Emotional Pain

    I feel a lot of guys have this, especially because women society defines as being attractive often act like (or are told to act like) b*tches. Generally what happens is when a girl turns you away, guys actually experience emotional pain and suppress it. This turns guys into very heavy manipulators. They will use Psychic Seduction, Manifestation Magic, etc. However, the truth is there is a very deep and intense fear of being emotionally hurt repeatedly. Generally guys are told that this means you are not manly enough. However, EVERY guy experiences this. The thing about emotional pain is, it can be in many ways worse than physical pain. It can scar you in ways and impose belief systems that simply isn't true. The worst part is, if repeated enough, it kills your Confidence in that area of your life. For this reason it's necessary to have some sort of emotional trauma healing system by your side at all times, be it through meditation, NLP, etc. I can't emphasize this enough, because looking back now I feel this has completely changed men in whole for the worst. The cycle goes something like. You approach, fail, approach, fail, manipulate, not fail as bad, use various manipulation techniques, get it in, repeat, psychologically figure them out, and then the worst part is, once you figure it out, you look down upon women as a whole, as retaliation. They hurt me before, so now why shouldn't I? Who cares? They're all b*tches anyway. This becomes a very common way of thinking, and it's your past emotional pain speaking, not actually you. So a word of caution and advice to guys that are working on their dating skills - don't let your past emotional pain change who you are as a human being.
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    How To Talk To Girls

    There are examples in the post about how to set anchors. The things you say to her are based on what she says to you. It's much better to actually go out, talk to girls, remember what they said, and then practice using THAT. Using your own experiences are a million times better than reading hypothetical examples. Your communication skills are highly dependent on your willingness to practice them while communicating with others.
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    Re-Establish Social Equilibrium

    The other night I watched a YouTube video about the Mandelbrot set. It's a fractal pattern, based on imaginary numbers. (I find a lot in common between mathematics and hypnosis...) A fractal pattern is a shape that keeps repeating the more you zoom in. It also has the curious property of having an infinite circumference, but a finite volume. Meaning the squiggly line going around the outside goes on forever. But the area inside this closed loop of infinity is finite. But it's also in a lot of natural shapes. Trees, roots and branches each are like fractals. The trunk, branches, leaves, and each vein within the leaf are repeating patterns. Our cardiovascular system, nervous system and even our neurology are fractal-like patterns. Reality is kind of weird like this. Ideas, patterns, systems seem to be found a many levels. One of the common ideas in all of science is equilibrium. The sun is in equilibrium with the Earth. The Earth with the moon. Our bodies and our sleep cycles. When we are in-sync, everything feels fantastic. When we are out of sync, everything feels like crap. When athletes or musicians are highly in-sync, they call it the "flow state." Where the conscious mind just shuts off and takes a back seat. This might be described as the highly coveted "self-actualized" person. An athlete or musician or scientist who is operating a peak efficiency, and in total equilibrium with the world. Not in the world, but part of the world. The seamless flow between thought and things. The athlete just barely imagines the perfect move and then it happens. The difference between the sounds in the musician's mind and the sounds coming out of the speakers shrink to zero. Of course, the minute you start thinking consciously when you're in one of these states, you ruin it. This is when you're playing a song (or video game) perfectly, but then you start to focus on an aspect if it, and you "lose" that balance. These events happen over short periods, but also over long periods. Once humans lived in groups that were in perfect harmony with each other. One of many, many of one. But it's hard to find that these days. Everybody's in a hurry, everybody's trying to play everybody. You don't know who you can trust. But the possibility still exists. To tap that inner guide of your social equilibrium. To get back into social balance. Where social fears are a thing of the past. Learn How: Ego Taming
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    How To Be A People Magnet

