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  1. So my .02 experiences. With Tarot or Psychic stuff - I don't readings on myself, it's generally best to hire someone else to figure things out. I have noticed regardless of how much I improve, there's a default sort of resistance to some things i.e. everyone has certain blind spots that prevent them from being completely successful. This is why working in groups, having a girlfriend, etc. helps. At the very least, you need some sort of guide that can see the full picture w/great clarity. Human beings including me have certain personality traits or weaknesses that lead directly to failure - and this can only be prevented by external circumstances. Environment, guides, good friendships, etc. It's sort of like playing a sport. Without the right supporting casts and pieces that fall into the perfect puzzle, the best players will not win a championship. Whatever you do I would cast aside any inhibitions or skepticism you might have that preventing you from exploring Tarot. If you go to a good honest reader (there are some frauds so it's best you do your research before getting a reading), you'll find it works and it's often deeper than basic life wisdom. Crystals do work but I have found right action passes them in effectiveness. You don't really need a stone for communication, confidence, courage, etc. By taking the right actions, you'll do whatever needs to be done naturally. I needed to heal my relationship w/my family but I would never really take the steps to communicate the way I felt about their behavior, etc. it was a tough conversation, but in the end we reached an understanding and I felt a good amount better about everything. One of my friends say if you're psychologically strong do you really need crystals? I don't know if it is right or wrong, but my line of thinking agrees w/that sentiment.
  2. The Matrix is the one movie I suggest EVERYONE watch. It doesn't matter if you want a productive, disciplined day, etc. Kick back on one of your nights and just enjoy the movie. Loved it. You will too. It is truly a masterpiece. Sex is important in life because I feel we want to connect with a woman. However, when sex happens without connection a war ensues between men and women and both sides grow bitter, take revenge, manipulate, etc. That's what I came up with after 3 years of first finding the LoA and thinking MAN, IT'D BE NICE TO BE WITH _____ woman. That's my truth - yours might be different. Typically the men I have come across found that their happiness was in finding themselves through a woman - that is the woman helped them grow, develop and become a greater version of themselves.
  3. I found the cat post interesting. Have you watched The Matrix? Might be your consciousness playing with the Matrix and if/when it can be broken. Maybe it's God communicating to you through the form of a cat, Eh?
  4. With this kind of thing it is easier to train a skill in gambling/poker. There are many magical tricks to make a living off of the casino (if that was truly your aspiration). Lottery winning is not impossible but it's a lot of work, and by that time you might as well pursue a career interest. - Light
  5. Yeah, I fell off the cliff in Feb. I had no real explanation for it either. I have started making up for that, though. Also, If you want to materialize a billion dollar idea, I'd be watching this guy. There's no better disciplinarian out there.
  6. Realizations on Wealth and Friendships So as I was doing my budget this week... I actually didn't need more than 4k per month after taxes to live comfortably and save - this in Southern California. .. So I don't quite literally in Downtown LA, where it's a little tougher than that, but this implies that the VAST MAJORITY of us can do well with this amount of yearly income. So considering all the Youtube advertisements on being a Millionaire, etc. this really doesn't strike as a large figure. You don't even need to be close to a 6 figure yearly salary to live comfortably. So what did I do differently? Any time you start making money, track down all your expenses, day by day, what you did, etc. You will notice you made a lot of rather silly decisions, which in turn ended up costing you significant money. I know I have. Everyone is doing it now - and it's a fast easy way to put your finances back on track. You will also notice there are some things you can do smarter. Inviting a Roommate or 2 in a spacious townhome unit is an effective way to pay off rent and enjoy your living space. You will need to be smart, but when you sit down and spend time with your monthly expenses, you will realize it wasn't necessary to spend all that much. Does this mean I will be satisfied at $72k? That's about 6k per month or around 4k after taxes. I will not. I will explain why - I, and most people that are obsessed with life will aim for much higher. Whether you want to be a great musician, artist, entrepreneur, etc. you will most likely end up making more as you advance in your journey. However, this figure of $72k really helps put perspective on life. If you're stuck making an average salary of $3k per month, you'll just have to reach about $5-6k per month to be able to live comfortably while smartly handling your finances. ---- Next, fixing the Sex problem. Contrarian advice, but I came to a realization recently that this is actually the most effective way of doing things. Make tons of friendships with the opposite sex. Okay, what? What about the friend zone? Guys, in the modern era, this doesn't actually exist. I will repeat. The friend zone is not a bad thing, and more importantly - it no longer matters. With your friend, all you need is 1 night out. A few moments together. A mistaken kiss. And that's it. The Spark lights up! And when can you get your successful outcomes? When you can actually, physically, spend time with that person. Who can you easily spend time with? FRIENDS, OF COURSE. You no longer have to say the right line, do something fancy, etc. You just have to offer enough value to befriend them. Once that happens, the opportunity for sex/romance will manifest on its own. Why? For the simple fact that your friend of the opposite sex is spending that much time with you. ... Get it. It was actually that simple all along. How do these conclusions come to us? Disconnect. Disconnect from Youtube, Social Media, etc. and all technology for some time. It will come to you. So the gameplan to fulfilling your sexual needs and wants? 1. Join an activity that puts you closer to them. Befriend them. 2. Get to hangout levels of friendship. 3. Adjust your actions around them... and Manifest. This strategy can't fail. It's proven and tested. The friendzone doesn't matter. It was a lie all along. So that's my update on Friendships, Wealth and Sex. As I move onward to building a new lifestyle.
  7. Lol Thanks Athena! For what it's worth, I know 2 people trying to manifest something is easier than one. Also, sexual transmutation is just being w/the one. Your best friend, companion, etc. Marriage or equivalent of a Long Term Committed Relationship - and without my finances reaching a stable level, I am not ready for that. I'll just figure out a way to find something w/my dancing club. The Month I regressed...! Good news - My first 10k Month has come. Bad News - I did everything wrong after my deal. So what the hell happened? A combination of sloth, laziness, sloth... uhh, more sloth hit me. I can't even explain it. It might've been the money. I guess that really hammers down the - Don't be motivated by money line, eh? I imagine something happens after you make progress - you go back a step, but man... this month really felt bad. Anyway, I am back onto my all-the-time superhero schedule. But holy hell, if you don't watch yourself for even a couple days, a slip up happens - and when the slip up happens, you're done. Discipline vanishes. I don't imagine this happening AGAIN this year, but there goes the last couple weeks of my February. Something went awfully, awfully, wrong. So there you go guys - someone as obsessed with personal development as me somehow slipped up and got lazy. Part of the Hero's Journey, eh? I'll be posting again at the end of March, most certainly with a good story or two to tell. Rock Out - Light.
  8. My first 10k Month. Ben Franklin Likey....! Come March, I figure to finally have my first 10k month. It's pretty damned cool, now that I am closing a Real Estate deal. At this point, I will have to make a confession. I am really, really, insecure. So I put In the work, but fact still is - I feel like I am living paycheck to paycheck. My first 10k month is coming (which, btw, beats my highest grossing month by 2x from 2016), but it still doesn't feel I am remotely secure enough to do anything. Rent has become so expensive, that I am not entirely certain I will have a roof over my head. This damned thing is unaffordable. And if you live in Southern California, even the apartments are slowly climbing up to an amount that makes you feel like you're bound to the system. Now I don't want to escape the system, to be perfectly honest. Why? Because this exists in the system. I'll be honest. Whenever someone asks me for my big "why", most of it is just sitting across the table with a gal, have that 10/10 chemistry, lakeside, etc. etc. But man, that seems so far away. And I can't believe how much that eats up your state, your way of being. You can have a breakthrough, you can have 10k in your hands, and then be perfectly miserable. I have learned this much on my journey so far. Now I'll have to figure out a way to take that 10k and make it consistent, so that I can just, you know, do the basics. Sex has made us a slave of the system. I would be celebrating right now rather than feeling miserable, I would have the patience to go through this entire journey step by step, etc. - if it weren't for sex. So there it is, first month of 10k, A whole lot of work ahead, and still missing the vital key to make a man happy. Endure. - Light