    A while ago I took an improv class. I thought it was going to be about how to tell jokes. But it was about something much deeper. See, when actors are up on stage (or in front of the camera), they've got to do two things which seem to be opposite. On the one hand, they have to repeat lines written by professional writers. But at the same time, they have to seem VERY "in the moment." This is not as easy as it seems. Just watch some of the bottom-of-the-barrel movies on any streaming service to see what I mean. When somebody can deliver the right lines but WITHOUT any emotional congruence, it's correctly labeled, "wooden." What did we learn in the improv class? How to interact with each other non-verbally. Words are really only about 5-10% of our communication. The rest is non-verbal. And two actors who have TONS of congruent energy between them are going to be much more believable that two actors just spitting out lines. This is true EVERYWHERE. Knowing what to say is just the tip of the ice berg. Not even the most important part. Much more important is the ENERGY beneath the words. The sum total of all of your unconscious behavior, which is an OUTER representation of your INNER state. And your INNER state is comprised of your beliefs, understandings, and how you see yourself compared to the rest of the world. Most importantly, whether you see yourself as a CAUSE or an EFFECT. Whether you radiate LEADER energy, or FOLLOWER energy. Because this energy that you are ALWAYS projecting is MUCH more important than your words. If you are walking across a room to start a conversation with somebody, they've ALREADY read your energy. When you first enter the room for a job interview, they've ALREADY read your energy. Most people don't notice this other than getting either a "positive" feeling about you or a "negative" feeling. When you radiate the energy that creates those positive feelings in others, what you say is a LOT LESS important. What IS that energy? Continue it on a spectrum. On one side is TOTAL LEADERSHIP. People LOVE this kind of energy. On the other side is TOTAL DEPENDENCE. Most people very much dislike this energy. (Unless it's coming from a very young biological child). The more LEADERSHIP energy you can project, the more people will naturally gravitate toward you, and want to be around you. Learn How: Cult Leader
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    How To Feel Sexual Abundance

    There's a saying in horse racing. "You can beat the race, but you can't beat the races." Meaning you might get lucky once in a while, or you may get some inside info, but generally speaking, in the long run, you'll lose money. The more you play any legal gambling game, the more likely you'll lose. The house usually wins in the end. Otherwise, they'd go out of business. Luckily (or unluckily, depending on your perspective) women are the OPPOSITE. Meaning it's pretty easy to win with women in general. Problem is many guys have their sites set on ONE WOMAN. When a woman makes up her mind that she DOESN'T like you, it's kind of tough to turn it around. Especially when you consider the economics involved. Sure, it IS possible. But it will take a LOT of time and effort. And with that SAME time and effort, you could get a LOT more and a lot BETTER women. The problem lies with our caveman brains. Our caveman brains still think we live in a hunter-gatherer society. When we really do only have a chance with ONE woman. In those days (when you lived with the same tribe your entire life) it made PERFECT SENSE to spend your whole life chasing one girl. Today it's nearly idiotic, from a purely objective standpoint. How do you overcome that "one-itis?" You have to FORCE yourself to look for other women. To get better with other women. Because as soon as you find a woman that's into you, your caveman brain will absolutely FORGET about the previous one. The trick is to see women as things to enjoy. To get into the habit of playfully interacting with ALL the women you encounter, JUST to have fun. Then you'll start to FEEL the massive abundance that is REALLY out there. And nothing obliterates any fear or anxiety than the feeling of REALITY BASED sexual abundance. Learn How: Zero Fear Game
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    Try to think of cold approaching like you would exercise. It gets easier the more you do it. There are a LOT of techniques that will accelerate how fast that happens, but they won't replace the need to TAKE ACTION. Just like eating healthy, getting plenty of sleep, drinking lots of water, exercising at the same time everyday will help accelerate how quickly you can think of physical exercise as something you DO vs. something you HAVE TO DO. Start slow, do something EVERY DAY. eye contact eye contact and smile eye contact and smile name exchange eye contact and smile name exchange and short conversation eye contact and smile and name exchange and long conversation eye contact and smile and name exchange and long conversation and number close Then journal at the end of everyday on your interactions: What Happened What I Could Have Done Better What I Can Try Tomorrow Keep a schedule, just like you would with exercise. Spend an HOUR each doing, at whatever level is comfortable. SLOWLY expand your comfort zone. Give yourself plenty of time Think of this as a LIFELONG process. AS YOU GO THROUGH this, you will gain confidence, become more attractive, and fine tune your ideal mate/boyfriend, since you'll be interacting with a lot of people. MAIN MISTAKE is the same as in exercise. People go too fast too soon, get sore and quit. Trying to cold approach for a number close when making eye contact makes you nervous is like expecting to run five miles the FIRST DAY of exercise. It's impossible. At the beginning of ANY ENDEAVOR, momentum is MUCH MORE IMPORTANT than results. You want to SLOWLY build up the behaviors, beliefs,memories that you are a person who APPROACHES INTERESTING PEOPLE without a second thought. THIS TAKES TIME. But if you stick with it, you'll develop a skill few people have. START SLOW take small easy actions every day. SLOWLY expand your comfort zone.