  9. My needs and productivity So I feel most of you have come across Maslow's Hierarchy at some point in your life. This really explains your productivity and why it sometimes wanes and sometimes rises. A big part of my fulfillment is having a social life. But I am INTROVERTED, LIGHT. Guess what? SO AM I. That being said, I have noticed I am personally more productive when I work with others. Things get done quicker. Now why is that? Regardless of introversion/extroversion, there is a need for connection. Ever noticed that all great TV shows have a band of characters that make things interesting? This is why. While there are no doubt some people who prefer being the lone wolf, most of us are pack animals. If these needs aren't fulfilled, they'll keep coming up in your thoughts throughout the year, and make you miserable somewhere deep inside. Physiological Needs Here, I need to survive. I need about 4k a month for independent survival in my location. Food, Rent, Bills, etc. I'd also insert the need for a partner here. Safety and Security. This, I am fine with. I can communicate my way out of situations. Tip: Most guys, even the big ones, don't actually have it in them to physically injure you. People are more safe than they believe they are. Social or Affiliation Needs Yes, you need to belong to a social group. I'd say 99% of us do. This group might be unconventional, but that's fine. So long as you find something that fulfills the need for connection. Esteem Needs Damn, dude, I need to be respected in society. What can I do to make people respect me? Self-Actualization And here's where your dreams come in. CEO, TV Star, Athlete, etc. Whatever your aspirations are come here. Most people today are stuck on the bottom. Physiological needs. Ever seen those people who don't understand it when you make choices/decisions based on growth and improvement rather than just fulfilling physiological needs? Yes, they've lost the upper ladders of life. What needs of yours are being fulfilled and what needs are not?
  10. It works on Probability from what I've noticed, Loozid. The chances of you getting with your ex is pretty easy. The chances of you getting with say, maybe a long time friend who's also your perfect 10? Also easy. She's in your environment, and her thoughts can be influenced by yours. Great thing about this is... no more friend zone. High probability. That being said, if the thing you want is out of your environment and everyday interactions, it's difficult. You will in that case have to expand. So let's say the girl you target is like a borderline celebrity, or someone that's well outside your comfort zone- you'll have to step out and do something different. This has a low probability. I tinkered with it for a bit too. Then realized it'd be way more interesting if I was in the right environment (working on that as we speak).
  11. Best book ever. Okay, not ever. There is no better role model right now for any sales professional or entrepreneur out there. None. This dude is the REAL DEAL. He is not balanced, he is HARDCORE, and I feel there's a select few he'll appeal to. Love this dude, he's my kind of guy. His name's Grant Cardone, and he's awesome. Truly. In this book he outlines parts of his journey and gives life advice. In addition to this, there are many questions that really make you rethink things, etc. You may or may not agree with all his conclusions, but this is one of those classics you need to have in your library regardless. Rock it out - Light
  12. Honestly need more information on this.These stories are incomplete. My question on this would be: What actions were you taking beforehand, and what are you doing differently now? Those new "afformations", for example, might have caused that Insurance Salesman to go over objection destroyers every morning or caused Monee to incorporate better dieting habits and exercise techniques to lose weight. So both of them asked why am I successful in ____? And then, they came up with the right actions for success. So it may have worked for those two because it made both of them execute differently - which, good for them, but it doesn't make the afformation technique superior to affirmations in any way.
  13. I haven't used Image Streaming as much as I could. This is one of those things that I haven't been super into because in this phase of my life I just haven't had it high on my priority list. I feel if you're in college, etc. it's fantastic for students. It's certainly very interesting when you sit down and go through things. I did a lot of image descriptions and how inventions could've worked - Guns, Arrows, etc. and some other stuff too. It's great for developing your imagination - and like Einstein says, Imagination is more important than Knowledge itself. Depending on how my life goes this year I might place it higher on my priority list.
  14. So I've had some issues with this kind of stuff interfering with my wealth progress. Wealth is the bulk of my focus right now because I know I need to get to a certain point for my fulfillment. How would you tackle the dating game if you are a guy on your journey and know that wealth is such a big priority right now? I know that women and wealth aren't necessarily opposed to each other, but this is the one area of my life I haven't been able to balance out while chasing my goals. I know there's a ton of info in this. Is there a way for a guy to tackle it and get a supportive girlfriend by his side without putting in too much time and energy? Thanks. - Light.
  15. Ah. The good ol' bane of existence.